 European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Manchester United (0 - 0) On 17th January 2021 by Rayfield: 3:19pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
This match would be filled with tension, cohesion and aggression. The team with minimal mistakes will carry the day |
| Travel › Re: Passengers, Azman Air Officials Exchange Blows Over Cancelled Flight by Rayfield: 7:55pm On Jan 16, 2021*. Modified: 3:05pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
You may think it is well, but it is not for every other person because a lot of people are already frustrated with the happenings in the country. All they need is a little negative trigger to "Spark" and pour their frustration on you. |
| Romance › Re: . by Rayfield: 1:41am On Dec 28, 2020 |
MEGA4BILLION:
I answered this already. No go give person daughter belle o Thank you. |
| Romance › Re: . by Rayfield: 7:45pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
MEGA4BILLION:
Finally, work down the nearest pharmacy, buy vitamin D and zinc. Take one each a day, then come back and thank me Please what is the exact work of Vitamin D and Zinc? |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Chelsea - (1 - 0) On 12th December 2020 by Rayfield: 8:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Calvert-Lewin may score against Chelsea today... |
| Business › Re: Any Successfull Free Cac Registration Courtesy Of Government? by Rayfield: 9:05pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
solomonaudu560:
Has anybody already processed or stil processing the ongoing cac free registration with prospect?
Because Jos today has been a battle of no survival, from massive turn up of Tom, Dick and Harry, The officials became gods, refused to release just the forms for registration.
Has anyone collected the form already? and is the form issued in the various center the same with the one online? Do the stamp before issuing of the forms? Please did you get to the venue in Jos, I really don't know the address. |
| Health › Re: Madagascar Slams WHO For Not Endorsing Its Herbal Cure by Rayfield: 6:31am On May 12, 2020*. Modified: 6:46am On May 12, 2020 |
There are processes involved. There are lots of other drugs that WHO gave no attention to. A drug without dosage and recognised ingredients is not accepted by Medical Science anywhere in the world. For those criticizing WHO on whatever ground, DON'T JUMP INTO CONCLUSION ON WHAT YOU HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Signs That You Are Not Prepared For A Job Interview by Rayfield: 7:47am On May 08, 2020 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Signs That You Are Not Prepared For A Job Interview by Rayfield: 6:29am On May 08, 2020 |
Very true.
Mr. PatrickOkunima, in your expertise and experience overtime, can you give me a brief example of "tell me about yourself?" |
| Politics › Re: Frank Okiye: How I Recovered From COVID-19 Without Infecting Anybody by Rayfield: 6:23am On May 08, 2020 |
Politics aside, it seems we still have few leaders who "THINK" before "ACTING". Few who DO by example. I might be wrong though. |
| Celebrities › Re: Yomi Obileye Is Dead by Rayfield: 5:06pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
May his soul rest in peace.
Two death thread back to back.
God we look up to Thee. |
| Nairaland General › Re: You Better Prepare — This Is What Is About to Happen Soon... [Picture] by Rayfield: 1:32pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
iLegendd:
It's unfortunate you don't understand the reason I'm here on Nairaland. I'm here to make money and share wisdom for free or paid, not money for free or for borrow — those ones are done offline.
You can only benefit one thing from me and that is wisdom. From this wisdom, I want you to turn it to money. Failure to do this, I'll be disappointed in you. I'm very ready to benefit from your wisdom. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Job Hunting Mistakes You Should Avoid In 2020 by Rayfield: 1:24pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
PatrickOkunima:
Order for a professional CV @ Patrick Okunima CV Writing Services and Get a FREE Cover Letter!
Promo Ends 11:59pm 23 April, 2020. I just graduated from the University, and I'm presently using this Lockdown to acquire different Professional Certificates and skills before Service which supposed to be in June. What are your advise? I have a Local 1 page CV already with my details arranged the best way I could. Can you assist me Professionalise the CV, by ordering and adding the New skills acquired, Please? |
| Nairaland General › Re: You Better Prepare — This Is What Is About to Happen Soon... [Picture] by Rayfield: 8:09am On Apr 16, 2020 |
iLegendd:
You Better Prepare — This Is What Is About to Happen... Please, any succour for me you student is hungry and broke. I'll highly appreciate anything. |
| Romance › Re: Covid-19 Lockdown Giveaway - The Top 6 Selfies Get Cash Prizes by Rayfield: 10:02pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Giveaways10:
So I wanted to participate in the other giveaway earlier but due to complains about how those who received money were somewhat chosen arbitrarily I decided to do mine in a way that those who deserve it will get the money.
. Even if it's 1,000, it will go a long way for me, please. Thank you. 
