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pocohantas:
When I was younger my dad once said, the most difficult/principled men to deal with are men who do not take these three things; alcohol, women and money. When they are going to visit certain business men, they will ask “does he drink? Do you know his brand?” If na woman e like, there would be a woman in the team.

That is why some ladies love/prefer male bosses, lecturers or men in positions of authority- it is not because they are nice, they are just easier to compromise/manipulate. The downside is, they would also wizard-hunt women who do not want them. Mr Martins is a goat, it would have been better if he took money sef, but na toto be im problem for this life.

Women do not need your fûck in exchange for value, women will collect your money straight-up. That is why actresses are buying cars/houses - their male colleagues are using fame to fck free.

this your last paragraph just off me like this eh...

Davash222:
Daei 149 Matches - 109 Goals

Ronaldo 169 Matches - 102 Goals

Messi 141 Matches - 71 Goals






Choose your GOAT wisely.

majority of his goals come against european minnows like Luxembourg, ondorra, Lithuania, Albania.... U can't compare the level of opposition in South America to Europe.... Even the least rank teams in South America like Bolivia an Peru can be a very difficult nut to crack

jesusjnr2020:
False.

More like the five pillars of the flesh and an earthly minded Christian.

with this your overzealousness an self righteousness,i just hope u make heaven.... Left for you, Christianity should be boring an very uninteresting....SMH

womenareapes:
this is the advice you only give to you and your family members

just because you came from a poverty family and graduate with 2.2 doesn't mean you can start writing rubbish to Console yourself!

the system we have in Nigeria is "who know who" even those who came out with first class are still in the street looking for job!

I have seen many pass or third class grade in a high position and making waves?

your stupid president Buhari and his cabinet crew check them out. them didn't comes out with any grade not talkless of passed grade but look at them making stupid rules and laws to suppress imbec1le like you


if you have brain enough which I know you don't have, you will see that this system is so fvcked up that the rich are trying to suppress the poor by making rubbish law that favours them!

why is the outside world system so good that you will be thinking of leaving this shit hole?
do they have ten heads?

so give this humble advise to you and your fvcking families since you have already decided that you won't make it!

am still wondering what this guy did wrong to warrant all this vile an tantrums u threw at him.... Can't you pass ur message across with civility without resorting to insult an name-calling... SMH

Omezif:
A lazy youth is already lazy bones any advice to them i atimes see it as a waist of time as far as all their hopes are in government.

tagging the youth lazy, yet your slow a senile brain couldn't spell "waste" correctly

pansophist:
If Davido dies today, you truly believe his kids and baby mama will suffer? Lol. Might be hard for you to believe, but there are people that have risen above poverty, and not even death can bring it back.

Different strokes for different folks.

lol...see comparison... My brother this is Nigeria, we're poverty strives, we're lot of middle class well-to-do houses can't boast of 10m in their savings

pansophist:
You get sense. You get an independent mind, and not thinking like a photocopied robot lol.

My woman is the most feminine ever. and it is because she thrives in her feminine domain, while I thrive in my masculine. She can work, but it's optional for her. She works to avoid boredom, and to have meaning in life. If she decides not to work till the kingdom comes, she will live perfectly fine in the comfort of my hustle and protection, and she would rather submit to me, than a boss out there that expects her to radiate masculine energy in order to integrate seamlessly in the workplace.

Men hate work, we do it because God, the creator has laid a curse on us that it is our burden to till the ground, while for women, it is giving birth. We both understand this, and carry our burden without the nonsensical doctrines of gender fluidity, switching of roles, or her proving a point by becoming a hustler. Instead, I, the man does that, my body, psyche, and mind are optimized for work, evolution has designed a man that way. I am taller, stronger, with more muscle mass than her, and no business partners will want to sleep with me to give me contracts, or the catcalling and unwanted advances from colleagues as compared to a woman. I can work under pressure, less emotional, and won't deal with cramps, pregnancy, menstruation, etc.

My kids won't be transferred from one nanny to the other like poultry chicken because they mother is at work, but instead, grow and bond healthily in the nurture of their mother who loves them, and their father (me) who will protect and provide for them. The happiness I get when I return home to a happy family, with a smiling wife that is meek and beautiful is priceless. Few females work for me and I just can't help but feel sorry for them, even if they see themselves as ''independent''. How the hell did women fall for this scam? So a woman will contend with the burden of womanhood such as pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing, and the body changes that go with it, and still hustle cash to prove that is equal to a man? How about finding a man that loves you, let him be your hero? If she brings cash and I bring cash, how is there a polarity that compliments?

