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Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 11:41am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Privatepart00:That is how they like it actually. They like being treated like a whoreee. For example... Boy A to girl: You are an amazing lady that I will like to spend time with in the future. The most gorgeous my eyes have ever seen. He does this so often... Boy B to same girl: Look at those ass...boobs so round and I feel like placing my tongues on there. she smiles and laugh... after a while, he disappears and reappears. She will prefer boy B to boy A. Why? Boy B tends to make her feel sexual desired but A doesn't. That is why when you talk dirty with most girls, chances of banging her if you can sexually arouse her within that chat or period is over 80%. That is why they have guys who they are not dating banging them so often cos the guy actually does not want anything to do with them apart from bringing out that bittch out and banging the hell out of it. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 11:32am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Jack005:good sign... I don't expect mine to be 3 days lol.. it could be months later due to due impression i gave. but whatever it, I bet that I would have completely forgotten her sooner. So, It is all good. |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 10:13am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Jack005:What was the duration between when you rejected her "just friend" offer and when she made that call? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 10:07am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Jack005: Good... she is just looking for your attention because you probably gave it to her while she didn't get much from other guys. So, she is trying to make you feel that she still likes you and wants you around. LIES! If you make mistake to ask her out again on the basis of that, she will REJECT YOU! Now looking at your own case, I am glad I left an impression that she should ONLY reach out to me IF she changes her mind. While this might feel like I am waiting for her because I can't get it from someone else or that I am trying to be manipulating or force her to do my will, the main reason is that It will help me avoid what your own girl is trying to do with you through that call. I had to do this because, from experience, THEY ALWAYS COME BACK seeking your attention again (just as your has done), hoping that you will be available to grease their attention vacuum machine It is a filter to avoid someone coming back in the hope that she can toy with my feelings again when she truly does not want me romantically. So, there is no point in hanging out and deceiving me. I made it clear do not call or reach out EXCEPT you change your mind because I have decided not to communicate with her again as it seems my decision to draw close to her when she wanted me to do exactly that has been converted into making it look like I was the needy one all along. Oh, mine happened days ago... which means, mine is recent and I have not even replied that her question: "Are you sure you will sort yourself out"? I read it and never replied before I deleted everything. She has not called and we have not communicated since then. I know she would be shocked to see this side of me. She wasn't expecting me to reject her offer and hoped I would accept in desperation. She probably felt she has that power and has had me where she wants because, I started acting that way, like messaging her, being overly friendly, calling her weekly, and all that. Girls don't like such, even if they act initially that they won't disregard it... they ALWAYS do take it for granted. Scarcity is more valuable here. So, the lesser the presence, the fonder the heart. What she didn't know was that I was very much in control of my emotions and wasn't acting like a teen. I only did all that because of how we started and even when she had withdrawn, I still tried to spice things up. I am someone that is very consistent and I love to reciprocate. I didn't see the need to avoid her when she wanted us to draw closer to each other. It was like a case of someone wanting you but now turn to be acting like you are the needy one instead mutual effort that you guys started with. Such bullshit! I do like her for real because of prospect and career orientation but not the way she was thinking it like I can't do without her or that I was some emotionally desperate guy. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 5:46am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Jack005: This is exactly what happened to me. She gave me all the lights. There was even a time she asked me if I am withdrawing. i asked why such a question and she said because I took time to reply to her texts. Do you see? Another time she said she made her hair and would love to show me. I said okay, send me the pics and let me see.. and she did. You see again? She has always known that I like her. In fact, she started saying someone is falling in love and called me loverboy for a while... There are more that I could write but initially, she wanted my attention really bad and when I eventually gave it, she withdrew... Like in your own case, she felt bad. She felt bad because she would have loved to put you in that friend zone for the mere fun of watching you give her all the attention and girlfriend treaties without touching her. Rejecting that "just friends" offer breaks that power and reduces her options. It is like a table with two legs on the right and two legs on the left to give stability and balance. Those legs represent you and another guy in her pool of options. So when you reject it, you end up destroying the table legs on either the left side or right side... which will make the table lose balance and stability, and whatever was placed (her confidence, her pride, her guts, her control, etc) on the table will fall. This is why they don't like it when you reject the friendship offer. It bruises their ego exactly the same way their rejection of dating you bruise your own ego. So It is fair. In my own case, after I had written that I will not accept her offer