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KarinaSlim:
Yes I am a Virgin.

this life is far deeper that than what you think dear...the holy book wasn't wrong when it said the race is not for the swift nor the battle for the strong. They are people who sleed around an yet doing very well in every aspect of their life's. Life is mystery. Some just don't suffer the consequences of their actions. Thrust me.

KarinaSlim:
I'm so proud of him.

He should be celebrated especially in a world where men of these days celebrate premarital sex, sleeping around and being "disvirgin" as a trophy to be won.

It takes a Man with the fear of God to keep himself.

Unlike what we have today with men of our days.

They no longer have the fear of God.

Some now brag about sleeping around. It's now a form of competition.

What most don't know is that there is a badluck that sits in your head when you always engage in premarital sex. It may not manifest now, but it will surely manifest.

When I say badluck, I don't mean not having money or being broke. No. After all u will say but there are stinkly rich people who sleep around. Yes...but if u check most of their lives, you will pray not to be like them.

The challenges they battle daily no be here. Even with their billions in their bank account.

This life is deeper than you think.

Some will marry even with their money but no woman stays. Divorce na their second name.

Is Dangote not divorced? Heard he divorced 4 times. Is Jeff Bezos not divorced? Are these men not Billionaires in dollars?

Let me not even go further. This life is deep.

May God bless this guy. May God bless his parents. May God bless his future wife. May God bless his children yet unborn.

May the anointing of God never run dry on his head.

Are you a virgin? An don't tell me you were raped

CondenseMilk:
Just catch the first rat, keep it in your house and go after the second rat.

sense no go Kee you

Jakumo:
It is only men that are instantly attracted to beautiful women. Most women are initially attracted NOT to a man's physical appearance, but to the way in which he speaks to the women, and jokes with them in those first few critical moments when they first meet. I therefore sincerely doubt the OP's story that women approach him primarily due to his perceived good looks, REGARDLESS of how well-built or handsome he may in fact be.

With all due respect, I must therefore reach for my bullshit whistle once again to alert the viewing public that someone is telling a tall story here that does not match up with the known psychology of female attractiveness to men.

detective jakumo, always reading btw the lines to uncover falsehood ....but I don't agree to that your submission that most women are not attracted to good looking guys

sisisioge:
And he thinks he has the intelligence and maturity to be someone's husband. No wonder marriages are having an all time hard time at surviving nowadays. See quality of husbands o

continue forming woke...this is Africa, u guys feel everything is black an white. The op is very wise, he needs to see the biological father an hear his own side of story an then make his decision. If things get over complicated then he cancels the wedding plan

Kobojunkie:
All I read is you equate love with sex and your wife denying you sex means she has no love for you. And you somehow think the blame should all be on her as far as all the problems you perceive in your marriage, no be so? **yawn***

sometimes u just need to stfu if you don't have anything reasonable to contribute. U must not commend on all thread. Btw, don't you have a life outside nairaland? You're always on all thread

isabi2lof:
We're going to judge everyone by their past and by their future, you guys wants to eat your cakes and have it back .

It's not only men that has future , we women too has future.

So you except me to forget a rapist past or a ritualist past , you'll must be joking.

I'm gonna judge you , by your past , present and future , don't just let me know about it cos definitely I will judge you harshly 🤣🤣🤣

your last line just got me laughing so hard , abeg take am easy oh

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes. It’s a dealbreaker and not amongst my value system.

is ok...all the best

vickydevoka:
Lol. I am still waiting for your wedding pics. I promise you 100k anytime you are ready for your wedding whether traditional, court or church wedding

seconded bro

UyaiIncomparabl:
I said I have never dated one, you are telling me something else. No matter how smart you think you are, I’ll catch you.

calm down, no be fight, is just a question. What if you realized this ur prince charming is hiddenly cheating on you, will you end things with him?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never been with a cheater, so I can’t answer this question.

don't be so shaw about this dear, he's just responsible enough not to smear it on your face. But what if you find out he cheats on you?

UyaiIncomparabl:
LMAO. . You been wan dey form good girl.

