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Celebrities / Re: Award Presented To Nino Idibia At His Graduation (Photo) by realborn(m): 6:59pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
One of the reasons unwanted pregnancies should not be terminated. Ride on Nino, I am also proud of you! |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Woman Cured Of Rare Cancer In India by realborn(m): 6:48am On Jun 23, 2017 |
If you can sleep without pains and wake up hale and hearty daily, remain thankful and grateful to God. It is indeed a miracle. How do we abate the menace of incompetence in our professional institutions? Happy for you madam! |
Celebrities / Re: Miyonse Signs Contract With Maxima Media Group To Host Food Show (Photos) by realborn(m): 7:19pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Nma27:Great! |
Celebrities / Re: Miyonse Signs Contract With Maxima Media Group To Host Food Show (Photos) by realborn(m): 7:18pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Mavor: Na so oo. Was the first to bring Mo'Hits crew to Ife when it was just D'Banj and Don Jazzy. Great show, Amphi packed, huge debt (because show na N50), dude remained resilient. Lol Great guy 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Miyonse Signs Contract With Maxima Media Group To Host Food Show (Photos) by realborn(m): 7:14pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
tolarr: Errm Errm, yes, 99, lol 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Miyonse Signs Contract With Maxima Media Group To Host Food Show (Photos) by realborn(m): 12:14pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Maximaaaaaaa. Nice one Femi Ogundoro. Chai, "chase your dreams", Maxima (as we fondly call him) has been consistent with his vision for Maxima Productions for almost 2 decades, all the way from OAU Ife. Proud of you bruv. Congrats Miyonsea. 6 Likes |
Politics / Re: Evans Can Still Beat Kidnapping Charges In Court by realborn(m): 7:06am On Jun 20, 2017 |
@Op, The rhetorics, irony and figurative language is spot on. Looking at the precedence, this is a country of all sorts. 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Yoruba Speakers Only-please Who Knows The Artiste(s) in This Song by realborn(m): 7:56am On Jun 16, 2017 |
dacovajnr: Amana & Keke O boi, NL is the best source of serotonin, endorphins and dopamine combined 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Tiote's Corpse Arrives Ivory Coast, Received By Kolo Toure, Wilfried Bony, Kalou by realborn(m): 8:17pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Final price! Rip Tiote! |
Religion / Re: Man Jumps From MTN Mass To Test Magic Power VIDEO by realborn(m): 8:15pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
The maddest stunt ever. He paid the most stupid price all for so called magic. |
Family / Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by realborn(m): 6:48am On Jun 14, 2017 |
IamLucy: Really, not yet received... |
Politics / Re: THE Difference Between Kanu's TREASON CHARGE And Northern Youth's QUIT NOTICE? by realborn(m): 11:45pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
EasternWind: The travails of the former and the latter as "spoke the truth" by Easternwind 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: AY And Freda Francis’ Whatsapp Chat: Raunchy Version, Why Mabel Makun Was Angry by realborn(m): 8:59pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
"If no be say matter be as e be...." Social media, the new albatross of marriages 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Know That I Am Multi-millionaire by realborn(m): 10:35am On Jun 12, 2017 |
CuddleBear: PM ur acct details... 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: The Moving Train In Rivers State by realborn(m): 9:54pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Very interesting piece. I hope their online protagonists (throwing per second e-punch), who are struggling to survive the hard economic exigencies, note the summary of this political analysis - "few men who have successfully enriched themselves for almost 2 decades. They may continue for another 2 decades if they continue their theatrics to confuse their followers" What a country! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Bribery Scandal: Judge Involved In Dino Melaye's Tape Scandal, Makes Shocking Co by realborn(m): 7:11am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Sowore thrills me. |
Celebrities / Re: EFCC Funny Tweet On Stealing Gone Epic by realborn(m): 11:02pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
eezeribe: The EFCC handler is an amazing PR personality. Effective communication equally requires engaging your target audience. S/he does that aptly well. The FBI you referred to should learn from EFCC twitter handler. My 2 cents... 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by realborn(m): 12:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
@ istoctober, "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" - Romans 3 vs 23 "Let him without sin cast the first stone" - John 8 vs 7 You are a good woman. Our confessions should be to God. Your home may never remain the same if you confess to your husband. It will have more severe impact if the other party you cheated with is known to him. Why did I say you are a good woman? I sense genuine repentance in your posts on this subject but you are filled with a ton of fear in deference to the sanctity of your marital vows. You need to let go of this fear. God is not man. He forgave you from the day you sought forgiveness and decided not to revel in your sin. What your husband needs, is your unflinching and very genuine love. Shamefully, the present trend is for spouses to cheat without remorse. You have shown remorse and I think your husband is lucky. I reiterate that you are a good woman. I have failed severally, and I have always left an iota of strength to forgive my spouse if she ever finds herself in your condition. May be more difficult if the other person is a trusted known entity. Finally, if the guilt is unbearable, if you deeply think you need to confess, you may go ahead. Pray and brace up for the consequences. The Almighty will always mend broken hearts willing to be repaired. The end will be joy. David sinned by taking Bathsheba by force and plotting Uriah's death. He was found by God, he repented, suffered the consequences but eventually, same union produced a great contributor to the Bible, and the wisest king, Solomon. Stay happy and strong. Let go of your guilt. Be a good wife and love your husband unconditionally. The candid advice of a married man! *hugs* 3 Likes |
