jd3trice:
Omo! Who did this to Henry.. This guy was my classmate in Uniben. A medical doctor for that matter. What a country..

Plz find a way to get to him, lots of people are going through many things. Loan shark with 85% interest per month is devil incarnate but many Nigerians borrowed money with an intention not to pay back which is equally evil.

This is what they should have done in the build up to the general elections, no they wouldn't, all of them without exception wanted the power including one that knew he could only win his state. Secondly, if it's true they are discussing merger, I only advice those interpreting laws and hoping they can coarse the judiciary into doing what they want by making so much noise to have a rethink, the gladiators are moving on, wake up from your dream land and move on.

umarfantami:

Islam knew this and is fair to everyone that is why it allows Muslim men to marry up to 2,3and 4 wives.

How will Islam solve the case when is the other way round? The woman should have more than one man or she should be suppressed and treated like non human?

Back to the issue, please get yourself engaged with few other things and as someone advised, find out if there is or are things responsible for her behaviour.

Lagos2Berlin:


This generation's idea of love and marriage is based on fairy tale expectations and a romantic lifestyle. Once that is absent, they get bored and fed up. Marriage is work and dedication to one another and only those who see it through God's perspective can make it last.

God bless you for this piece. If you remove the originator and designer of marriage institution from your marriage, it wouldn't work. As you said, to make marriage work both spouses musk keep working at it and stop using social media as their standard

GIANTPLUSHUB:


You might have to chat up the seller yourself and confirm the price as those prices there atimes could be old price they refused to change. We will come in when it gets to payment and shipping.

If you want us to contact the seller for you, you will need to pay a non-refundable commitment fees of #3000. Thereafter, we will contact the seller and work on the landing quote for you. Sorry if you are not pleased with this, it's as a result of unserious Alibaba.com customers we have had in the past.

Thanks.

Sorry for late response, your response is ok, I understand perfectly why? I already chatted the seller and she was the one that advised me to get a logistic company that ships items form China to Nigeria to get a good shipping price. I hope this gets through without any serious issue so that I can continue using your company for other goods.

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Thank God is Friday.

We are still very much available to attend to your orders.

Thanks for your business so far!

Can you do an estimate of what it will cost to deliver this fan https://app.alibaba.com/dynamiclink?touchId=1600110312815&type=product&schema=enalibaba%3A%2F%2Fdetail%3Fid%3D1600110312815%26ck%3Dshare_detail&ck=share_detail&shareScene=buyer (2 pieces) to me in Ijede, Ikorodu area of Lagos?

Duru9:


Follow this advise

I don't think he complained of any issue, he only want to know the procedures to access the fund.

hibeatz200:
Is your mum out of job?
If she is, is she 50 years plus?
I doubt she is judging from her RSA balance.
But if she is tell her to visit any AIICO office with a white background passport, national ID card, disengagement/retirement letter, appointment letter, letter of accrued benefit ( private) if public, she will need to do a pencom verification, bank statement that matches her name ad it appears on her national ID

If your mom is still working and not disengaged, then tell her to relax, that money will keep coming to her RSA on a monthly basis till she's retired. She may then choose to process it.

Note: that money is employee+employer remittance+ investment return
Pension is an element of gross salary and it is not paid directly to the bank account, not until you're retired. It is paid to a chosen PFA and invested till she's either retired or disengaged temporarily.

I hope you've been schooled. Thank you

100 correct, these are complete procedures,

PrinceofAgoAre:
So Aiicopensio sent dz
your Rsa(pen200*** nd so on) account summary as at 31/3/2021 is balance: n27,625.12, total contribution: n19,614.54 and investment income n8,010.58.
1st que: please which is d actual pension fee
2nd que: please how can i help her retrieve d pension.
3rd que: y is d pension fee nt paid direct to her bank acct

Has she retired? If No, you can't access the fund now,although this depends on her age. If she's retired, then you need to go to AIICO's office if you are one of the beneficiaries She filled while registering. Also, you will need a confirmation of her retirement, if she retired as a civil servant, there is usually aboard in charge that will issue a certificate to you. This holds for both voluntary retirement or death in service, God forbides the death one oooo

EmancipatorEmmy:


I’m glad you’ve got over it! Try again whenever you’re ready and may things work out fine!!

Amen, thanks and God bless you...