Jokes apart, it’s very orgasmic to have a man that understand your needs, is intuitive, knows when to do things without being asked , understands your pain points and provides optimally to the minutest, has no penchants for drama or its ilks, and is still committed. Tell me, Poco, what else can a woman ask for? Make I see woman wey wan snatch am na.

It’s why I resorted to leaving these dusty and young boys who do nothing but wail and complain everyday like a goat in labour. At least, the old ones won’t stress me. Had enough of these adolescents in adults bodies. The older the berry, the better. My fellow enjoyment woman, I sight you. 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

what if ur man does all these an still cheat...are u cool with it?

Toks2008:
Only a weak guy will lament over this.

Legends will understand.

Boss, abeg wetin be your own solution to this problem now...

AbdulAkpan:
The truth is, the guy has given you his ATM card to make the withdrawal. Go ahead and withdraw the exact amount. You really don't need to check his balance before making such withdrawal. Even if you do, and observe 60k balance, still withdraw your 50k and keep quiet.

In facts, checking his account balance puts you in a position where you should not be trusted again. Imagine you check his balance and see a balance of five million, how will you tell him? What will be your reaction? As a lady, you will come up net time with another request for a bigger amount believing he has the money.

Secondly, what if the ATM card he gave you to withdraw from is not his main account? What if he has millions in other accounts?

best reply so far...

KidDarkness:
Discipline. I no dey chop different soups at the same time

but can u eat one soup all ur life?

Kobojunkie:
So, in your own brain, people who choose to live and die single do so as punishment of some sort? Yikes!

your's will not be out of choice, but improvidence

Kobojunkie:
It should be discussed indeed. But how many men are ready for these discussions which will essentially end up stripping them of their godhood status in marriage? Because no sane woman would want to contribute and still remain a mere slave/househelp cum glorified sex tool/worker cum baby mama in her own marriage.

you've got a very dark mind. Your kind ought to die single....spit

DMerciful:
Even if your wife is contributing 40% of her salary, you're still the head of the family if you're not a simp.

Respect is not because you carry 100% of the financial responsibilities but because of your leadership and discipline!

how I so much love this your write up

Persephone1:
Thank you for the kind words. Lol @ not being a Mexican 😄

can I message you privately? Btw, what does "Persephone" means?

Persephone1:
He was playing too hard to get while I don't have time to waste

there is something about you that keeps drawing me closer. I'm no Mexican lol, but you have quite an interesting personality an your energy is just so pure. I'm really looking forward to meeting you someday if you don't mind...

Villa12:
What is the difference between someone who died as a virgin and the other died as a non virgin? Please what's the difference?

What's the difference between a rich man who died and a poor wretched man please?

They will all end up in six feet bro. Nothing special in this life

you've got a very weird an laid back mindset.....that of a defeatist. There's nothing as sweet an satisfying as success. living with the knowledge that you've given your all an made a name in whatever field of life you've chosen. Thrust me, the society an your children will forever immortalize you an your name will always make way for them far when ur gone. Never pray to die poor bro, cos you'll be taged a loser

mii4u:
I've bin telling dem but dey don't believe me, they will see who will laff last, let dem kip laffn for now.

Obidient don't be discouraged with anything u hear or see for now, but be rest assured that Peter Obi will be sworn in weda now or later. I had a dream that has bin giving me this confidence.

unah don start again

you eh

Tallesty1:

MOST is better, and even at that, the side chick is just the one that stood out.
He could still be cheating on the wife and side chick with other women without catching feelings for those ones

franchasofficia:
Great points.



Please vote Peter Obi and encourage your friends and family members to vote for him too, Peter Obi means well for all Nigerians.



Nigerians just need to try this man and see, I feel like crying that most Nigerians refused to reason outside tribal lines and ethnic hatred even after Igbos supported candidates from other Nigerian tribes; from Shagari (Hausa) to MKO (Yoruba) to Obasanjo (Yoruba) to Yaradua (Fulani) to Goodluck (Ijaw) to Atiku (Fulani).



Just this once, and Yorubas are tagging Obi Igbo agenda but Igbos have supported Yoruba candidates without shaming or attacking them.



God is watching us all.


Pls vote Peter Obi

pls apart of adeboye an oyedepo,who are these other men of God in the picture?

