₦airaland Forum

Sheistoopretty:
He's right


It is better to be a ritualist, having billions in your account and living a fulfilled life than being a frustrated, poor, miserable and Never-do-well Redpiller on Nairaland

May you be a victim of money ritual

Originalsly:
This right here is the problem. You are stuck with the belief that to start a barbing business you need to be in a salon. You can start under a tree ... on your steps ... anywhere. You need one thing to start a barbing business .... clippers. That is starting at the bottom. But if younwant to start at a higher level... your choice .... good luck.

Don't hang your hat where your hands can't reach.

if ur not willing to help him then just let him be ok...... enough of all these smalls beginnings. An who told you is only clipper you need to start a barbing business, he made mension of generator, yet you insisting on clipper an starting under a tree

Foodie1:
Kai, e get car (Toyota carina E) wey my papa buy give us as children car, wey we go carry dey go school, the motor no dey reverse na only front e dey go.

the car nah forward ever nah

judedwriter:
The devil too controls money.

But God has greater power.

bro, one thing you fail to realize is that where you were born an raised has a huge part to play in your religious inclinations....perhaps if you were born an raised as a south Korean, you would have stick to the religion practiced there

judedwriter:
Are you kidding me?

What does Proverbs 10:22 say?

God is the ultimate source of money, not your labor or talents.

they are thousands of billonaires worldwide that are not christians, some are atheist, the Chinese has the highest billonaires in the world, yet there are Buddhist

judedwriter:
To tell you the truth, I have suffered financially in the past because of sexual sin.

I am not there yet, but thank God I am not where I used to be

bro, wealth an prosperity has little to do with holiness/ righteousness...

judedwriter:
Sex is spiritual transactions....

When you sleep with a girl outside marriage the enemy has legal right to steal your blessings and give them out.

When the wise and enlightened keep saying 'no sex before marriage,' many young people see us as fools.

But if only they knew what they have lost to few minutes of fleeting sexual enjoyment :

They will cry buckets of tears!

you that have abstain from sex, what's your networth an how much do you have in your acc?

Princessdainty:
stop Mansplaining and see it for what it is. Women Don't like men.
Y'all stop forcing yourself on that gender. Men marry yourselves! Legalize gay marriage and leave women alone.

useless gay, must you be spamming this whole thread with ur demonic act? U just so irritating

gypsey:
No. I don't think so. Was the fault of his wife to be's fault his father died? Should he not move on with his iife? If he was rang and told he won 10 million dollars and told he must go and collect the money the day after his father died or he will forfeit the money, do you think he should not go and collect the cash? He should forfeit the money?

the instance you made is a very different ball game altogether, he's going to get not giving out, so of course he will go get the money, but it still doesn't change the fact that he's going through trying times.

We humans are emotional being an we should learn to show empathy. if these guy were to be your younger brother, will you give him this same advice?

That niggur just dodge a bullet

gypsey:
Naa! I don't do sarcasms, i tell it like it is and i expect/want to be told like it is, no patronage, tell me the truth no matter how uncomfortable or harsh it may be, don't tell me a pleasant lie.

going by the story, he lost the dad four days ago, an the wife to be is demanding for 50k, not for anything reasonable, but Christmas frivolities.... don't you think that's so mean an insensitive of her?

gypsey:
So because your dad died christmas should be put on hold? Your Dad is dead! life goes on for the living, does this mean you will never spend money ever again co's your father died?.

I believe this is meant to be a sarcasm...

Blessedmercy8:
How old is she?
What's your relationship with her about? For Benefits or something serious that holds a future for both of you?

If it's for benefits, then you can't blame her and I wonder why you're surprised and feeling disappointed as you out to know what kind of relationship you guys are into.

I guess she understands the bases of the relationship more than you that is why she still asked for such knowing you're grieving. Now, You want to tell me you won't ask to sleep with her as you're grieving and expect her to give you? That's exactly how she sees it too. So, stop complaining because that's how such relationship works. Money for hand, back for ground.
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Next time, when going into a relationship, try to know what you're going into by spelling out your relationship goals and expectations to each other so every one knows where he or she stands and what to expect at any given time.

in ur quest to being smart, u usually end up being stupid. Why can't u stfu if u have nothing reasonable to say

MadeInChina:
Who gives a fúck about this nonentity's opinion? as if ronaldo even knows he exists, Is his liking worth anything? he isn't even worth the piece of tissue ronaldo wipes his ass with. He should focus more on how worthless his career was.

I can bet you cr7 knows Mikel, but neither of them knows you, so keep shut....

MNDY:
Which people?
Women are wired that way jare!
If you do gra-gra to get her, she will use that to do shakara for you.
But if you make her feel less of herself, she will be running after you.
There are many aspects to flow in different ways with a woman.
He can motivate her to be a successful woman.
But to get her attention, a man should yab her and pretend not to really like her, that's the formula for that one.
It is how you women operate. To beat you to your game, men should operate like you. VERY SIMPLE.

this can only work on naive timid girls

Saintmary:
Mr man, you need to calm down.



