₦airaland Forum

Human?
I thunk u were a cyborg!!!!
The way u release odourless farts unnecessarily is inhuman. Grin Cheesy

Do u still milk cows and drive trucks?

No, I do escort service. You wanna ride?

Again, every fart i release is very necessary, soothing, healthy and relaxing. Damn, I'm releasing again

Miss Thang, Are u a single mother of 4??
Why are u so bovvered about the travails of single mothers?

Because I'm human.

But to you this is not sexist? Undecided

I love the way women demand of things from men but yet feels it is inapproraite for men to demand similar from them. Grin Grin Grin

Equality for most women is for men to drop their priviledges whilst women keep theirs.

Whatever!

I don't have any problem with anyone marrying single mothers [size=16pt]BUT I, Jackal will not marry one.
Overweight sisters(single) don't even have a seat in ma lair let alone single mothers.
Hell. . . . .I will not KISS a single mother[/size](never mind marriage)

Geez; God save your soul!!!!!

Very good for you.

I wonder how much you will make to do same in Abakaliki

You think I made a fortune doing those jobs besides paying rent and food.

Nigeria is not attractive to her current inhabitants. Everybody in Nigeria is trying hard to get out of here. Without proper education, no profession, how do you expect these 'lucky' Nigerians to engage in better work than prostitution.

Please! I milked cows in a farm in Nebraska, drove trucks, delivered pizza in America so i can make a living before i graduated,so, why won't these girls do the same? Some of them have millions of naira stashed somewhere but they still continued in that trade b/c they are lazy and greedy. Does it mean that men that find themselves in the same situation turn to prostitution to get by? The truth is that prostitutes are in every culture and tradition and not peculiar to Nigeria or Norwegians.

funny so are u saying single mothers should remain single just because they got a child out of wedlock? you're leaving absolutely no chance for them and if every man is having same view as yours, then who's going to marry them Huh i thought the world had gone beyond this Huh

Don't worry about him, he'll know better whenever he finally matures and rid himself of his milk teeth. Life is not black and white.

Women are not stupid, they know what they are doing most of the time but play the ditsy model when they need public opinion to let things go their way. And if it is them that don't want a guy, THEY ARE RUTHLESS.

Too sexist!!!

For the guy to have knocked me up at all,
i must have been thinking of marriage and i Will marry Him!

But if one of those mistakes of life happened, i can't.
my child can't grow up in a loveless union.

Girl, get the ring before you digest the pap because dem boys can perform wonders.

Kanu: Why not any of the Super Eagles players?
Ferdinand brings the global attention to it, and is that not how to get sponsors?

Whatever happens to Obafemi Martins or Taye Taiwo?They are not good enough, abi?

Kanu apart, how can you use taxpayers money to do such a thing? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? If Rio wanted something good for Africa, he should've come to Lagos with his own money and not milking a dying cow the more with his stardom. I think these guys get some cash back from these ludicrous deals and that's why they keep doing it. Donald Duke tried that same bullshit when he was Cross Rivers gov by spending a fortune on American celebrities like Joe and R Kelly.

Lagos state born NFL player, Isaac Idonije did the same with Amobi Okoye and Osi Umeynoira last year.

I don't think men or women should marry, because the woman becomes pregnant, I think it actually just makes things more complicated, a man still can provide and take care of his child without marrying the woman , its a very good question, I'm curious to see what everybody else thinks. Here in Florida,men here are beaten down with child support.Before they get their paychecks money is taken out for their child/children.If they don't pay they are not allowed to drive, if caught they are arrested and taken to court, whatever valuable possesions they have they give it to the woman in court. The child support continues to mount as they stay unemployed. If you have a passport or visa its revoked until the man pays all his fees to the court and to the woman. Taking care of your children in the US is serious business it can ruin your life.

Come to think of it, is there anything wrong with paying child support? My father and mother supported me until I became and adult, why shouldn't I support my children? Men and women should step up and pay for their babies expenses. I love the child support law and hope it should be adopted in Nigeria.

i wont be surprised if you end up falling HELPLESSLY in love and getting married to a mother of 3 send me your IV sh

Don't mind him, he may end up with a woman that has more babies than a reindeer.

Covered by what?

Staphylococcus aureus and neisseria gonorrhoeae .

Don't be heartbroken if the statement DISQUALIFIES you.

I've never told you before that i've been preggy before how much less having a baby. Your idea that single mothers should be treated like lepers is just sickening and inhuman. I still recommend deliverance. I don't think you'll be singing the same song if your sister becomes one. Common, it can happen to anyone even mother Theresa.

Whoa. . . I didn't know that. Gotcha watch them girls that be kissing me

Some of dem supposed girls kissing are transexuals sha.

For me, marrying a single mum is settling for less. Let single mothers marry single fathers.
How can a young man like me settle for a single mum and her kids. . . .Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!
I am too hot for such frivolities. Cool



Whatever the case may be. . . . . I can't be with a single mother.
Hell. . . . [size=16pt].I cannot shag a single mother let alone marry her.[/size]

Get help ASAP. You still live in century 17. Good night.

As long as it's not HIV or Hepatitis schitzo. . . . . .Men are safe. Cool Cool Cool

Why should i be afraid??. . . . I don't take any risk as a geezer. . . . .Momma didn't raise no fool.
I am always strapped.

