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petsolo115:
What could be the cause
? My right eyelid has been moving uncontrollably for some weeks now?

DaddyRochie1642:
From your story up there, you said that you had already paid for the Cow and Wine.

Since she has called off the Wedding, i strongly suggest you go back there and demand for your hard earned money you used to pay for the Cow and Wine...Collect your money back with a Full Chest and don't look back.


When that girl of yours is serious and ready and her eyes must have cleared then you guys can talk, on no account should you ask what you've done since according to you, you have searched your heart and you can't seem to find anything you have done for her to be acting this way.


From here, I can Smell that you and that your girlfriend haven't established Clear Boundaries between the two of you, Establishing Very Clear Boundaries in Relationships is one of the Most Important things ever.

If that girl of yours finally decides to come back, better set and establish clear Boundaries between the two of you.... I'm telling you this for your own good.


The Current Nigeria Economy is very harsh and it Spares no one, for marriage to work nowadays, it takes two Willing partners to make it work, if that girlfriend of yours doesn't contribute anything significant to your Life and you have sincerely searched your heart and you can't seem to find anything you have done wrong to her, give her a Time frame to tell you what and how you have offended her and if she doesn't respond during that timeframe you have given her to tell you how you offended her, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

JovialJune:
Does raising kids entails just breast milk? We are actually suppose to give birth, breast feed, and leave the rest for una, no where does it say women's responsibility is this and that, we are suppose to help when we feel like that's all, or is there a bible passage that's says, women's responsibility is to cook, clean, wash bla bla bla etc? That is working with our hands, we are not suppose to work with our hands or be assigned a duty.

pocohantas:
Nothing wrong in what the uncle did. It is just like marrying a first son with many younger siblings in the university. His father is diabetic and the mum has arthritis, so they need routine drugs. His two sisters that married ended up with broke men and would sometimes call for school fees.

Except you are ready to be their family enemy, any sane lady should japa when she sees this setup.

Sanchez01:
LOVE IS LOVE! If it isn't true, then it isn't love. Movies and songs have ruined the lives of many so bad that they have come to believe there is 'love' and there is 'true love'. If it is tainted with lies, cheating or abuse, then it is no longer love. None of these ugly trends are attributes of love.

That said, divorce favour marriage victims and not the offender (except Northern courts that Hisbah preside over). No way a court of law will rule in favour of a cheat, an abuser or an offender in marriage. Oftentimes, it is the men who spearhead these trends that often lead to collapse in their home. Ruling in favour has nothing to do with gender.

Adele paid $171 million in court settlement to her ex-husband in January, I didn't see your handle or your post then to bemoan why it favoured the man. Guess what? Mel B, Jennifer Lopez, Kate Winslet, Mary J. Blige, and Anna Faris all paid heavily in spousal support TO THEIR EX-HUSBAND. These are tiny fraction of women who have paid spousal support to their ex-husbands and do you know why? Bulk of what led to the collapse of the marriage was their fault. If it was the men who messed up, they wouldn't gotten a pin from the marriage. It's the same if you reverse the genders. No cheating or abusive woman will profit from a marriage if their actions led to the collapse of the marriage.

As per your last question, a married man who either sleeps around, disrespects his wife, abuse her physically, mentally and emotionally already show signs of a terrible parent. Leaving children in the custody of such is a disaster waiting to happen. Note that there are men almost every month who win custody after overwhelming evidences suggest the wives are irresponsible.

If you have an insane level of libido and you're sure one woman can't cure it, you're better off with uneducated village women who believe it is normal for men to have a harem. Don't expect a woman to put up with the nonsense behaviour of her man just because she wants to stay married.

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

Dikaveli:
Its high time we focused on our life's and forget all this business men that cares only about themselves.

From day one i never see winners, Christ embassy as christ like churches i only see them as modernized clubs

A matured lady who by hard luck isn't married by now invited me to their program and i attended only to discover she didn't attend the service with any underwear, after the program she suggest we stop at her place for lunch only for me to bang her the moment she opened her door in her living room. Someone that was serious inviting me to her special program.

Hypocrites

joyousever:
Your frustrations and aggression are a product of your miserable ignorant life!!
Go clean up your use of English before engaging me, nitwit!!

joyousever:
Just take a look at your post and read your level of ignorance and poor grammar/sentence construction! You're the biggest fool I've just encountered on this thread. Go learn how to speak and write correct English before starting what you can't finish with me!

joyousever:
[This epistle just to counter my point and opinion? Alaye, go find work for radio, no dey waste your talent for here! Quote me again and you'll simply end up wasting your energy! quote author=Beloved3 post=104309642]

Apologies but this is quote shallow and insensitive coming from a woman yourself. You do know how long it takes in the delivery process before the head of the baby finally comes through?

