₦airaland Forum

uyiekpenn:
you're a bigger slowpoke. Scallywag

taaaaaaaaa go n self-service

uyiekpenn:
you're very very stupid. Typical nigger with a low self-esteem

you're a dullard if u couldn't see the sarcasm in his post

Ate they not. When they worship the gods n ddities of Israel n believe them to be the chosen ppl. Superior to everybody.

luminouz:
He is d guy...fajuyi was a grand uncle to me.....
Guess he knows now how it feels to see his own people helplessly slaughtered!!

yes look him threatening war. When ojukwu did he was so insensitive cos it wasn't his ppl. Karma in full force

Is this not the guy tht murdered ironsi n fajuyi, n was rewarded handsomely .. Lol glad its in his lifetime.

Now she wants to risk a child having autism, or down syndrome. After 40 its not advisable for women to give birth. The children aren't usually normal. Pls save the poor child.

Now it is really not important to change surname as a woman, if both couples don't mind, they can answer different names. Though I wonder how documents for married coupled will be validated with different names. When the woman's name isn't on any of the properties cos her nsmrd different. Shell know. But its really not by force. Though it creates z family identity. If feminists can get men to answer their father's names then fine. We don't needing a feminist movement for this

corpershun:
Says a man boy who cannot spell Silly

So many boys on nairaland that are still eating "mummy, thank you ma" and living in daddy's house. Yet feel like they have got experience SMH

I'm pretty sure ure one of them fat ugly angry looking feminists. But well it's really not by force to marry. Leave the sexy slim, endowed, soft spoken, gentle ladylike, home builders to grow families. Like our mother's kept their homes. I'm sure there's trannys and lesbians willing to wed u feminazis. Women are the ones that even pride in changing their names sef....lol

Has anyone noticed, its almost like. The more spiritual/ religious populations are the poorest.

Too fat jo

YOUNGELDER1:
If this one gives milk what then does the likes of Roman goddess give when you give them money

roman goddess will just kill somebody...why do I like boobs lyk this sef

rOsy247:
Gbam!!! This says it all. Let him use his tongue to count his teeth after reading this cos it's all about the advice he needed.


As for those blaming one party alone, wehdon, continue being one sided. Both op and his wife have problem. If both of them can read this above and digest it, they can revive the already dead marriage.

I'm sure this is a joke

Yoshy:
Soft pedal on your ego, talk more to your wife and try to understand her more, your wife appears to love you so put in more effort to save your marriage. Move away from where you live now if it's close to her sisters.

And NEVER forget your mum because of your wife or in-laws.

this will make her detest him the more.

Broda u dnt seem to understand ure too soft.I know there's always two sides to a story so this your account is definitely not complete. Now moving forward, it's clear ur wife needs a break . she got married at 18 as u claim, she hasn't flexed life. She's def in need of a different man.as for her sister....she def has a weak husband so blackspot her.The divorce threat is a rarce, ask her for it ...insist you wnt it. Since u live in a big house employ a nanny tht can Cook, without saying a word to her.....I guarantee u shell cone running bck. If that doesn't work, the marriage has crashed. Move on

I know the love a father feels for a newborn. But once u and the mum are in bad terms, shell use the child to get back at u. I know how painful it can be. Which is why its imperative u learn how to drop attachment to kids, afterall they're visitors who will forget you when they grow. What matters most is you don't dvlop a bp. Your wife would come and cry the loudest if you die. If she wants to bear the liability of training a child alone let her suffer herself. When she gets older shed realise how Stupid she was. Finally she can't drop ur child with her sister and take off. Youll be granted custody if you litigate

This one dey find lesbian partner. No need to hide behind feminism jo

I thought all lagosians were enchanted. Lol....ppl hve forgotten.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
.....Is that so? I'm not a feminist though

that means you guys will hit it off wella....how'd u wanna hook up with him?!! Here or somewia else? I still warn u...the guy is corrosive o... Me I lyk u..I'm tryna protect u o

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Perhaps you can connect me to that your friend, he seems intelligent

OK ill connect you....but the guys vicious ooo....n he hates feminists. Are u sure u lyk such rubbish guy. Me ayam n angel o

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Very funny.

I'm the perfect one for u......infact a those posts weren't from me oooo.. Its my friends. The guy na goat. Me ayam gentle n I love feminazis. Try me naw

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Only a sweeping glance at your threads tells all. Bye Mr mallam

no wait nawww...I'll die if you go plsssss dear... Chaii see as I lose correct chic

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You sure about that Where are you from?

I'm a mallam.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Men love feminists(liberal). A woman who knows what she wants, has her say, independent, and can communicate effectively in any intellectual discourse. I think social media is the cause of men becoming less masculine

NO...men love women that are a lil helpless, but super tactical. This ensures he takes responsibility or becomes onerous to her, thus boosting his ego. Independent women make men feel useless, and we all know how women don't really handle power cos of their emmotions.
This is the ideal position tho. No man wants to share responsibility with his woman. That's basically the only way hell guard his queen like an egg.

