₦airaland Forum

Liliantalks:
single men remain the reason why ladies date married men and become lesbians. U all say we hv only sex to offer , but these married men don’t complain. We feel more appreciated with them ,, and they take care of us!! but single men Bleep u for free n u benefit nothing from them ,, n u expect me to continue with that ?

One thing for sure they r not lying to you about anything

have really been following your post on this thread an is very apparent your life is pathetic an nauseating and needs urgent help before it becomes irredeemable ... U just nothing but a low budget prostitute.... U better find something dignifying to engage in an salvage what is left of your miserable life

Chi59:
I don't do married men. Never have, never will (married men DMing me, it won't work) but I have come to understand that overall married men make better male friends, better crushes and definitely, will make better lovers.
I'd tell you that no young lady starts her love life with the intention of chasing other women's husbands but for certain reasons, some end up having affairs with married men.
This is not about the young ladies who do it for money, or for sex, but heartbroken single ladies who have suffered repeatedly under single guys looking for a different taste of love. Some of these girls even fancy themselves in love with these married men.
Overall, if you must judge these ladies make sure you have no skeleton in your cupboard.

ur first statement is a lie... Damage control....u still active in the business of playing second fiddle to the married folks

Delite01:
As far as I'm concerned ladies have no excuse whatsoever to sleep with married men. Because the only thing they want from you is your body, they don't even love you not to talk of wanted to leave their wives for you. You are just a sex machine. I think it's only lazy ass ladies with no self worth that sleeps around especially with married men for financial gain. Thou some wealthy married men might want to entice and influence you with their money just to sleep with you speaking from experience but no amount of money can quantify your dignity and moral uprightness as a lady because after the sex and the money what else? Nothing I guess. You can make such money yourself if you are hard working, focus and ambitious in life.
The most important virtue ladies should try and imbibe is contentedness, be ok and satisfied with the little you have and can get from people around you without you have to sleep around or sell your body for money.

God bless you real good for this

Chi59:
Nairaland people will never see this one. Sometimes the married man is the one who pursues relentlessly but those bats will not see it. Only to be cussing single ladies as if they are the cause of their problems in life.

u can very well toe the line of that lady you quoted... But awon husband strugglers like u will be seeking for such opportunity to grab with both hands


By the way.... Take off that acclaimed dp cos u got no ass

Chi59:
Some ladies don't do it for money or even the sex.
Young men are often in a haste, unwilling to work the knots that is a woman's emotions.
Many of you young men are absent, forgetful and downright indifferent. You are impatient and very careless.
But you see married men, marriage has amended their character and their attitudes to females. Years of living with a woman makes them quick to say sorry, to pay attention, to show up, to be patient.

Modified: See them bashing me. Blo.ody hypocrites. It takes two people to commit adultery. If the lady is guilty, how about the man who breaks his vows?

this premium ashy again.. I thought u have repented already, oh I forgot, a leopard never changes it spot, but Mark my words, before the year comes to a close, nah undiluted acid ur numerous clients wife go pour you.... Just be acting smart, nah ur body go tell you

pocohantas:
There is nothing like karma/nemesis here.

A lot of your fathers cheated and last time I checked- all your mothers were virgins.

How do you explain that?

Men are polygamous in nature right?

Nemesis kor, Genesis ni...

awon coded husband strugglers don show....

ojuu4u:
The truth but bitter fact is that married men take good care of ladies far ,far, better than single, single guys will just be having free sex, all in the name .. Virtual and empty marriage promises,

A situation in which two or more girls will be meeting in the house of single guys and u must endure it,

Married men can easily set up business or pay school fees but for single, its story upon story, single guys break heart of ladies far more than married men do, pls go out and do ur findings very well, either u dated married men or not when u are single, it doesn't stop u from married a cheating hubby.

this simping will not take u anywhere... What is ethically an morally wrong is wrong no matter how u want to twist it

MuduOfRice10:
My post is unrelated tho.
Please pardon me.

I've been quite depressed at the moment and I'm on the verge of losing my sanity.

My girlfriend of two years just dumped me via WhatsApp chat, saying she's walking out of the relationship.

Her reasons were that I'm not too rich as she expects and most of all she says I'm not good looking...(After two years of spending on her recklessly).

I'm really confused as I don't know what to do..
Am I really bad looking?? In my assessment, I think I'm average (See pic attached).

Cc:
Benz boys
Stillmaticog
Seanwilliam
Seankafor
Timoleon
Aro1
Luminous
Plead
Stupidmods

we have a national emergency on ground an all you could think of is a girl jilting your penniless ass an coming to cry foul in the cyberspace an with ur picture attached to it for result validations ....weaklings everywhere

scoundrel:
How is the lockdown going?

f!ck off

scoundrel:
I did and have no problem with it. My only issue is the arrangement of food, drinks and placement of electronics like he’s already in Heaven because he moved outside the country.

you sound so dumb....stop talking already..

CollinsWeGlobe:
Bro, don't envy anyone online. Nigeria is the best place to be. I am not even happy here. I am not a rich person bro I am just making the thread to promote what I love. God help us all

i for say make thunder fire you, to say Nigeria is the best place to be... But I no go talk

veronne:

...which app can give me loan an leave me alone..

missimelda01:
You only told us the things you did for her, what of the things she did for you?
Did you notice at any point in the relationship that she was acting uninterested?
Marriage is a huge step, did you both have marriage in view while dating?
Parents have huge influence on some people, maybe she's one of them.