The vagina won't just suddenly expand to let out such object. The body releases the necessary hormones to relax the walls and there is a lot of lubrication by the amniotic fluid. Still it takes a very long gradual process, sometimes hours.

This completely rules out that comparison with the delivery of a baby head. Sex is not a one time motion that requires buckets of lubricant fluid and a couple of hours between having phallus at the tip of the veejay and eventually getting it in.

Besides different ladies have different vaginal sizes. Some are really tight down there. And no matter the amount of sex involvement with a huge phallus, you would need lubricants for each session and time spent in pre-intimacy.

With such ladies you have to rule out the thrill of quickies. Those types when the hubby just feels like hijacking the wife in the kitchen for a quick one. No. It will end in pains and soreness.

Finally imagine having to rely on lubricants each time you want to get down with your wife because your phallus is too huge.

With vaginal child birth and years of 'phallusing' the woman's veejay would eventually accommodate the man but then why commit to waiting that long before being able to take the man's hugeness in naturally and try different styles without discomfort.


Just one note on the term big penis.

There are average, there are big and there are huge. I believe you yourself would likely think twice if you encounter a huge one, not the typical big penis.

A big penis is anything within the size of 6 - 7 inches length and 5 - 5.5 inches girth.

A huge one ranges from 7 inches and above in length and 6 inches and above in girth. That's probably the size in circumference of a Raid insecticide can.

Some men do walk around with these monsters. For an average woman, they may be good for few occasion but definitely uncomfortable for daily coitus.

pansophist:
When you're hiding your sophistication from your potential partner,  Why would you think the other person is not discerning enough to see your game plan and play along? Also, what's the assurance that even if the person pass the virtue test and later realise you're rich for example, that their hibernated materialism will not be reactivated?

Furthermore, the idea of downplaying your sophistication is a consequence of imbalalance in their respective social status, which to me, is not a good protocol. Generally, you should actually marry your class, because even if a woman/man married you after passing your so called test, the dynamics associated with a huge gap in social status between them is a deal breaker in most relationship.

I mean think about it, even if you pass my test, will your family pass it too? Will I not be guilt-tripped to pay for your grandma medical fees? Even if I'm capable, won't it periodically ring as exploitation in my head? If I refuse, won't it make our home toxic ? Different social status in many cases also implies different work ethics and view of the world, so how is this sustainable in the long term?

Your potential partner should be the kind that pushes you to be better, that their value in your eyes will call forth your best, making you spotlighting your uniqueness as a compelling force to secure their commitment.  Downplaying yourself also implies that they are not a challenge, same way you won't downplay yourself to an employer. It's a sub-optimal solution. People should date themselves, don't just jump into a committed relationship, talk more of marriage.

I was friend with my spouse for at least two years before we even started dating, and all through the friendship period, I already knew her kind of personality, so there was no need us to downplay or hide anything. Experience like they say, it's the best teacher. So for me, it's a big no. If securing your commitment doesn't call forth the best in me, doesn't make me calibrate, redact, enhance and spotlight all my sophistication to blow you mind, then you're probably not that worthy. This has been my formula and it works for me well.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Being Broke is good. But staying Broke for too long is the bad thing

Stupidquestions:
Point of correction...you dint suffer together, stop deceiving ur brain that u did....
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Cos has she ever fed you for a month or few months?.....I'm not talking of transport fare or one day food u got from her...cos many of ur friends could have done that
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Has she ever paid your house rent for six month or one year when you had no where to go?...so which suffer did she suffer for u....
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.. Someone u feed, give money, sponsor at schl..lol...u get sense so? How did she suffer for u..abi na u dey suffer alone while she uses u as her support system......at least without u, she would have even suffered more...guys can fool themselves Sha...
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Maybe u want to say she gave u pvssy when u were suffering and u quickly equate it to mean she suffered for fvcking a suffering guy...lol.
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May God one day return ur sense...u suffer together kor..ozuor

richmond500:
I think taking her out and relaxing is a good thing, if the relationship is new, she may be uncomfortable coming to his house, let them meet in a neutral ground where she will be comfortable and he also will be, what he needs right now is confidence, him go just fvck up if him try to do alpha male, he will embarrass himself, he needs confidence first before trying to pretend he is in charge so he doesn't scare her away trying to make her feel she's lucky to have him.