Moboj:
I'll give a little tip
House of Gidigbo,whoever knows the meaning
Op it's the country's culture
If killing wasn't a sin,some of us won't have thought twice to end our parents then
One thing for sure,the next generations cant suffer this.The greatest forgiveness is for us to let go of the past and put up a smile when we see them
Stories are better left unsaid

wait till u get in their shoes. My pops said he NVR thought he'd best us wen we were born ......he pulled a gun on us. ....he's late now tho.... I need him more than ever now. A lot to learn from him as a man now. No uncle has been able to filled that space. Cherish urs

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So we don't know our responsibilities anymore? What do u think is the cause?

women r getting more feminist men are getting less masculine

tolam4skywd:
I think one thing our parent lack is that they don't know affection goes a long way in the life of their wards... My dad will rather show affection to people outside d family than his own children..
Will you believe if I tell you that at 22 I still fidget when I want to talk to him... I always see him as a total stranger.. He has two cars and I don't even know how to ignite a car not until a friend taught me... The worst of it all, which I really need advice from u nairalanders is that I just gained admission for my HND program in an institution which is not far from our house and he refuse to let me get an hostel, he said I will be going to school everyday from house which I really don't like because it will curb me from engaging in any social activities in school.. I even accepted because If I refuse there will be no one to sponsor me.. And My mum isn't financially buoyant to sort that out.. Recently, I asked him for just 8,000 to do my registration and all he said is "I don't have money now ooo" Imagine, who does dat, the way he even said it was so annoying, even if he doesn't have the money at that moment there are so many ways he can say it... Pls nairalanders what should I do about it, because I'm getting fed up each and everyday.... And I don't want to engage myself in internet scam which has bn the trend among we youth to get money... My dad is the worst dad ever... He never show us love although deep down I know he do even if not much....

all these kids tlkn.. I used to speak like this before till u hve to sacrifice for kids.

Gangster1ms:
Similar parents but urs is worse..my dad is a dictator.. u dare not challenge him.. whatever he says is right even if it's very wrong.. he always wants the best for himself and doesn't care if you don't get anything especially when it comes to food.. my sisters dare not go near the gate. Always locked inside and i hated that cos they need to be exposed... but despite all these the man dey try for us sha especially when it comes to me .. i get more favours compared to my siblings.. and in recent years my brothers and i have grown so big that we now challenge him everytime.. he fight backs reminding us on how he is the God we can visibly see but now he's tired cos we stubborn die and we never relented on challenging him no matter what he did to punish us then.

My mum on the other hand is not stingy.. always give no matter how little she has (especially to outsiders) but sometimes can go a whole year without giving me her son a thing just to punish me.. the similar thing btw ur mum and mine is that she always support my dad when he is terrorising us instead of making peace.. infact she makes sure she adds more petrol to the fire and she never keeps a secret.. tell her secret something this minute and the next minute she will tell the whole world including my dad that may later query us for that secret.. for this reason we especially the boys never talk anyhow especially while at home.. while the girls till this moment are still learning on how to keep their mouth shut, it's harder for them cos girls like running their mouth

its simple...wen u start paying for ur house n feeding, then u can challenge him...ohhh u were expecting him to gve u the best part of his food loooiol... This is the very impetus needed to mke boys desire to work nn mke their money independent. The world out there isn't easy..no entitlements, if u ask me. I think he did a fairly great job. I wonder why kids always think their mums will tke sides wth them...when THEY WERE CLEARLY WRONG
In time you'd understand sha. Time

sharpwriter:
Hey! You must never live with him. why would he want that? If you can fend for yourself, plan to have where you and your wife will reside after marriage. Don't let him know. play with wisdom and deceive him.

PS : I really believe evil spirits do manipulate some parents against children. Many of these things are more than crazy. Pseudo parenting. Foolish parents thinking they know it all.

the idea of parenting is to raise children to attain independence... I know mother's r the ones tht detest ur independence.. Dads on the other hand can't wait for the kids to get out ...lol. Your dad failed in this aspect. R u an only child?

This is clearly a foolish child's write up. We all grew up under similiar circumstances and guess what?!! Most of us now understand, why pops as a dictator. So u were expecting ur mum to tke side with u pp against her husband inftont of u guys. Wht will ppl like uz wen popsy chased us with double barrel after we bashed brand new car he parked?!! We run comot from house.if Im given a chance to decide how my dad n mum raised us, I'd still ask them to continue, cos we were truly stubborn kids. They saved us.

Truth is we kids ddnt know how terrible we were and the pains we caused our parents. When u become a parent, come bck n spit this trash. Go n cherish ur parents for training ur rebellious arzz

This ediot op celebrating street lights.

Arabs n Asians wan die for Nigerian passport o...while my ppl r running.

DrinkLimca:
She is right..
we as guys should learn to control ourselves when it comes to sex..

When we try to make a move and she rejects or tell you she is not in the mood,, a real man should respect himself and let her be..

Sometime in life,, we are not just in the mood for sex,, it is not every time that we will be demanding sex from our girlfriends,, at times a decent conversation and a shoulder to lie on are all she needs.

no...tell her to wear her clothes n getout from the house.. So u can go n pik one chic on the streets wey u go pay without stress

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My dear her story ain't about short term dating. I'm sure most of our grandparents of those days never dated long but they stuck with themselves until death.

cos everybody knew their place. Their responsibility etc