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mito:
It's too risky for me. He needs to show his commitment first.

"he needz to show his commitment". . .as in. .
Obviously it U that has fallen and even want the guy.
Ok let me be serious here.The dude means exactly what U re thinking,he both wants Ur body and U. . As for commitment to be candid it will mostly depend on U,how U react to his advances,U don't ve to have s€x with him but give him a chance.Let him feel relaxed around U,don't get uptight when he talks about s€x but be firm if U don't want to ve s€x with him yet. . .figure it out Urself if he just wanna ve s€x with U and move on or he wants both sex and a soul mate. . .let him talk,don't assume for him,infact be witty and carefree when U guyz gist,put words in his mouth if U think he is pondering abt sth U suspect. . .Just use ya head like I have told U earlier on. . .in the mean time. . .I fink U need to get laid coz it's showing alluva Ur posts. . .hehehehe. . .

kpolli:
na gangster movie u dey write script for
just kidding,
guy go ahead, i did the same thing but wanted to be serious wit her but ofcourse she couldnt agree, i see the same happening here but your game fit tight, mine aint tight

hahahahaha. . . .real gangstar movie my Gee. . The mood,tone and use of slangz was intentional. . .U know the playa playa thang. . .lol. . .hahahaha. .
But ön a more serious note,my guy xpressed thesame reservations of what her reaction might be,i just told homy to lemme worry abt that. . .i know my confidence is annoying & kwezzy kwezzy but U know it's a playa'z world. . .hahahaha. . .like I alwayz tell haterz. . Pls hataz don't hate the playa hate d game. . .hehehehe. .

H2O2:
rhymz, there was a mix up.  

tope,  rhymz mistook your post to mean something else.

rhymz, tope was referring to st*rz. her old moniker was Rebellious, until it got banned.

Lol

hmmm. . .realy. . Well watever sha!
And homie thanx for Ur honest opinion,I will do just that. . .hehehehe. .

H2O2:
lmfao  @ st*rz  


and lol @ rhmyz

if you gon' bone, bone.  be a man.

of course i wanna bone her,am just concerned bou my homie. . .or is it wrong to care abt Ur homie's feelingz?

Krisafics
U need to see dis chic to understand why she kinda freakz moi!
Besidz she aint my homie's gal. . Not in her dreams

Hey Wats Up playaz,
It's Ur Boy rhymz.Well homies,I am in a kinda mixed up situation here,i mean this is like a kinda drama going on btw these three characters,Me,My very close homeboy and a Chick!
Lemme dish dis out in bits and pieces.
There's is this chick who has been falling helplessly for my homeboy,I fink they started out at their place of work.Initially my homie wasn't that serious wif the gal may be becoz of the age difference,so he was always giving her the impression of a bigbrother instead of a lover.But this chic even though young didn't mind,she kept on giving my homie signs,the other day she sent him some very salacious txt msgs,infact,it has become her modus operandi lately.
Meanwhile,my homie has a gal who is a bit uptight abt s*x but he's serious wif her.However,my homie has a problem when it comes to expressing his feelings to a chic,this is where I come in.
My Homie had once introduced me to this gal when I dropped by his office for some biz,coincidentally this gal stays in my Hood. . . We got talking but nothing happened,I decided to respect my guy and stopped at talking.
Then one day my homie & I were in the company of other friends in the neighborhood and then she suddenly appeared & greeted everyone before she left.Then came the gists.One of em guyz gave us a blow to blow account of how dis chick has had flings that culminated to some raunchy sex and stuf,and there I was looking at my homeboy,his countenance didn't xpres any surprise or shock.Then I decided to probe him further by throwing at him a quizzical look,there and then he admitted to having knowledge of it. . .I was like Geeez. . .homie!! Are U sure U ve got blood rolling in & outta ya sugarstick??All he said was yeah yeah but U know am not that kinda guy & I was like whatever,I don't see nothing wrong getting a little bump 'n' grind.
Then I told him I would like to get a lil piece of the action with d gal. . .He was like no problem niggi & even gave me some tips then I set out for work.I collected her number & invited her to the house,she said no shit,all these went on right in front of ma homie,he was like cool niggi,U go dawg!!
On D day,she came over,we had a lil chit-chat,then I went out to get her sth to drink,unluckily for me,my homie had just arrived 4rm work and just went in straight up.By the time I came in,I noticed she became a lil uneasy & my homeboy just resigned himself to ma room.I tried everything to get her relaxed but it just didn't work,then I decided to call my homeboy to the parlour probably to douse her uneasiness,my homeboy even worsened the situation with his very unusual & unnatural reticence,i just had to give up men!
After then,I decided to change strategy and acted like I wasn't interested anymore.
Now I fink there's another chance to strike,I ve just invited her over under the pretext that I wanted us to do biz she came over dis nyt,saw my homie & acted indifferent likewise my homie,there seem to be some kinda misunderstanding btw em both. . . . And am finking should I strike now,I mean should I take advantage of the situation,it is not like my homie is her boo but one thing that strikes me in all these is my homie's ambivelence and caprices towards the gal.One minute he's acting like he wants to get her laid & the next minute he's acting like he doest give 2 fckz abt her.This has made me question his honesty towards giving me his approval.
Now am finking whether to go on & perfect my own agenda without his knowledge coz I know the gal in question is read to roll ballz wif me if I play my cards right.But I do not want to hurt my homie's feelings or undermine his chances wif the gal but again he aint sure abt what he wants to do wif the gal. . . .
Guyz what do U fink?? Should I go on and do what a playa has got to do. . .he's already told me to go on if I want but his ambivalence tells me he means the opposite. . .he might even see this thread coz he is a NLander as well but is usually in the auto& computer section.What's Ur take fellow Playerz.
NB: playa haterz can as well drop their shyt too as long as it aint oozing much. . .lol

