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 Politics › Re: Nlanders List Your 5. Top Nigerian Criminals Of Your Choice + Reasons. by realdemi(f): 4:03pm On Nov 26, 2007 |
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| Politics › Re: Nlanders List Your 5. Top Nigerian Criminals Of Your Choice + Reasons. by realdemi(f): 11:08am On Nov 26, 2007 |
@ow11, faketan,D-Chair, Maxidoe I just dey your side o. You guys culdnt say it better. To further stress the integrity of Nigerians (not every1 is corrupt and would do EENYTHING FOR MONEY), I happen to be related 'somehow' to one of these people who are in question here (u guys have already mentioned his name too many times amongst the 5 ). I have distanced my self from that vicinity cos I am not pleased with his actions, present and past. Please get it that I do have easy access since i'm kind of family. However, I wouldn't want to receive favors from such quarters and definitely don't want to be a bootlicker.Gosh! HOW AWFUL!  . I couldnt live with ma conscience. Nigeria is too PRECIOUS to me. ALL 4 NIGERIA STAND UP. We can make it in Righteousness. @amaikama true talk! |
| Literature › Re: Which Novels Can You Read Over And Over Like The First Time? by realdemi(f): 4:37pm On Nov 23, 2007 |
doyin13:LOL , We've got a copy at home. But pity u're oceans away from my side of the world. @poster Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers, Pride and Prejudice (Forgot the author)and Little Women by Amy Scott. Can't get enuff of 'em,,,,, |
| Phones › Re: Watch DSTV Via MTN 3G Platform by realdemi(f): 2:57pm On Nov 23, 2007 |
ayusman16:Excuse me ?? who is this guy? does he live in Nigeria? |
| Jokes Etc › Re: A Civilized Way Of Dumping A Girl by realdemi(f): 2:35pm On Nov 23, 2007 |
ndubest:LoL @saucekid and gang. kip it coming u're doing great.  make e no splash reach us sha o! |
| Family › Re: Are You The First Born In Your Family? by realdemi(f): 5:03pm On Nov 20, 2007 |
@Kayhell My dear, jkpretty just told u the reason why your seniors seem to have less I.Q. than yourself. Juniors ALWAYS ALWAYS learn from the mistakes of the ones ahead of them. Some younger ones like yourself are so smart from the 1st day they reach planet earth that they begin to learn from day1 and often, it's from their siblings. First borns have no one to look up to, no example to follow except their parents who are not exactly in their age group. I'm a first born so i know what I'm saying and funny, I've studied First borns for a while now. Lucky though, my parents don't expect too much from me. But I know responsibility is another way of spelling first born. |
| TV/Movies › Re: NBC Bans Airing Of Big Brother Africa (BBA) In Nigeria! by realdemi(f): 4:15pm On Nov 20, 2007 |
RIGHT! RIGHT!! RIGHT!!! When are we going to REEEALLY know our right from our left? It's good to go back to the Stone Ages where we make the Privates public and Nubian beauties walk the street in their Birthday suits but I'm almost (almost o) sure that even in that crude state, copulation was done hiddenly. I'm with Kobojunkie on all this, if any station wishes to broadcast pornography, they should have a special license to it and let those who want to watch it do so. Big Brother Africa had no aim whatsoever and if what went down was not Porn plus more,texapete, what was it?? and the producers were damn smart to have made the inmates, sorry, roommates to sign that they would not be sued, no matter what happened in the 89 days' period. That's your Right at work, innit? Senators might have hidden agenda or not but whatever, Right is being propagated. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Covenant Christian Church's Singles Summitt by realdemi(f): 5:24pm On Nov 19, 2007 |
True, sis. I made it against odds. I was truly blessed! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Please I Need Your Help (spiritual Problem) by realdemi(f): 5:12pm On Nov 19, 2007 |
@Horus You URGENTLY need the touch of God. Your suggestion is horrific (as in Horus?) |
| Culture › Re: Which Big Brother Lady Did Africa Proud? by realdemi(f): 2:20pm On Nov 19, 2007 |
Some doing proud you've got there!! BBA has no relevance of any sort to Africa and its progress. It was outright Pornography Simple!!! |
| Literature › Re: Beer Palour Palavar! by realdemi(f): 2:32pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
| Abeg, no kill me o. My ribs are cracking here. this is simply phantagoristimically koool  More!More!!More!!! |
| Literature › Re: My Own Book Review, Please Read! by realdemi(f): 2:21pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
