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pocohantas:
Hahahahahahahahaha.

Stop it!!!

I would love to know how this investigation goes. Maybe his mother kept her eggs in a lab or something.

How old are you naw, are old are you naw poco lee, how old are you now

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
I am talking scientific irrefutable biology while you are talking subjective cultural phenomena that are different from place to place and even person to person. Just because you know one woman who abandoned her children without caring if they lived or died, we know 99.999999999% of women are not like that

Hello , you are on Nairaland and even the topic is geographical enough.

Science deals with fact, and fact is a collection of samples that align, My examples are still there for you to go back n read again ... Don't twist my words

Raphsays:
the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.

I Find your response amusing, gud but lets review it one by one

What if the gurl was insistent on her choice, judging from experience, ladies love to compete, maybe one of her friend bought peruvian she saw it and the urge to have it overwhelms her ... you think a lesser option will fix that

Some gurlz don't do cheaper, infact most naija babes want to slay on big level ... why do you think the rate of runz & aristo keeps rising ... what if he offered her something cheap and nice but she is insistent .speaking for men babes can be very unreasonable sometimes esp. when she wants to compete/slay


When you realize what you carry is above your "Capacity" drop it is right move ... if he didnt meet the gurl a virgin yet he dated her another guy will pick the lady up ... that thing no get meter

Nobody smiles at billing, nobody wakes up to pray for billing, everyone just try to live up to there responsibility. Guys shirk guyz tew if billing set in, not only gurlz are on the recieving end.

Good to know you are marriage, If you jam some gurlz ehn you go relate better

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Can't say I blame you if you almost shed tears - it is so unfair. As for your examples, they are anecdotal. Cases abound of elderly mothers abandoned, maltreated, or even killed by their children, and of fathers revered

Had to go check the meaning of anecdotal, you are wrong cos from a hoilistic view, my Observation/examples are what relateable

Almost all grown up can relate with my experience, the numbers of mothers day in a year is evidence enough, almost all musician have songs to celebrate there mothers

Cases of mothers abuse is immaterial to these discussion, Mothers reaps more dividend from children than fathers, we don't need to argue its Reality

LoveJesus87:
u said u got up from the bed, which means u have been having sex with her, using her.
Now that u have called it quit, who do u expect to take up the used and valueless product, ehn?
Don't have sex yet until u marry, u people will not hear. After using yourselves worn out, then u see u are not compatible, then u break up and d cursed lady will be looking for an innocent man to take up d damaged goods and even giving attitude on top. Chai this life ehn
May God guide me in choosing a life partner because out there is polluted and over congested with used damaged products

what makes you conclude she met the gurl a virgin, if he could date her 'used" another person will take her in "Used" thats life

One man's poison is another man food

Raphsays:
I love this response.
It is most likely that this is not the first thing
that she has asked from her ex that he's denied her.

Patience and good communication was key here but
the guy didn't quite get it here.

With hindsight, he must have been looking for one silly
excuse to end the relationship.

And on a 2nd thought have you considered the possibility the guy can't afford that wig or you think guyz just enjoy denying there partners items they can afford

I laugh whenever i see netizens reminisce sit her down nd have a communication, sounds reasonable BUT what gives you the impression he asnt done that already

Humans don't just wake up and get fed up, there is always a build up and we all have gauge, patience with a materialistic gurl is a waste of time she will serve you break the day she meet one yahoo boy or rich man that can pay premium subscription

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Well, we get pregnant, carry the baby in our bodies for 9 months ((men can disappear right after sex, we don't have that option)), we go through great pain giving birth to the baby and sometimes actually lose our lives, the birth changes our bodies forever some developing leaky bladder and such, ireversible weight-gain etc, post partum depression which have lead some to suicide, etc. Meanwhile ALL the man has done to this point is enjoy sex and cum!
Once the baby is born, we've already known her for 9 months, plus all we went through to produce the baby, all that tie us to him beyond love. Plus we have to breastfeed her, etc- we can't walk away from the baby. But a man can easily walk away and go impregnate another woman (we can't get pregnant again for some time)
Did you think of any of these??

