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pocohantas:
They didn't state otherwise either.
One claims to love medical doctors and programmers but was dating a 100L girl. What does she know about ambition or career?

Women that are ready to abandon their education or job for a man are rarely ambitious. No ambitious girl would get pregnant in 200L. They were only there because they didn't have a man. Once they get married, you won't see them with book or near an office again. The first man knew he was playing with fire. How can a 100L girl fool a supposed intelligent older man?

Since they say their wives are handling the home excellently, then they have to be firm on budgeting to avoid running into debt.

Every contribution mustn't be through a payslip and the actual issue is their wives are extravagant. Many women do not get that level of provision from their husbands and these ones are abusing it. Such is life. They can do whatever they wish with their wives. Other bachelors should take note.

your last statement really got me

An average black south African guy is not good looking. Protruding forehead an all..an very lazy..so chances of them dating/marrying a foreigner is slim( I mean a good looking one, that will be likened to hitting a jackpot ) Reason they settle for their country women who'll just accept them as they are….of course if they don't take them who will?...your women are pretty though

Samantha125:
My sister, you go look tire... ... SA men hardly get married outside of their SA culture, only few of them do, even if they stay abroad for a while, chances of them coming back to SA to get married to an SA lady are high... It was only this one guy who made history for being the first SA man to publicly get married to an Igbo girl this year and even today, his identity is still being questioned because people are still in disbelief... ... I couldn't believe it either, I had to go and do my own research...

He was even invited to a radio station to come and explain himself together with his Nigerian wife...😂😂😂

IyaTola:
And that, right there, is the core of this growing problem: an entitlement mindset so inflated it bends morality around perception.

We’ve built a culture—especially online—where being seen to have something is more important than how you got it. Enter the “pepper them” era, where clout is currency, and social media is the marketplace of self-worth. For many, especially younger users, it’s no longer enough to be doing well—you must be doing better than her. That faceless “her” on Instagram. That "them" on Twitter. So the pressure mounts. And where there’s pressure, there’s pretense.

This isn’t just about theft. It’s about a generation being silently conditioned to fake a lifestyle they can’t afford, defend it when exposed, and plead for privacy when the illusion collapses. There was no apology in that video. No shame in the act itself. Only fear of being seen for who she really was.

And the irony? These same social platforms are filled with “motivational” posts about leveling up, soft life, and luxury living—fueled by aesthetics but often detached from integrity. It’s a highlight reel, not a blueprint. But too many are taking it as gospel, and worse, competition.

This isn’t a call for cruelty or public humiliation—but let’s not ignore the deeper issue either. When embarrassment becomes a bigger fear than dishonesty, we’ve crossed into dangerous territory. We’ve raised a culture more afraid of being “exposed” than being wrong.

The video is a moment. But the mindset behind it? That’s the real crisis.

It’s time to shift the conversation from “don’t embarrass me” to “how did I end up here?”

Because until that changes, we’ll keep watching the same video—just with different faces.

your writeup is so deep an piercing

NwaAmaikpe:



We have all been misled for so long, but it is best we demystify this myth, not for ourselves but for posterity and people in your shoes; because you will soon be gaslighted by woke people who will call you inconsiderate, selfish, nagging and not supportive enough.

First things first, she has to quit the job and be a housewife for a while if you are to salvage your relationship.

Sex is not a want, it is a need.
A human need, which comes with an urge....just the same way as hunger.

We all know that women view marriage as a trophy that gives them the privilege of the title 'Mrs' and having children, but she should not rub it on your face that your job is done.

It is justified to come back from work really drained and not have the appetite for sex, just like it is possible to come back so drained from work that you can't even eat till you've rested.
You've not written anywhere that you chuck your preek straight at her face once she walks through the door, so I just have to believe that you initiate sex when you have assessed it to be alright to.

As long as a person is not mentally or emotionally distressed wherein a temporary loss in appetite arises,
(emphasis on the word temporary, because when someone gets a terrible news, they'd instantly lose the appetite for food, and grieve for days but they eventually recommence eating).

So a persistent refusal of intimacy and becoming workcentric despite appeals and interventions from her parents is a symptom of an even more malignant problem.
How come the same woman who is too tired for sex, is not too tired to breastfeed her kids; simply because it is a need.
But these are both needs?