EmancipatorEmmy:


Do you really not know anyone in the US? She didn’t ask if you have a relative or some sort; the question wasn’t specific. So, I think if you had even had a chat with someone in the US, your response to that question should have been “YES”. Just what I think though!!

I thought probably asking her for clarifications would have saved me, but the truth is that, she was looking for excuses to deny people. She asked me almost all questions you 've seen any where on VISA interview and queried me twice why I decided to leave my family in Nigeria. As for me, am facing my business for now and we go back there next year March or April,

AyeBos1:
I heard there is this black lady at Lagos Embassy today dishing out denials, Avoid her at all cost. Best of luck to everyone.

She was the one that denied me after she seemed to have been convinced I should be given VISA, she just asked me if I know anyone in the US and I said no, that was how she collected my Passport where she kept it before and gave me blue form. Did I do anything wrong answering NO when none of my immediate family members resides in US? Na go come back dem dey do?

Jaytee116:


Visa approved
US Consulate, Abuja
Dec 2nd 2020
8:30

No GRE/TOEFL etc nothing
MSC Computer Science
Financial Aid Covers 22k
Deficit 5k

The whole thing was so easy, no queues nothing, everybody was calm and friendly. I also noticed almost all the people who were there at the time i was, got their visa's approved.

Here goes
Me : Good morning
V.O: Good morning, how are you ?
Me: Good good... how are you ?
VO: Good thank you...
Me: *Slip my documents under the window*
VO: *starts typing and looking at his screen* (i think this was the time he made up his mind)

Which Uni did you applied to? Am interested in the school, for same course. Thanks

LegendAnselm:
A man died. Buried.appeared in another land where nobody knows him. Start a new life. Got married. Have kids.get a job.

Have u seen or heard such happened...
A woman just came to our house yesterday claiming to be my brother wife with children.

It happen, there are lots of mysteries in this life, if you haven't seen things, it's easy to conclude or call it African thing, but a lot of things do happen

Souqwaqif:
Dear All,

Greetings from here. Just needing a piece of positive counsel here. It has been subtle and recurrent but I decided to share this particular one.

Thanks for mature inputs only:

Patience, you need to be patient and look critically at your relationship. Look inwardly and ask yourself sincerely if you have been overbearing, always having the final say irrespective of her arguments. If you can find any fault with the ways you handled things in the past, plz know that your wife wouldn't want to risk not been in her village for the funerals, hence her behaviour.

In another way, because you said she has been doing certain things before, if you got married to a lady who doesn't have regards for nor respect you, you will need God's help in your marriage. Please look for someone who can counsel both of you together, it's well with your home.

Dgreatestt:


Hi, this is why I put up the details there. Although many have mentioned it here already.

You need to first evaluate your OND and HND transcript with WES, then u have an equivalent BSC, which u can use apply to either masters or PhD. Don't forget GRE is also important.

It's easy. Don't let anybody discourage or extort you.

Cheers

Very correct, I got my Masters admission wth my WES without stress.

Stevenssen:

Yes, retrieve your old ds-160 form, it'll tell you that this form has been submitted and ask if you want to view the confirmation page or create new one from it, select the later option. A new one will be created with many details from the old one and only very few key information that you have to refill. You can as well make changes anywhere on the new one if you want.
Make sure you write the new number out and update it on your profile.

ps : you can update your ds-160 on your profile as long as it's more than 72 hours to your interview.

thanks, God bless you

Good day brothers and sisters in the forum, there are changes I intend to make on my DS-160 form but that's not possible after submission. Is it possible as well as OK to fill another DS-160 form and Update my profile with the new DS-160 number after Visa Appointment date (date more than one month from today) has been scheduled? Thanks for always been there....

Babatill2023:
You do not need medical report for your F1 interview.

Thanks, I appreciate your prompt response

Kudos to everyone on this thread for sharing very important information that has help more people than you can imagine, God bless you all. I found the information below on my Appointment Confirmation (F1 Visa) and need some clarifications.

IMPORTANT NOTICE for K1 Visa Applicants:If you have scheduled an interview appointment for a K1 visa, please ensure that you complete your Medical Examination Report (from any of our panel physicians) and obtain your Police Character
Certificate before the scheduled date for the visa interview. NO APPLICANT WILL BE ALLOWED INTO THE CONSULATE
VISA HALL WITHOUT A VALID MEDICAL EXAMINATION REPORT.

Do I need to have Medical Examination Report as an F1 Visa applicant before I can be allowed into the consulate for my interview? If yes, is there a stipulated clinic where it should be done?