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| Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Hey!! Check Out My Designs! by Rayfield: 2:38pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Jh0wsef:
TRAINING TRAINING TRAINING! Please I need your help, I want to learn this skill but my challenge is that presently, I can't raise the 2,000 required. Anyway you can help me, please? |
| NYSC › Re: Post All Problems Relating To JAMB Regularization Here - Let's Treat Them by Rayfield: 11:45pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Corpzenith:
Yes. Rayfield: My course mate got Merit Admission in 2013, but he changed the course in 2015 which was approved by the VC. Though he noticed an error in his Year of Birth after printer her Original Jamb Result last December. She did Regularisation last month where they Changed the Course and Year of Birth to the actual ones.
My question is if the VC signed and the Indemnity form is approved, would Jamb effect the correction on the Year of Birth? The Regularisation was approved last week, the Course was changed but unfortunately, the Year of Birth was not changed after the Regularisation and it's affecting his eligibility age. Please what can we do now so that they can mobilize and not Exempt him? They'll be mobilized along with Batch B June/July. |
| Politics › Re: Beating Amotekun Officers Attracts N250,000 Fine, Jail Term by Rayfield: 8:41am On Feb 12, 2020 |
I forsee tout and aggressive drivers falling victims to this |
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| NYSC › Re: Post All Problems Relating To JAMB Regularization Here - Let's Treat Them by Rayfield: 6:35pm On Feb 07, 2020*. Modified: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Corpzenith:
Contact us to know how we can be of service... My course mate got Merit Admission in 2013, but she changed the course in 2015 which was approved by the VC. Though she noticed an error in her Year of Birth after printer her Original Jamb Result last December. She did Regularisation last month where they Changed the Course and Year of Birth to the actual ones. My question is if the VC signed and the Indemnity form is approved, would Jamb effect the correction on the Year of Birth? |
| Politics › Re: Bashir Dalhatu Lost Millions To Fraudster by Rayfield: 8:03am On Jan 16, 2020 |
The "Real" owners came for their property.
That money could have liberated every member of his village from poverty if truly they've the masses at heart. I may be wrong though! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Curvy Woman Dances In Church, Causes A Stir by Rayfield: 5:26pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
VAR has reached here too...
Honestly, VAR is killing the vibe in Football. |
| Literature › Re: The 10 Books You Should Read In 2020 To Have A Productive Year by Rayfield: 6:14pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
AyomideTenTen:
George R.R Martin once said "A reader lives a thousand times in one life. A non reader lives just once". (Pardon the paraphrase)
These books that I shall be bringing to your notice will so much help boost productivity as a business owner and individual.
The first book is;
1. HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE written by DALE CARNEGIE in 1936.
In life, no matter how well you love to do things by yourself, you can't be all productive by yourself.
You need friends, most importantly you need to know how to influence friends. This book will help you know the kind of people you should befriend, how you can make friends and how to influence them.
2.YOU CAN NEGOTIATE ANYTHING by HERB COHEN
I can bet there is hardly any day you can do without negotiating. Most days of our lives we spend it negotiating (an example is negotiating with transporters who we want to reduce the price they'd use to transport us to our desired destinations). Herb Cohen is one of the greatest negotiators who has lived.
He even negotiated for nations.
In this book, Herb Cohen brings you the secrets to negotiating anything.
3. MILLIONAIRE NEXT DOOR by TOMAS J.STANLY
For every young person who would like to be a millionaire, this book is very helpful. This books helps you to understand HOW TO BE RICH and not HOW TO LOOK Rich. Many youths hustle for the FLASH these days and that's why you see that they don't last.
They spend every BOOM they hit on Phones,Television, Cars etc. This books helps you to understand how to be rich and act like a rich individual.
4. PREDICTABLY IRRATIONAL by DAN ARIELY
This book helps you to understand the irrational behaviors of human beings and how to deal with them.
It helps you to understand the PSYCHOLOGY OF LIFE.
5. TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST TOUGH PEOPLE DO by ROBERT SCHULLER
In this book, you will understand you have no excuse you shouldn't be successful in life.
Research has shown that 80% of successful people are actually people who made it from nothing.
It doesn't matter if you are a PRINCE,there are days you will face challenges that will shake you.
These books helps you to be strong and how to stand the test of time.
6.WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO by TIM LAHAYE.
Just like the title of this book,this books helps you to set the right mindset about anything. There are times you act and you don't understand your actions. You will understand your irrational behavior if you read this book.
7.THINK AND GROW RICH by NAPOLEON HILL.
I know most of you have heard about this book.
However, I'm sure most of you have just heard about it but never read it. This book has helped a lot of people become and develop a millionaire mindset.
For you to act like or be a millionaire in 2020, you need to read THINK AND GROW RICH.