I almost shed tears, these is tew much But lemme ask at the end who enjoys the children love & wealth most, my mother as being getting gift from me even b4 i enter university

My friends mom is busy travelling from her sons house to her daughter house to be with her grand children ... these december i saw her can't even recognise her cos enjoyment is written all over her

But papa dey house, we went to check on him he was busy struggling in the kitchen to arrange akpwu & warm refrigerated oha soup ... sm


No role is easy, spreading legs & birthing a child are natural course even the most lazy woman will birth a child

Proserpina:
Kayperry let it be known that I don't like your Nl person and would pay any amount to ensure I don't get a mention from you.

Trying to be friendly or not please keep your opinion to yourself. You irritate me.... If given 1 you will go million, I don't want your friendliness.

Have some self respect please.

Its tew early to be drunk, check the name again before you pay

Proserpina:
Cc

Seun

give dem 10cm and they will jump a yard

Proserpina:
Cc

Seun

a nii obaje, you can't even add Mr or Oga, is he your mate

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

You earnestly think that guy got fed up at the 1st occurence, or they've not being having conversations b4 he gives up




i thot fed up is a build up

TheFinesseKid:
So las last na female mode this guy give the job? Seun don Bleep up. No wahala. Who did he hire even?

Tbh, he didnt bleep before now people have always cried give women a chance, even shina peter use am sing

today women are given Humanitarian post and we see how they changed the world, just Men are Bad betta dey look seún

ObalendeCMS:
Since a female has been chosen to be in charge of nairaland, I'll suggest that the "Real Men" avoid any thread other than the redpill thread.

Don't bother to give any advice to simps that brings his problem to the romance section.

Death to all irredeemable simps!

You don't have to wish death on anybody over their choice of life, every man is liable for his action so no worries

SweetBuns:
All this epistle and story simply because Seun decided to nominate a female supermod

Keep wailing

And Lmao @ nobody ever said women deserved to be raped on this forum

Better not fool yourselves, that women pressure get to seun and he bows to control doesnt change anything .. he is just one Man

if he likes let him transfer ownership of NL to a woman, it doesnt negate the fact that Men are the custodians of the world and will live up to it

In as much as a problem is left untreated, nothing will change, we will keep going round in circles change mods 100times

ugonwoke:
This young star allowed herself to be played.
She is innocent and still stands innocent until proven guilty by a competent Court of law.

I still can't believe this act of shame from a young star turned minister.

Haba.

She was played or Maybe she was a stooge But definitely not innocent

Gurlz like betta edu are stooge in the hands of Big gods they use them for all manners of runz

Her undoing is she didnt wait to gain ground & loyalist in her territory b4 misbehaving,

PrinceofSarcasm:
I am sorry if my last question was offensive. I wanted to know but didn't know how else to ask. No harm intended.
So you are a Muslim?

So cococandy is behind the islandlady mm , even the one that claimed i trolled her for 11yrs i don't know her alternates despite the fact they exist here, victim wey know troll pass Nin


coco is igbo

PrinceofSarcasm:
This is doomed to fail if you don't become a bit flexible with the rules.

1. The person must not be active in romance section nor must they care about romance, moderation isn't rocket science

2. Let people present their case

3. I nominate myself .

Why? I am an unapologetic realist. I don't like romance at all but I like rule breakers less than I like romance.
I am not addicted to Nairaland either and only come here when I am bored but if you make me a mod maybe I will try to be here more

4. Also pls I hope our pay monthly and I can accept 250k Net for a start
5. You must pay 13th month and bonuses . Plus you must provide data and a laptop because I won't use my laptop.