@Oribim
Dis Ur 2face line is so apt in this situation. . . Dem go kill demselves by demselves. . .hehehehe
Mito
Since e dey do U as e dey take do am,why not let him POYANSH so that Una Bp go come down then The two of una go fit fink straight. . . .

@Oribim
Dis Ur 2face line is so apt in this situation. . . Dem go kill demselves by demselves. . .hehehehe
Mito
Since e dey do U as e dey take do am,why not let him POYANSH so that Una Bp go come down then The two of una go fit fink straight. . . .

All these prophet self na to them,sometimes I wonder if they live in this same Nigeria with us.
I can bet my penny with this kalokalo prophet that Yaradua won't make it pass this year. that guy is on life support abeg.Except the man wants to get porpular,who believes all these prophets again anyway,shebi na so one wake up claim say him see him fellow coleague inside hell. . .scheew. . .home boy don high himself finish com dey confuse things.Abeegi!

mbulela
U re totally correct infact Ur post to me,is the realest here,U touched the real problem with NL.
I am going to say this without any equivocation or fear,the only thing NL has going for it is the large number of Nigerian youths spiced up with the diaspora nothing more.In terms of innovation,NL is prostrating and begging for it,like mbulela rightly pointed out,threads that make it to the front page are usually gibberish and jejune for any serious minded person to want to contribute .And then U ve to worry about the new censorship campaign rife with heavy politicking and favouritism that make U want to curse Seun.
As for those of us arguing that FB is fake and NL is real that is so not true.Infact,if there's any site with an avalenche of pretenders, it's NL.If U want a dutch courage without having to drink alcohol come to NL.FB is way mature and has entertaining innovations that NL does not have,it parades more mature and international audience and U got to control who U want to be friends with.NL is a one man business and is flawed with the usual diadvantages of a one man business.As much as I like NL,i don't think it can stand where FB stands.That is the fact.
Mbulela thanks again for Ur candidness,lately,ppl have been afraid of speaking their mind because they fear they will get banned as if NL is their full time job.If anything we are doing them a favor. . .

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=340153.msg5097136#msg5097136 date=1260606464]your 1st problem is expecting much from seun, dont u know it takes too much energy to be reasonable?  [/quote]hahahahaha. . . .I like it this. . .this is what I call the sound of silence. . .hehehe

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=366007.msg5107942#msg5107942 date=1260778299]tom said that? hold on let me jerry  [/quote]How far na. . .long time Sha since that ugly incident. . .hehehehe. . .i saw Ur post in my thread,Thanx men! u know sb has got to stand up to those tyrants and women wrappers and tell them the home truth. . .anyway sha na dem saka, dem don already lock am. I ve made my point to dem and I know many aggrived NLanders have also taken the opportunity to air their displeasures. .
@mitto
U berrer use ya tongue count ya teeth b4 ya name go become mo gbe! homeboy wan poyansh if U no sabi. . .lol. . May be when him don give U belle im go tell U wetin im want 4rm U. . .hahahaha. . .Use ya head O!

