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Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:21pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:


It's not personal

Come.on grow up.. read.my.comments , there is nothing personal about it

I am just being frank

Thank you.
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:20pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:


Truth smarts
Meaning truth hurts , but embracing truth sets you free

You may see it as harsh condemantion but it is the unedited, unbiased, truth
Marriage is not for everyone and certainly not you

You will be better off to society single , and you would be happier than to burden yourself with guilt of taking this myopic mindset into marriage and making some lady's life misreable till the point she contemplates suicide

Please remain single



Ok thanks. Really appreciate your advice.
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:20pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:


Truth smarts
Meaning truth hurts , but embracing truth sets you free

You may see it as harsh condemantion but it is the unedited, unbiased, truth
Marriage is not for everyone and certainly not you

You will be better off to society single , and you would be happier than to burden yourself with guilt of taking this myopic mindset into marriage and making some lady's life misreable till the point she contemplates suicide

Please remain single


Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:18pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:


I still don't understand how someone.with such a warped sense of reasoning will be someone's husband ??

Oh my goodness !!

First of all ,let me reiterate! YOU DO NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED !!! YOU WANT TO ! STOP ASSUMING YOU HAVE TO !

frankly you are not fit for.marriage yet.. you got a ways to go in the mental.maturity aspect...

You don't understand the difference between your wants and your needs

You think you will be doing the lady a favor because you married her due to your financial handicapp

Her life with you will be only comparable to the most gnarly horror movie ever made

You are very immature and unfit for marriage

I say again

MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE ESPECIALLY NOT YOU

Ok, now you are taking it personal. I knew I would encounter your kind. Thanks for your advice all the same.
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:16pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:
I see alot of error in your thinking

1. You seem.to think money would give you someone who you would love , maybe but it won't give you someone who would love you

2. It takes alot more than what you call specs ... Which is physical beauty to make a marriage last and work.

3. Marriage is not for everyone with your mind set you will be heading to the divorce court or you would.run out on your family ... Please I beg of.you do not get married, don't make someone's daughter's life miserable... You are not a husband material at.all.. (I say this as a friend who doesn't know you or care about you)

4. I repeat marriage is not for everyone , not everyone should be married and from what you wrote up there judging by how you think, please do not get married. You will only make her life misreable...it seems you think you are doing any woman you marry a favor?

Bros please remain single the world.will be better off... We have too many men.like you who got married and turned out to be totally irresponsible hence giving men a bad name...

REMAIN SINGLE PLEASE

[/b]NEVER EVER EVER GET MARRIED[b]

YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE MARRIED

DONT SPOIL SOMEONE'S DAUGHTER'S HAPPINESS

PLEASE

Sorry I am coming back to you, don’t you think the bolded verdict is too harsh for a man who admits being attracted by a bit of physical beauty?

I have admitted that I might not have what I takes to pursue that hence my resignation to settling down with what is available and willing.

I need advice and not condemnation. Thanks once more and keep’ em coming.
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:12pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:


If children is your.problem.you can adopt a child.. but I wouldn't subject any woman to the torture of calling you her husband with this mindset

It's so unreal and someone with such a warped mindset actually might end up married? Small wonder why divorce rates are so high.

I guess I am only being childish with my vain needs but I still have to get married. I can’t on account of my thought process not get married.

And when I advocate that I am scared, it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t treat her right:she would be my wife for Christ sakes! But I might not be as loving as I would want to.

Please get this distinction and keep your comments coming.

I really appreciate you all..
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:08pm On Sep 19, 2018
Antina:
"But this lady is the only lady willing to stand by me in this tough moment in my life"

"Given the fact that I hate divorce and don’t trust myself not to misbehave when things start moving again"

What advise do you need again? Someone that is willing to stand by you through trying times, still you don't trust yourself when you have money cos u can still misbehave?

She is not your type sir! Please don't make the mistake of marrying her. Don't make her life miserable!

Most of you guys! Na those Oloshos u dey find, after you will be crying "Girls are hoe"

I understand and that is why I am seeking advise. I am getting to know her better and striving to be content with what fate has brought me.