6. Can you rent a house for me ? I want to move to a bigger place ?

7. I hope you pay wages on time monthly o? I can't be slacking out here cause my boss won't pay before the 21st.

8. I need a new phone too, buy me a Samsung s25 ultra or an iPhone ..

😎

are you testing the soap already, its 5am simple instruction

Sucre6:
Please don't quote me when u don't understand what u are quoting, I was referring to op rant about his mother shabby and raggy dressing in the name of church one sided preaching

I love natural pass you self, but wearing rags and dressing shabbily isn't part of dressing natural, it's plain madness, your general overseers and their family don't dress shabbily, so don't be brainwashed

Maybe you should go back n read your comment, Op was complaining about is mom but you made it more like general issue
which one is natural dressing again, Lmao you be goat wey dem born with cloth, you beta drink water n think b4 talking

Make i burst ur head i won't mind Nigerians swapping "Greed" for "shabby dressing" sef

Sucre6:
Well I don't buy in that crazy idea of natural hair bullish!t, women should dress good and looking less attractive and dressing like someone in a refugee camp won't make you any closer to God, you can look your best and still serve God fervently.


Even Esther in the bible dressed so beautifully, wore gold and make up, it was in the bible and God was pleased with her and favoured her, those so called pastors won't show their members this part of the bible oh, nah make them dey wear rags and reflecting jacket advertising their church is what they are best at.

Even Jesus Christ himself allowed a woman to use the most expensive perfume on him in the bible, and when the oversabi disciples try to stop the woman, Jesus Christ told them to let her be.

So any one against dressing good in the name of going to church is totally brain washed

Why will you even think something "Natural" or conventional is a crazy preference

You prefer artificial to natural instead of sticking to your preference you parade yourself as better off .. thats lame

Dress pass Idris Elba or jenner kardashian won't earn you chair next to God, smelling lazarus made heaven

can't make sense of anything you spewing bro, come to my church in unilag n see people dress, even MFm wey carry fire for head people dress elegant.

Don't sit in one place and make lame generalization, the Agbada nd shoe my pastor wore yesterday burst my head, if you don't come out you will only see life from the angle you are holed up

pocohantas:
I am just one out of 2m users according to you.

I doubt you latched on your mother's breast like you have latched to trolling and tribalism in the past 9 years.

Why are you worried that I would have a block button? Please answer this question.

i want to cease these moment to apologize on "Her" behalf for the public nui, she is usually like these but they are working on it, she will be fine

Moving forward, seún i think even a social get together once in a yle will foster a better a co-existence, once upon a time Nairalanders hangout in as much as there is safety people will turn out

pocohantas:
What man and women matter do Seun know not to chook mouth? I have never claimed to be an elite. I always stated it that I live in Amukoko. No elite stays there.

Once again, why are you scared of being blocked?

Our mothers blocked us from breast milk we didnt die , what are you giving

Stop making NL about you, the goal of these wonderful platform is bigger than us, as a gentleman i will advise you step aside and let sound minds dominate the thread, step aside ma'am

pocohantas:
He is Reddingtonblack. Same old wine in a new bottle.



Why are you scared of being blocked?

Is Nairaland richer than Reddit and Twitter that have block buttons?

Why are you scared of being blocked??

Nairaland doesn't have over 2m members. You alone have up to 15monikers. NL doesn't have even 1m ACTIVE members!

If you are a fan as much as you Feign then you should know my comment on politics to romance section is ratio 10 : 4, for days i no get data e no bugg me na blocking

Seún is not a kid, he knows there are some man and woman matter 3rd party no dey shook mouth

Besides i find it disappointing a supposed elite don't know their is a difference btwn .. a faceless forum and a Verified social account, X ni won pe take correction it won't kill you

rayopt:
U nailed it.

That part where he mentioned Sola instead of Ubunja goes to show that Seun doesn't know anything about his platform.

Ubunja has been around on Nairaland before Sola started his influencing career. Wat is he talking about? What about anti-men comments? Is he receiving funding from feminist.co now?

Seun is full of surprises, and sometimes i think is personality takes him off balance

He identify their is a problem but instead of starting from investigating the root cause of that problem he jumped to how to stop the problem, *why" should come b4 *How"

NL has over 2million members, which means on a average there are over 500k female on NL, but check the supposed anti women post thread out, even the few ladies that commented what did they say

Any logical being can tell the purpose of the thread is to creat an enabling ground for amicable co-existence, how is "block button" a solution Lmao

if everybody keep a personlize circle on NL does it not defeat the purpose of the platform , what do i know

pocohantas:
Don't code Seun's moniker. Picking one of my comment when I only started noticing you due to your incessant trolling. You had to go back to almost two years whereas I can get yours from 24hrs ago?