In conclusion, it's not advisable to convince someone to marry you.. move on with your life, you'd find someone else who'll feel the same way about you.

you lots will always device means to side ur likes,by trying to shift the goal post and playing the blame games, this is someone that has just been emotionally jilted an all u could do is to ask silly questions.... What else can she do for her order than sex which she does at her own volition

pansophist:
My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.

Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.

It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.

You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.

Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.

She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful. Women are made, men are born. You see where a woman automatically becomes a first lady or a queen just because her husband is a president or a king? But it doesn't work in the opposite direction, there is no first firstman for the husband of a female president. You should know that women are rewarded for being women, all she has to do is look beautiful, and men and society will reward her. For a man, you must build yourself to be rewarded by women and society.

You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you. She is at a stage of her life with male abundance, she wont do anything special and men will find her attracted and seek her commitment. All she has to do is sit back and choose, and if she left you for someone else, it means the other guys playing their game better. Loving her is not playing, buying her gift is not playing, but to play, you must develop yourself to be a good catch. That your presence is enough for her to find you attractive. Any man can save, spend and impress, but not every man is a top dog.

That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.

I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Men compete with other men for success, women compete with other women for successful men. If you do not have women competing for your commitment, then you've either not reached there yet, or you're doing it wrong.

If there is any such thing as to "man-up", it's now. Man up friend.

Goodluck young blood.

words on marble... However, I think u meant to write "women are born, men are made

Mizwisdom:
So people should go out and contact HIV because your aunt is living with it? taking tablet every day for the rest of her life

u call yourself miswisdom... But am sorry to say, your foolishness personified

BIDOO:
Thank for your concern sir.

principles of begging

omonnakoda:
See admonishment, Nigerians can play God.
You go think ssy him want buy house for am

See humility

Nigerians can humble for begging matter

When money enter him hand na anoda level

Chi59:
Gigolo

Lol....i will suggest u go find something dignifying an do to salvage what is left of your miserable life, rather than chasing after people's husband for survival....





Corporate ashi

Chi59:
Na your type women dey use your sperm do ritual. Oshi

am yet to hear of this...tell me more.. Silly ashi

Chi59:
Who needs a certificate when you've got a sugar daddy

smh.....this one is lost already... Las Las nah unah type g-boys dey use do yahoo plus

SSam01:
Better! So that we in the abroad can also receive something though it cant be compared to the $1,200 stimulus checks they are dashing citizens here.

E dey pain me

May God make me a citizen sooner than I expect IJN.

so u dey abroad still dey expect 20k.....nawa o

Lynx001:
ugwu 600
palm oil 200
offor 200
crayfish 400
maggi 100
bitter leaf 300
fresh pepper 200
cameroon pepper 200
dry pepper 200
Tatashe(chilli pepper)200. When u add plenty pepper the soup will last cos when u take one mould of garri u will drink 2glass of water. so 5mould of garri =10glass of water. Ur belle go don block.
stockfish 400(it is better to use stock fish because even if e no reach everybody the aroma go reach)
if u need meat go and hustle or visit www.lalafoods.com to order for free python meat.

my guy u just off me like this ehe....

Ferraribaby:
Abeg my people
No amount is small
Even if it's 100naira
3068190115
Firstbank

Thank you in anticipation

ferraribaby were dey find 100box...nawa o

Descorts:
We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

u acting all tough, but we can see through the facade... niggurs like u are vegetable

Luizkid:
That i've had enuf of the honeypot and i want out.

ma niggur...

duality:
Before you ask her out what is your budget!

I'm serious with this question ooh

I will give you the best answer if you State your budget.

In case you don't know, some people it's when they are about to make progress, the devil will just give them a girlfriend.

God bless you real good for this

robosky02:
Just press the ignore bottom




When she pass behave as if you didn't notice her


When people gather .... Great everyone except her..




And see how she will run after you....

kid spotted

SenecaTheYonger:
Blacks act too inferior. This drug is quietly being used in Hospitals around the world. With this current pandemic,no one has time to perform trial and then publish a paper for copy copy cats to use. Every country is doing everything they can.Africans as usually are waiting for white people to say “ITS OKAY YOU CAN USE IT NOW.” Are blacks too inferior to perform their own clinical trial? Haven’t all your parents used chloroquine before? Did they die? Why can’t blacks conduct their own study? Can we really not function without White people? They’ve already given us expo, do you still want them to write it down on your answer booklet?

God bless you real good

Paxie55:
If you are to support him or must support him, use the money to support his business if he's business wise, let him source out other sources of income. But my dear ladybeee, I strongly advise You, broke boys love are never to be trusted.

Use the money to develop yourself.
These foolish guys here advising you to spend the money on him would have called you a simp and all manner of names if you were to be a guy trying to help His babe.
These men aren't loyal, they are broke and their love can never ever be trusted.
I've said my own.

of course u are really the dump an foolish one here(pun intended) ... trying to create unnecessary false awareness an asslickings... U are apparently too slow to understand that a man's character has little to do with his economical state...have see very arrogant broke guys changing girls with reckless abandon..an I also have lots of rich humble guys like friends ..so be guided


Also be careful not to use demeaning words on ur fellas just pass a message across... I hate it

baralatie:
don't get me started with the nonsense definition of love by Titanic.

this scenario is more incomparable with tatanic .this is about a guy with a lady and a room.so the guy should vacate the room for the girl now

guy...this ur comment just off me ehe