I can’t remain single for long however. I have to make a move before the end of next year (God preserving my life).

Please keep them advice and criticism coming. I really appreciate those who have contributed.
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:05pm On Sep 19, 2018
Eberechi24:
pls leave that beautiful soul alone, you don't Worth her.
You will break her and make her bitter eventually if things start moving for you,
you will leave her for "your beautiful girls"
Stay single.



That’s one thing I would never do: leave my wife for any beautiful woman that didn’t stand by me.

I might not express enough love, but I would never leave her. It is my family we are talking about here remember?
Family / Re: Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 2:03pm On Sep 19, 2018
Shookonekilla:
I see alot of error in your thinking

1. You seem.to think money would give you someone who you would love , maybe but it won't give you someone who would love you

2. It takes alot more than what you call specs ... Which is physical beauty to make a marriage last and work.

3. Marriage is not for everyone with your mind set you will be heading to the divorce court or you would.run out on your family ... Please I beg of.you do not get married, don't make someone's daughter's life miserable... You are not a husband material at.all.. (I say this as a friend who doesn't know you or care about you)

4. I repeat marriage is not for everyone , not everyone should be married and from what you wrote up there judging by how you think, please do not get married. You will only make her life misreable...it seems you think you are doing any woman you marry a favor?

Bros please remain single the world.will be better off... We have too many men.like you who got married and turned out to be totally irresponsible hence giving men a bad name...

REMAIN SINGLE PLEASE

NEVER EVER EVER GET MARRIED

YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE MARRIED

DONT SPOIL SOMEONE'S DAUGHTER'S HAPPINESS

PLEASE

Thank you for responding. But you cannot say I shouldn’t marry. Time is running out and I have to get children within the institution of marriage. I know my mindset is a problem but I am between a rock and a hard place here. I have to make a move since the resources to attract the kind of women I like is not there. I can’t be left hanging. Maybe I would learn to love the woman in question.
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:57pm On Sep 19, 2018
adedehinbo:
the principal might come from a Muslim background but I can bet the woman isn't a practicing Muslim

Let’s just move ahead as a people because we have the politicians to battle with.

All these problems are coming up because we have an Islamist as President but God will help Nigeria eventually.
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:55pm On Sep 19, 2018
Kdon2:


Don't mind the confused fellow. For mischief purpose they disregard the difference between a government action and a religious one. But for America I wonder what the Islam region would have turn the world into by now. But God pass them

We thank God for America, the Republican Party & Bible Belt states, and President Donald Trump.

They have been a bastion against radical Islam for Christianity and other non violent religions in the world.

God bless America.

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Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:53pm On Sep 19, 2018
Olohunjedalo:

It is not false !
Many Christians support terror . So far the terror is against Muslims! They’re fine with it .
I will tell you again . Channel your energy into enlightening your fellow Christians that are supporting this nonsense that the principal is wrong . Start from this thread by quoting them . Thanks

I presume you are a Yoruba man given tour name so I can relate with you since I am one too.

That being said, the opposition to hijab is not about hate but security and apprehension in minds of non Muslims. I have many Muslims as friends and neighbors but I would not lie that the media hasn’t done a number on the rest of the world with their coverage of Islamic terrorism. We have been inundated with news reports, images and humongous data on the dangers of Islamic terrorism and that fear has stuck ever since. So when Christians see an hijab, what comes to mind is a bomb or a potential lone wolf terrorist. You have to understand that as parents and guardians, non Muslims (esp. Christians) are justified to be terrified by the hijab. It reminds us of Islamic terror in this age of Boko Haram and other terror groups troubling the world.

I would say that personally, I would not allow my children to be enrolled in a school where hijabs are allowed. I will continually worry about the safety of my kids since the image the hijab brings to mind is terror. This is not about hate but effects of the news media about Islam. And you would not blame the media since Muslims have at many times signified support for the action of terror groupd who want to force others to practice Islam.

But on this issue, the Principal was wrong since it is a Government school which has been ruled must allow interested muslims put on hijab as part of their religious obligation. If it were a private school, it would then be another story all together.

