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Caaz:
Jeromestark come n chow better homemade meal from my kitchen ,not that your dirtee sacrifice

folake4u:
Lmao, I'm not shocked. That's the reason when they start their nonsense and tag me, I ignore most times.

The real high value men don't troll and insult women. This one na just local ekuke feeling funky.

Nairaland being a faceless forum go dey make you envy person wey you suppose dey pity.

your mouth no be here oh....what a punch line

KingLennon:
Why do girls endure the poverty of their parents but can't endure that of their own boyfriend?

A million dollar question

VeeVeeMyLuv:
if you don’t separate yourself from your distractions

your distractions will separate you from your goals and the life you want


your time and energy are leaking from three cracks

• social media
• overthinking
• meaningless relationships

Instead of productivity hacks, fix these cracks first

so powerful words

Jewessgratitud3:
Should a father even bathe the children in the first place? Ok, fine. I know sometimes they need to help the wifes out with some chores but how about choosing to do other things while the mother handles that?

We are all girls and I don't think my father ever bathe any of us. My Mom always had her sisters around to help out besides my dad was a very busy man in his active days. So by 6am hes out of the house. weekends are his resting days after doing some major house cleaning which is not all the time. Na jobless man dey siddon for house dey find pikin wey him go baf.

Please let the women handle bathing of children.. if any man is itching to bathe his children let him go for the boys or forget about it altogether. There are other important things to help out with Biko.

Modified
Let's stop pretending like there aren't cases of fathers sexually abusing their daughters. In as much as such dastardly act exist, it is important to guard against it and prevent anything that may likely encourage it.

I said what I said.

oftentimes in your quest to sounding smart you end up being foolish. At your age you still reason like a toddler. Perhaps you need to enroll in some adult classes an salvage what is left of your miserable life

harsysky:


Op is right sha but how about the cost of living being higher than one's earnings. The truth is there is some kinda money you earn, no matter how you plan yourself, you must end up in more debts. No remedy


Betting na another akawo to the bookies. No mattter how little or how much you spend, the bookies must gain. Betting is never an avenue to enrich anybody, except the bookies!

speak for yourself bro......the labour of the foolish wearieth every one of them, because he knoweth not how to go to the city. ( Eccl 10:15). Wetin u no know big pass you

Entanglement:
if your writing skills don carry you go abroad or make you get small money for your pocket contact me we go talk

At least my writing skills don make me build house! Get business sign cheque, do great investment and the rest!

Weti your written skills don do for you?

Audio business....audio investment, unah full nairaland. I don't time to exchange words or brag wealth with a dense person like you. From your write-up is easy to deduce how slow an disoriented you are. Casting aspertions on Nigerian women simply because you find your self with an unfortunate white woman( only an unfortunate person will find a low-life like you interesting) forgetting you have black female cousins an relatives. Your low self esteem is just overboard

Entanglement:
during schooling and since then she is been the most wonderful 💕 of my life 💞 🥰 she has visited naija women me twice now and always worry when I coming back to naija

She Is always worrying that maybe those useless piece of shit (naija women) will steal me away from her when traveling back to Nigeria
But I always assured her that "fear not! My seeds will not mix with those ungrateful self entitled piece of shiit

Guys on a serious note! Forget Nigeria women and date a foreigners! From my experience! Preferably Asian women! But you see America and British women! Those people are beyond damage but they're still pockets of good women with the exception of Naija women!

you should be more worried about your writing skills than naija women

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seanwilliam:
Omo your own worst o.
But me myself and I o, I no fit stop masturbation o ..
I take one shot per day

Two odds is it daily or weekends

JagabanB:
The only thing worthwhile here is the joy of fulfilment.
Nobody will give u extra respect simply because u are married.
Marriage doesn't lead to break through, the kind of woman u marry will determine whether u grow or deminish.
When u live a life so fulfilling that u leave ur footsteps well engraved in the sands of time, history and ur family will always remember you.
Today we talk about Mandela, do u know his sons?
Today we talk about Einstein, do u know his children?
We talk about Galileo, Aristotle, James Chadwick, Charles Darwin, Tafawa Balewa, Zik, Awolowo, Fela Kuti, Amina of Zaria, Mao Zedong, Roosevelt, Washington etc etc, do we talk about them because of their children or because they were married?

brilliant

Charsso77:
In as much as the question is for married people alone but i will still give my honest opinion about the issue because i once find myself in same scenario the reality is your mind is connected to her and there is a genuine interest and that is why the urge to fornicate with another lady might disappear in you

for now bah? It will come later when u eventually have her...