A woman that has unlocked her feminine power will get any man to do anything for her, and no, feminism is an instant turn off to real men, a woman can keep proving how equal she is to a man, but his d!ck won't stand, as simple as that. What is the point of winning the battle, but losing the war? Men want femininity in women, and competition, proving a point and measuring shoulder is not feminine. Femininity is wholesome, it is complete and doesn't have to prove itself. It is the most expensive and delicate energy out there, and I will do everything it takes to make sure my partner retains her, and that comes with providing for her and shielding her from the chaos of the outside world. Happy wife, happy life.

magnoliaa will not like this

i beg to differ... I don't think u should be preaching this... We all know in life shit happens, widows that lost their husbands to the cold hands of death, never prayed for such to happen, what about broken marriages an relationships? How will the dependent party survive in such scenario..... In as much as, a man should take care of his household(the holy book admonished that), no man should serve as a life insurance policy to a lady's well-being..... In life we make contingency plans

CHoccolaTE:
When they get married their eyes go clear.
Is it not Nigerian men?
The men will still expect them to continue being independent in marriage.
They will remind you that you were taking care of yourself before marriage so why are you now turning into someone else?

Miss independent, miss independent, that's how they will marry a stingy man that has no interest in providing for them or a man that expects his wife to be obedient submissive slave and co-provider.

Look at the lamentations of these two women that were doing miss independence before marriage


https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story#94833128


https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story/1#95793133

my dear, nobody should serve as ur insurance policy to good living... And what if, peradventure, u lose that ur meal ticket to the cold hands of death, that means, u will cease surviving..

Lucyspa:
Ma, I understand what you are going through and I sympathize with you.I advice u call your hubby aside and pour out all your feelings to him. Secondly, i suggest a break. Take your kids to your parents house and go on a short break. If you have the money, you can lodge in a hostel, if not, u stay with a friend or family. This break would be used as a time for personal reflections on your life and family. Ask yourself important questions about everything you are going through at the moment and answer them honestly. From there draw your conclusions about how your life will be going forward and stick to it. Go home, grab your kids and head back to your home. Life is too short for regrets, do you, the world will adjust eventually. I wish you all the best.



P. S : This is for all the young women out here who are always quick to claim independent as if there is a prize for it. Y'all are making a lot of men lazy cos u end up doing their work because who want to prove your independence. There is no greater feeling than enjoying your man's money.


Cc pocohantas

and what if, peradventure, u lose that man to the cold hands of death, then u will cease surviving.... Let no serve be an insurance policy to ur good life..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

How this niggarrrrs are bold to get married baffles me..

Imagine me as a real niggarrr will be under same roof with one pussy for God knows how long...

I tried that shit when i invited..a lady down to my hotel room to spend one week with me
Damnnn shit...after two days the excitement was no longer there...my dickkk was no longer getting excited
Which means married people are just pretending...the love and excitement is no longer there...

this your lines are getting bored an stale... Why not try something new

pocohantas:
Very important. She should stop playing the victim and maligning him. If Muma Gee still wants him, she should drop her pride and apologize. People dey separate and come back together. The most important thing is to first accept your fault and be ready to do better.

for the first time in a long time u said something reasonable...

0taPiaPia:
Same we have been clamouring for even before the Gov. made this demand. That’s were they belong since they so much love theatrics. I can assure them a day wouldn’t go by without them using their gun, it’s a win - win situation for all parties.


Mdf: sheaku be like “ya’ll welcome to the north boys”. Shall we

SARs be like: Oga sheaku @least make we keep our bags for barracks first na.

Liliantalks:
so it’s not an achievement to feed myself when people can’t provide two square meals , talk about shelter and cloths. Lol other women seting their standards for men are most times achieving it , if the fact I said that’s the woman I want to be , hurt ur feelings. Then I Am sorry... call me whatever u please . I stand by my words

ur a very pathetic hypocrite.... Bringing the less privilege that can't have three square meals a day as a face saving tactics.... Keep relying a man's money as ur insurance policy to escape poverty...... Funny enough, folks like you, God hardly answers your prayers cos nobody owes u anything

efosky1246:
Just stop being stupid.

There is nothing wrong in seeking out a man that is financially stable when going into a long-term relationship. It's not in anyway tantamount to golddigging or leeching as you seem to believe.

Even when you have your own income. Your man should be a pillar of strength.a fortress that you can rely on. in your lowest moment. There is no better feeling than knowing that your man's got your back in all ramifications.

Women are the most vulnerable in a marriage, and it's only common sense that you make sure to secure the best safety net you can attract. There is nothing wrong with it!!

A man brings structure, stability into a relationship, without seeking for this in a man, you're doing yourself and your unborn children a great disservice.