I hope I have enlightened you this afternoon?
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:44pm On Sep 19, 2018
adedehinbo:
sorry to say you are a slowpoke who is looking for cheap excuse to justify your bigotry towards Muslims,I initially wrote that trigger the response of many Christians here and aren't surprise to read this coming from you,with this its so obvious you are a real hypocrite,you listen with your ear not your head,if those students copes better with that,why not leave them to exercise their right,I would have spare you more time to reason together if you aren't biased but its so obvious u one of those religious bigots here

You are attacking your fellow Muslim.

This is a case of divine confusion in the camp of our adversaries (I won’t say enemies because we are all citizens).
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:41pm On Sep 19, 2018
ollah2:



The school name is boldly written everywhere on this thread since you can't read the article. So asking questions is outta it.

So I can’t ask you a question again? Are we quarreling?
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:40pm On Sep 19, 2018
ollah2:


Al Qeada turned into ISIS and from the image below, we can see who is sponsoring them. Their actions has led to destruction of Muslim countries viz Libya, Afganistan, Syria and Iraq all thanks to the Christians

It's also evident how the christian God told Bush to invade Iraq.

The greatest evil the world as ever witnessed and will ever witness is Christianity

Why are you like this? Stop the fighting jareee. We have resolved that the principal was wrong to have suspended them for wearing hijab.

Why citing counter terrorism efforts by the Americans to justify your unsubstantiated claims that Christianity supports terror when you know in your heart that is is false?
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:38pm On Sep 19, 2018
adedehinbo:
are u so dumb and blind by hate not to have read that the school is a govt school and Muslims wearing hijab to school is part of right of a citizen,many of you christains claims to be tolerant while its so obvious that many of you are bigots

If the school is a Government school, then the principal has no right to ban them in view of the subsisting Court of Appeal Judgment allowing muslims to adorn their hijab.

There is merit in the complaints of the girls. We don’t need to fight about this small issue now.

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Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:36pm On Sep 19, 2018
Kdon2:


Is that what your religion teaches you? If yea your religion is religion of violence not if peace. If no, you are practicing fake Islam. So which is which

The guy you quoted is your fellow igbo man. Just so you know.
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:36pm On Sep 19, 2018
ollah2:



You asked series of questions and the answers are in the article. But instead of reading it, you were busy searching my moniker and boom quoted me like a third grader that you are

Stop jorrr. I don’t have strength for fight today.

If the school is a Government school, the principal has no right to stop the girls from wearing their hijab in light of the subsisting Court of Appeal Judgment.

But if it is a private school, the girls ought to abide by the school’s regulations. Enough of the fights. We are not the only country with Muslim citizens abeg.
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:30pm On Sep 19, 2018
Friend01:



If it's a state school under Nigeria constitution like they say.
one rule must give room for the other.
If the law that holds us as one country guarantees my right as a person and my religion which does not in anyway affect you I am wondering why you can't stick to the tolerance you deceptively preach.
I know what tolerance is to you, when it suits we hold hands and shouts alleluia, but when it suits me(as a Muslim) you become so pained that you want to eat me raw.
This is tolerance our dear Christian patriots wants us to accept as if slavery under our colonial masters was not enough.

Take it easy. Is the school in question a Government or private school?

That is the deciding factor in this case. I am really tired fighting against muslims because you people really don’t understand the fears of an average Christian about this hijab issue. I don’t think it’s about intolerance, it’s just about security.
Education / Re: Muslim Girls Suspended From Isolo Secondary School Lagos For Wearing Hijab by resurgent2019: 1:25pm On Sep 19, 2018
ollah2:


What have they forced down your throats? Hijab wearing has been effective since time immemorial and it has never affected anybody but suddenly it is a problem.

Muslims should suddenly see Friday as working day a problem and demand it should be a free day. Ofcourse you don't agree with that yet they are the ones forcing things down your throat.

I knew I would find you here. What is the problem this time

Is the school a Government or Private School?

I am really tired of this fight between Christians and muslims in this country.