My worry even gets worse with your concern about the kids not getting much attention from her.
If her job is not what the family survives on, why will she be that passionate to work on public holidays, school holidays, and every Saturday?
Reflect on this and you'd see, you alone enabled her!

Verily, verily, I can say unto you, if the Holy Bible deemed it fit to equate a mother's love and attention for her own kids as unshakeable, then you do not need a native doctor to tell you there is a big distraction somewhere.

A big distraction that she has become addicted to, because every woman who has cheated will tell you that there is nothing as addictive as the attention from a strange man.
So break the addiction and get her to quit that job ASAP.

God forbid that a woman you married with your own money does not get turned on when you touch her.
It is a natural response to stimuli, because that same woman who has painted sex with you to be a difficult chore will get drenchingly wet if she reads an erotic novel, watch porn or gets fiddled by another man.

Social media, streaming sites, greed, an excess of men ever-ready to shag people's wifes and acute poverty has made Nigerian women extremely susceptible to not just being distracted but ultimately unfaithful.

If she does not value your preek, look for someone who will. But because no one will love your preek like you, try to masturrbate a bit more as you seek clarity to this misfortune in your relationship.

Because like I said when i started off, sex is a need and if she does not want to get this need from you, who then is meeting this need for her when she leaves your house for work?

I will forever respect you....the great one

PrincessofDSS:
How do I delete the post please You don’t waste your time watching videos as it will amount to disappointment at last… please how do I delete that post

ohh sorry , I don't know how to go about that cos I haven't created one before. Perhads there's no option to delete post, only the mops can...

PrincessofDSS:
That’s a scam, after all the requirements of inviting 30 people, I tried to make withdrawal and they said it’s will be available in two week, until this moment I didn’t receive the money… so it’s a scam

woooow...an here I am trying so hard , how about you delete the post. Thanks so much by the way

PrincessofDSS:
You no just well 🤣🤣🤣, but for real you’ve to stop, it’s not funny

please I want to ask you a question. This video rebate stuff on your profile , does it really work? Like, have you cashed out before?

dominique:
These same guys will be groaning about a woman's body counts yet they expect her to open her legs to every man that indicates interest in her. Very unstable sets of people

ladies should equally stop making financial demands on everyguy that shows interest in them, it can be very annoying. Some will not even allow you to ask them out officially, yet Dem don dey bill you...

poshestmina:
"We women"? untop the smelling scrotum you carry? .


I'll forever be a supportive partner/wife but I can never and will never be the breadwinner especially for a long period of time.
I'm not meant and built to be a provider ,I can only support!

Head should head the bills,na neck or shoulder I be ..after all,I'm the weaker gender.

Those ones that'll never give you Public appreciation or Accolades,will never tell anyone that you are the breadwinner or sustaining the home to maintain their useless and phoolish 'ego'

Win bread Nna,I get butter.

chei ....you bad mouth oh

pocohantas:
Burna Boy, thanks for not denying knowing her. But the olosho line is stale. You also added impotent. Two cliche words in one rebuttal.

I no blame you.
I blame the lady.
It has been 5,6,7 years.
That she has time to put this show of shame out in 2024 shows she still has nothing to lose. I find that more worrying than the supposed olosho accusation.

your crush don fall your hand......oluwa burna lol

Emu4life:
True in most cases. Lanky Frenkie De Jong of FC Barcelona weighs more than Adama Traore despite all his muscles.

this is false...adama weighs 86kg, de jong 74kg

NwaAmaikpe:



The dumbest thing a man can do out of scorn is to post his lady's nuudes just because she cheated on him.

If she cheated on you with one man, that leak alone will bring her 820 new friend requests and link her up with a minimum of 300 men actively reaching out.

At least 224 of them will act as empathizers, demonize you, and offer unsolicited pro bono counsel, 37 of them will give up interest when they look at the nuudes one more time and realize her body isn't all that, 21 will side you and body shame her because she isn't responding to their advances, while 18 of them will persevere and eventually get to shag her.

But that's not the painful part.

Depending on how viral the leak is, the painful part is the over 3,043 men who wouldn't even reach out to her but will masturbate to her leaks.

I don't know about you, but I will; as long as the clip is somewhat longer than Tiwa's and more interesting than that of Moyo, I will beat my ram meat to it.

And the irony is,
Leak groups on Telegram have the highest subscribers. We will all demonize the leaker, but consume the leak.

That is why it is a very dumb thing to leak anyone's nuudes, because you may go to jail for free and no one will ever tell you 'thank you for giving me something to orgasm with'.