I don't know if it's your lived experiences that is making you feel like this. But no woman should be keen on being a work mule when in a relationship. You deserve better than you think

how you guys resort to names calling an tantrums rather than passing your message across in a civil way baffles me..


The person u quoted is preaching on total financial dependency in marriage an you call her stupid

Liposure:
yeh

are you this mentally slow that u can't contribute anything to the discourse rather that making incoherent monosyllables

saaphiere:
Never leave your girl child with any man be it her father.

i never knew you this dumb an slow

dazzlingd:
No wonder africa is the most backward and unfulfilled continent...

This stupid illiterate way of reasoning is too bad, u won't see this kind of shallow minded discussions in civilised countries...

Idiots, who said it can't be explained medically

in ur quest to being smart, you end up being silly, adding nothing to the discourse

Blackmiserable:
Strong wine. I respect your opinion honestly.

But why do you think nature has domesticated women? Just some heads up, by nature I could also mean God.

Now, why do you think women have, in a sense, being domesticated? They are not as strong and resilient as men. I mean, the chore of providing basic necessities from antiquity had to do with strength, agility, and swiftness?

Imagine a world of women. Not a single man. Not one. Do you think they'd be better off technologically, scientifically, and even material-wise? Hell no. But why or put differently, why would they be worse off?

Now, look at it from a biological pov. Let me chip in for a moment about how reproductive anatomy favours men. Back in time and even now, the average woman is worried about quite a number of things that has to do with biology.

If you know the number of women who have stayed back at home because of painful periods, heavy period, irregular period, or even period leaks, you would be shocked.

This kills productivity for no fault of theirs.

I am not in anyway encouraging laziness but God who created women from men has made it such that most women would have to depend on a man for basic necessities. Seems like one of the curses though. It is not sexist but the truth.

apt an well spoken

bigtt76:
Aside the NFF job, what business does this man do? I don't know him to have a club (might be wrong though)

what job do you expect him to have again??.... Being the president of Nigeria football federation is more than enough job

Ishilove:
Dem no go use am do anything. Na just to embarrass you, nothing else

i thought is always a female behind this monica

jesusjnr2020:
Yes he must if he just doesn't want to be saved to enter into the kingdom of God in heaven, but also that which is on Earth.

It doesn't necessarily mean a rich man literally forsaking all his riches, but to forsake it mentally.

To illustrate, Abraham didn't need to literally sacrifice Isaac to God, but he would have done it had God not stopped him to show that he'd already sacrificed him mentally, so doing it literally would just be a mere formality. Hence God rewarded him for obeying His voice despite the fact that he didn't literally sacrifice his son as God had instructed him to do.

That mentality is what all God requires from anyone who wants to enter into His kingdom on Earth, and i wouldn't be surprised if Jesus had stopped the rich young man from doing it literally as God did in the instance of Abraham, if he had also shown that mentality of the kingdom of God.

This is the mentality all of His apostles had, so for anyone to truly become one, he must have that.

Jesus said, it's almost impossible for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God on Earth because they hardly have that mentality which it requires.

God bless.

i so much love this explanation.. Thanks bro

madjune:
Tnx for the compliments.
I'm holed up in the states. Don't rem you much, though.
I rave like mad in June cos i was made in June.

Nah the spirit be that.... All the best bro

madjune:
We all know how she came into money.

IBB' s wife's tailor whom they corruptly allocated an oil bloc, which of course serves their interest as well in cuts.

Who wouldn't blow up on oil bloc?

Abeg, annoint them with money.

this niggur... Where u dey?.. Is really been long... I always do have a thing for this your monica ..

ggirl4real:
Lol...

Church na for show now

Anyway, I still love to dance during praises and listen to the choir sing. Finish.

I only go there once in a while shaa

hmmm....hopefully, u will someday receive a message that will change your perspective an views about Christianity, or better still convert you totally

ggirl4real:
I'm not but I still attend church from time to time

kinda sound strange though .. Is like saying am not a Muslim but I visit the mosque often

ggirl4real:
Easy to Read Version

REASON: During the days of my regular church attendance, my Pastor loved that translation. I don't know about now.

but you said in the other thread you not a Christian...

CHOPbeating:
Supreme145

There is no need blaming you for anything. After all, you must not be HOLY or OLD to make money. If people say you did wrong here and there, there are a whole lot of people who did better wrong than you and are still making it.

My advice for you is this:

1. I still applaud you for been in school. Your expected Certificate can elevate your status in life – but never depend on it as the ultimate because you are the least to get the Certificate – NIGERIA for now has nothing to offer.