Any other information that will be of assistance in this regard will be appreciated, thanks.

If know one tells this and you pretend as if you don't know, you are certainly going to loose the good guy you don't love because he doesn't presently meet your expectations and that other guy didn't love you an inch, after conquering you by given him your virginity, all his friends will celebrate with him and he will move on to another project. You wouldn't say no one tell you, anyways, sex is not a proof of love and should be things that happen between couples,

I don't know how much freedom you have, but if you are completely self dependent, then you can make everything to look okay to them while you engaged a private investigator discreetly. If I were you I wouldn't trust anyone around me on that because your immediate family will be watching all your moves now.

If you can, make them feel yuur absence as much as possible, you may think your dad don't care because is a strong man, it's not true except he's an irresponsible man, trust me on this, he will feel it deeply than you can imagine.
Also, like some said earlier, dont loose your mind, be strong and everything will be alright.

A broken courtship is a far better option compared to a broken marriage. Irrespective of what you might have spent, plz let this evil passover you, run as much as your feet's can carry you. Few years ago, someone closed to me was told to let her then fiancee go and avoid heart break but he told me he couldn't and got married in November same year. By January following year, this my friend started regretting marrying a lady he said he will die if he didn't marry her. So my brother, you have opportunity to avoid future disaster now, run as much as you can, may God help you to take the right decision

faithfull18:

How do you know that

Nairaland is full of young and inexperience folks and everything to them is fiction, my prayer for them is for God to keep those things away from them.

tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience.

I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi

Uh, sorry for what you have to pass through because of your marriage. One thing I want you to do is to ensure you are close to your child and ensure you can always defend your position anytime, any day. I pray you understand my little advice. Congratulations on your new live,

neolboy:
Forget about this shit. how on earth are a country be assuming electricity consumption without meter. Please help me tell BEDC Akure chapter to share their prepaid meter because my mum is bitterly complaining of the huge estimate billing.


BEDC please share the freaking prepaid meter in Akure for God's sake

BEDC is the worst of all the DISCOs as much as I know, finger crossed as I watch how to handle the issue this time

Nairaland is like a lover to me but don't login to reply to messages I read for some reasons but passing by your thread without saying something may leave a guilt in my heart forever. Please I beg you in the name of God, cut off the relationship now before it's too late. Anyone who mounts pressure on you to continue is your enemy.

I actually don't know why most especially women always found it difficult to be true to themselves. Please cut off now, always remember, the most miserable people on earth are not the unmarried, but those married and found out they've married to a wrong person. My advice born out of my experiences with several families, may the Lord leads as you take your final decision.

Great information for great minds, check my signature for details

Nicklouse, I can't read through all the posts by others and wouldn't know if someone has given you the kind of advice I have for you. But there are few questions you need to get answers to. First, what was her past life like? How clean or dirty was she? If you engaged in pre-marital(I don't expect you to because you said you got married in church) sex, was she like that? Was she like this during your honey moon? Did you ask her why she wants sex many times a day? Please note that some if not all of these questions will help you to either get help or help her. Some women after one or two months after marriage without pregnancy may think increasing sexual activities will increase their chances of getting pregnant. If she's kind of having excessive urge for sex, you will need prayers and patience. Health wise, you are most likely to be affected if this happens daily, so I will support someone who already advised you to get sex machine - this is frown at by church mostly on moral ground, but brother, wisdom is profitable. As for your Pastor, he probably don't have understanding of what you are passing through, practically, you can't have sex 'anytime and anywhere' just that you are not expected to say NO to your spouse's sex request. U can drop any question if you have for me here -- remiboy@usa.com

Shalom!

Tolzeal:


No way bro. This is just the same as the glo bolt

Thanks, I'm doing a research on it and will post here if I find any solution

brightnelly:

seems you've already tried unlocking it earlier!! and have exhausted ur five times trial!!

by the way is it HUAWEI or ZTE?

That was the message I got since day one. I guessed AIRTEL did that five times thing them self to ensure breaking the security becomes hard. The MODEM is HUAWEI model no : E173u-1.

Thanks

brightnelly:

UNLOCK CODE: 62724683
FLASH CODE: 44656910

Thanks so much. I used MTN SIM with my MODEM but got this error message "Invalid SIM Detected. Please contact Customer Care!" instead of request to enter unlock code. Do you have any idea on how to go about this?