Slitty, you were a bit too sensually graphic for my 'personal' liking. It seems like a Journal because you were constantly talking to yourself, forward and back. Your diction is good but you mixed up your tenses in some parts. Your opening lines particularly seem weak in this respect. Check this out: I [s][/s]could remember that day like it just happened (yesterday), but no, that was about two years ago. I had just gotten a new job that took me away from home and there I was in the bedroom of the apartment that the Corporation had given me. I worked as a statistical analyst in geography, boring as it might sem to you, I enjoyed the work. I was good at it especially since I did a lot of travelling. The apartment was a two-bedroom with everything, and u can go on! It's a good work on the whole cos you flowed naturally and you were quite comprehensive and comprehensible. Keep it up! Is that the end of the story? |
| Family › Re: I Impregnanted My Best Friend's Only Daughter by realdemi(f): 3:02pm On Oct 24, 2007 |
@Echidime God has nothing to do with this. The man open im eye do the thing. Not once, not twice but persistently. He was enjoying the ting, abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. God has no purpose for irresponsibility. |
| Family › Re: I Impregnanted My Best Friend's Only Daughter by realdemi(f): 2:50pm On Oct 24, 2007 |
Na curse? Dem dey follow u from home o. dem winchy stuff and all.  Pray to God it's a Telenovela in the making and not true. |
| Family › Re: Eating Customs by realdemi(f): 1:35pm On Oct 24, 2007 |
@vigasimple I love you. U are a man after my heart. U've said it all! |
| Family › Re: What Do I Do With This Pregnancy? by realdemi(f): 1:28pm On Oct 24, 2007 |
She would forever live to regret that action if she aborts the baby. 1. She is rightfully and lawfully married 2. HER own Husbaband impregnated her 3. Her husband is willing to take on the baby 4. The baby is God's gift to her hence,, 5. She has no right taking the life of another (it's called MURDER) whether she feels like it is not the issue 6. The baby is an additional blessing to her 25th Anniversary (They have been very fruitful , 6, no 7 children) 7. As long as the pregnancy poses no risk to her life, and she's certified fit by doctors, no hassle My mother gave birth to our last born at age 42 and I was just entering the University then. He was unexpected as well but believe it or not, He is about the brightest in the family. So smart and intelligent. He's a genius! She should not care what people will say. |
| Nairaland General › Re: It's A Pleasure To Be A Member Of This Forum. My Love Of Nigeria From The USA by realdemi(f): 10:21am On Oct 24, 2007 |
Nikolai, you are very much welcome on board, It's good to know some one loves who's not Nigerian. You are free to come to Nigeria as soon as you can. It's a jolly good place!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Literature › Re: Talk About Books You've Read, Authors you love e.t.c. by realdemi(f): 3:37pm On Oct 23, 2007 |
@adaobee U are my gal. Redeeming Love is a CLASSIC! All-time, classic @poster I love Frank Peretti, Francine Rivers and John Grisham (The Broker is darn goood). Fast Forward by Judy Mercer is cool too. |
| Food › Re: Mr Biggs' Fried Rice by realdemi(f): 12:05pm On Oct 23, 2007 |
Sweet sensations and Tasty fried Chicken are great. And Chicken is simply beautiful at Chicken Republic 1 Like |
| Food › Re: Mr Biggs' Fried Rice by realdemi(f): 12:01pm On Oct 23, 2007 |
Mr. Biggs doesn't make it for any thing. I don't know any of their food or pasteries that would make me stop by. gbengeoou:I concur |
| TV/Movies › Re: The Second Chance: A Telenovela by realdemi(f): 2:22pm On Oct 18, 2007 |
@ Poster I stopped watching Telenovelas since Secrets of the Sands(that was one of the best ever aired) but recently, I 'stumbled' on Second Chance and i can tell you, it's not what they ship down to us everyday from the Americas. It beats every other. the story line is unique and unpredictable. |
| Politics › Re: House Of Reps Member Slumps And Dies In Etteh Must Go Brawl by realdemi(f): 1:20pm On Oct 18, 2007 |
