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CaveAdullam:
The manuscript is set. But I always end up sending 99.99% of the contents here. Y'all are reading a complete book. Lol.

But sales and marketing are not guaranteed. And this is why the contents do end up as freebies. I don't want to write a book for the abyss and the demons that inhabit it. It ought to be for men!

If sales and marketing are 60% sure, I will pen down a paperback. There are more gold shits to write about, the rabbit hole is eternal.

Until then, let's enjoy the free ride.

I love the things you do. But you should consider publishing a book... just try and do that. thank you so much.

Realbuzzing:
Who can give me those PDFs on Red pill like "The manipulated Man"

guy go to Google or pdfdrive.net or z-lib.org

you go read books, you go tire.

CaveAdullam:
1. What a man expects of himself and what his family/society expects of him are always asymmetrical.

This is true for the enlightened man.

2. The man who finds it easy to move along with the conventional orders of society will never attain his ambitions.

3. To understand the form and nature of the society and to cooperate is of these sides:

a. Leveraging every circumstance to your advantage as a result of your enlightenment.

b. Foolishly following because of the herd mentality and ignorance.

c. Sycophancy. It is almost as A above. But the thing is that you're not leveraging, you just manipulating and you will get abandoned when the show elapses.

d. Fear. You know what's right but afraid. Hence, don't bother about it. Back to the herd mentality.

e. This is synonymous with (a above). It involves interspersing yourself in the heterogeneous mixture of a to d. The goal is not to only better yourself but to lead society. This is the true leader. And they are few.

This mixture is a play that must know no end. It is a theatrical show, you must guide your audience and never let them know what's behind the scene. It is a positive sum game.

4. A parody of these leaders are tyrants, dictators, and oppressors. Their embodiment lacks love and kindness. They are the extreme. Ditto emasculated men: their embodiment lacks action and fearlessness. Hypergamy bothers here too: alpha fvcks beta bucks.

a. Women will spend their prime years with the former men because their qualities signify strength and protectiveness. They will mate with these men so that their offspring will inherit such genetic quality. (The evolution of single motherhood).

Since these men are sociopathic, they don't care about society and the women they deal with. To them, everything is a game and it doesn't matter if the process that brought them to their current position burns. Nihilists want to go down with the system as it burns. While tyrants want to gain control by burning the system. Both have a good case though, but they do follow the wrong prescription.

b. Women will also mate with the later men because they are soft and can provide welfare for them and their kids. These men always settle down for what comes their way; not yearning for quality and improvement. They are women's retirement plans. And these men are happy about it.

It is a great orgasm for women to have one man that embodies both sides, albeit, difficult.

5. Family and society need these sets of true leaders to guide them because family and society are herds, emotional and weak.

6. You don't follow the leadership of the weak and emotional, their end is destruction. There is always chaos when they assume leadership.

It is for this reason, women have never handled the affairs of leadership for ages (effectively). Because they are not built to maintain the qualities of leadership. They only yearn for the benefits of power and authority but shy away from its challenges and difficulties.

Religion saw the future and proscribed women for the office of leadership. While weak men were quickly overthrown.

7. The true leader must set the expectations of the masses. Not the leader/man succumbing to the obsessions of the masses. The masses can't separate chaffs from wheat, it is the duty of the leader to do so.

Hence, women and other individuals who lack quality parenting and masculine leadership end up damaging themselves in an attempt to follow their obsessions and feelings first.

8. Ruling based on feelings and transient desires leads to stunted growth.

There are individual wants and it is fine. But it must be juxtaposed with what is of high quality and important at the moment and long term.

Negligence always has a damaging ripple effect in the future: both the good and bad suffer. Maybe the cunning can suffer less. The zeitgeist of our time is a good example.

9. What family and society expect from men is quality leadership. They do frown at it when they get dealt with the hard side of it, but in the long run, it suits their nature and must be adhered to regardless of their henpecking and murmuring.

10. Discipline and order. Kindness and love. Leverage. Positive cunning. Truth. Game. Knowledge about human nature and behavior. Wisdom. Intelligence. Creativity. Boldness. Smartness. Conditioned pleasure. Emotional balance: All these forms the man who attains the role of a true leader.


DAY 202, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Become a man.