Such martyrdom is plain stupidity, but someone has to do it for us, and that's why stupidity exists.

the legend

VikingKing:
Take a moment to put aside the issue of "necessity" when it comes to these Tinubu's so-called economic policies. Put it aside for one moment. Imagine for a minute, how catastrophically heartless you have to be, to swing an entire country of over 250 million people, into abject poverty, and still be comfortable with it.

Take a moment to let that soak in. Then ask yourself: that thing that made you push this sea of souls into unspeakable hardship, are you the one who will determine its success? How sure are you that at the end of 20-30 years of sacrifice from these innocent people, your plan will be a success?

How sure are you?


How sure are you that Cardoso and Edun are right?

How sure are you that long after you've left office, along the line, it will not be sabotaged in the midst of one political drama or the other? How sure are you that things will pan out EXACTLY how you planned it?

Because for all of this suffering to make any sense, your plan has to be 90% foolproof at the very least! Anything below that, and even in the grave, Bola Tinubu, you will be as restless as a sailor on a stormy night in May.

this is so deep mehn...

Calitoscassius:
Not difficult, i have dated a doctor/consultant we have a child together she is one if my baby mamas. How we met? I was a traffic warden, i gave her a ticket for parking at the wrong side of the road. After we had argument over the parking ticket. She called me a retard. Next time she apologised said she understood i was just doing my job. Next thing we exchanged numbers before you say jack! She became pregnant. After 2 years she dumped me, said i am a womaniser. I am no longer a traffic warden people were alway rude when you issue them parking fine ticket, one guy threatned to shoot me, just because i gave him a parking fine. So i quit!

you know this your story will not work in Nigeria.......a traffic warden dating a medical doctor

krushdripper:
Courtesy demands that you get rid of your saggy, puffy face & put it in the waste bin. So because you imagine a man should buy food for you cos he invited you on a date, you would just come in & order without his consent? She should have brought courtesy with her to force the guy to pay.

guy you're wicked....u say nah puffy, saggy

Seefinish:
Go to APC street, when you reach Agbado junction, walk in, by your left, you will see a plaza with an inscription Bulaba plaza, go in that's where they are selling the rice

, my guy your mouth no good, I swear

Greyman11:
There is nothing to regret here. This is really a frustrating situation to find yourself in oo. A girl always calling you and not having anything to tell you can be soul draining, the annoyance is when she tries to guilt trip you after several calls that you are avoiding her only for you to pick and she's just responding to your comments and questions and not able to say anything.. You really don't want to be in that place especially if you are into Crypto or tech, you might loose it on such a lady.

she's just being naive or perhaps inexperience. have some lone time with her an gradually she will loosen up

BabaAgba79:
Make all of us dey do skits and make money nah! Let us all run away from farming! Your fathers and mothers who used to feed una don die finish! Shame no dey catch una? Una say make Tinubu open borders so food can come in! That we must import food! Over 250 million people doing skits daily! How many una dey farm? How many goats and rams remain in Nigeria to eat? You are always giving excuses that usually insult my ears! I pity all of una including myself!

My turkeys go soon mature and my yams, If u Know you cannot pay the price I offer u, go die of hunger or chop your money while I chop my food.

Youths! Instead of parading urself for demonstration, GO BACK TO FARM! PLANT UR OWN FOOD!

so in your shallow mind, food is the only unaffordable commodity in Nigeria right? Or was 250 million Nigerians indulging in agriculture when food commodity were relatively cheep in the market?... You apc supporters will never cease to amaze me

Beverlyjean:
If Canada outplayed Argentina, it shows how weak that tournament is ... imagine Canada... that Croatia that cudnt even qualify from their group will destroy endlessly... Canada will not be able to qualify for Euros .... I can bet if Norway that can't qualify for Euros should play in that copa ... they will certainly get to the semis as well or even play in the final .. Norway will easily trash Canada

Canada has never been a footballing nation, but this current crop of Canadian players are now changing the narrative. Outplaying Argentina ( the world chapions ) is a testament to how far they have come...you really need to watch these guys an you will understand what I'm saying

Beverlyjean:
Is he a fool?? Does he think copa is same with Euros ?? Copa is like world club cup ... just one or 2 serious teams , the rest are just there to complete expected number of teams for the tournament to go on ... imagine Canada making semi final. Canada that wudnt even be able to qualify for Euros championship... Teams like Norway , Finland, Luxembourg, Iceland, Israel should apply to play in that tournament cos that's the only chance they and people like halaand can ever have a chance at playing in a tournament constantly and a very real chance to winning a cup for their country .... Imagine Canada,... wey Slovakia or Romania go knack like 5.0 back to back

I guess you didn't watch that game, you wouldn't have said this. Canada outplayed Argentina from start to finish, they gave a very good account of themselves an the result didn't in anyway reflect the game. Argentina were lucky.