The only time u try to be a redpiller is when u meet a feminist, if u try to be like a lion on an obedient girl, she will be defensive, its good not to make early mistakes

mbahdi:
I tink dis are for married people.i hail those marrying at dis critical time.am 29yrs.out of my 1001 problem marriage is not among it in the next 10yrs.cos I never see who marriage help.abi una dun see

DEMZEE:
High value men have the right to exercise their sexual options.

U cant work so hard to level up as a man and end up fvcking only one pussy, tf!!!!!!

Men don't cheat, they just have sex period!!

PlayMaker14:
Though I am a heavy critique of this useless administration, but Adamu Garba should shut up and take a sit....

General Buhari or Pastor Osibande attending the burial will not resurrect the dead COAS or any of the military personnel who unfortunately lost their lives in the ill-fated crash.


I for one don't like attending burial ceremonies... It's not a must General Buhari and Osibande should attend it...

Let the dead bury their dead.... Make we face front.

NwaAmaikpe:




Hanty millionaire.
No disrespect, but that is VERY less than likely.
At 18, you were relatively just a nobody who had just been fortunate enough to have been picked to feature in Violated.

Can you tell me how you were a millionaire at 18?
How?

Movie roles at the time cost about 20thousand
to 40thousand naira and that was for lead actors like Liz Benson, Teco Benson, Olu Jacobs and Regina Askia.
Genevieve began entering that class and all she got was envy.

But what if NwaAmaikpe is wrong and you truly were a millionaire at 18, shouldn't you be ashamed that at almost 50, no one or verrrrry few people outside your immediate family can say you lifted them to their peak?

How has your millions impacted the lives of the people you are trying to motivate with this fable?
How many scholarships are in your name?
Asides clout chasing, how many hospital bills in the South East and South South have been taken care of courtesy of you?

If you are a thrillionaire, you are an imaginary thrillionaire in your own pocket.
People like this should go and ask Akon what it means to be successful or rich. It's useless if it benefits no one but you.

While the ignorant hail you, people like myself in my insanest state will not recommend you as a distant role model to anyone.

10thTenthMan:
Wisdom. Though I do not consider it only a Nigerian Girl Problem. You will not understand the level of wisdom in your statement. Or Perhaps you do.

IF ONLY OUR YOUNG MEN SPENT THIER TIME CHASING THEIR BUSINESS, CAREERS, VOCATION/TRADE, PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT, etc. Transmutate all this sexual energy into another worthwhile venture. IF ONLY THEY REALIZE THE FOLLY IN THIS OPPOSITE SEXGIRLFRIEND/LOVER THING. DO NOT BE TOO ATTACHED TO ANY HUMAN BEING. Especially a woman who adds no value to aspects of your life like Business, Career, Vocation, Skill Acquisition, Self Development, and LIFES PURPOSE.

TO ME ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT LEADING TO MARRIAGE IS FOR SEXUAL PURPOSES. The so called WE ARE DATING. What the hell is DATING? Please you are simply enjoying each others sexuality. So, simply Enjoy it. Why spend time, effort, heartbreak, money, energy etc on such a useless relationship? Have the sex and quickly go back to focusing on yourself. Go back to chasing your life's purpose. Or you avoid it and fully focus.

PLEASE TO ANY LISTENING YOUNG GUN OUT THERE: Be not deceived:

1. Put yourself first. Yourself first and no one else.
2. Then focus on your dependents. Yes. Old/Aged Parents Relatives that cant work anymore.
3. Then focus on Young kids (relatives/kids of relatives) too young to cater for themselves.
4. Then think of the less priviledged in the society, etc.

IT IS AFTER ALL THESE ARE TAKEN CARE OF THAT YOU CAN ADD A WOMAN TO THE LIST of life's troubles.

And when you add a woman, be no deceived that she loves you for who you are. She loves you because of one selfish reason or another that suits her taste in a man. Just as you also see some selfish reasons that suit your taste in a woman. In the end, WE ARE USING EACH OTHER. SO BE WISE.

Toks2008:
toks u for find way wife am already nah.... Before smart niggars overtake you oh...

When i read posts like this i can't help but wonder if a lady i know is in this same Nigeria.

