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Lol.......our brother na gutter n garbage cleaner....well make e no come back house sha...

Ukraine that'll pay ppl for killing black monkeys...lol. you're expecting judgment from them. They'll hv o free

Strong indicators....the woman may be pregnant. If he showered u gifts and money...stay put. Ho yo your parents and discuss this with them esp your dad. I'm sure hes not igbo so the child can be taken away ....

Your kids are old enough. I wouldn't say leave the marriage now since shes sole provider. Be ready to take a lot of shit. If she's not stressing you out....go and concentrate on your biz. Have your own babe outside if need be. Be weary of what you eat at home. Draw closer to your children now in their teens. Ofcos marrying another woman now is not an option 18 years is a lot. A new woman will come with new problems ie kids etc so get a babe outside. The problem with women like that is they're very jealous sef. Be careful. You're with a potential widow.

LillyVal:
This is one secret a lot of women don't know.

Men have this psychological construct that if a woman tolerates a thing from them, they hardly will change. A man wants a woman who has boundaries and doesn't take shit. When you start bringing down your standards for a man, he feels bored; no motivation to be with you again.

Men want women who can say NO and mean NO. When once a man can make you do anything even against your standards, no matter how beautiful you are, you become less appealing to him.

Men love challenging women.
Men love women who are grounded in their beliefs.
Men love women who can walk away when what they want is not served.

This is why it's highly discouraged to settle with a man who has major habitual and behavioural issues that you can't cope with. No matter how much he poses to assure you that he'd change in marriage, if you fall for that. Immediately, the motivation to change drops.

If a man can't change before marrying you, I fear after marriage, because most men do their best before marriage. So if this is his best, imagine his worst?

Men want women who'll make them see that they'll lose them for not being that man they want.

Another reason men don't value women who stick to them no matter what they do.
He beats you, you cry and come back..
He cheats on you serially, you cry and come back again..
He abuses you emotionally, you keep coming back.

In your feminine mind, you feel you're showing him love?

No, you're devaluing yourself.

Sometimes men prefer women who walk away than women that stay.
Men prefer women they can't have because of their high standards to women who bring down theirs for them.

Even if they get into something with you. Deep down they are not so thrilled. They will easily get bored. And they'll finally leave you.

___Solomon Buchi Bartholomew

A MAN didnt write this.. a man wants a woman that will submit totally. If he finds her sexually attractive... she has him in her palms. He gets bored having the same woman for a long time but he will NEVER let her go. A man can never be with a woman that says no and argues all the time. It's a big turn off.

Money she will collect in three folds. This one na serious set up for life. She just gave him a trojan horse. He will forever be blackmailed with this single action looooolll

GhostGhost:
Nigerian Govt can be so stupid, you buy guns from foreign countries when your citizens can make guns "illegally"?! Why not make it legal and make them staff or whatever and turn it into a Nigerian gun production company?! sell the arms to other Countries that might be interested?! though 1st world countries might not buy but who knows? if for nothing else buy from them or employ them to produce guns for the government and save the cost of buying and importing from other countries. Just ensure their production meets the international standard. Useless country.

you have no idea how stupid this Nigerian federal govt and the black race can be

frozen70:
With all you have mentioned, you have endured enough

Just treat her the way she is treating you

Let her fill the heat

If she wants sex give her but sort yourself out

Make sure the kids doesn't lack

Take attention away from her and stop giving her audience

She will enter inside her shell and come out to beg you

Once you have succeeded with this accept her apology and tell her that hence fort

Anytime she becomes naughty you will start yours

Stop it, it's all not about banging, she just want to be naughty because the man has enough time and attention on her

Women has the ability to endure sex

Their sex urge is attached to their emotions, in fact every thing they do is attached to their emotions

Unlike men that can get sex urge even in the hight of tension or stressful situations

You think getting a second wife is that easy, even with kids from the previous marriage

Look women are the same with similar threats
Just pray you get the one with small wahala

Every man must learn how to manage his wife and that's why they have side chicks

lol. I know you're trying to protect a sister. I'm telling you a woman doesnt do that except her heart and body is outside. Since were talking about lagos here...then somebody is pounding that.

North will hold power till 2031. Stop deceiving yourselves.

Somebody else is banging her
...it's simple.

They are so quick to drill civilians. Soldiers shaaaa

gcof:
is that not the one they put up for 120million or so

square are the wealthiest artists that have come out of naija. The peak of their carrier was during the period nigeria had a rising middle class and thus the economy was doing great. So ad agencies and companies were giving endorsements. Now most ad agencies have died and ofcos we know CSOs by the big companies have drastically reduced even MTN cannot host project fame. Its that bad now. The industry is hard o

opebiboy:
i am talking about the richest like tuface, dbanj and psquare

I say dem never hold 10 mills cash b4.

Other third world countries learning from our useless president.

opebiboy:
Davido has one billion naira yet he doesnt show you his hotel, he doesnt upload his filling station, he doesnt post his shopping mall, all he does is show you car and shoes. Nigerians are better mumu..none of these guys have ever been in possession of 150 million naira cash. Their net worth is below 200 million and thats even the richest of them all. Even Mikel Obi dont have a net worth of 1.5billion naira. Do the maths and stop being mugus

did you say 200 million
.
..na wa o. Were talking 10 million you're calling 200 million sef. Most of them no get 5 mills for account sef.

Abfinest007:
celebrities life na hype.i once said davido don't have up to 30 billion in his account.

u have to be dumb to even argue that. The question is if he has upto 5 million in his account loooll...

