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If what you are saying is true. Then she has not completely been liberated. But the reason why she is around you is because you have a connection with her. I do not know what type. But it could be from material things to friendship or anything. That is the only way she is around you. If you have any item, you have to get rid of it. Pictures anything at all. And if relationship, which is more difficult, you have to try as much as possible not hold on to any of her memories... Either ways.. she will eventually go. She is young and her energies still very active, reason why you can see shawdows and all that. She will be gone. This happens most times when young people die without passing through the process.

Personally, this is not a problem.. Empathy. Same with me bro. As long as you arent doing anything bad bro. You are alright.. It is almost same thing with me.. But one thing I cannot do is not do defend myself and the ones who are dependent. My demons break chains in those moment

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

All these people that never came the you, how do you treat them. Would you do the same. Trust me if you were better, someone would have showed up

LwKM... I saw a video last week where all this things were stated by one cosporacy theorist. I am sure this man saw same video as well..He juat rephrased everything the man said...

kingmeme:
Like razor blade marks on my face or body

Pls I need answer

You did it yourself... trust me #same here

How can you be sorry for what you did and you did not tell me initially.. She was not sorry. She would have done it over and over just as she has been doing it. When we get caught we start blaming different things.. Innocent alcohol

bigfrancis21:
It's not a dream. See, after death some souls tend to hang around their former families, close ones etc. watching and observing how they move on after their death. Some souls hang around for a while for other different reasons. Your seeing her in your dreams was not coincidental - she was very much around you. When the soul is ready to cross over from the earth plane into the afterlife, they move on and their contact with humans become less frequent and far between.

@bold....thanks for this. A lot of people really need to start thinking outside the box when it comes to religion. There are plenty of universal truths beyond the scope of so-called Christianity or Islam and only when we begin to yearn for more knowledge shall we find.

It is not for monitoring..It isnt intentional for them.. when freshly dead, you are likely to even see almost the physical person. It happens because of energies.. for longer deaths, It is actually a bad thing. They are not rested, they havent moved on. It is not their choice, there are attachment still dragging the life back.. it is common with younger peoples death. It is a sad thing for them and for you.. and not someone love or protection as most people would think

Chef2000:
I don't know why but I keep seeing this guy in my dreams, though we were so close when he was alive (we usually go to set trap for bushmeat when the two of us return to the village when he was alive)

Before his death (a truck hit him and he died at the spot) I had a dream and I saw the two of us walking on the road, I hit my feet on a stone and fell down and he was unable to lift me up and I was asking him to lift me up but he was unable.

He died in June 2018 since then I have been having dreams about him which I do forget immediately I woke up.

But last week, I saw the two of us clearing weed in a farm and this morning I had another dream where we (his junior bro and my elder bro) were laughing and joking together, eating and drinking together.... he later went and wore my clothe in the dream, he wore the inner side of the clothe..

Could this be a message or a coincidence.

Get rid of anything and everything of his that is with you. Younger energies do not easily rest expecially for sudden death. Delete images and everything. He needs to go. It is best for him.

Charleys:
If she's afraid why didn't she reject the gift... After all the poultry is in the compound... What will she think i did to the chicken.. it's a normal chicken that I fed with my hard earned money. She knows it too.

You gave her the chicken. Whatever she did with it is none of your business. Remove your mind from what she did with it. Imagine of you hadnt seen it... so just let it go.. and act normal.. otherwise she will suspect your strange attitude towards her and validate her suspicion

I think so..

From a different perspective, what if Joseph was the chosen and not Mary. What if God made the Mary decision because Joseph was yhe perfwct father. So whatever Mary was didnt matter

You are simply suffering from konji-jaites. If you claim to be responsible, then be responsible. It is LUST.. focus on your relationship and be a big brother that you are.

I do not even know who would come for the money, the thief or the real owner... the money is in an account. And I know how it got there
..no sender name and no info...

If I got a sender, I would have searched myself. Also sent a mail to the bank and even CBN
..

The owner would understand when they see the Post.

This money is currently in my possession. I know how the money got to where it is because I was a victim a few weeks ago too.

