₦airaland Forum

missidy:
Yes he does, he will file for her. He wanted someone from his tribe and he got it. It's not a deceitful marriage. I have noticed that most Igbo guys come down to marry girls from their tribe especially those that studied nursing/nurses.

Many women were made "wife-for-breeding" here in Nigeria with such promise. Just double-check to be sure and possibly only get pregnant when papers are ready.

Generally, most guys abroad will prefer fellow africans. Forget the nairaland alpha males who deride African women and exalt white girls. African women are generally more understanding, tolerant and family-oriented so there is good reason to come back home and marry beyond the profession.

toujurs:
Were you forced to collect the loan?, If the interest is to high. Don't you have families to collect money from?. Must you collect the loan , you are a thief if you know

those loans are immoral and exploit the failure of the government to protect its citizens from exploitative companies. Those loans are specifically targeted are people in desperate financial circumstances with no collateral to offer. In other words, they are designed to prey on the financially vulnerable.....why will you provide a loan for 10% in 2 weeks (240% a year) to someone who has stable source of income to repay?


It likes justifying employers who exploit their employees through very poor pay and inhumane working conditions by saying they were not forced to work for the company.....have you considered they were too desperate to say "no" to the job offer because they needed to make ends meet somehow?

Dashlys:
Lies! They cannot write to your bank. They probably safely stored your information on filling detail and not contacts or photos...they can only access your phone for those if permissions were not denied. I have also heard from a lot of people that their contacts could not be accessed. That being said, you can't successfully auto-debit accounts if the initial information granted were changed. Like the ATM pin. Get out of here! Freeze which account? An illegal organization having the ability to get banks freeze an account....you think you're talking to an illiterate like yourself? On what grounds?

They can initiate a request to blacklist your BVN and freeze funds in other accounts, its just the money involved is too small to justify those measures...

missidy:
I would have posted this in the travel section but the people there are still processing their visa, they aren't living with their spouses yet. Someone I know is getting married to a US based man she has never met before. She will meet him for the first time next month when he arrives for the wedding. He saw her picture on a mutual friends WhatsApp, he sends lots of money and they communicate via video calls. I will be attending the wedding to witness the miracle with my two eyes. I also know a schoolmate that did this same type of marriage, she also met the man physically on the week of their traditional wedding.

My question is, do you know anyone that has done this type of marriage and is enjoying it. Like you know them personally, not just because they are posting happy pictures online. If you did this type of marriage, are you enjoying it? Were your expectations met after you landed abroad and started living with your husband or were there disappointments? Everyone sees it as miracle marriage but then I worry about what life will be like living with someone I haven't spent some time with.

Does he have firm plans to relocate her after the wedding (emphasis on "firm".

The marriage will at best deceitful without that.

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page

Do they have any male role model or mentor e.g an uncle or somebody quite senior they respect/admire or can respect.

Having a father figure they can emulate will probably help.

They are currently being wrongly influenced by their peers

....bravery is the product of fear

...money is not always power (APC convention again comes to mind)

...where there are 2 kings, people follow the richer one (APC convention comes to mind)

...mere words do not make you a king

..a lions doesnt concern itself with the sheep

....you have no honour

...if you can't do the dirty work, inspire others to do it for you

...all men must die

...why no one encourages you to have fun

...violence is violence

...chaos is a ladder

....when a dog wears a crown....

...if e easy do am

...building a wall invites the curiosity of neighbours

...the night is dark

lalasticlala...some of us aren't interested in the APC convention, pls push this to FP

...wear it like an armour

...a mind needs books

....money only buys temporary silence

............ignoring "wise" men could make you live long

..a king needs no permission

FOr the GOT fans, I am uploading some fascinating timeless quotes for keep here

Oshodipikin:
Total waste! Your education is a waste.

Condom was cheaper then, but the old man wouldn't use one.

Is this how your father trained you to behave or is it the absence of home training...oshodi thug supporting Tinubu...not surprise


If your father did not train you how to behave outside the motorpark environment you were born and bred in Oshodi, I wont blame him

I would blame your mentor Tinubu

Blake755:
Wenti we no go see u go see some of them Hawking akara Even eating roasted corn from the road side nah there way eye service

Funny thing is even commander in chief of the armed-forces whose responsibility it is to prevent such attacks will not be visiting

proff010:
So Pandora is better than Jagaban and PYO.?

Osinbajo has had 8 years and is a categorical failure...his best effort was to distribute 5k "loan" when he knew they did not merit a second term based on performance
BAT twice supported Nigerias worst president, suggesting he doesn't know what a competent president is or he is too cowardly to stand for what is right

And if Obi's "Pandora" bothers you but Tinubu's "bullion van" doesn't bother you, then there is a problem somewhere.

Obi hasn't had his chance and he has impressed me by distancing himself from playing PDP's money-politics that Wike and Atiku did

So yes, I will choose Obi over both...and I am a yoruba guy.

Nigeria needs real solution and not ethnic choices

bunch of joker.....yahoo pastor.

If the west cannot produce any candidate other than tinubu and Osinbajo, its best they leave it to other regions. At the end of the day, what Nigeria needs is a solution to her problem, doesn't matter where it comes from

its election season...Tinubu finally finds the interest in visiting victims of bandits attack in the south