@Olowe2007 and Tawa-Temi True talk guys @Poster God is fighting the battle HImself. Anyone that will be on the side of injustice should be ready for the consequences. The late Honourable should serve as a warning to anyone that will not let Nigeria rest. Even Madam Speaker should be careful or she might be the next to drop dead. ;DThe cries of the massses have reached the ears of God Almighty and He will not be silent. Let 'She' step aside for the case to be judged. We know the Powers that be are behind her that's y she's so eve-ant . and if she goes down, @RuDdie It's nothing chauvinistic. Matters might not have aggravated to this extent if she and her party had handled things differently. It's true that not all or even any of the reps might have the moral justification to cast the first stone but whenever anyone is caught, he/she should not be let off the hook. Like we dey talk am for Naija, Na who dem catch be thief. so let it be!! She has almost convinced us that she is guilty of a case that is not yet judged.If she isn't afraid of anything(like skeletons), let her allow us check the wardrobes. |
| Education › Re: Bad Things You Did In Secondary School? by realdemi(f): 2:43pm On Sep 21, 2007 |
@poster was in fggc, oyo. I was a good girl most of the time. but i remember avoiding Morning assembly especially in S.S3. but there was this day I got caught with some classmates. we ran to d bush in the bid to avoid getting caught not knowing that d whole area had been surrounded. Later after getting caught and serving our punishments, my fellow culprits said i ran like a cheetah, and I used to be so gentle in class  and i dint even know i culd run that fast On another occassion, i was very hungry. In the dormitory, i stumbled upon a bottle of "Tree Top" thinking it was orange juice that was in it, I quickly took a sip only to find out dat it was One day, a junior gal slept beside me and peed on the bed but in the middle of the nite, she woke up and left me to sleep alone on the bed to go and sleep somewhere else. When we woke up in d morn, every kept saying I was the one dat bedwetted. no matter what i said and d silly girl was there!! D joke was all on me, 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Is It Right To Go Out With Your Close Friend? by realdemi(f): 12:55pm On Sep 21, 2007 |
@aisha2 real sorry about dat. don't worry, u'll heal with tym. Nothing is truly as bad as it seems when it 1st happened. It all fizzles with time. U made a GREAT decision. No body is gong to live with him but u when u guys get married. U reserve d sole choice to choose d best for u. And sista, u deserve the best. If u can't handle his flaws (womanizing) NOW,u never will be able to. Dat's authentic. Guys rarely change. All parties involved will come round. Just keep ur head upa nd be nice to them, @ poster u've got 2 study which close friend is probable prospective and which is not. I've got some cloose friends dat i wuld never date becos I know we will fight till 1 of us breaks his or her neck ;Dbut we are still quite close. I've understood their weaknesses and strengths and mine as well so I know we can't marry but I love dem all d same.  |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Is It Right To Go Out With Your Close Friend? by realdemi(f): 3:03pm On Sep 18, 2007 |
@aisha2 what's da price u are still paying? @ poster I won't think of dating someone that was never a friend. ANYMORE!!! There's a point u get to in a platonic relationship, u'll begin think u both can take it to another level, if the feeling is mutual and u guys are sincere with each other., you might just have found your soul mate! friendship IS one of the best basis for a relationship. |
| Romance › Re: Heartbroken And Need Advice by realdemi(f): 2:28pm On Sep 18, 2007 |
@kaydkay kaydkay:Bro, we have to keep saying it like it's easy so that poster can realize that it's possible because when one is (blindly)in love, as the case is here, it's always easier to wish away the hurt than face the hurt and damn the consequences. It's hard but it is possible.IMPOSSIBILITY ONLY EXISTS in the dictionary of fools. @ Poster Many times, when u find a lady dying over a guy even when it seems or it's obvious the guy doesn't give a hoot about what happens to her, there are three basic reasons for such: 1. She doesn't value herself enough to expect being treated with dignity and respect that is due to her as a human being and as a WOMAN. she has a low self esteem. She will take any s***t from any man. Give your self value. U are God's WONDER- FULL creation. Only the best deserve u. 2. She thinks there is no guy as good as this one. Where am I going to get a guy as good as this guy?. A lie from the pit of HELL!!! 3. I have gone too far with this guy, there's no turning back. Xcuse me?? In any relationship, mutual respect is core. Sista, that guy has nothing to do with ur life. 5 years down the line, when u bump into him, u'll be glad u took leave of him. Trust me, i speak from experience. I've gone through it and i'm all the better for it today. Bidy:LOL |