This is because, many youths like you have it already roaming about the streets – some have even forgotten that they have it. Another potential problem is that “the labour market requires outstanding experience, which I’m sure you have none. Even where there is experience – a whole lot of people have better experience than you, applying for the same job".

2. You still have to think about going into business – thank GOD you have business mindset and you know what it means to make money. In Nigeria, there is no job for you. Hence, it is better you create your own job because you will regret more if you don’t think in that line, and day by day, you are growing older.

3. You are no longer young as some people are commenting here. At your age, you are already a man – and by right, your age is above the maximum requirement to apply for many government jobs – even worse by the time you finally get the certificate.

4. Yahoo yahoo comes with its own consequences. A yahoo guy I knew fraud a maga (an old man), and later the maga committed suicide upon knowing he has been scammed. Few months later, the yahoo had a terrible accident and died instantly in the car he bought using part of the scammed money. Some people get strong spirit – We are mystery as humans.

Either you do menial jobs or whatever, you must try to acquire some money for basic capital to start a business from small – nobody will make you rich – power is taken not given – as you grow older without money comes with higher level of frustration.

I just gave you some money that I hold sacred.

PEACE!!!

ur words are so deep bro.... May the good Lord bless you richly fot this

EVILFOREST:
NUMBER1:
Stop having Purposeless Erections as a man.

NUMBER 2:
Hang your coat where you can easily reach for it

NUMBER 3:
IF u are wise never get close to Fools,. rather move with those wiser.

my guy... Ur number rule just off me like this ehe

xcelentattitude:
Your own better bros!
If you have been doing that for the past 2 months and you're still alive, you've got nothing to worry about bro. All you need to do is to be thanking God.

Even if you get money to buy more food, I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't, instead save Up! Before you know it, u don buy land

whats this one even saying?? ..if u can't help him... You stfu an run along

TundeKorede:
Some Christians rationalize their inability to engage the force of prayer without ceasing with irrelevant and baseless excuses.

Believers have no other option than to pray endlessly. It is unequivocally written in First Thessalonians 5:17 that, “Pray without ceasing.”

However, this article is not written in order to mock people of their inability to pray well. But it is to ignite the fire of prayer in them.

As you see those useless excuses. Try to adjust and work on your prayer life. Because an excuse is a foundation upon which failure is built.

More so, when you have a good prayer life, you will enjoy a good relationship with God. God will be pleased to reveal hidden things to you as you spend time with Him.

Three Useless Excuses People Give For Not Being Prayerful
Must Read: How To Make God Answer Your Prayers Speedily.

• Excuse One: “I Am Too Busy And I Don’t Have Time.”
Few Christians who possess poor level of planning are the ones who give this kind of excuse. And believers who see nothing good in prayers are the ones who say they don’t have time for prayers.

Daniel 5:29
[29]Then commanded Belshazzar, and they clothed Daniel with scarlet, and put a chain of gold about his neck, and made a proclamation concerning him, that he should be the third ruler in the kingdom.

Contemporarily, we can say Daniel was a prime minster. But Daniel kept a good prayer life due to his busy schedule.

Don’t you know what it means when you are a prime minister of a country? You will keep having meetings upon meetings throughout the day.

Also, don’t you know some politicians hold meetings at midnight?

5 Ways To Know A Good Church And attend

Daniel
God’s Word said concerning Daniel that;

Daniel 6:10
[10]Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house; and his windows being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he kneeled upon his knees THREE TIMES A DAY, and PRAYED, and gave thanks before his God, as he did aforetime.

How challenging! Daniel still prayed three times a day. Imagine you, that you have not become anything, you can’t effectively pray once in a day.

Sadly, some people think it is only poor people who should be praying every day. While the rich easily despise the poor for praying too much.

Can I tell you the truth? Both the rich and the poor Christian need to pray without ceasing.

Biblically, God did not say, ” Let the poor pray without ceasing and the rich should pray once in a while.” No. He didn’t say that.

Wrong Reasons For Attending A Church

Plan
Stop giving irrelevant excuses. No excuses should be made for not praying. Only own up where you are wrong. Instead of giving prayer excuses, plan your life.

My friend, definitely plan your life and find a means of praying despite your busy schedule.

I’m not saying you should pray three times a day. But just be consistent and build a great prayer life.

Cornelius was another man who prayed regularly despite being a Centurion (Acts 10:1).

He had a job. Because some people assume that prayer is meant for jobless people.

Every worker and jobless people need to pray as it is everyone who needs God. Prayer gives you an opportunity to commune with God.



No Time
You said you did not have time to pray, right? Let me ask you this; how do you normally have time to eat despite your tight schedule? How do you have time to wear your clothes?