If it is a private school, the students can always leave the school for another that allows hijab na.
Family / Am I making a mistake? by resurgent2019: 1:08pm On Sep 19, 2018
I live and work in Lagos and I see beautiful women everyday but there is no money, patience nor time to approach let alone marry one but there is this lady I have known for a while who is ready to settle but I do not really think she has the capacity to make me happy in marriage (because I think she’s not my spec). But this lady is the only lady willing to stand by me in this tough moment in my life. I had lived a rough life when things were okay but I never settled but I wanna do it(marriage)now.

The issue is that I am scared I am making the wrong choice due to circumstances. But on the flip side, I don’t have the kind of money or patience to deal with the kind of beautiful women I would like to marry.

So I am asking married people here for advice on whether I should go ahead or wait to have have the kinda of money it takes to pursue the kinda woman I want. Given the fact that I hate divorce and at the same time wouldn’t want a loveless marriage, I hope I am not about to make a mistake?

Please be civil and constructive in making your comments and criticisms.

Thanks in advance.
Celebrities / Re: Tunde Ednut Advises Those Waiting Until 35 To Get Married by resurgent2019: 12:46pm On Sep 19, 2018
Westaslave2:
Isnt easy 2 marry, east wie i come from marriage is a BIG institution not lagos marriage(fake marriage)...We do a lot of accreditation,CIDs,Feasibility studies,Prayers on our partners so dat wen we do d "igbankwu" nobody born of a man can snatch our happiness, dats y 70% of igbo homes ar rock solid no matter d juju sidechicks cast, n amala oriented marriage always rock after 6months wt issues of juju n hunger!
Goddess of biafra

Huge sigh.

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Politics / Re: Saraki Meets PDP Delegates In Osun (Photos) by resurgent2019: 10:37am On Sep 19, 2018
AtikuNetwork:


Where were you when Atiku Abubaker was doing his rounds across the states of the federation?

I don’t think I have seen Atiku work as hard as Bukola on this PDP ticket issue ooo. The PDP presidential primaries promises to be very interesting as there are a lot of powerful interests at play.
Politics / Re: Saraki Meets PDP Delegates In Osun (Photos) by resurgent2019: 10:35am On Sep 19, 2018
Smartwave:
because is the only capable man among them. Forget political dirty stories, Sakari is sound upstair

Of course, I like the guy a lot even though APC always tries to paint him as corrupt.

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Politics / Re: Saraki Meets PDP Delegates In Osun (Photos) by resurgent2019: 10:34am On Sep 19, 2018
Carmal90:


Atiku and lamido the other two..
Plus Kwankwaso

I have not seen the other candidates working as hard as Saraki and that is troubling.
Politics / Re: Saraki Meets PDP Delegates In Osun (Photos) by resurgent2019: 10:05am On Sep 19, 2018
Bukola is the only one going around among the PDP Presidential aspirants. Why is that?

I personally like the man and I can cast my vote for him.

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Education / Re: The 5 Muslim Students Suspended For Wearing Hijab To School In Lagos (Photo) by resurgent2019: 8:56am On Sep 19, 2018
Here we go again.....
This issue is very simple, the students should be allowed to wear their hijab since there is a subsisting and valid Appeal Court Judgment allowing hijab. I understand the view of the principal as I don’t like the fact that Muslims will want to put on hijab in a school funded with the tax dollars of Christians, Muslims and traditionalists. I personally wouldn’t want my children in a class with any girl putting on hijab, it is a security issue given the actions of terrorists professing Islam but what can we do when the Muslims insist on putting on the head scarf?

In the circumstance, I would advice Christian parents who are worried about the safety of their kids to save hard and try and enrol their kids in strictly Christian or secular schools where hijab will be prohibited. That is what I do if I were a parent. For now, muslims are allowed by law to put on their heads scarfs. We should move on to other things and not give that terrorist organization called MURIC the sounding board to espouse their fundamentalist BS!

This issue should be resolved fast and not used by bigots to garner sympathy and votes from their base.

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Politics / Re: You Keep Favouring North, Muslims, Your Islamic Agenda Clear - CAN Slams Buhari by resurgent2019: 8:24am On Sep 19, 2018
Butterflyleo:


To set you straight I repeat. Yes he is confused because he speaks from both sides of his mouth when he says he is isnt bitter but he abhors ibos and northerners.