8. 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE by STEPHEN COVEY.
One of the lessons you shall be learning from this book is SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE PRO-ACTIVE.
They don't blame circumstances for their mistakes.
They stand up and make things right.
This book will help you develop a new insight to becoming a better version of yourself as a successful person.
9. RICH DAD POOR DAD by ROBERT KIYOSAKI.
I know a lot of you must have heard about RICH DAD POOR DAD,you probably might have read about it but forgotten its lessons. This book helps to give a different perspective about EDUCATION AND WEALTH.
A story of an individual with two different dads and how each dad influences him with WEALTH AND EDUCATION.
And lastly;
10.RICHEST MAN IN BABYLON by GEORGE S.CLASON
This book is one of the most populous books in history and has helped a lot of people acquire new mindsets towards wealth.
RICHEST MAN IN BABYLON is just one of those books in history a scholar,business owner or any individual should not do without reading....
These books I can promise you, if you consume them in 2020,you shall have a different story to tell.
Do not read the summaries, read the whole book and gain new insights to LIFE
OJEDIRAN AYOMIDE THEOPHILUS
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| Family › Re: What Are Mistakes You Made In 2019 That You Wouldn't Like To Repeat After 12am? by Rayfield: 8:16am On Jan 03, 2020 |
jinka:
I'm also looking for who will teach me IT skills, I don't even know the one to learn, graphics, programming One can learn the two at different days of the week. Example: Programming: Mondays, Wednesdays and Friday. Graphics: Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays. It all depends on one's pocket affordability though. But I think I'll start with programming for now. |
| Romance › Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Rayfield: 8:11am On Jan 03, 2020 |
philfearon:
1] Be friends with your spouse during the day and be lovers at night.
2] If you want to make love to your wife at night, start in the morning.
3] Things change — respect each other and be willing to change. Remain flexible and open to compromise.
4] Stay true — cheating never works — never surrender your integrity.
5] Listen more than you talk. Think more than you say.
6] Don’t keep score. You don’t win at marriage. Strive to stay even.
7] Intimacy and affection are not always sexual. A promise is as good as the act.
8] Women crave sex for intimacy and acceptance — Men crave sex for validation. If either isn’t getting what they need, they will seek it elsewhere.
9] Sometimes she just wants to be held. If she doesn’t she’ll let you know.
10] Let him know you are interested. Don’t think he should see you are interested and act accordingly. If you want it ask.
11] Pick up after yourself. Flip the laundry. Do the dishes. Cook a meal or two or three ect and change a diaper. Neither took a vow to be the maid — if you did — the 1800’s called and want their vow back.
12] Don’t pick a fight. Stop. Wait. Think. Then say what you mean and mean what you say after you stop being angry.
13] Don’t go in thinking he or she will change or you will change them. Change grows organically from within.
14] A divorce is like finding a woman you hate and buying her a house. If that joke isn’t funny — don’t buy a house.
15] Maintain your financial independence. Everyone who was ever married either died or were divorced — you’ll need your financial independence.
16] Sometimes she cries for no reason — sometimes he broods over non-sense. This too shall pass.
17] He or she might be your one, but eventually they will be the half or the quarter — strive to keep growing back together.
18] Watch her family and see how her father treats her mother — that’s her expectation. Watch his family — that’s his expectation. If you can’t imagine living in such an environment — you won’t — don’t hesitate to reset your expectations.
19] Roughly a third of people will suffer from a mental illness during their lifetime. Better than even chance one of you will become ill. Acceptance — Treatment, early and often.
20] Children change everything. She will unapologetically love her children more than she loves you. If you can’t handle that, wrap it in latex.
21] Most fights start over money and end in the bedroom — good or bad.
22] A three-some is never a good idea. It’s a desperate decision — a cancer with no cure. If you have an open relationship, good for you, but follow your rules. Mileage varies.
23] Space is more than what’s 20 miles straight up, or the inches between your ears. Maintain your space and allow him or her their’s.
24] Don’t threaten divorce — you either are or you aren’t. Threats breed fear — fear leads to distrust — It’s nearly impossible to earn someone’s trust, again.
25] If you are on the couch and your spouse is doing chores you are in the wrong place. Do things together.
26] If one of you is using drugs/alcohol and the other isn’t — there’s a problem. There is help available — use it.
27] You are married the person they are, but you’ll be in love with the person they were — reconcile those statements.
28] Once it’s over, it’s over. Move on quickly and quietly.
29] We can’t do anything about the ex parked outside your house — nor can we stop them from sleeping with someone new. Neither of you took a vow of celibacy. The contrary is true.
30] Don’t drunk text, call, write, or skype — Don’t drunk anything except sleep.