See, until you see prayer as a very important thing to do every day. You can’t develop a strong prayer life.

It is because you see food as something important. That’s why you usually create time to eat despite your busy schedule.

Again, you have time to wear clothes, because you know clothes are very imperative. I implore you to see prayer as a very imperative part of your Christian life.


#Prayer Excuse
• “Prayer Is Too Difficult “
Sometime ago, I heard someone who said prayer was very difficult for him.

Honestly, I think prayer is difficult for those who have not developed quality relationship with God.

Dear friend, I love it anytime I spend time with God in His presence. I just love His presence. And that’s how it should be for every living Christian.

Romans 15:30
[30]Now I beseech you, brethren, for the Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, and for the love of the Spirit, that ye STRIVE TOGETHER with me in your prayers to God for me;

Candidly, as a starter in the school of prayer. Start by striving to spend some time in God’s presence. Make sure you speak to Him every time.

The more you spend time in His presence, the more you enjoy Him. Then, prayer now becomes very easy for you.

5 Things That God’s Anointing Cannot Do


Excuse On Prayer
• “Until I Have Problems Or Challenges I Don’t Pray.”
Were you not surprised reading that baseless prayer excuse? Many believers still see prayer as what you do when you have problems.

Until they are financially, physically, educationally challenged, they will not pray.

Get this right, don’t pray only when you have problems. God is not a Doctor/Consultant that you go to when you have health challenges.

Develop a good relationship with God. It is your relationship with Him that matters. And how do you develop it? Through consistent prayer lifestyle.

See, how would you feel if the only time your friend comes to you is only when he has problems? Will you be willing to solve those problems every time?

If that friend neglects you every time but remembers you when he has challenges. How would you feel? Bad, sad or disappointed?

Realistically, that’s how it is when you take God as problem solver alone. That’s how it feels when you don’t see God as your father and friend.


Another Prayer Excuse
• Unanswered Prayers
Additionaally, there are some people who have been praying to God for a long time. And God has not really granted their heart desires.

Therefore, they intentionally stop praying. Because they think God will never answer their prayers.

Mark 11:24
[24]Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.

Just believe in the Lord. Every time you pray, believe that God has answered you.

The result may not be visible now. But you shall see it soon.

Even if God has not answered you. Continue praying without ceasing. Pray without ceasing.

Eight Benefits Of Prayer

Summary
• Basically, busyness is not an excuse for ignoring prayers. You’re not the busiest person in the world. Even if you are, plan your time well so as to pray effectively.


• Truly, prayer becomes your lifestyle as you cultivate the habit of praying despite any situation.

• Our dear Lord should not be seen as a problem solver alone. We should develop a healthy relationship with Him.

Let me know your thought on this article in the comment section below?

Stop giving those prayer irrelevant excuses!

Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/four-wrong-excuses-for-not-being-prayerfull/?relatedposts_hit=1&relatedposts_origin=2777&relatedposts_position=0

what a soul lifting an inspirational piece... May the good Lord bless you real good bro...

CAPSLOCKED:
THE ONLY THINGS A TONGUE DOES ARE THE THINGS IT IS BIOLOGICALLY BUILT TO DO. EVERY OTHER SUPERSTITIOUS AND SPIRITUAL THINGS YOU'VE LISTED ARE FALSE CLAIMS.

why u deluded folks are so bent on stalking all religious post an smearing it on our faces that u are an atheist/freethinker is what I still don't seems to understand....aint you tired already? i was thinking over the years, you an the likes of hopefulllandlord should have gotten the memo that this your acute display of stupidity on every Christian post is not bringing forth it's desired result,so you desist..... Let us foolishly worship our God an believe whatever we choose to.... Biko

paulolee:
i jus wish this news is not correctly reported..
cant imagine a man in this hard country stabbing himself because of another woman, na so her nunu sweet reach??
i have experienced heartbreaks but i swear if the heartbreak wey football betting don gv me this year no break me, i never see the woman abeg..
inter, arsernal, barca, man.u, chelsea etc don join hands gv ne series of last match heartbreaks this year alone when i thought am closed to winning thousands..
just yesterday ac milan vs atalanta wey i stake over 2.5 bin burn my expected 75k, that's the last match of of 10 over 2.5 that i staked 5k...
d painful part was dt i was happy and already celebrating after seeing 1-1 after first half, na so d match end and up till now, na just alcohol and meats dey my belle and dnt have appetite to eat bt cnt kee myself...

i don't think this is true..but I stand to be corrected... There is no way you can stake that high on 10 over 2.5odds an it gives you that meagre outcome