If this money belongs to you, please tell your story and state the exact amount and we would also go to your bank to verify. Although I have already reported to the bank. But they aren't active about it as usual

Please, move to FP. You may help someone who has lost all their Savings

The Photoshop is too much... That is not the boobs we know...

nwamabo247:
ok but I am in engut

Ohh.. That's all I know. Secondly there is the "mercy ship" i see on instagram. I do not knkw if they are in Nigeria as well. Please check them out as well.

nwamabo247:
I have non,,,...please forgive me if i can help myself i wont be begging for help.PLEASE nairalanders my name is celestine nwankwo 28YRS OLD from ugwueme awgu L.G.A. enugu stat For almost 12yrs now i have been down with with tetraplegic spinal cord injure.no source of income because my fingers are partialy afected i have been living on family support especially my ageing mother who has been nursing me at home for all this while. but right now things are very very difficut for me and my mother who is also diabetic expecially feeding and litle medications,buying of catheters and health care needs.please i need your help in any way posible no matter how small it will make a diffrence and i am also looking for a goverment or N G O rehabilitation center for the disables that can acept my kind condition. thanks and GOD BLESS. more details.see my signature below

There is a Catholic church at Amuwo, Lagos. that has a home for people with spinal cord injuries.. I am not so sure...but I can check

AgreatMan:
Actually, this is not a fair comparison.

International students pay an average of 3million naira in Canada per year but Nigerian schools charge an average of say 100k. (Rough estimates)

It's called getting exactly what you pay for. Good class rooms, but it's no big deal.

How much do the citizens pay?... that is what matters. The price of international students has nothing to do with the standard of the school.

LIES LIES LIES.... I went to search for the i_amhonesbaba on twitter.. to specially thank him for his deeds.. below is what I found...

LIES LIES LIES.... I went to search for the i_amhonesbaba on twitter.. to specially than him for his deeds.. below is what I found...

Lanisters

When are we importing the fairly used ones..

God did not show her anything...

Habaaaa.

Of all the things in this world, God decided to show you this one.. ha that your god self.

If anyone should sit on a place I paid for, I will jejely tell him to stand up.

Whether Noble whatever or not. We are all the same.. why should someone sit on a space he didn't pay for? Why? Why?

Respect yourself so you can be respected.

sekesi2009:
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I have subscribed to a paid daily signals subscription service in the last three weeks, I discovered that some trades will go against one, thereby starting to make negative profit.
I want the bot to do what is called 'Hedging' This simply means opening a trade in the opposite direction of the initial trade signal, after the initial trade signal must have made negative 20 pips or 25 pips. I've come to discover this in recent times.
The bot should be able to close the initial trade after the second trade must have got same number of pips
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Be careful, if you want to install anything from anyone. I do not know how forex work. But just know that you authentication credentials is at 50/50 risk..

If you install a bot from a bad guy.. mhenn. It is finished

The one your father could not wipe

You did what you had to do.
Now he wants to do what he needs to do..

You do not have the right to wail.

Your body integrity level is absolutely low. You will always do this same thing over and over again. It is not a curse, but a fact.

Do not pollute another live(s) with yours. Respect your husband integrity and that of the child unborn if you still think of any. I only pity your children, the innocent lives whom you have no respect . Otherwise, you can do whatever you want with your life. It is nobody's but yours.

Almost all of them are noise makers including wizkid and Davido..

Excel for people like

BRYMO
ASHA
TUFACE
SIMI

and a few others

Sir brienne of thar

madgoat:
why mourn when we would all die some day.
Death is just as normal as life

Death is what is normal, life is what isn't

PSTEMMA1960:
A Dying Soul Needs Ur Urgent Advice B4 It's 2 Late.

Good evening my good people of nairaland..hope everyone is doing fine?

don't know the right section to post this but I think i'll get mature response here...

Note: the post is going to be very long, but pls read to the end, I just want to pour out my heart to get an answer to some issues about my life.

My Name is Emmanuel born December 25-1991 from isiala mbano local government area of Imo state.
My grandparents gave birth to 11 children, as I type now all 11 of them are dead, none of them married b4 death, my dad was the only one that married.....