Seun, how about you go through our posts and ban the offender SWIFTLY?

Start this cleansing from Reddingtonblack and I. I will really appreciate that.

Below is you less than 30mins ago...
https://www.nairaland.com/7961171/need-2-beautiful-female-nairalanders#127825844

Troll of 7yrs noticed in 2022 ... even if i am not educated the least you should do is insult peoples intelligence on a public forum,

Apparently OP set out for wide spread interest, but someone only cares about herself and now the whole thread must be about her

Seún maybe you need to reiterate you asked for suggestions before it deteriorate to a "request show"

pocohantas:
I believe Seun can see and doesn't need to create a thread like this. This seems like playing to gallery to me.

However, I have to draw Seun's attention to this mentioned moniker and his numerous alternates - Kayperry, Chidiokay, Jornwhite, etc. This moniker revels on trolling female monikers with insults. A quick look through his profile would shed more light.

I can see the mods have failed to nip him in the bud. I will, no matter how long it takes and I will tag Seun to that thread.

Whatever you do with miso-whatever, I can't even spell that word is not my business. Give us a block button for starters. When some people know their posts isn't getting the desired traffic or attention, they would change tactics.

According to them they are always the victims but according to stats Men are the most depressed or maltreated

Seun what we need is a better NL for all, hire mods with there own minds not ones that will be misled with influence

That is someone disrupting someones intimate build up, moving forward we must ignore distractions.

Seun:
So the first order of business is to hire new moderators, particularly women, who can enforce the existing rules against harassment, derailment, etc.

Apparently you were not born yesterday so you must have heard " women are their own worst enemies"

and why will you even think hiring women mainly would be a solution, if your goal is fairness how do you intend to achieve that without a "balance"

America has the most sophiscated security system in place but that did not deter crime, if your only means to correct a child is cane, remember the child will adapt someday

For every gender war there is a Topic, maybe their should be more scrutiny on the "Topics" and truth be told naija gurlz need work on their mentality

cococandy:
1) The unwillingness or inability to admit that women are mistreated both on this forum and in real life is in itself an offense. I’d start from there.

2) Sometimes threads that present the case of a murdered or missing woman/girl are met with disgusting comments from men. Look into that.

3) let the MODs actually enforce the rules against people that trivialize domestic violence and rape. What’s the point of rules if they are not enforced

BRB

You have two eyes for a reason stop using one, a woman just cash out millions in real life just posting she wakes up to cook for her husband

If men aint showing love or sensitivity are the ladies doing any better

are ladies here saying cool and nices things to the guys or its just an entitlement mentality men must pamper women

Injustice & Maltreatment knows no gender, in real world only a woman will have no job or hustle but drive in big cars & live in mansion

We all are victims here ... no gree for anybody

StrongAlphMale:
You haven't said anything yet concerning Tinubu's bullion van stealing.

If Nigeria was working like China Japan and North Korea, Tinubu and Betty would have been killed instantly live on national TV for massive failure and corruption pro-Max.

Tinubu is a monumental failure

3 is thats all, when the world has over 193 countries, maybe fairness resides with majority

For the record, no one or any public office has come out to claim the money in Tinubu bullion van skit and besides, there is no evidence money was in the bullion van

The real monumental failures are those that go to court without evidences

Think9ja:
Betta Edu must go.
Useless slay queen that found herself in the corridor of power.

Always posing for the cameras with no real performance to show.

She must go

Stop hating on a beauty, besides its tew early to conclude she is not performing

she deserves time and a fair trial

Schoolshooter:
Inbox me for his number


She's a popular NLder here

these one bawo, what if the guy is a kidnapper its beta you send the best

pls share pocohantas or persephone1