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=365984.msg5107146#msg5107146 date=1260753377]cant use that word, even songs that have it in, irritate me.[/quote]Fact is that Nigerians do not even understand the meaning of the word "Swagger",some like the OP even think that it's thesame thing with swag.
Swagger connotes an arrogant mannerism in the way a person walkz and it's usually used in a disapproving tone-U know that nigga attitude-while Swag could either mean a loot or a bunch of clothes packed up by a traveller.
So Mr Poster what do U mean by "Ladies do Ur Guyz ve swaggar and what is Ur Swag sign".It's either I need to be tutored or U need a re-orientation of some sort. . .

C2H5OH:
Ohh rhmyz, okay you are Igbo.  I am  very relaxed.  Perhaps you misunderstood me.  Allow me to reiterate that I made no comment suggesting that the Igbo race alone was indicted in that post.  My comment was specific to the ritual killing of twin babies as it correlates with the practices of the Osu Igbo in Nigeria.
Perchance you would allow me to explicate and substantiate my comment further - in case it is not yet clear enough, although I'm sure you already grasped my meaning.
The first thought that flushed into my brain upon the poster's mention of "killing twins" and "evil forest" was of course the backwards, asinine ancient Igbo practice of old.  I'll go off on a limb and say that's his most familiar example, as it is mine.
We're better off educating our youths on these issues.  Those who have no knowledge of its prevalence in Igbo-past now do after reading those posts.  

Moreover, the post was made cheeky and wasn't meant to be scrutinized as heavily as it has been.  Those of you who were up in arms about it must have been looking for a reason to diverge from the focus of the thread.


Without further side-tracking, let's get back to discussing the topic of Africa's "Spiritual" Bankc . . .

I understand U very well my friend but like I said those were not perculiarly igbo cultures,I can give U examples of where those were also practised too but I don't want to deral the thread.

@Poster
I don't think it's right to say that africans are spiritually bankrupt.
If we were to go by the definition of Spirituality which is the quality of being concerned with religion or the human spirit,you will clearly and undoubtedly agree with me that Africans are not lacking in those.Instead,I will say our obsession with religion and spirits has led us to mental colonialism entrapment,laziness and paranoi.Let me quote this saying by an atheist which aptly lends credence to my arguement,he says and I quote: "The problem with religion is that it makes people believe en masse LIES an Id!ot will not believe in his deranged seclusion".Africans have been actively practising religion even before the advent of slavery and the whiteman.We were acceptive of their religion not because we were spiritually bankrupt and were susceptible to anything that took the resemblance of religion.Rather,it was because the whiteman's religion didn't only have economic values(social works of the missionaries like building of schools etc) but it also came with very simple ideologies that were not only practicable,simple and to a large extent superior(as its economic values were evident through the missionaries)but also an exact opposite of our own heterogeneous religions and practice.However,like the saying goes,"even in freeland nothing is free" as the white man immediatly capitalized on religion to change our mentality,cultural values and even question our intelligence.They did this through what we call western education occassioned by religion,they rearranged our minds,confused those of us that tried to pick holes in this "new religion" and then started bastardizing our concepts of good and bad.They associated it with colours-White is good,saintly,angelic & pure while Black is bad,evil,demonic and corrupt-as if that wasn't enough,they went further to give a human face to these concepts-Jesus the son of God was white,angels where white in white robes and shiny white glows while the Devil and his host of demons were black horned scary beasts in hell burning to ashes and black.One of the reasons I left the roman catholic was because of this same deliberate systematic brainwashing that I noticed there,Jesus was white and so were all the other saints,orders came from the vertican and ppl followed them like zombies without any questioning.It was like the Black race never existed during time of Jesus even the bible and quran say little or nothing about the black race all these proved to me that the black man has no place in these religions except it was systematically designed to mentally colonize us and keep us tamed and subservient to thier whims and caprices.
I remember having an arguement about the concept of eternity as espoused by the bible which was totally different 4rm the quaran,it was an eye opener but I wont want to go into that now maybe I will do that in another thread or post.
But in conclusion,what I am trying to say is that our obsession with religion and spirits led to colonialism which today has trascended from just slavery to mental colonialsm which to me is even worse than slavery.Infact if Africans were less obsessed with religion,maybe this mental entrapment occassioned by religion would not have been as brazenly possible as it is now.
rhymz

C2H5
It is U who needs to relax.I am igbo,Yes but I don't see anything that indicts the igbo race alone in that post.Killing of twins and evil forest are not perculiar with igbos,virtually every race and tribe in Africa did such at a point in time in history.So let's not derail the thread with unneccessary idiosyncrasies.