Guy! you need to write a book.

tosaino95:
What about those close to you that you can see they lack women wisdom

that's why in that statement, I said some men "don't" want to be saved. some men, even after you tell them how women are wired and how the game works, even after seeing or hearing so many similar experiences from different people, they still would not listen. in fact, if you press harder, they might start hating you. these are the kind of men that doesn't want to be saved. let them burn. when they are ready to be saved, they will know what to do.

being born into this world as a man, you're already in a battle field, and in a battle field, you expect anything. I didn't make it this way, nature did.

how to survive in the battlefield...

stay alert
trust no one
expect enemies anywhere
always be guarded
sharpen your weapons
don't expect help
hide your intentions
don't reveal too much information
ready to kill or be killed

remember to tell your son this.

fellow comrades, you have 3 responsibilities. what you expect of yourself. what your family expects of you and what the society expects of you.

if you don't define these 3 for yourself, the world will define it for you... and believe me, it will be very ugly.

most women don't care about your struggles, so why are you telling her what you're going though? how do you expect her to understand when she has not ever gone through one? all her life, she has prolly received everything she's ever had on a platter of gold. only a man can truly understand a fellow man struggles and problems. a man who confide in a woman is a feminised man. don't tell her about your problems and struggles. she doesn't want to hear it. as long as it doesn't affect her on a personal level, she doesn't care. she expects you to handle it on your own.

most women are only there for you when you're winning, not losing. understand this, and you'll never be disappointed in your relationship with women.

dear fellow comrades, just like the redpill quote which says don't save her, she doesn't want to be saved", same thing applies to pussified men. some men DON'T want to be saved. don't try to save them. let them burn, and let them burn fiercely.

MisterMan123456:
Misplaced priorities by OP, you use an iPhone 11, but still entering bus? Na wah

which kind of poverty minded comment is this? how does having an iPhone equate to not entering a bus or meaning having your own personal car is having an iPhone an achievement? even if you get car, shey na everytime you go dey enter the car? nawa ooo...

tosaino95:
That one na yansh man and they are many like him.
That why those girls are doing hip surgery or whatever they call it.
If they ask them why they do it they will lie that is for confidence boost

nor be only confidence boost, na lucozade boost

emmaodet:


I don’t know how we men are wired and women are really taking advantage of that.
I also have one Oga that had slept with many ladies when I was in school yet one day when he saw another average looking lady with a big ass while driving, he didn’t concentrate on the road anymore Esther turning his neck to follow the ass until his car climbed the road covet and nearly tumbled.
I was like, what is the problem with this man again? He has banged many ladies in the school and shouldn’t be moved with pussy again but No, he will follow it to the grave.

... na pussy go kii that one...

RedpillAnalyst:
They are back to simping... Simping is addictive

that's a very wrong assumption.

mehn I miss some redpillers input on this forum, zabiboy, mrpaedo, glycolysis, pansophist, theundercover, dpsychologist, hardon....mehn... they all made this place fun back then.. I've known them even before I registered this account. i only wish they are safe wherever they are now.

heartofcity12:
Especially those in our country. For every action, there is a reaction, can’t really blame the guys.

exactly... especially that last guys comment in the second picture.. blame the men who use money to inflate these girls ego... btw, who turns down good life here? if I see one better woman wey go dey give me free money and gifts, shey I nor go collect nii?

you can't fault a woman for collecting money from simps na, sheybi na the man get money to waste.. and a simp and his money are soon parted... who nor like oshofree? she sha nor force the simp...

DaniWhizbang:
You really went hard on this but I'll say let people do what works for them. For me being vague and not giving in to girls "What do you want from me" questions has been working for me and it's basically because these girls are attracted to me.

yeah it works because they are attracted to you. I think in this case, keeping her confused works best. Let her keep thinking of who she is to you. don't give her definite reply. it keeps her intrigued. she will be eager to satisfy you so she can be promoted to the position of a proper girlfriend, hence the question, "do you actually love me, do you want to date me.. blah blah". if you tell her your real intention, maybe you want to date her in this case, it might actually spoil the vibe and might change the way she acts since you guys are already been sexual with each other.

the statement you made that, "you not a bad kisser, you still have a lot to learn" will make her want to prove herself more. it's a redpill tactic. it's like telling a man, you didn't fvck me well, or perform well, he will want to prove himself to you the next time. leemao .. it's called disqualifying them in order to qualify to you...