and will respectfully grant her choice because it is her right, I said "I will sort myself out" she replied "Are you sure you will sort yourself out?" Why is that important and why is she asking? Of course, she didn't like the fact that I was leaving as suggested by my messages or the fact that I rejected her offer. But I had to do that cos accepting her offer is of no value to me, absolutely none but it is more of value to her. It will boost her ego, boost her pride, her guts, it will make her feel so special about herself and makes her feel powerful but rejecting it deflates those emotions in her. It made her feel she too can be rejected and that I am I can actually do away with her, contrary to the idea I am all over her (I actually made her felt that way lol). It may not sink in immediately cos pride is a powerful thing. But as days go by, she would start thinking : "so this guy really mean to leave me?" What will I do next? I would move out and get other girls, not for dating but just friends, hang out more with them until I have completely forgotten about this current girl. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Jack005:what was her response or reaction when you rejected her friendship offer? |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 10:13pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Agricaddict:yes, some girls are in silent mode... But won't tell you. |
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 9:40pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
doggedfighter:I thought I had replied this. Well, when a woman says she just wants to be friends, even when she knows you want her, it often boils down to how she sees that guy. There are many reasons: perhaps the guy has let himself down too much... By being too friendly and available. Women don't rate such guys... It could also be he does not exude some masculinity... But it will shock u to know that this girl talked about here was once wanting me to be closer to her and complained about my withdrawal... Which was a trap. When I drew closer, she was now the one that withdrew. So that may have been the problem... 4 Likes |
Romance / RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 7:20pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
So recently a girl that I had something for tried to Friendzon me... but offering me the "Let's just be friends thing" I told her NO... I can't be just friends with her and I don't do just friends with a woman I want something with, which she had known long before now. What I want is what I want and I know what I want. I told her to stick to her decision and I will sort myself out... She then asks me "are you sure you will sort out yourself"? Honestly, this question made me confused and I do not know why she would care about that. But I refused to reply to her after that. There was no reply from me and I considered everything should end, while I cut ties with her. I deleted everything about her and chose to move on. I know a lot of men would accept the friendship offer and some people might say I should have accepted to be just her friend but the truth is, accepting it means accepting to be friend zoned forever and you will NEVER get out of it. Being just friends means she selfishly just wants all the goodies you bring without you touching her. It is better to walk away with your shoulder high than allow that. Did I reject her offer because I didn't really like her? I actually do like it her but know that it is hard to convince these women about your intentions. the more you do, the more they think otherwise. Would rejecting her offer turn the table in my favour? I doubt because I have never heard any man turned it after reaching this stage and that means I should move on forever and not look back. But if you know any guy or story in which the man successfully turn the table after rejecting the "just be friend" offer, feel free to share it here. Also, accepting her friendship offer is of more value to her and none to me. It expands her options and grants me none. I would rather reduce that option by 1 than make it 2. But what it does for me is, it will change how she views me for sure, even if she does not admit it. A girl telling you she just wants to be friends means, she views you in a certain way and me rejecting it would do justice to whatever she thought of me by reversing that image. So, that is it... 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: I Need To Know If I Should Leave This Girl... Please Help!!!! by remedick: 6:44pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
okpelu: Take my advice, go get another girl... You can pick a very pretty girl that is finer than her and make her feel special... you can arrange with the pretty babe to act like your babe as if you guys are dating... 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Proposed Marriage But I have now Lost Interest by remedick: 10:58am On Jun 23, 2020 |
NEWBIN:LMAO... Thank God you have seen she is gaming you. I didn't give my girl anything aside happy birthday this month and we are cool. That girl no love you at all. The best way is to just stop all communication and move on. THIS is why I like having backup to avoid rubbishes like these. 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 11:16pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
omonnakoda:Okay oga know it all... it is not on exclusive list, why is the state government consulting with FG before proceeding... Go sleep... 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 6:25pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
omonnakoda:Hope you know things like sea ports are in exclusive list of the FG? |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 8:37am On Jun 03, 2020 |
tommenoh:bro, see, anything with Nigerian government is like that, especially the federal government. The road is still very long... very very long. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 8:36am On Jun 03, 2020 |
omonnakoda:you just want to keep running in circles by asking for answers that are already obvious, dont you? 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 8:14am On Jun 03, 2020 |
