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It also depends on how i heard this, if he told me, its sooooo better off, than hearing it somewhere else.I would never report him to the cops. (I would annul the relationship, but if married, can't tell).
If i'm sooo in love with him, it'll hurt me for life!



To men: Please some of us like the truth, no matter how bitter it is, tell me as it is.

Are you aware that the affairs of the heart can make us do stupid things sometimes? What if this man you are married to is a murderer and you decide to keep quiet, don't you know he may turn around one day and murder you?

Must you encounter all the negativities in life young funmi?
I feel for you, I've a friend who is single and will definately threat you right.
I hate seeing you going through all these agonies in life.

Note: There is a provision in the law in America where a spouse cannot testify against each other during or after the marriage other because whatever the defendant spouse told the other was said in confidence but there are also limitations depending on the case involved.

You are in love with your spouse, life is good and he/she is all you ever wanted in a partner . Then, you suddenly made a gruesome discovery about his/her past like raping and killing a child. This is a heinous crime that can take him/her to jail for some time if you rat him/her out. Being a good law abiding citizen, will you push your love aside and call the cops? If you can't do it, will you ever do it when there is divorce?

The two people were executed and you see it as a joking matter?

It's not a laughing matter but if they were guilty, so be it.

@RedHOTChic, it is a slap on the face of the affected (the legislators) not on the face of any other Lagosians/Nigerians. In fact it is a blessing (though temporary because, they won't stop until they go on that trip even if it is Afghanistan)

Roflmao.

Lol, you asked for only one thing and I provided one. If you want another one, only men can donate sperm unless there is one hell of a freak of a woman out there that I haven't heard about

Another hissssssss for you.

how do u do that?

i am not talking of half-baked career women. i mean ph.d upwards.

What do you mean? You can get a PhD and still marry now?

many of them are career women.

u can only choose one. career or marriage?

You can have both and have it more abundantly. Kapish!!!

Not always. Nigeria is a good example of this, right? How many Masters and Phd-holders in public turn jaguda or become alaarus.

Masters degree, may be; PHd, hell no,

Pee standing up without pissing all over yourself, no? lol

Hissssssssssss, as if it counts,

Just because a dude is serious about his appearance doesn't mean he is a homosexual. How many females want a man that isn't well groomed or has no care for his appearance.

Good appearance is relative and should be limited to the avg masculine cosmetics.

some wants to bag all the degrees before settling dwn and before u kw it,they are way too old.

Because your degrees will assure you of some food forever and nobody will take it away from you but your marriage can crash in 24 hrs.

[b]It takes the action of two to make the baby but it takes the decision of one to end it.[/b]

Are you that pissed over it?

That's why you shouldn't be bitter when it is argued that men are, on average, physically stronger than women and consequently deserve peculiar jobs over women?

Physically stronger, yes; peculiar jobs, no(unless it's gigolo), Now, tell me one thing a man can do that a woman can't do?

I had a similar thing, if you see the way he carried and threw me on the floor, I didn't know whether to cry, laugh or be mad at him Grin Grin Grin Grin

Ahahaha there is nothing wrong in farting Cheesy Cheesy
The type of man my hubby is, he won't be bothered, since we both do farting competition Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy, it's fun around him Kiss Kiss, but if the fart stink all we do is spray the air and get back to business

roflmao

I'll get seriously pissed!!

What if you were the person that farted? Do you expect him to bitch slap you?

Hip replacement surgery from trying different positions . . . freak accidents during workouts to build up stamina for intercourse cause pains too don't you know. Tongue And all this while all we ask you to do is lay there and watch the presentation.

Hip replacement from a 2 minute action(some are even less)?.

That's why women are naturally prepared to bear babies, abi?

That's why you should not complain when they control 100% equity shares in your pregnancy.

So, I started katwalking in front of him. (I was wearing them mini and platforms) then i got to the stairs, I turned round stylish to look at him,@#W$%$^%^4A and I fell dwn the stairs,
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
guess i woke up on the wrong side of de bed

Roflmao

In contrast, will the man be able to forgo the emotional trauma and psychological trauma inflicted upon him during the rape and perhaps for the rest of hsi life?

That's why Jackal called men the stronger sex, abi?

I'm imploring a wholistic perspective here Funmi. I happen to think both the man and the woman should have a fair chance to determine what happens with unborn fetuses.

I disagree because the pain associated with the pregnancy is not evenly distributed.

In which case she can still keep the baby at his expense. I have been taught to avoid unintentional reproduction and I would like to keep control of this aspect of my life as well.

That's one of the things in life that falls under the category of "it's unfortunate". In the same vein, will a man be forced to partake in the pains associated with the pregnancy that resulted as a result of his rape?

can u make love to your bobo in front of popejohnpaul all for one million

Lmao; popejohnpaul is dead na.

If a woman rapes a man don't you think the man has a right to determine what becomes of his sperm?

Lmao; No, the man has the right to throw her in jail for rape.

This is one of the nasty ones: it's my body, i can kill the baby.

What can you say? The baby is withing the jurisdiction of their body besides, you seem to look at it from one side, what about when the guys want her to terminate the pregnancy but she really really wants to keep the baby, will you also blame the guys for their request?

Since we all are for equality, I think both the man and women should have an equal right in determining the fate of the unborn child

Consider the hormonal changes, stretch marks, mood swings, morning sicknesses associated with pregnancy and tell me which of them inflicts a measurable amount of pain on the man?

I definitely respect all of these women and their rights to their domineering opinion on the subject of abortion, funny enough I still think the premise of their posts are filled with flaws.

What flaws?

Come to think of it, what has a woman's insensitivity gotta do with the fact that she's carrying a baby and should decide whether to have the baby or not? I'm pro life but I honestly do not wish men be allowed to make decisions over a woman's pregnancy because it's HER body and not the MAN"S body.

believe me

if she presented an arguement like your friend did

if i walk, am not coming back, and the kid aint getting a pin from me, because of her/his mum's insensitivity

let her take me to court for it

First of all, it's not the kids fault. You chose her to be your babies mother and not the baby.

2ndly, whether you want to come back or not, as long as you are in the US or canada, they'll come and carry you from that hole you are hiding unless you run to Zungeru.

no

In that case, if they walk after getting a woman pregnant, no qualms?

and if i was that guy.

i may walk

Absolutely, but don't walk too far b/c you'll need a bus fare back there in 9 months otherwise.