From the little I've read if your posts I can give you a few pointers if you can chill a little


1. You need to understand that a lot of single people, both male and female are looking to settle down. You need someone, just like the ladies need someone too, so don't treat them like they are the ones who should be desperate just because they are females. People who are sensitive can observe these things even from text messages.


2. Be wary of where you pick your ladies from.


Looking for love on Twitter is not for the faint-hearted. It takes a lot of patience to filter out the kind of lady you want because you will meet a wide variety of people.

If you're the conservative type, just focus your search on one-on-one contacts.


3. Just chill generally, I believe you'll eventually find someone good for you as long as you keep being yourself.


The most important part is to settle down wisely to avoid future problems.
Good luck.

the best response so far.....going for girls on Twitter or any advance social media platform is a no no for me....

olatade:
In Nigeria now, you are either going through a lot, coming from a lot, or about to enter a lot. A lot is going on with a lot of us

sweetman2022:
I read somewhere where you said you are educated. Going to school doesn't mean you will be smart or intelligent. You are a driver and you are proud of giving birth to four and planning to do more. This means you are daft and not planning a future for those kids. As a driver what quality of education can you provide those kids right now? What if you die tomorrow because you guys don't ever think of that as Africans. Do you think what you have on ground now can take care of those kids? Our fathers made huge mistake giving birth to multitude without proper planning. How can you not realize the mistakes of your father and learn from it. The value you create before leaving this world is the legacy you live behind not the numbers of children you give birth to. You are being selfish if giving birth is making you happy even though it doesn't benefits the innocent children you are bringing to this world.

bro is ur second to the last paragraph for me...epic

Devonelle:
You’ve sucked out the youthfulness in your wife’s body. See young lady looking like an old hag. I can smell the suffer and poverty in the pics from miles away

that old hag is far more prettier than you, so go an sit down

EmahBoss:
Your sister left her marriage and come home to eat like a glutton leaving her 5 kids? I'm certain she has toddlers among these kids.
If the husband is not beating her, please send her back. If you don't, she will start sleeping around. Her type full street

u just too pretty an alluring. An in case u wondering what triggered this compliment, your personal text did lols

iLegendd:
The only money left in my account is money from the plagiarized books. When I get money from other means, I'll surely help you.

bros unah two just made me laugh so hard this afternoon

An ur response is epic

SenatePresdo:
What we humans sometimes tend to not understand is that, people thinks differently.

That a lady stopped calling you doesn't mean she's no longer interested.

If she has been calling since you travelled, and you don't seem to call back, a smart girl might believe that another woman has taken her place in your life indefinitely.
Like, what could be your reason for the sudden stop from contacting her, she would ask herself?
A girl that has self-respect would stop calling to know if you would call back, and if you doesn't call back, she might feel bad and decide to stay on her own and respect herself.

Any girl that keeps calling a guy that doesn't call her back doesn't have self worth, and she's a fool.

You don't play games with people's intelligence, just to prove a point.

well said bruv

olisaEze:
Enoch & Abraham.

thanks man

olisaEze:
Oga ure not a Christian, ure just a churchgoer! No where in ur brief display of self-righteousness & vainglory did u state that she made a move on u apart from confiding that she was scared of sleeping alone in that lodge. But you quickly maligned her character before you even introduced her into the story by saying "she must have slept with others", depicting her as a slut with nothing but stereotypical gossip as ur only evidence! It’s folks like u who pretend to be pious in public that go about assaulting underage housemaids in secret. Despite all King David’s philandering, he remains one of the only three people in the Bible God personally called His friend. Can the same be said about you, Mr. Chief judge?? Abeg geddifok with ur fake konjilized piety, ekpa man!

you're very right bro an I really admire your command if English. He's just an hypocrite.

Pls who are the other two persons God revered to as his friends?

jeromestarks:
Come on shut up.
Every girl collects money or something for sex. Whether girlfriend, FWB or house wife. Men pay for sex one way or the other; olosho just put a price on it thats all.

ur very right bruv...

LoveGifted:
Let me talk to you personally?

I know what causes your HBP.

Right now so many young people are battling HBP but they don't know.

Once I tell you and you stop it, it would be gone.

What causes this things in youths lives among us and now it's rampant. So many youths now are battling with HBP. Some don't even know they have it until they go for testing and the sad part is that it has nothing to do with bad way of life atall.

The day I found out, I was so shocked.

P.S: I would not be giving you this information for FREE.

then go sit down

samuelson06:
You are very correct bro. And I don't really know how someone would be so comfortable having children that constantly disturbs him for their needs.

For me, it's being a serious fight with poverty and I'm not ready for anything that's going to set me back and erase all the efforts I've made to live a good life.

I don't really see what I can offer a child when I can't take care of myself comfortably. It's not this self-contain room that I'm living today I'll like to stay and raise a child. Make I wait small abeg.

sure bro....if everyone were to reason like you then Nigeria would be doing just fine to some extent.....wish u all the best bruv

samuelson06:
Thanks so much for finding wisdom in my comment even though some have chosen to condemn it.

