₦airaland Forum

So mbaise finally wins. Lol. Let's see how he performs.

It's obvious the girl will best that dude black n blue.... he wasn't holding back nada. Shes stronger

Ths is the most perfect description I've seen.

They want Nigerians to finalize turn and start killing them....imagine...

Yoruba women spoke like this ages ago and they wrecked their family life in the society....most became single mothers. Igbo girls are towing that line and as noticed igbo men are beginning to venture out more often. So keep chasing shadows. Must you marry igbi..go and find other people naw.

Small breast. Abegy

You never see me sef or my brothers you're talking ish....melanin is the best.

Daenerys vex sha.....see napalm....she level the city. No dulling.. Jon snow is just a big fool... see how many ppl he has caused their deaths.... because he cdnt close his mouth. If he wanted the throne I'll say ok but oga no wan rule.

This is some sickening story. Anyways do you have kids? I hope you do and your wife gives you another mans child..

BOOOMNAIJA:
SO THIS HIPPOPOTAMUS ONCE LOOKED LIKE A HUMAN BEING.....INTERESTING!

pmo no talk am o.... she used to be the hottest human being alive...infact by 200i she don begin fade. Tou should have seen her in 2004/05.. She could kill with her shape. Boobs, ass and slim. Plus very sexy face...

What is their busuness... did he hurt anybody abi the law also prosecutes the spirit realm......useless ppl. If na bible or cross e bury there naw dem fo hail am.

MrBrownJay1:
A) EVERYONE (not just women) desire emotion and commitment... Just because men can get married til their old age (and many don't mind fukcing around), it certainly does NOT mean we don't seek commitment/emotion in our r/ships.

B) are seriously saying that an immigrant CANNOT be a good man, and therefore women shouldn't marry them?!?! Are you serious bro?! What's wrong with marrying an immigrant?! The majority of men who seek papers don't go to these women and tell them:" I seek papers and don't care about you, let's get married" , these dudes woo these babe and do all the right things men should do, so don't blame these babes for acting RIGHT, blame these deluded con men for acting WRONG

C) What west exactly are you talking about by the way?! Ukraine, Russia where you can buy a wife for 250€ ?!
Yes there are many 3rd world countries outside of Africa where women view marriage as a do or die (like Nigerian women)
Yes there are some women in the US/Europe etc who are lazy and looking for rich men to marry so they can live their fantasy Kim K lifestyle
Does these same women seek marriage above anything else, HELL NO, they seek MONEY, to buy themselves the bling bling lifestyle. Big difference.
In the west, especially Europe, a broke single divorced mother will never suffer, she will be taken care of by the state, and if she even has a job, she wouldn't even care about getting married again... But most importantly, both these women wouldn't suddenly turn "bitter" after divorce, that's when they will live their BEST LIFE. Because on this side of the world, people don't judge single/divorced women, they are viewed just like any other

first of all you're not a man. I can smell a woman trying to speak like a man...lol
Now that being said....you spoke about immigrants ..do you not know most immigrants get married for the sake of papers etc... now this doesnt mean they have to leave the marriage as soon as they get it...but the women know the indigenous men are rapidly going mgtow so they lower their standards for the immigrant men. I'm not ready to argue with you on this. If you live in the U.S or Canada we shouldn't be at vfc using this. Men naturally do not crave commitment but have to do so for the sake of the women. The kids and society. When they grow old and weak yes they need a hmmm helper but as young men with cash hehehehm...the same cant be said about women.

Mtchweee I'm beginning to hate John snow....

Katier00:
I totally condemn the act. I am not a "modern day people" as you said. I strongly uphold values and morals passed to me by my parents. Yes she slept with another man. It is a taboo, yes she committed an Abominable act, so what can we do now? what is the way forward ?my point is let her move on with her life and don't do it again. she won't kill herself, one thing I pointed out from the story said is that she is sorry ,she is guilty yet another part of her wants to do it and that is the flesh speaking. so my own point of view and my advice to her is that she should resist the temptation and also find a way to keep her home if she truly believe in the sanity and the institution of marriage . if telling her husband will cause more harm than good then don't tell him. we talked about being honest, yes but there are sometimes we will choose to do with things that are right for that situation . when I find myself in such situation because I know the kind of man i am married to, I would rather not say than to say but I know one thing for sure that I will not do it again or put myself in the position of doing it again. Thanks

no you would, ....youd try to be as discrete as possible thinking you can be smart and discrete. Then get caught. That's w gf at happens with most women that take a good d..k outside. The only way they leave it, is if it wasn't good enough. If it was, it's a done deal. She either ends up wrecking the man ie killing him or leaving him. Forget all this one you dey talk.

zeb04:
now you know how women feel when the table turns.

By the way, madam forgive yourself and move on. Focus on your marriage and avoid your colleague , whichever way possible.

I dont think women feel this way. For a start it's more about ego for men. Women are more interested in whether her husband is still emmotionally attached to her. So as long as the woman feels shes more respected than the side chic. Most will stay bit a man no matter how the woman treats him right may never want to touch the woman again. It's very different for the two sexes.

MrBrownJay1:
Asking women to be "patient" and stay in failed miserable marriages is not only your 1st mistake in this issue, it is also a sure way to damage the child emotionally even more.