| Music/Radio › Re: Maltina Dance Hall by realdemi(f): 2:27pm On Sep 17, 2007 |
@poster The concept is okay. Truth is we all have different passions in life. And for some people, it's DANCE so why not help them find fulfillment like every other reality tries to do as in BBA, GUS for Acting, Modelling, Enterpreneurship (Bank PHB's Intern) etc. Everybody wants to shine as a star especially through their passions. Maltina does not neccessarily have to donate to charity. I'm sure they do that already in some form or the other. However, the judges are sooooooooo partial. I guess everybody knows that . Watched about 2/3 episodes and i couldnt help but notice that once they favored a particular person, it was hard to let go.Favouritism ?? no matter what any other person did.And WHO are the judges?? Never seen or heard of 'em b4 now. guess a judge should be a 'pro' of some sort. innit? Think the presenter is okay, sha! |
| Romance › Re: My Ex Wants To Have Lunch And A Talk! by realdemi(f): 2:48pm On Sep 13, 2007 |
Sweetheart, the key here is 'residual feelings'. U've still got it. and u've got to face it. Your ex knows that and most likely he knows you very well too. Honey, he has nothing to tell u after 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 calendar months (not days!!!!!!!!), other than 'Let's begin again'. If he's the humble type, he'll add 'Forgive me' (some men can be soooo proud they want u to think it's a priviledge dating them). After 9 solid months of silence, and a cold exit  It's up to you to decide if u want to stay with your present guy or go back to the other guy. Don't get too emotional, whatever u do. emotions are always on the motion/ on the move, so u've got know what u want in life and get it, without sentiments. If u aren't considering taking him back, DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT see him for any reason whatsoever. Let him tell u the inferno that is bringing down his house over the phone. Your help:call the fire service over the phone to put out the fire at his end or have u now become a fire fighter? Girl, wise up!! If he needs financial help, if u feel generous enough send him money by all means.Thank God for ebanking. whatever it is if u are not thinking of going back to him, he should speak with u on phone.chikena! People must always remember this, If u have to shut the door, please shut it gently. U never can tell if u have to pass through that door again. Relationships don't work out all the time but doesn't mean we should become enemies. @leighcon If he had thot of her feelings and wellbeing he would have extended his arm of friendship in those 9 silent months.If u cross some bridges, u will not like where u find urself afterwards. @romeo don't be so hard on poster. her emotions are involved. |
| Romance › Re: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by realdemi(f): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2007 |
@ Olanajim and babygirl I love u guys! Took the words right out of my mouth. Poster should just follow what these two elders have prescribed and with time, her malady would be cured. @ Poster Look up and live.U've got just 1 life to live.Live it well. Take God as your greatest confidante cos he never lets down. KEEP PRAYING. u could never do that too much. It's just a test, u will pass. |
| Romance › Re: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by realdemi(f): 5:21pm On Sep 12, 2007 |
@charlione and kumbalo U are guys after my heart. @ Poster Now, i get the picture. This is real yukky (makes face of disgust!!!). what's wit the vag*** and all. this is emotionally traumatic. she should feel really really bad  cos i would. NO ONE should be allowed to go through such an experience especially women cos we are more emotional.A loving confrontaion should start, not do(note my choice of words) the work. It's hard to change anybody's mind especially when they think they are saving the world as in the hubby pities ex becos of smelly vag*** linapeace:Still she needs patience and perseverance. This poster might just be PASSING THROUGH, it doesn't call for divorce. It might just be a phase thath needs just the right wisdom to successfully get to the other side. I know it might be real painful now but if she holds on she will smile again. She certainly needs LOADS of prayers, the next key thing to do. Every marriage has its upheavals every now and then and statistics say its always critical inthe first 5years then 10. after that, ceteris paribus they sail through. I rest my case for now. |