JuanDeDios:
Those employed sef. You see those low-paid people on 40-50-100k fixed salary a month? With a family? I sometimes wake up at night wondering how they're surviving.

CaveAdullam:
1. The biggest regret you'll have in life is not doing those things you wish to do.

Of course, doing them doesn't translate into success. But it will bother you on your deathbed. Had it been you tried and failed, you would have come up with better strategies or at least experience a new dimension.

2. Wasting time on frivolous adventure because it's the norm.

3. Pleasing people because you don't want to be written in their black book. This is due to a lack of self-esteem and confidence.

4. Trying to be in love or union with the wrong person because you fear being alone. Now older, they've grown to be your worst nightmare.

5. Not following your instincts. However, on this note, gut feelings don't always lead to the right place. In situations where logic trumps guts, follow the way of logic.

6. Not taking necessary risks because you were afraid of the outcome.

7. Always afraid to challenge those who intimidated you. You thought they would harm you if you stood up to them. Meanwhile, they are scared of those who rebuff their bullying and intimidation.

8. Tethering yourself to a slave-like job. The longer you stay in such a job, the faster your freedom and independence erode.

9. Being afraid to make a solid decision that you've weighed to be profitable long-term. But you were scared that nobody would support you, so, threw the decision away and allowed yourself to be led by dumb people.

10. Incompassionate when you need to be compassionate. Lenient when you needed to be strict.
Doing the opposite when you ought to have done the real thing.

If you have a change of heart and follow the long road of freedom, you'll have little to no regrets even though you didn't end up where you wanted to be.

Thanks.

this is very insightful an educative

airsaylongcome:
Why would you want to be drunk to be able to handle a corpse. The people I know, that worked in mortuaries are highly sober, sane and intelligent

the ones I know always posses these alcoholic countenance/ looks. Same with coffin makers an grave diggers....at a point I started believing that anything associated with the dead you need to take alcoholic inorder to clear your eye

airsaylongcome:
As innnnnnn! I don't get why people see it as a big deal. It may be scary at first, but after two or three cadavers, nothing to fear again

is it possible to work there without taking alcohol?

siofra:
That's a typo.

I'm not in my twenties or teens

damage control....that was no typo, you're still in your teen or early 20's reason you type an behave like a kid

koladata:
In my own opinion , its not like women ask for too much sex , it is the men that get tired of sleeping with the same women over and over again thus reducing their sexual desire towards their spouse. If a woman gets one satisfactory sex , it can last for days but once the man's sexual desire towards her is weak , she won't get that satisfactory sex and that's why she keeps asking for more.

Give that same man different woman every day, or rotate a few women for him for different days, he will do all of them without complaining. The solution is easy but Christianity doesn't allow it.

Note: A man can love his woman, but yet his sexual desire towards her is already weak. If you eat rice every day for one week , your interest in eating rice will reduce , it doesn't mean you don't love food anymore, but if you try eba or bread and beans, then go back to rice, your interest for rice will be restored.

I love this

placeofallure:
I'm a woman and I'll be candid with you. It's nonsensical if a woman wants you to apologise always even if she's the one at fault.

If she's somebody you want to share your future with, theń don't condone that rubbish. We take care that people we care for turn out well. If you envision her as your children's mum, you'd want to ensure her morality is top notch. You can still school her if she's willing to learn and change. My husband did that for me when we were still dating, he had more experience about life issues and he passed it down.