omonnakoda:he meant that when you compare LDSP and ADSP, Akwa Ibom sea port is being accelerated. Me think that Akwa Ibom governor is putting more efforts and pressure to make that happen and may be their Lagos counterparts were being relaxed. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gov Emmanuel Applauds FG On Speedy Actualization Of Ibom Deep Seaport by remedick: 8:11am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Neonspook:That is Nigeria for you. Things must be hard to be deemed it worthy. terrible 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Churches, Mosques To Remain Closed In Lagos by remedick: 9:20pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
davodyguy:Thanks for the reply. Any date in sight for the call off? |
Religion / Re: Churches, Mosques To Remain Closed In Lagos by remedick: 7:21pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
what about interstate travels, has that been called off? |
Crime / Re: Livinus Elem On Uwa Vera Uwaila's Rape And Death: Says "Good For Her" by remedick: 8:26am On Jun 02, 2020 |
bikefab:u think it is all Nigerians that know the damage that internet can do to them? lol.. i can bet only 1% knows how powerful the internet is.... this one is gonna and will be picked up asap. |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Displays Beautiful Interiors Of His House: New Banana Island Mansion by remedick: 4:30pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
MISTAICEY02288: Davido is real, since the way he handle election and all the help he has been giving people, i became a fan.. |
Health / Re: Top 10 Nigerian Medical Practitioners In America by remedick: 7:51pm On May 31, 2020 |
Davash222: 2 years ago, I ask them here on nairaland to list what they have achieved for Nigeria globally... 2 years after, they have not been able to fill the spots... https://www.nairaland.com/4361516/northerners-what-international-achievements-nigeria |
Investment / Re: Charcoal Export Contract To Turkey (funding/partnership Required) by remedick: 11:55am On Apr 01, 2020 |
SavageResponse:care to explain? |
Family / Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by remedick: 5:54am On Apr 01, 2020 |
youngvikthor: Buy another sim card and use that to open secret.. Throw away the sim card after |
Family / Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by remedick: 1:47pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
2buffagain: A pastor said same thing in a video I watched. I had screenshot it and save it in my Google drive because the video was subtitled.... My current girl does not ask me for money but I am already used to always giving money to women and so, due to current realities, it makes me feel awkward that I have not sent her a dime for some time now due to global pandemic and a few hitches here and there. But when I recall she told me that she is not my responsibility, I heave a sigh of relieve for real. She a very hard working lady. What you have said it is the truth. If a girl ask for money or expect you to always give, she does not truly like a guy and she will be quick to dismiss you if there is none forth coming. At least I can say I had experienced this before. God bless you for these words... 3 Likes |
Health / Re: French Doctor Behind Chloroquine Gets Death Threats. by remedick: 1:32pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
SharpJoe:Bro, most of the guys managing our affairs are not as intelligent as we assume. When you take a cursory look at Nigeria, you have to conclude that the fact that people know how to read and write is not a proof of intelligence. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: French Doctor Behind Chloroquine Gets Death Threats. by remedick: 12:16am On Mar 31, 2020 |
SharpJoe: Test kits are in short supply, especially in affected countries who need them more than exporting. I am expecting replies from a few companies in coming days. This is where indigenous test kits would have been more feasible |
Health / Re: Coronavirus Survivor Says Chloroquine Saved His Life by remedick: 12:01am On Mar 31, 2020 |
lastchild:the creators had an agenda and Africa was not on their to do list 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confesses How Her Ex Force Sexed Her. by remedick: 9:52pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Shugavee:madam... u seem not to like people tell you the truth. I am not surprised. are you no a Nigerian? na una nature na... cos i called u a friend does not mean I am desperate to have a friend. i don't care what you feel about my word... it does not change the fact about your views on this issue... and lastly, we are no furking friends 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confesses How Her Ex Force Sexed Her. by remedick: 8:50pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Shugavee:cos u do not know this handle...if i send u email now, u go see our chat from 2018 or thereabout lol.. have a nice day but stop by hypocritical dazzal |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confesses How Her Ex Force Sexed Her. by remedick: 7:50pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Shugavee:you b my friend but i go tell you point blank... u are a hypocrite. are u not the same person going around talking shiit about men? but now u want him to forgive her. as it can be seen, the other guy has power over her because he is treating her like trash... many of you ladies prefer that kind of guys and will always succumb to his will, especially if he is a good furker... I speak from experience because I have a few girls who I can furk if I want even when I never take them serious lol... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confesses How Her Ex Force Sexed Her. by remedick: 7:46pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Patotelli: Lol... girls in that age and category do not know what they want bro... leave her. One of the mistakes young guys make is that they play husband roles way too early. WTF is you already draft how your life is gonna be spent with her for ever. That is a mistake.. dude, just furk her and leave for the next guy to furk... that is what you should be doing now. stop playing husband roles... 4 Likes |
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