31] If you can’t control your emotions — leave — take a walk — pray. But whatever you do, don’t hit, slap, grab, pull, push, hug, knock, slam, choke, pinch, pin, head lock, arm bar, round kick, front kick or beat each other in anyway shape, form or fashion. If you must fight, use your words and remember anger equals ten feet. Never pick up a weapon in anger.
32] Spousal rape is real. No still means No — even if there’s a ring, a vow and several days/weeks/months/years of unrealized expectations.
May the Lord grant you the courage to change the things you must, the grace to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.
QUORA |
| Family › Re: What Are Mistakes You Made In 2019 That You Wouldn't Like To Repeat After 12am? by Rayfield: 1:05pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Brymo4all:
Working as a sales boy.
Wasted my time working for peanut salary.�
This year I'll just get myself a laptop and learn an amazing I. T skill preferably graphic design.
Anyone willing to teach? Honestly bro. I discovered skill is the best to start with. I've hussled a Laptop for myself and I'm presently on a lookout for Anyone that can teach me Graphics. |
| Family › Re: What Are Mistakes You Made In 2019 That You Wouldn't Like To Repeat After 12am? by Rayfield: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
walex25:
Failing GRE, having secured a full scholarship admission. It deeply hurts.
But i still gotta make a last push.. 2020 will have to be the year. By God's willing. Is the scholarship yearly, how can I apply please? |
| Family › Re: What Are Mistakes You Made In 2019 That You Wouldn't Like To Repeat After 12am? by Rayfield: 11:57am On Jan 01, 2020 |
omamush:
NYSC that scam wasted my 2019 Can you elaborate please, I'm just curious to know because I'm about to take a step? |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brighton Vs Chelsea (1 - 1) On 1st January 2020 by Rayfield: 11:43am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Let's see what both teams have for us.
Though most early kickoffs like this are usually boring and disappointing. I may be wrong though! |
| Romance › Re: Do You Still Make This Mistake With Women? by Rayfield: 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
xxxtedyxxx:
Do girls flake on You? Do you always wonder why she doesn't return your calls? Or why she doesn't create time and space for you to be with her? Perhaps you don't just understand how her weird emotions can sometimes be a tool against our romantic journey with her.
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For the most part, we guys are action oriented. We think in terms of what we want to do and how we want others to act. Therefore, when it comes to the dating scene or any other social interaction we always ask questions like :
How can I make her say yes to me? ...How can I approach her and make her give out her number? ... How can I make her kiss me? ...and so on.
This goal oriented state of mind is addictive and it can make us begin to over-analyze subtle things that dont even matter - which is the mistake most of us make.
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All hope is not lost. With process orientation we can leverage the whole situation in our favour. Being process oriented helps you to think from the end.
So instead of asking... How can I make ber kiss me? ..You should ask:
What state of Mind can I get her into to make her kiss me easily?
What state of mind can I put her to make her feel free with me.?
What state of mind can I get her into to make her more invested in our relationship?
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Armed with this knowledge there are lots of emotional states we can consider to get the girls to do or behave the way we want.
You can make a girl feel CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE and so on.
These are all good emotions, but always try to balance them out with emotions of TRUST, CONNECTION, SAFETY, COMFORT.
The feelings/emotional states a girl experiences when she feels free and totally connected to you is what I tag as TRUST/CONNECTION/SAFETY/COMFORT. This emotional state is important if she is gonna date YOU.
CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE are emotional states some girls require but we still need a balance of both sets of emotions.
Some guys are good at creating the CONNECTION/TRUST and safety emotions easily. They are so good at it that they don't include the second range of emotions. This is the sole reason why 90 percent of guys get friendzoned.  . That moment when you here:
" Emeka let's just be friends please"
If you don't show her the qualities of a boyfriend, you are invariably putting yourself in a position to get friendzoned.
Some guys are fantastic at creating emotions of CURIOUSITY/LUST/FUN/ATTRACTION/A SENSE of BELONGING/ROMANCE but there sometimes get turned down at the last minute. You also need a little dose of CONNECTION to get her to feel some sense of trust. That way she won't flake at the last minute or put up resistance.
All in all, its important to give her feelings of attraction and positive feelings of emotional,safety and rapport to get her to do what you want.
Apply this to YOUR GAME today...and see the Difference.
Cheers.
Xxxteddy
Cc. Lalasticlala ishilove |
| NYSC › Re: Jamb Date Of Birth Wahala, Please Help. by Rayfield(op): 1:52pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
abbass85:
go to jamb website you want to change date of birthday is #2,500 after you have done payment with receipt print it,and carry are go senate building to confirm Thank you. Do I need anything else like my original Birth Certificate in the process? |