However, if she's not anything important to you, you know the code already. Let her have her way if you are still interested in shinning her Congo. That's not nice anyway, if you won't eat it, don't smell it. So, let her go.

I really love the second to your last statement

Samantha124:
But I don't hate you guys.

I'm here to learn about you guys so that I can stop having this fear of the unknown about Nigerian guys.

What will I gain from hating you guys?

ok then..... stick to your south African men with their protruding forehead

Samantha124:
Truth is growing up I was afraid of Nigerians because I only heard bad stories about them... I never wanted to come across a Nigerian.. .. I only started getting exposed to them in varsity.

Even now I'd hear some bad things that most of the Nigerian men do here in SA... Sure, not all of them do it bad things, but it sounds like majority of them do... And apparently some of them would also use SA ladies for rituals.

And sure, there's crime in SA committed by SA men, but I'd rather stick to the thungs I'm already familiar with than those that I don't know, not that I'm saying most SA men are thugs... But I can relate more with SA men.

There's also a major cultural difference... So I don't think you guys are my cup of tea... I can't imagine myself in the kitchen cooking your native food..

My family also have this dislike for Nigerian men, that's why I'm here on nairaland to learn about you guys.

Happy now?

you often speak ill an detest Nigerians (though nobody cares) yet you're in a Nigerian forum. You don't like what you hate, so I'll suggest you deactivate already an keep your hate to yourself

Persephone1:
Oh really? Now you categorizing the standard? So this one is first hand broke guy or second hand? You really do not have a point here. Her crime is chosing to be with someone she has feelings for?

I find it very sad that you can neglect a never do well who can't provide, protect and direct his family and still causes trouble but you clearly see a poor lady who is a victim of her feelings as the only one with issues. Do you hold same standard for men who choose boobs and bum over good virtues in women when their marriages go down the drain?

You are really not being fair right now!

sometimes in your quest to being smart, you end up being silly....the topic of this thread summarize the guy already, what else do you want him to say

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Weed
Alcohol
Betting sure odd

Bros sure odd dey
Na our greediness dey make us lose our bet
We dey always want use 100 naira collect more than two hundred thousand naira thereby making the ticket to be too long....the higest you should use 100 naira to collect is 20k down wards...me personally don first use 100 naira collect 17k and it was just four games

the highest you should use 100N to get is 200N bro.....this thing is called double money

yesloaded:
Maximum respect to those people wey still have urge to do things like this for present level wey this country dey

my brother, you learn to accept things you cannot change oh

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. So, any man who does something noble for a woman not to talk of something as small as buying shawarma must have sex with her, as what exactly?

You are dense, I swear.

that guy is sad fellow :

AndroidAI:
When you say Nigerians, you are referring to ALL. To avoid the fallacy of generalisation, you must include "most' 'majority' 'some' 'many' or 'few', or it becomes a generalisation. Please go and read about fallacies and stop arguing blindly.

you're the one arguing blindly, b'cos if you're truly learned as you claim you wouldn't going back an forth with this. "Nigerian men" is figurative

Entanglement:
... And know if a guy (my friend) every salary he receive at the end of the month, he will budget 50k for women (hook-up and the rest)
All advise to channel that money to helping others or channel it to something productive fall into deaf ears.
Later in the future this ediot will start ranting like the op and be saying men must suffer while women should not suffer

I guess that's where he derives his own happiness..... allow him to enjoy his life

GUNITGuy:
Says who? if you were to go by your logic go to your neighborhood and kill just one guy for being broke and let's start from there and see What will happen then you go know what a human being is ......

Some of you just say things without thinking...if a guy is broke how is it affecting you go ahead and live your so life and let him leave his....
.

his statement was figurative

saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
Mr guesser I need a job. I base in PH.
Can men just stop with the nonsense "what can you bring to the table?"
What women bring to the table outweighs what men bring.
Some of the things women bring to marriage are things money can't buy. Example; children.

you're becoming a nuisance...grow up already..

Googledotcom:
Quitters don't win, winners don't quit.

quote for the gamblers