C2H5OH:
      why are you taking snide shots at igbo people like that 

how is that tantamount to taking snide shots at igbos. . .get real that statement is as general as IBB.

breezy047:
ladies do you naija guyz have enuf swagga?
Guyz n gurls watz your favorite swag?
If u'v got swag sign on here and show your swag

Gosh!! Nigerians ve over used dis word 'SWAGGER' that it has become tastless and redundant. . .the mention of it makes me want to kill whoever introduced it to Naija. . .the word is just so not it any more. . .Abeg Mr Poster slow down wif the way U use dat word coz If I see it again I might stain U wif my Vomit. . .

@Mikaency and Ibime
I totally agree with Ur views,Nigerians have continued to erroneously believe the myth that the north controls or decides who becomes what in our polity.The truth is ,this age-long lie is believed on the basis of the false northern population and their deliberate domination

I havd said it several times,Mr President wont return to Nigeria alive. . .call me weird or wicked but that is the true situation of things.Yaradua is on life support 4get the media dressing and lipstick report. . Mr President is not just dying he is already dead without the life support. . .he is in a stage where humans cant do shyt to bring him back.

Debosky
See how fast U deleted my response to your favourite tribalist galfriend Tpia (or whatever d mess her name is)calling me names. . .U are such a very partial arbiter and a first class hypocrite,U delete posts when it offends your own sense of decency  (which I don't give a mess about)not neccessarily the law. . .it is ok for your mistress to call me "ODE" but when I call her NL's "queen of catastrophic kitsch",U were swift in response to deleting my posts.
I just hope U guyz are not using this your mod status to curry favours 4rm these unruly females on NL.What is the difference btw Michelin's posts and any of the deleted posts?

thats my probs i no get time for protocol

tkb417:
hit the report to mod button and they shall be addressed

thts wht i got from his post

funny enuff, never used tht stuff and i wont

thankz i will make u a mod, hhahaha

Thanks anyway sha Debosky,at least u ve come out to defend your coleague"s threat to me.At least u display some degree of maturity than the actual guy. Anyway shadont 4get my complaints oh,by 2moro i want those two ppl outta NL since na so una dey do am, hehehehehe, am outta here

debosky:
That is what you are supposed to do - retaliation and personal attacks are against forum rules.

I'm not interested in your age or perceived ability to take actions. The rules on nairaland.com are clear - report to the moderator if you are insulted. Doing anything contrary to that will bring about consequences. SIMPLE.

Any infringement noticed by the mods will be acted upon - thanks for the heads up.

ok sir but am surprise u ve not quoted my complaints abt sjeezy and tpia in particular or are they ur favs?

adolfe bad:
Mr moderator
i can't believe u practically deleted my recent post on this thread
you don't want people to see what i wrote up about u? Lol
where then does real power lye?

hahahahaha, tht's NL for U OOOO some ppl are powerfull than Obama here

debosky:
Whether you accept it or not, there are rules on nairaland - if you do not comply with them you can go to any of the other forums on the internet. No apologies will be made with regards to the warnings you were given.

Again, that is your prerogative - the rules are clear. Attacks on individuals are not acceptable, and if brought to the attention of the mods or admin can result in a ban. If you feel insulted, kindly refer to the forum rules and comply accordingly. I am sure there are many posters here who speak their minds openly that have not had any reasons to be warned, simply because they comply with the rules. You are no different to them so you will not be accorded any special treatment.

Retaliation is NOT allowed on nairaland. If you feel insulted, REPORT the person and the individual will be dealt with accordingly. To take laws into your own hands means you have also broken the forum rules.

You are free to complain - I would personally want you to bring up ONE example in the ROMANCE forum where you have raised a complaint but have not been responded to. If you want to make a 'general' comment, go to the nairaland section to do so. What Seun's motives or traffic centres are is not the issue here - there are clear rules and if you do not abide by them and are caught, you will be punished.


A warning/threat is simply a matter of your perception - you were informed of the nairaland rules and penalties for disobedience, SIMPLE.

You were not singled out, as a number of other offenders were similarly admonished as you were and they didn't set out to create attention seeking threads.

Hardly - if anyone was 'itching' to ban you then you would be banned by now.

oh realy? am suppose to report every insults sb throws at me right?abeg mr mod get real,am not a kid that has to get daddy's consent to take actions.guy abeg start ur cleansing with sjeezy and co thank god you are here right now at least he has already posted his usual.and, hahahah am seriously surprise myself that u ve not exercise ur NL right, Anyway,na u sabi sha

tkb417:
rhymz

take it easy; not all the mods are bad.
we've got the good ones and the bad ones.