This lady is from a lowly background but since i knew her 6years ago she has never ever demanded 1kobo from me and when i give her money she will reject . I practically begged her to give me her account number and after several efforts she gave me and whenever i give her money, her dad will thank me...invariably, she lets her dad know whenever i give her anything so i began to wonder if this lady is in this same Nigeria.

You will never see her in any wig or very expensive attire yet she is a paragon of natural beauty.

She is a rare breed in fact owun mi ki n fe omo naa.

Mikester:
Success isn't strictly about being wealthy. Success is the achievement of one's life goals. If I have the goal of getting married and I eventually did with a good wife and wonderful children, I'm veritably successful. So I know what it means to be successful. Do you?

deepwater:
U ARE STILL A BABY



As a full grown adult female with kids, i was in attendance of the Daft Punk and Chemical Brothers concert at Charing Cross Road (Go figure out when that happened son )

like i said, YOU ARE STILL A BABY

Just so you know, the song - Get Lucky by Daft Punk ft. Pharrell Williams, Nile Rodgers has about half a billion views on Youtube!

If you never came across DAFT PUNK in your entire life, YOU ARE STILL A BABY....



A fool at 40 is a fool for ever!

obembet:
To me, I think Pep a failure because he can't give a team what they need. he only give them what they already have. Mourinho will give a team what they need and not what they have. that only make Jose Mourinho the best choice, Even Reneiry is better than Guardiola because he took underdogs 'Lecester city from nowhere to win a trophy for them.

mynd44

SavageResponse:
You need to first find out why a guy got her pregnant twice and still refused to marry her

Nazgul:
I can help you...

Get a male White cóck, white powder, 1 cane, rope, broom, sand, charcoal, beads and earthen pot.

Instructions...

Mix the powder and charcoal and rub it on your face, pour the sand on your head put the cóck and cane in the earthen pot and place it on your head, tie the rope round your body then hold the broom on your left hand.

Note you must be stark nàked.

Now with all these in place dance vigorously and sing this song while you head straight for the biggest market around your location. It must be in the mid night, preferably between 12-2am.

Locate the cross road of the market...then at the junction of the cross road. Dance and sing this song.

" I de go na so I come"
" I don come and I wan go"
" As I come I wan go"
" Make I go make I no come"
" I don taya na why I come"
" Make I no taya make I go"

Drop the earthen put there and flog the fowl to death with your cane, then use the broom to sweep the blood and feathers. You can keep money there as well then go home.

You'll be fine.

Sixfeetbelle:
I can't start somewhere again sef. There's no need.

Three weeks ago, they said they didn't want entitled leeches. I stopped being entitled. The leech part hard me to stop.

Two weeks ago, they said they don't want olosho with wide kini as wife. I stopped that one. It was hard but a girl gats to do what needs to be done.

Last week they said they wanted independent ladies who are working, I started that one. I'm not yet independent but since the two go hand in hand...

Now this week, they want ladies that have luxury car.

Ah ah. What is all this nah? I'm only one person ooh. Why are they stressing women like this? Are we the reason economy is like this? Why all this criteria?

TheRedpillguy:
You clearly don't understand sexual Value.

Redpillers understand that in other to be a high value male you need to take care of yourself, workout and be Rich. Top 10% of Men. Redpillers understand this. Its women that are delusional. So saying redpillers are broke and all that don't make sense. Yes some are not really their yet but they know that that's the aim. And no woman will distract them and that's a Win.
#TheRedpillguy

ivolt:
They should free those innocent boys. How can politicians steal billions and we want to condemn these boys who steal a few millions.If not for the government they wouldn't be into crime. In saner clime the government support the citizens and you can't find any criminals there. These boys are victims protesting against bad governance.

Adakintroy:
We all have our interest.

But aligning in such a way that a supposedly weak nature rule over you is not adviser.


The average strong woman is weak compare to the average strong man out there.

Some of my sister's are rich and ok at least by Nigerian standard. But some are not married. You need to see them in their quite time how dejected they can be.

I am also not married. But I laugh over it. My guy issult me like God knows what. I just accept and move on.

My point women are not as strong as they portray themselves to be. Most time is just a mental inductrination( we need to be strong). It's a difference from actually being strong. So no need summiting that way. Respect them but they are weaker than men in every sense. Mental, physical and spiritual.

Dapcity007:
Bloody Simp



Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.

austine4real:
Violent ke??


Come mushin olosha or oshodi oju irin


U go plenty of them wey don drink paraga bellefu

Bleached skin and tattoo

Toast any of them
Pay her bride's price and enjoy ur life