VOsimhen144:
Why would I abandon a soft succulent wet juicy pussy and eloquent standing breast that God created for man to enjoy.. and go after my fellow strong hairy gorilla pako looking ass.

E get some kpekus you go fvck,,, u go just dey thank God for life.

Gaybriels dey try o.

how about your 37yr old GF....are you guys still together?

Vipro:
What ran through his mind probably was that it was broad day light and nothing will happen.

Well, in a saner climate nothing could actually have happened or if eventually the culprit will be tracked down and caught.

8pm nah broad day light?

Oghene86:
Hisense

it could be a minor issue like I.C problem, .just get a good technician they will fix it, I'm equally using Hisense 55inches

Oghene86:
Just came back from church on a Sunday afternoon, wanted to watch a movie on Netflix put on the socket and the TV red light comes on but no pictures, did all kind of tips to see if it could help but nothing happened

hmmm.....what products?

isuomo:
TVs are going out of fashion and within five years will become increasingly a relic and obsolette. My advice to anyone now is don't spend too much money on that item, other gadgets have taken over and even manufacturers of TVs know they have to reinvent and go into other things. I have an 85inch Samsung and 75inch LG, I spend more time on my tab and phone than the TVs.

still , nothing beats watching football match on a TV

Oghene86:
I have a 65inch that's gone blank don't know what to do about it, if I should repair or go for a new TV

what products? An how did it happen?

Sonnobax15:

Nigha is about to make another greatest mistake of his life if he's considering about going back to the music industry.....

He better use the small money wey dem gather give am take start up any business and forget about music........

The likes of dem tuface and M.i wey dey talented don turn to upcoming artiste,how much more sky B wey no blow pass ceiling on a normal...

if you're not well informed, it will do you good to keep shut rather than spewing crap in a public forum thereby embarrassing yourself. M.i an upcoming artiste? For ur info, rap music has it target audience, is not for everyone

Nice review op, I'm kinda feeling discouraged already, what's the joy in watching non-hd picture football

Beverlyjean:
And u think u are doing the man if u are unfaithful to him cos he's unfaithful to u... any woman that ever uses that as an excuse is nothing but a hoe ... if u steal from me and i decide to also steal from u, then I'm a thief ... every woman should have dignity for their bodies ... it brings innocence into the world thru giving birth.... a man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating.... just like a broke woman is different from a broke man

I'm always looking forward to your comment, an I read them word for word.....you such a gem

jaksmillioniar:
use ur brain shes a happily married woman dat lived abroad.she don born so shes not a small girl u talk to anyhow think before u talk

you're not just poor within, but you're equally poor in spirit. So b'cos she's married an resides abroad so they can't engage her? How about she goes about with an inscription " married an lives abroad" so that slowpokes like you that worships abroad base can have a field day.

chicfarmer:
The government needs to read the riot act to these cement boys. If importing cement is far cheaper than locally producing it, then the government may well call their bluff if they want to shut down. Compare the millions of artisans who would be left jobless because of the prohibitive prices of cement to the few thousands these cement manufacturers employ. Do the maths and see which is better.

Of course we don't want factories to shut down but if they become cogs in the nation's wheel of progress then they may pay the price.
I can assure you that the construction industry is right now comatose because of this cement price crisis. Think of the Engineers, plumbers, painters, carpenters, iron benders, aluminium artisans, unskilled labourers etc who are stranded at home with no means of income. This cement issue deserves the strongest direct response from the government without caring whose ox is gored!

bro , I can't help but admire your writing skills....is top notch

Jennyclay:
Puke!!

Sharing toilet with over 13 people is so irritating .

Ehyaa! You don’t have money to rent decent apartment. Sorry!

People are really suffering in this country. May God help you struggling and broke men!

do you really have something else doing other than constituting nuisance on nairaland? I'm just curious on someone could be so jobless