He is bigoted because he is intolerant. SIMPLE!

He is a bitter soul because sweet water cannot come from a bad source. He has threatened to curse me and anyone else who supports buhari.

Finally one word I NEVER addressed him with is the word DEVIL!

All those are attributes he has openly displayed on this thread and other threads he jumps into. I simply told him the truth based on his works.

As for the rest of your opinion,...

[img]https://media1./images/a6070af7b76d925098250f37c988b333/tenor.gif?itemid=12131306[/img]

God will help you get over my issue.
Politics / Re: Common Kenya Disrespecting Nigeria ? by resurgent2019: 7:35am On Sep 19, 2018
Rossikki:


Shut up your dirty mouth there. Where and where have you been to in Kenya? You people just go to Nairobi and declare the whole Kenya is El Dorado. Have you been to their rural areas? Their villages? Their small towns? In fact Nairobi and Mombassa are the only major cities there, so how can they be ''way way better and more developed'' than Nigeria that has multiple large cities? How many expressways, airports, and universities do they have in Kenya compared to the HUNDREDS we have in Nigeria? How can you even dare to compare the two nations?

Outside Nairobi WHAT is in Kenya?

Let me hear any of you stupid goats compare Nigeria to Kenya again here. Rubbish.

In Nigeria we have Lagos, Kano, Kaduna, Enugu, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Ibadan, Uyo, Calabar, Owerri, Abuja - all large cities with modern facilities and some decent infrastructure.

Kenya - Apart from Nairobi and Mombasa, what do they have? Even Mombasa is not up to one million people in population.


Why the insult? Kenya is better than Nigeria!

Kill yourself!
Politics / Re: Fact: Poverty Has Reduced In Nigeria Despite Overtaking India In Poor Population by resurgent2019: 7:31am On Sep 19, 2018
There’s nothing one will not see on this NL.

See the OP trying to justify failure.
Politics / Re: Poverty And Buhari's Re-election by resurgent2019: 8:55pm On Sep 18, 2018
doclatom:


You're not far from the truth at all. You know, there are two ways to be fooled in this life: If you choose to believe what is not true OR you choose not to believe what is true. I think almost all persons still trying hard to defend this government fall into either one or both categories. They are being fooled!

No, you are wrong. The people defending this Government now are doing it for one reason:religion.

It’s so hard not to see where Buhari is going with his style of leadership. One if not the only reason Nigerians of southern extraction are lucky is that Nigeria is too big for Buhari to accomplish his plans. If he tried it in his 2nd term, a war will break out and the international community will have no choice but to remove him from office.

The world can not afford instability in Nigeria because of the spill over effects on the rest of Nigeria. That is the only thing saving Nigerians and that is why almost all the major economic intelligence bodies of the west have given damning reports about Buhari’s second tenure. Even Buhari knows that the West is on to his Islamist antics but he’s still being obstinate.

If not for Donald Trump’s eccentricities and his war against the multilateral world order, he would have worked with western allies to formulate a strategy on how to ease out Buhari. But all hope is not lost as the West all know that Buhari will not be good for the stability and progress of Africa. I still believe they would do something about him from now till next year. All these APC shenanigans is still be done in defiance of signals of the west’s aversion to another term for Buhari.

Even Buhari and Tinubu know this but they are being stubborn and they think violence from Hausas up north will stop the elites of this world from stopping Buhari’s destructive mission for Nigeria.
Politics / Re: Poverty And Buhari's Re-election by resurgent2019: 8:38pm On Sep 18, 2018
doclatom:


They've driven people out of jobs and out of Nigeria more than at any other time in our history as a nation!

It’s not a small issue oo. Capable Nigerians have left a long time ago while millions of Nigerians are still stuck here. When some of us express our hate for Buhari, most people think it out of bigotry or dislike for Islam. But no, it’s not. The man is just an economic destroyer who is lucky to have millions of poor northerners and Muslims behind him.

He’s the single most dangerous man on the African continent.

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