Your 2nd mistake on this issue is to believe that women are the main reason of divorces.... And as much as you may have female friends who were to blame, I doubt this is the case on ALL marriages. The rate is 50/50 men and women.

Your LAST mistake on the subject is to think that women who didn't cheat or didn't do anything wrong ain't bitter.... Sadly, that's your gravest error. Women are bitter after marriage failure because marriage is a do or die mission for most women in Nigeria. In Nigeria, marriage is synonymous with happiness, and most unmarried women will envy you on wedding day (even if you marry the biggest abusive demon out there). so divorce means the loss of that supposed happiness for these women.... And whether they did good or bad, most will turn bitter.

Also, since the day that women were born, it's been drilled into their skulls that marriage is their EVERYTHING. No matter what they do in life, if they ain't married, they are nothing. This is why people would look at Linda ikeji and still insult her to "go and get married" or "why ain't you married?" as if it is a necessity for success and/or happiness. So these people certainly will become bitter if they finally get married and then lose it all again.

Then to make matters worse, as much as a divorced woman with kids will easily find people to date, the majority are frowned upon when it comes to marriage. So, no more "supposed" happiness for them, no wonder they are bitter.

this narrative that's been promoted by sjws ....in the west here, women are even more desperate to get hooked up with all the so called liberalism. It's a womans nature to desire emmotion and commitment. Man on the other hand doesnt care until old age. The women here even lower their standards by marrying immigrants they know just want papers. Ita not apciery, it's simply women's nature.

erifeoluwasimi:
My title says it all but I still need your contribution. Looking at the recent celebrity story about a failed marriage I have decided to take a thought about failed marriages.
Before we go further I am a woman and have been Married for 7 years. I think I know little about marriage.
Firstly, speaking as an experienced person in marriage counseling (I head a big school where 30 Percent of my parents are either divorced or separated) each time I have issues with a child (moral or academic default) I invite the parent mostly mom. At the end of the day we find ourselves discussing the father. Blames upon blames on how irresponsible the father is or how the child is taking after the father. I end up asking the mom if she knows she couldn't raise the kids without the father why did she divorce him
Note: most times it's the woman that was at fault i.e.lack of patience
I have a friend too who is separated from the husband to the extent that she has refused to tell the man she put to bed till date. When she was about to put to bed she called that I follow her but I told her I couldn't because it wasn't my duty. Then she started ranting about how the man has been useless and all that. I later volunteer my sister. After the birth it was a normal birth I called my sister to come home. She said she wanted to bury the placenta that there was no one to do it. Then I asked her to return it and tell the lady to call her husband who lives just 50# can from the hospital. In summary she didn't take the placenta from the hospital. She asked a nurse to bury it and didn't bother to know if she did or not. Then I told her it was dangerous. She went back to her to her usual story of 'he is not a serious man'
Just to make peace reign I called the man to find out only to find out that my friend was a cheat, the man found out and she opted for divorce. He is not ready for it but my friend asked him to leave ( they lived in a rented apartment)
Same as been the story of most of my divorce parents, they cheated.
When the marriage failed they find it hard to forgive themselves and they resort to ranting.
Women who weren't cheating or weren't at fault are usually calm after the divorce because they know they did their best.
To avoid becoming a sadist.....be transparent in marriage
My opinion tho .....( Don't mind my typo and writing)
Cheers

its funny you said this
.... I Know so many women whose marriages crashed and they keep abusing their estranged ex husband's only to discover the man caught then cheating. Its almost like the cheats become more defensive and try everything possible to tarnish their ex. Brainless sha

kenzosky:
Pregnant for who exactly?

been wondering why nobody's asking that question
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Phone I bought since January

If this is about the election boycott, though asari is bringing in igbo ppl into his vituperation, I STAND WITH ASARI ON THIS. Nnamdi kanu lately has been showing signs if a very irrational leader. How can u boycott elections and deliver landslide victory for Buhari. That was such a stupid move. Wxcept there's something else here.

Nnamdinkanu... what did he say set. Who threw first shade. So finally they're trying to break the union ss/se militants. Anyways.

Which masters degree..... fellows honors. Useless apc. False propaganda right and left.

They've never stopped me sha..I think ot depends on how you answer them.

AngelicBeing:
Like seriously

oga you don't know....mtchweee.

KendrickAyomide:
Why this Mumu they feel say everybody wan kill am?

what do u know....his country just conquered nuclear technology and showed the west he could decimate them or atleast cause a lot of damage to them in an all out war.....so they'd do anything to eliminate him
.. Not your useless leaders that go begging for 1960 planes from the west instead of trying to build theirs.. Ijukwu and gadaffi are the only African leaders I know that attempted to build their weapons. South Africa weapons industry is practically European so......

Hes progressive afterall.... Infact hes beginning to win my heart small small.

Isnt that your dad's job

Take news....Indian movie

Slow and steadfast... his attempts at jokes are so appalling.....jeeez

If the guy wasn't in this for money hes a big fool. The chic no set sef

TDonald:
Another over priced phone at $730

my s10 cos 899 dolls. I feel cheated sef