Maysdevices:
That mention was clear as day. The excuses differ but they’re never the same, what are still typing here? This makes absolutely no sense and if you actually believe these excuses from men, you are extremely gullible or extremely young. We are sexual objects to men.

Men cheat because they want and can, not because of any reason. They like women and one is almost never enough for them. A young man’s average dream is to have sex with as many women as he can, while a young woman’s is to fall in love with a Prince Charming. This is why you see even the most beautiful, sexiest women getting cheated on. It’s all in the HOLE AND EXPERIENCE. They are sexual beings that view relationships as a way to have sex freely, they just will never admit that. Some fall in love but most are just there for the sex and the sex gets boring when it’s just one hole and one type of body.

Her mention was literally as simple as ABC.


If you take that as a YES, what explanation do you have for the youth that cheat on their young nubile girlfriends even more than older men? Or the ones that cheat on their sexy wives with girls great look like trash?


All mature and older women know cheating is almost never about the woman.

I wonder for you sha.

u dey vex like this eh

OfeAchi:
I applaud your hubby for doing this daily ritual. Ladies of these days, especially the married ones appears to lose faith in their marriages.
About 76.57% of married ladies have tasted another dick outside of marriage. It is even worse in corporate settings. A lady would fix a hotel date with another male colleague. They would both copulate on their way back from work.
How do you detect such cheating wives? Simple, check their privates immediately they return from work. It usually appears dishevelled and out of sync.

the boss

Goodmarlian:
NOt just Nigeria its a black thing,blacks are naturally the lowest humans in evolutionary hierachy we are next to animals we can hardly get anything right in national and international politics show me a black nation that is a world power.
Ask yourself this question,if europe and Asia and the rest of the world gets wiped out in a nuclear war and Africa survives, can Africa be able to produce iphones,androids,cars,aeroplanes,ships etc i am sorry i think we will slide back to the stone ages and wear animal skins like our forefathers.

bro u wicked eh

Samantha123:
Thank Goodness I wasn't raised by religious parents.

Anyways, the only advice I can give you is that you should follow your heart.

Marry who you love and not who your mother loves because you may end up being unhappy for the rest of your life in the name of making mama happy.

I'm sure your grandparents also warned her about your father, but she still chose to be with him.

She will be upset at first, but she'll eventually come around because she's your mother and she loves you, but if you want to break up with the love of your life because of mama, then the ball is in your court... Good luck.

that stuff is too short, esp for a chubby girl

Berrityga:
The only thing you need bro is money. Girls smell money even from the way you chat. Secondly you no get vibes. Try asking her out to the movies or a sit out. Girls answer to people ready and willing to splash the cash. This weekend alone I carry three different girls right now the one that came this morning is cooking coconut rice with goat meat and I will eat that puszy till day break. I hardly even chat girls up. Is either let's go out or come to my place I chat about thats the guy with money vibes. Grow up go and hustle.

bruv u just finish that career

museveni:
This girl and Dembele too resemble

Yeah, an Eberechi Eze of crystal palace

jeromestarks:
Op, you're helping them spread the news na


Anyways, the only way you can have pure children is when you marry a virgin woman.

A woman who has been mounted and fvcked by many men will definitely give birth to illegitimate children who will open their legs for many men before marriage.

Ladies are a copy of their mothers.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

am a guy, but this your silly writeup is getting stale....grow up

Babysho:
You don make her day be that and she don ruin your day

As a young guy still in the street hustling wey you never gather ehn, make sure the girl is giving you some green light.

You can get that green light when that one girl in your class is always looking for your trouble or a girl stealing glances at you in church. The school classroom own is more likely tbh. Even if she's not too fine, still go for it! THEN AND ONLY THEN should you approach a lady for chyking.

When you have her, some fine girls that like make-believe will see you with a gf and think you're "that guy". That's how you climb the ladder bro.

I'm against chyking random girls when you no get money/car.

you're the only one so far that has made sense in this thread. Other so called experienced ones are making noise of "make money" before approaching a woman, like how many of them here have made the money?...if all of us were to wait to make money before approaching a woman, then semen for dey comot us for mouth lol , cos truth is, no be everybody go get money...