I have been at the receiving end of a trigger happy mod too who banned me for criticizing a post and the next thing i saw was "stop being a nuisance"

initially i got annoyed and wanted to do stuffs but hey, my gurlie told me to get a life

thts the koko, remember why ure here, to unwind and if unwinding will add more stress to your life, avoid the person or forget the blog.

forget this wahala

you are right sha.e just be say it was my first and the rational was just not fiair.anyway sha no long thing.

deluxecad:
That's quite courageous dude, we need folks like u in d national assembly. Lol.

it is not even about courage or some ego boosting trip that i am about,it is the rational for the warning/threat issued to me by the mod all because I commented in a thread that turned sour.It is annoying to know that some ppl do and say worst things and dont get warned or reprimanded,Sjeezy tpia and co are notorious tirbalists who dont spare any opportunity to make very tribalistic comments about igbo ppl yet these radicals dont get warnings let alone ban threat.Anyway it is their site they can do as deem fit but me i know send them msg abi dem tink say NL na im be the only thing i do or my source of income? the reason i ve been a bit frequent is because am in a kinda break 4rm both work and sch stuff tha one no mean say person no get another thing to do.

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=364770.msg5090864#msg5090864 date=1260523466]I was gonna say the same thing,but hey, this place for sure ain't worth the stress.

Everything that has a beginning would surely come to an end one day, so whats the fuss? [/quote]you are very correct igwe.some ppl just think because they are mods they can say shyt to you and expect that you should be humble to take their insults.it,s realy annoying.sceeeew.

jejelolatu:
Deleting my posts is so 2000 & late! I tink mr mod shd consider banning me-saves both of us a lot of stress dnt u think?

I just hope some of these mods dont spoil it for Mr Seun.Me am already pissed with the whole censorship thing even though i know it;s a business afterall but i think they are going overboard with it and it is taking the soul of nl away

Mr Moderator
First and foremost,I am not scared by anyone's threat to ban me from NL,NL is not my life blood,you could ve made Ur point without arrogantly resorting to threatening me with a ban like my life depended on NL to exist.Need I remind you that NL(even though is porpular) is not the only nigerian forum on the internet.
I find Ur unguarded comments: "making snide remarks and attacking ppl is the quickest way to get banned" not only arrogant and stupid but also insulting.I am not the type to join issues with anyone unneccessarily if the person has not in a way insulted me.If U expect me to keep mum when someone insults me,then U must be joking.I dont take anybody's insults lightly,be U a Mod or a regular member,don't expect me to be nice when U throw insults at me. Sometimes I wonder what it is Seun looks out for when selecting his moderators because a lot of U have turned urself into some sorts of semi-gods and tyrants who are bias and lack objectivity in the way they perform their jobs.If Seun cared so much about decent discussions,he would not allow those very racist and tribalistic threads that pits one tribe or race against another,is it not rather hypocritical that U will in one hand complain about decency and in another allow such threads with a great potential of causing indecent discussions to flourish and even take a driver's seat in your homepage.
I personally ve made serious complaints about such threads in different sections of this forums.What ve U ppl done about it?Let's face it,NL is built on the corner stone of indecent and dirty discussions and that's why there are sections for tribalism,racism and sexualism.Whatever audience Mr Seun hoped to get from these Sections,he is getting it and some of such audience have spilt over to other section.So pls Mr Moderator go and cry to Seun not me.Infact,U can even threaten him with yanking his forum off the internet that will be the appropriate channel for Ur arrogant threats.If U are objective,U will see through past my "snide comment" as U claim and look at issues without bias.Afterall,I was not the one posting private conversations, neither was I the first or the only one to throw snide remarks at anyone in those controversial threads so why single me out and make funny threats at me?Or was commenting in those threads part of my offence too?
In as much as U ve the right to vet ppl's comments and decide who gets a ban,U must do such with a high degree of objectivity and unbias even if U must warn me,did U ve to threaten me?
I am writing this to U hoping that U will find a good enough reason to ban me since obviously U re itching to exercise Ur power to ban ppl.

platinumnk:
And Very Very hypocritical, I have seen it over and over
Usually their inside represents the outside. They pretend their are miss "holy" when infact their outside secret lives aint nothing to write home about

GBAM!!