I may sound arrogant but I love everyone and most times, I talk in a manner that'd make you feel bad at first, and later you realize that what I said was the blunt truth. And I also talk regardless whether we are meeting on- or off-line.

I'm in my middle thirties and still single and it's not as if I wouldn't have loved to be married but considering the background that I'm coming from, I've chosen to wait a little longer so I don't end up reinforcing poverty that I came to see in my family.

I feel if that's the sacrifice I'd have to make for my unborn children, then so be it. I've tasted poverty and I hate it with everything within me. I don't wish my children experience it. But glory be to God because I'm winning the battle.

I don't see any sense when people in my age bracket say they want to get married early so they can still be strong to take care of their children. And I ask, what's wrong in having your first child at 40? Won't that child be 30 when you turn 70? Can't a 30-year-old comfortablly take care of his or herself even if I die at 70? BTW, a 70-year-old can still be very strong if he takes good care of himself, especially if he keeps to his fitness routines.

You'd agree with me that even an 18-year-old can take care of his or herself alone having received the right the right parenting and having everything needed to navigate through life. What's the point of jumping into marriage and ending up giving birth to children you can barely take care of and eventually losing them to the society? You end up suffering for nothing. And the you lose your children to the society, you are automatically a failure. I can go on and on but let me stop here.

The youths just need to sit up because the beginner is not always the finisher.

you are very right bruv. Am always of the believe that early marriages are for rich kids that had everything all figured out for them while growing up , an not for those from humble backgrounds who had to navigate through life themselves thereby taking long to find their footings. However, I think most people hop into early marriages due to fear of the unknown. I mean, with the way Nigeria is today, there is no guarantee that a man will hit it big at age 40 and settle down even while working hard...


Nah only God go help us

samuelson06:
I sense conflict: Your story doesn't reflect you. You sound like an intelligent person but tell a story of a foolish person.

You can't sound the way you do, and be messing things up with your life. I don't see any correlation and as such I don't believe your story.

But if at all you think you are right, let the woman go so you can face your life as a single person. She's doing you a favor. Don't use someone's child to console your present circumstances. I can understand how hustlers can pound on a woman like they are the source of their troubles. Let her go so you can save, pay your debts, and improve your life.

Everyone has a right to association and they can choose to leave when they want the moment they find out the relationship isn't serving their interest. Let her go. She has every right to stay or leave.

No tangible means of livelihood, but you got married. Now, the chips are down and you are wailing. Is that how to plan to succeed or you were planning to fail? So, what exactly do you want? Manner from heaven? No!

Look, no man has any right to get married when they're earning below 100k naira. Stop inviting poverty into your life. It's easy to fall in life but hard to rise. Right now, you must accept your situation and stop this self-pity.

Sit down and plan your life. Disregard your age and gain some stamina before looking for another woman because this one is probably leaving and may not return.

I see you like an intelligent chap. Get in touch let's work out something. But I have a feeling you are not sincere. If ever you are, let's talk. I can promise it's going to make sense to you. Every big thing starts small. Don't be afraid to start all over again.

ur words are so powerful an filled with wisdom.....is been long I came across such piece in nl

Atticusxsz:
Which bookmaker do you have betting account with?
I can send you a telegram link where you can easily get odd of 1.50 to 2 odds. The guy is actually good and his game options correlate with melbet, accessbet, paripesa. He drops games like 1.50 odds like 4 to 5 times a day and even has a vip plan of 6k monthly where he drops 2 games a day for a month while 10k and 15k for 2 months and 3 months respectively.
You can see it for yourself and do whatever you wish.
Liverpool straight win, Tottenham 0.5 goal and Arsenal win/draw will easily give you 1.70 odd on sportybet bro.
I already staked a game of 5 odds with 1k. I intend going through with a steadfast rollover plan and see how my life in football trading spans out.

is your last sentence for me

All the best bruv

DavidHarry:
Chai. Don't be asking her out as if you're following up. Let's say you want to hang out... tell her you want her to meet you at so and so. Cool place no strings. Say it like you've arranged or booked the place. And say the date too. If she's cool with it and she says Okay, then remind her a day before... tell her, that when she's ready she should let you know. Don't call her on that day. If she disappoints, commot mind - chase another girl. She may send you an apology for disappointing but whatever. Anyhow. Don't accept her arrangement. Even if she wants a make up date the next day or next week. You're busy. Chase another girl. After about a month or two, book another date. Authoritatively. Have game. If she disappoints again... I doubt she's any bit interested in you. Chase another girl

all these silly mind games to what end exactly? Grow up man , know what you want an go for it. If e no work u back off....I know say these red pill movement don mess up unah mind finish

ChemicalReaction:
What if she dies in your house?

How people invite strangers to their home and feel comfortable beats my imagination.

Na God dey save person sha.

u be real chemical reaction, the thing react your whole body go reach leg

UyaiIncomparabl:
You are a guest. My dad will never oblige your request.

u sound so silly......just shut up already