If he was hausa fulani hed go free.

Ugosample:
well

thus subjective tho

Family is everything
and we as humans crave for Family, be it man or woman.

but then things don't always turn out as planned

doesnt still justify it. People die prematurely doesnt make it right. It still remains a disaster. If you get my point.

Kilamiti:
A woman will divorce you without looking back If 1) you are out rightly gay. 2) you keep laying your filthy hands on her until one-day she can't take it no more. 3) when you feel because you have married her then you can now boldly cheat and do anyhow thinking after all she wants to bear "Mrs" she will tolerate all my nonsense. LMAO dear men, these new generation women are nothing like your mothers and grandmothers ohhhh,they are changing the narrative. They are going all out to be independent,vibrant,energetic. They will throw your silly ass outa their precious lives and move the Bleep on without looking back.these ones know the importance of self love and peace of mind.dont go about cheating and misbehaving.they are quietly watching you and one-day monkey go go market and won't return to your home with the kids. There are a million and one men with the same dick as urs if not even sweeter. Treat your women as trash and one-day like play like play you will loose her to a better man.

when you get to age forty youd realise there's a lot to lofe than dick and men. A stable family life keeps a woman very happy.

She even get event centre for Abuja loooooll...this one na asset.

That girl on orange
.....make I run go fetch my vaseline... I'm def going to to impregnate her tonight in my mind...shes finished. I pity her.

When the man tells his own side now una go shock... the way these women can lie sha. I can never believe a one sided story. No man willingly abandons kids he once cared for. I stand to be corrected. If he did in the I'm the past .. what changed him?

ibkayee:
If they infect you with a bacteria called Bartonella via their saliva and you leave it too long without treatment, not all cats will have it but it's probably best to avoid that kind of contact in case you come across one that does

how will a cats saliva get into your eyes except it licked your eyes. Lol....only a pervert gets cats saliva in their eyes.

Naijafull19:
Worst presidents?

1.Shagari

2.GEJ

3.Buhari.

Reasons

1 and 2 wasted a large oil largesse on wasteful spending and corruption and as a result, gave us Buahri both times.Also Shagari and GEJ mismanaged our security systems....

3(bUHARI) Refusal to remove subsides on power and petrol...which would long term have guaranteed us jobs and economic growth...because somehow spending money on a big hole called subsidy is a wise move.

IBB is in a class of mediocirty on his own.

Yaradua would have done well if he hadn't died early.

how wo uh old he have done well.. which single roadmap or po LLP icy did he design. He killed the 30 naira redecimalisation policy soludo tried to implement because of his black market foreign exchange brothers. That's how you ppl talk nonsense without

BKBabe2019:
Goodluck Jonathan, followed by Gen.Babangida, Aguiyi-Ironsi then Gen. Abacha. I think fifth place is a tie between Obasanjo and Nnamdi Azikiwe.

please how would he have performed better .... he killed the 20pound redecimalisation policy soludo tried to implement, because it would affect his black market fillar changer brothers....was slower than Buhari etc that's how you ppl will be talking nonsense without having a clue. The guy couldn't even read his speech. Then brought in Sanusi that crashed the stock market with his useless policies, killed two of our strongest banks because of personal neef. Pls make I no swear for you there o

MrBrownJay1:
I think that nobody goes into marriage with a negative mindset, unless they marry for the wrong reasons...money/pressure etc



Sadly, marriage goes hand in hand with divorce... and as much as nobody wishes/hopes for failure, it's counter productive and especially HIGHLY irresponsible to believe that there is no way out of marriage.



As much as some people are willing to change or overlook certain traits... others are not willing to compromise or change and there is nothing wrong with that (IMHO).many people pretend to be who they are not, in order to con people into marriage, and staying with such awful person...is a fallacy.



Do you really believe that a woman is automatically happier in a miserable union than divorced woman?! No wonder so many women are miserable and wrongly staying married to monsters.

You have such a failed outlook on divorced and single mother...it's sickening but also very very sad!!!! The only reason that these women are looked down upon is because of the deluded African society and the ego of African men.... that want tear rubber wifey while being highly used tokunbo themselves. And sadly, women like you believe in this ego driven failure.

rubbish. It's no achievement to be a single parent. Look how the black community is totally damaged wth dysfunctional kids everywhere in the U.S. Single motherhood destroyed everything there. Now there's little hope. The cycle continues.

sofiscatedmoron:
Lies
30 billion gang, lied that he owns a private jet, was caught and later said he's father's property belongs to him

the fathe

sofiscatedmoron:
Lies
30 billion gang, lied that he owns a private jet, was caught and later said he's father's property belongs to him

his father doesnt even have a private jet.. artist's and lies
.........

Crying and slaying. Arranging her hair.. all these ppl and victim mentality.

Dem mean this guy shaaaaaaaa....... stay low una no gree. Una go dey form rugged. Most ppl wey don play runz mature grow. Realise na mumu dem been dey do. Play it with sense. Stay closed all the time. Dem waste this one...rugged am badly.

Yet ediots voted him out. One of lagos best govt ever

They need to take that child away from the bastar..d parents. And castrate both of them.

Ryan03:
everyone is not your mum, I wonder how many dick she ducked during those years, Hippocrates

I understand you may have been suckn d..ck your whole life but all think like you.

Useless blackrace...to solve any problem they run to the white man and wonder why hes at the bottom of the food chain.