Sports / Re: The First Air-conditioned Stadium In Nigeria Is In Ebonyi (Photos) by realborn(m): 9:20am On May 29, 2017 |
Quite difficult to understand what the edifice is 14 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Nyesom Wike Fires Back At Rotimi Amaechi For Rejecting His Award by realborn(m): 5:54pm On May 27, 2017 |
The language of the rebuttal is very exciting. I like the author's choice of words. Both Amaechi and Wike are beneficiaries of a dysfunctional system. How they accuse each other is laughable. They were born of the same political womb and fed milk from the same rotten breast of corruption. They are both lousy and uncouth. |
Politics / Re: What I Told A Russian Today At The Office by realborn(m): 10:31pm On May 26, 2017 |
@OP, As you have eulogised the virtues of our dear Country, so shall your life be fruitful and filled with positive outcomes. Every country has its share of challenges. Ours may be quite compounded by our obdurate approach to growth, but does not mean we are without great deeds. In my few years of sojourn, I have noticed the following: 1. The arid regions of Paga, Ghana where kids also go through a struggle like our northern children. 2. The very mundane and stunted feel of Monrovia, reeks of Lagos of 1989. 3. The uncontrolled drive for prostitution in Johannesburg by citizens and migrants from neighbouring countries. 4. The filth of Deira in Dubai 5. Several homeless people, aged and young, sleeping on cold Church foyer slabs in Strasbourg, France. 6. A beggar who tricked me and took 50 Euros and ran away, while I intended to part with 10 Euros in Vienna, Austria. 7. A host of hostilities against immigrants and a gale of resident beggars in Milan, Italy. Visit Piazza Del Duomo. 8. Hard drugs and sex sold on the street of Budapest, Hungary. Stroll by the Sofitel at 10pm to get shocked. Also public walls get lined with a compendium of dirty slogans. 9. The struggles in Bratislava, Slovakia for some residents to make ends meet 10. Foshan District (China) factories, the welfare conditions and the toil of labour workers. The list can go on and on for experiences of others all over the world. We must continue to appreciate and launder our good traits, especially to foreigners. This is the only way to earn a modicum of respect. The global media and few bad Nigerian citizens have painted us with a paint of dirt for oo long. The cleansing starts with each of us. Kudos! 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: GEJ Urges The Implementation Nat"l Conference Report - Vanguard by realborn(m): 10:26am On May 25, 2017 |
I was quite disappointed at GEJ for not making any efforts prior to his exit, to implement the recommendations of the 2014 National Conference. That is presently belated. Government is a continuum, there is absolutely no reason why Buhari's administration should not revisit the recommendations. The scorecard is still very low for Buhari's administration with all the prevailing economic metrics. |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 10:05pm On May 24, 2017 |
cooldood: Subject to further intricate details, I think the world feels different about Lagos. I think the concessionaire erred and did not fulfil their own obligations as required. I think a new concessionaire will emerge. I think this new concessionaire will focus better. If my thoughts and assumptions are wrong, I absolutely agree that your concerns are very valid. Do have a splendid night rest. |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 5:26pm On May 24, 2017 |
cooldood: I think otherwise though. I think the international community will for the first time notice that a sub-unit in Nigeria is focused and willing to make progress. For years, investors sign all sort with us but notice that they can act otherwise without any penalties. The so called investors thereafter deploy ways to benefit or fleece our resources on the heels of the influence gained. In this instance, 4th Mainland Bridge is a flagship project that a plethora of investors will be willing to participate in. Mr Akinsanya confirmed this. I reiterate that it sends signals to all and sundry that the LASG is simply looking for serious partners. Irrespective of the pre-qualification process or due diligence carried out, any party to an agreement can fail. This is why determination clauses and remedies are included in all agreements or contracts between different parties. A good (not compromised) manager knows when to implement or enact such clauses. My final 2 cents on the subject.. |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 2:21pm On May 24, 2017 |
cooldood: You are very reprobate and have a very bad approach to your feedbacks. You should learn to address or react to the opinion of others on a faceless forum without ad hominem attacks. Back to the subject, my comments: 1. I painstakingly explained to you the difference between an MoU and a proper contract. I am quite convinced that there are prerequisite conditions ahead of entering into a full contract. We are supposedly not privy to the letters of the MoU, hence we cannot lampoon the LASG for exercising her rights under the MoU. It is possible that both parties agreed to time-bound milestones as basis for determination. Why not wait for the concessionaire to contest or challenge the termination before blaming the LASG? Should LASG wait endlessly for an erring concessionaire because resources have been expended? Are you privy to the concessionaire's decision? How sure are you that the concessionaire did not opt to discontinue the process on further careful examination, irrespective of the efforts and resources expended? How sure are you that LASG did not give relevant notices ahead of the determination? 2. Kindly refer to item 4 of my penultimate post. I clearly stated "graft" as one of the key reasons why Africa is behind. Graft means political corruption. You can gain further understanding if you research on "graft(politics)". 3. Yes, delay by a party to an agreement is a very valid "relevant event" on any construction projects. Presently, I have a project where it will cost the Employer N15m/week or part thereof as loss and expense to the Contractor. And in similar vein, the Contractor will pay 0.25%/week or part thereof (approximately N12m) as Liquidated and Ascertained Damages to the Employer for time related delays. It is good to share opinions. It is very wrong to demean others. |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 12:53pm On May 24, 2017 |