1 in 4 adults in NYC has herpes, so be careful.

I am afraid, i can't marry a single parent.
So many beautiful women(single) to choose from. Why should i settle for less??

This is a very denigrating and goofy remark on single mothers. So marrying a single mother is settling for less? Who knocked them up in the first place? I hope you feel the same way if a woman rejects you because you are a single father.

Again, i hope you know that some single mothers came as a result of widowhood or divorce and not because they were knocked up by a loser.

If Don Juan is 24 then it's a different tune.
However, t[b]he woman still has a whole lot more to LOSE having an unwanted baby.[/b]

You are saying it like you are almost happy that women bear the burden more and the annoying thing about these guys that knock women up is that they ostracize single mothers anytime they want to choose a bride.

The Cameroun gist is hilarious. $2000 for knocking a woman up??
Trust me, Condoms would sell more in Cameroun than oil in Nigeria

Yep, the only problem is that the law is restricted to knocking up school girls(which should be a jail sentence in America) besides, a $2000 one time payment is not enough penance for careless pregnancy.

In Cameroun, men 18 and over are made to pay a one time payment of about $2000 if they knock up any girl or face a jail sentence. Don't you think that such laws in Nigeria will make these boys hunting for honey pots have a second thought?

Responsibilty flies out of the window as soon as the babe conceives an unwanted baby.
Whatever happens afterwards does not make the guy good or fantastic. . . . .
Besides, being responsible is not even in the equation if Don Juan is 16-20.
A person that is not old enough to feed himself WILL NOT stand by any pregnant woman.

You are painting the worst scenario. What if Don Juan is over 24? Besides, the law in America applies to men 18 and above because they are adults. If he does not have a job, he has no business knocking women up. He can as well go and pick fruits to take care of the fruit of his idiocy.

Responsibilty is a lifelong phenomenon. If both parties made a mistake by being irresponsible, they should assume "responsibility" by taking care of the consequences. It's irresponsible for a man to knock up a woman, desert her and start on new honey pot projects.

I believe the female gender should be more careful and more responsible.
She has more to lose if accident happens. . . . Carrying an unwanted baby for 9 months is an emotional torture.
Morning sickness, School/Work will stop, Labour pains and reh reh reh

Meanwhile, Don Juan is partying away or prolly humping anutha woman around the neighbourhood.
So who loses more?
Me thinks the babe has a whole lot to lose.

Don't paint it like it's all loss for the woman and gain for the man. A [b]responsible [/b]man should be able to stand by her during the pregnancy and share the pains and expenses associated with the pregnancy after all she didn't knock herself up. He should be able to cover her bills if she goes on maternity leave and so on. Love or no love, that's the [b]right [/b]thing to do.

question = or you are afraid of her father/male siblings?
answer = why would i want to submit to their intimidation? Doing so will only increase my vulnerability and cede to them my power of negotiation in the matter

Lots of folks said the same but there are situations you'll find yourself and you don't need a soothsayer to tell you to dance to their tunes. Bravery can be stupid sometimes, Negro.

Sometimes girls do it out of pity in order for you men not to die. So that on your orbituary they don't write "He died for not receiving what would only last for some meagre minutes."

Lmao. Imagine jackal's obituary like that?

If guys would zip up?? ??
Were these girls raped or forced into intercourse?
Your phrase should go. . . . .If girls would lock their thighs, we wouldn't be here.

Actually, many were raped or coerced into sex by force or by lies. What happened to your prior belief that women are "weaker" sexes?

No. I just wanted to douse your hopes. Tongue If guys would zip up we wouldn't be discussing this issue.

I think that women also contribute to this issue. If women would also zip up, guys would be helpless unless they want to knock up monkeys.

So u suggest we skin-dive as condoms are not 100%??

it's not a matter of skin-plunging, rather, it's a fact. Condoms are not 100% safe. Who knows how many women you've knocked up and taken to the butchering clinic? Abortions are also not 100% safe.

I, Robert Gabriel Mugabe, say when you knock up a guineafowl you stay and perform ya duties and marry her.

That's preposterous. Read the response from stillwater.

It makes no difference. . . . . . .It's either one is HOLY or UNHOLY(You cannot sit on the fence).

I never said so bu shit happens. Some pastors fall into the sin of fornication, should they remain in the sin and kill any child that may have come out of their moral decay or repent of it before decrying the world sins as a shepherd?

2 people having intercourse BEFORE marriage have sinned from the onset.

So you'll have to remain that sin and commit more abi?

sex is simply sinful.

Sex was created by God for procreation, intimacy and pleasure between the [b]OPPOSITE [/b]sex. It becomes sinful only when you attempt it outside the matrimonial circle.

Yea right!!

So, abortions forced because of complications is Godly and that done without complications is unGodly??
Look at these analogy. . . . . .Mr A Killed someone in cold-blood and Mr B killed someone in self-defence.
Does that make Mr B more Godly than Mr A?? Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Babes, the crux of the matter is . . . . .Life was LOST!!!! Thats the single most important factor.

I think the problem here is that you lack the slightest moral fiber found in homosapiens. I never said that abortion done with a plausible reason is not sinful. Abortion is evil and there is nothing you can say that will excuse that. If there are complications that will endanger the mothers life, it's a different ball game. God knows our hearts.