My dad died December 25 1997 and my mum died in the year 2000... it hasn't been easy since then.....my mum's people rejected us saying that my dad did not legally married my mum...

my 2 sister are in Lagos now (married with children) I came to Abj in the year 2006 with a woman that owns a restaurant at area3 (my aim then was to save some money and go back to the village and start doing okada)

after working there for 2 years I was able to raise some money (my salary then was 3k) when I told the woman that I wanted to go, she asked me not to do so, that she really wants to help me...(I was happy) she asked me to go and learn how to drive with a promise of buying a car for me on higher purchase.

after the driving school no car, she sacked their driver and I became their driver (1k was then added to my salary) I didn't complain I waited till December again, I told her that I want to go, she now explain that I must drive her for like 4 good years b4 she can buy the car, i lost interest immediately. .

then to give my my 3 years salary became a problem (I was telling her to save it for me because i was naive then)

the woman did plus and minus money for driving school, shortage of beer and other stuffs....i was left with only 1500 after 3 years of my hard labour.....I had no option but to carry my Ghana must go bag and start sleeping with Hausa guys outside. ..

that wasn't still enough the woman arrested me that her life was in danger because she has sacked me.....police asked my to sign an undertaken that if anything should happen to her I'm responsible which I did.....after 3 days I was released. .

I was still sleeping outside..... so many other experiences...but the last one was in Asokoro hospital canteen.....my salary then was 15k I was able to save 270k there was an Alhaji that was always coming there to eat almost everyday then "mr Haruna" there was a sallah period that he even dasshed me 20k.

so one evening I met the man he was telling me that he doesn't like the nature of my job, that I should give him my C.V for a better Job...when I told him my qualifications he was not impressed ..

then on my own i went to him after one week that since he is already willing to help me that he should assist me in getting a car. ..he said it was a minor thing, that his brother a custom officer at zone3 was in charge of auctioning......I told him how much I had, he said he was going to add it up to make it 500k I went to Oceanic back then and withdrew the 270k gave to him. ....till today I didn't set my eyes on the man ..

it was not 2 long our madam employed a new staff, David from Cross river state......in less than one week the guy ran away with the money that our madam kept with me (she has been keeping money with me close to 2 years) to buy drinks and chicken the following day....87k. I had to work and pay her back...... after that I decided not to work again .....

in 2011 December 31st I gave my life to Christ and started going to church.....

because of my zeal and commitment I was ordained a minister in 2012, the following year as a pastor.... in 2015 I was sent to a state to open a branch which I went.... in less than 6 months I was having close to 74 members....

but the offering was not much, I pleaded with the head qtrs to give me time let the place grow numerically first. but they refused and closed down the branch.....(I was sad, so I left the church in 2016)

I tried driving work I always have issues, if I get a car today the same night I'll hear audible voice telling me that I won't succeed unless I come back and serve them in the village...(my grand mum was an idol worshiper she was always going to the native doctors meetings with me when I was 4-7 years)

Right now things have gone worse for me, no food no clothes no house no job....... stange dreams I am even tired of praying......

I am loosing my mind and sleep as if I am running mad, I always ask am I going to die like my uncles without any achievement...... I haven't seen my only brother since 7 years.....i'll always think that this year things would be better but it will turn out worst.....

even a small car that I managed to buy last year broke down I had to sell it anyhow when my younger brother told me that our old house had collapsed in the village.......

I don't know if I can cross this stage of my life .....has anyone been in my situation b4? is there hope for me? pls someone should talk to me, i am frustrated.............pls no 2 much insults....thanks and God bless...

mod abeg front page....

You are allowing your thoughts to define your reality. Everything happening to you is what you think...

And because you have chosen to blame it on some certain person's, you may not be able to get out of it. Until you realise that you alone can create your reality

lacapine:
I have a 17 years old maid who would be 18 in June. She came when she was 12 and she is like family now. She is in SS1. My problem is her issues with boys. Always keeping boyfriends of which I discourage her big time. Had to ask her why she keeps them, she said because her classmates/ friends have boyfriends.

I have screamed and threatened but she will still keep. What am I doing wrong? Should I allow her just keep them? I teach her sex education though but she says she isn't sexually active. Today, I saw the picture she and the guy posted on facebook holding each other. I lost it today. I flogged and punished her. I'm I being too hard? How do I help her? We wanted to help her till university days but with these, we are scared and reconsidering sending her back after ss3.

How best do I handle this situation.

Beating her was very wrong. She is 18 for God sake. No matter how hard you try, biology will happen. I bet you weren't different at that age. The only thing you can give her is advise. If really she has become family, then be her friend and let her tell you all she has to..once you put fear in her mind, you will always be lied to. She has come of age. Handle with care.