Montaque: I agree to a great extent. Sometimes, irrespective of the prequalification process, parties do fail. The essence of my positive reaction is because the LASG monitored the timelines. Quite unprecedented. It gives a somewhat reassurance that the concessionaire may have not financially induced the decision leading to the selection in May 2016. It also reflects that the government was free to enact her right to determine the agreement too. |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 12:48pm On May 24, 2017 |
greenpasture: Thanks for the very well said comments. They signed an MoU, a less binding agreement. I am glad this was monitored and action taken as soon as the concessionaire breached. Moving forward, it is strongly advised that the conditions for failure by the next comsidered concessionaire should be more stringent, especially if the expression of interest is high. Excerpt of Wikipedia's definition of MoU: "A memorandum of understanding (MoU) describes an agreement between two (bilateral) or more (multilateral) parties. It expresses a convergence of will between the parties, indicating an intended common line of action. It is often used in cases where parties either do not imply a legal commitment or in situations where the parties cannot create a legally enforceable agreement. It is a more formal alternative to a gentlemen's agreement." |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 12:25pm On May 24, 2017 |
cooldood: Mr Cooldood, I would have disregarded a response to your diatribe or tirade, but hey, someone could have been badly informed by your charade of limited understanding. My few comments: 1. Your opening remark "You do not know what you are saying..." is inapt. 2. Yes, a party to an agreement or contract can enact appropriate/apposite clauses to determine such agreement or contract. 3. Enacting a right under the relevant termination or determination clauses does not necessarily lead to a dispute requiring a resolution. Not at all. If the terminating party establishes a breach and gives appropriate notices or executes the determination clauses in accordance with the pre-agreed procedures, there shall be no dispute, and inadvertently, no dispute resolution. 4. Contrary to your assertion, Africa is way behind because of concessionaires or supposed partners who do not meet their obligations, and demand of graft by political representatives at all stages leading to deficient political will/integrity to call such partner to order. 5. The MoU often times is not the final contract. It is usually necessary to emphasize to eachother, willingness to proceed with the intended cause/intent for commencement of pre-agreef activities/deliverables ahead of entering into a proper contract. To this end, it is much easier to determine or terminate MoUs in the event of a breach. Kindly read the definition of MoU as culled from Wikipedia's definition: "A memorandum of understanding (MoU) describes an agreement between two (bilateral) or more (multilateral) parties. It expresses a convergence of will between the parties, indicating an intended common line of action. It is often used in cases where parties either do not imply a legal commitment or in situations where the parties cannot create a legally enforceable agreement. It is a more formal alternative to a gentlemen's agreement." 6. Mr. Akinsanya, confirmed the cause of termination, "slow pace...". This would have been a relevant event defined in the MoU. The fact that the timelines were monitored by LASG is very commendable. 7. Mr. Akinsanya confirmed that the interest by other investors from South Korea, Europe and USA is very high. The prompt action against this concessionaire will send the right message to others that the LASG is a refined, astute and informed Nigerian entity. 8. Irrespective of how stringent the prequalification process is, either party to an agreement/contract can fail. What is pertinent, is to have the appropriate remedies to address any breach. A proper due diligence at the prequalification stage only reduces the risk of the probability of a failure/breach but does not eliminate it. 9. Dispute resolution methods are pre-agreed and allowed for in such agreements/contracts for either party to seek redress when such party feels the other party has wrongly interpreted the clauses or when both parties cannot reach an amicable resolve on a key contractual issue, e.g financial claims or extension of time. Enjoi the rest of the day! |
Politics / Re: Ambode Cancels N844b Lagos 4th Mainland Bridge, Terminates concessionaire by realborn(m): 4:17am On May 23, 2017 |
A visionary and very proactive government. Signed May 25, 2016, terminated May 22, 2017. Enacting timely and promptly, the termination/determination clause on delays by the concessionaire. If more public entities can be run like real business outfits without forgetting the mandatory social services, the results will be very far reaching. Today, Dubai launched a Robot Police Service. Soon, Lagos may lead a landmark development achievement in West Africa (at the least), at this pace. Wishing Ambode and his team greater direction in the choice of a new suitable concessionaire. 250 Likes 17 Shares |
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