anyways, sora fun obirin. olorun awa pelueee ooo

heartofcity12:
@ Pukkalolo You made nice points and I could see the angle you’re coming from but I think it is unredpill-like if you understand what I mean.
In Redpill, it is “high interest or nothing”, and choosing who chooses you, a man wouldn’t have to deal with all that in the first place if he stays true to being “chosen” or he goes for women that have high interest in him. A man wouldn’t see the need to make his feelings clear if she already got the job done halfway by showing high interest or greenlights and choosing him. I believe this approach you stated is used for girls that didn’t show genuine desire or girls showing mixed signals in the first place and in Redpill those are signs of disinterest(you could see that in a lot of my posts) and the solution is simply walking away from them. I think the best way to treat such girls is not just shooting your self down by telling her how much you like her only to end up getting rejected because a lot of guys tell her this everyday. Redpill is about going for the girls that like you, not going for the girls you like. I believe that’s the reason why the poster says you should rather make your feelings unclear to the girls you ‘like’ instead of telling them you like them(he didn’t say you should remain friends with her) and simply walk away and go for the girls that ‘choose’ you. That’s how I see it.

However if we’re shoving the redpill aside and viewing this from a neutral lens, I concur with you 100 because I’ve often used this style myself before the redpill and it sometimes work for me. It’s dicey, it could work or not. Nice contribution bro!

yeah bro. it goes both ways. you guys have a point. it goes both ways. at the end, everyone will just have to employ the tactic which works best for him.

tosaino95:
ONE, First to do know your mistake around them
TWO, Be Confident
THREE, Say Words they don't expect like sharp and occasionally badass sarcasm words with a little sight of smile when saying them.
FOUR, Don't Succumb to their needs.
FIVE, Don't overact or act clingy, know when to talk to them and when not to.
SIX, Not everything woman words says and attitude she show deserve your attention.
Most act cold but funny when saying words.
And lastly
SEVEN, Never tell a woman you love her or send money to her when she ask you.
Give her money when you want to that way she will know you are a man not a pussy man.

EIGHT, don't talk too much. Let your actions speak most.
NINE, don't do anything for a girl unless she has done something similar or worthy for you first.
TEN, always take lead. don't ask for permission.
ELEVEN, be ready to dump them at anytime!

tosaino95:
WTF can our gender still learn

this is why I don't really blame women... it's our men that needs fixing. if our men do what they are supposed to do and act right, women will automatically straighten themselves up.

if the men themselves are not upright, expect the worst results from women. The frame of men in a society determine how the women will end up.

PerfectStranger:
Lol guys still fall for this tricks?

lol before nko.. the simps will fall normally.

Lessonteacher:
Wetin you smoke

omooo people dey this life ooo

Kingkum:
I have forgiven him but i don't have anything to do with that niggar. This is the second time i help someone on this forum and got this kind of treatment.

I'm very sorry to hear that sir. that kind of thing hurts but please don't be annoyed sir. just forgive everyone who has ever offended you. please.

purples25:
I don't know how someone will help you and you would be mocking the person. Imagine statements like:

'how can a deaf man help an able man'

'how can someone's dream be to enter an airplane...no be juju be that.'

'my WEIRD meeting with a nairalander'

What else does it look like but mockery. I refuse to see it as anything but mockery. You are upset that someone you would normally look down on extended help to you.

Hell, you even told people all about his farm! All about his debt! All about his life! Asking people look at this weird man....your WEIRD encounter with a nairalander.

He gave you money o, not that he did wrong towards you.

I want to say you are so ungrateful and go to hell! But I will not.

he has already realised his mistakes and apologize. he's very wrong. the fact that he later mentioned the person even when he was told not to do that is totally wrong. I'm sure he didn't mean it that way. just die down the matter... everything will be alright.

Kingkum:
You claim to broke and sick but i smelt alcohol when we met that morning. you were using a android phone that could fetch you money, at first you were pretending to be sick and walking like one but later changed and even drank 2bottles of beer. Even with all this red flags, i made up my mind and help you unconditionally.

But just look at how you describe me on this thread. should i go on to say what you did when we met? Oga don't ever in your miserable mention or call my number.

let me help him beg you on his behalf. he's very sorry Sir. I'm sure he doesn't mean it that way. ifailed22, you were supposed to respect him. even if you want to appreciate him, this is not the way to go. some of the words you used (even if you meant well), is not good.

the fact that he told you not to mention him should have made you not even think about it. you should have honoured him. sometimes people wants to genuinely help, but situations like this makes people unwilling to help. you shouldn't have mentioned his name at all. like he said, with all the red flags he saw on you, he still went on to help you and even taught you some valuable lessons. you just have to apologise to him deeply and try to take this thread down if possible.

please sir, forgive him. Please.

my guy let me advice you, first you're putting yourself over unnecessary pressure over a girl you're not even married to yet. sometimes when your gut keeps telling you something, it is sometimes true.

to have that peace of mind that you want, break up with her. as long as you're single, you sha nor fit dey talk say person dey cheat on you... girls plenty for this life oo.. nor get high blood pressure because on this one oo...

but I know how you feel and this kind of feelings mostly stems from once experiencing a heartbreak, being overinvested in the relationship or lack of options. person wey nor too invest for the relationship nor fit dey do like this since there's nothing to lose in it. like I said, if you wan get peace of mind, remain single or nor too put too much energy on top woman matter...

heartofcity12:
You said it all bro. It’s really that bad, a lot of guys and men are just big simps fueling these girls egos all day, they actually make them feel like they can get away with anything, it could tell from the way these girls act and talk, you could see hookers still having standards about the kind of men they want, and some simps somewhere will still propose and kneel to them when they’re ready to settle after all these sexcapades.

You need to see how a lot of simps with nice cars run after these smelly broke girls all over the mall just to get their attention, some of these girls won’t even respond to them or just hiss at them, some will beg to spend their monies on them. Why won’t girls walk with big egos, a sense of entitlement and believe the world revolves around them?. Dating is in shambles in this country especially, simps have ruined everything, this has also contributed to the numbers of prostitutes skyrocket over the years.

I dey tell you bro. simps are devastating to the society. simping should be a crime and a punishable offence. simping should be eradicated.

heartofcity12:
See demands.
She has the gut to type this because Nigeria is the simp capital of the world. Females like this litter the street today.

the surprising thing be say she will see her customers... I swear the way wey these women dey cash out dey very surprising... e pass yahoo sef if you look am well..

women has never lower their standards, no matter how damaged or useless they are, they will still believe they can get a high value man/simp.. but men... sighs... I don't know... maybe because of our hypogamous nature or our innate instincts to marry someone lower in status than us, maybe that's why we see these damaged or low value women as something worthy of our MEAT...mehnn... because bro, come to think of it... how can a man work so hard all the day of his life only to settle for leftovers, damaged women? I can't just imagine... even a woman who has worked so hard all her life or behaves in a masculine way can't stoop this low unless she's passed her prime age or no other options.. but you see men ehn... ahh.. na only God fit save us oooo.. maybe because most men don't realise that they are the prize cuzz I don't just get it.

it is very easy for women to eat their cake and have it due to the surplus of simps than men due to low amount of high value women available. it is what it is bro.

leemao

dollytino4real:
U really no sey men prick no cost compare to dat cockerel

you only know the price because you've bought and used it so many times. why haven't you found your calling yet?

always remember, a woman will only tell you about the guys disturbing her that she doesn't find attractive; not the one that satisfies her hypergamy.

I can't reply dms, the email is not working.

Cheasystickylov:
Well explained and thanks. Let's take another case : Let's assume you have this silly neighbour who despite the fact that you wife or girlfriend did not show any let down in behaviour buy this neighbour still try to be silly and your wife or girlfriend reports the incident to you. Won't you stand up against your neighbour as a true protector of your space

nawa oo this your neighbour don suffer just kidding...

anyways, this one is different, you said if the neighbour is silly or stupid or behaving in a ways that's totally unacceptable or way out of line, then you don know say that neighbor don pass im boundary be that. believe me, some people are foolish naturally and they will continue to enter you even if you try as much as possible to avoid them. so you have put them back in their place and reset the boundaries.. as a man you should do the needful whether the neighbour na man or woman. but this situation can still be avoided not to get to this level, by not starting unnecessary friendships with neighbors.. like I said, don't start the fire if you don't know how to extinguish it. familiarity brings contempt.. if you don't accept silly behaviour or attitude in the first place, it won't get to this level. I will access the situation carefully and do the needful.