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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Luton Vs Chelsea (2 - 3) On 30th December 2023 by Richpet85: 3:54am On Dec 31, 2023
Chelsea current manager is worse in the history of the club manager. He is not even worthy to be Chelsea second division manager.
Romance / Re: You Must Have At Least 5 Million In Your Account To Date Me: Says A Fine Lady by Richpet85: 9:49pm On Nov 05, 2023
Meaning she is very cheap then. I can't date a girl with 5million worth or value. 5m can't even buy my shoes, talk more of my undies. Hmmm very cheap indeed.
Family / Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Richpet85: 1:37pm On Nov 05, 2023
If you are truthful about your write up and sure u were not the cause of your marital challenges. I am indeed very sorry for you, this age marriages are facing very huge temptations and Satan is always very happy when marriages break and children divorced of marriages are littered every where without proper guidance and direction. If you can be a bit patient and don't leave your house for any woman or abandon your kids because of one irresponsible wife or husband, trust you understand why I added husband in my statement. For the sake of ur kids, just find a way to be happy and engage in some activities that will give you joy. Ignore her ill behaviour and try to be a man and father for your kids. I ve been in your shone for over ten years but I can tell you today I am happy I stayed and in my next wife I will wish to marry my wife. She is just a beautiful soul. I ve overgrown her shortcomings but always see her strength and those area she is a wonderful and virtuous woman. If you tarry with hope, faith and submission to the will of God who hates divorce. I promise you, you will leave to testify. Thanks
Nairaland / General / Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Richpet85: 9:01pm On Jun 27, 2023
My greatest regret was getting married 10years ago for a wrong reason. I wish I can change my decision but any time I look at my wonderful kids I summon courage and wanting to stay put. Most married men are sincerely in hell but lack courage to speak out.

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Family / Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Richpet85: 4:02pm On Jun 14, 2023
Most often men suffer more separation in marriage more than women. In my case it was less than 5years my darling wife became a total stranger and can hardly talk with me, spend time or share her experience, happiness and pains with me. Till today am still looking for way of having my lovingly, kind hearted and sweet wife back. Thou for my peace of mind I have decided to stay on my own and let her leave in her world just to have a peaceful marriage because I can't afford a broken home.

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Politics / Re: Atiku Abubakar Votes In Adamawa (Photo) by Richpet85: 10:05am On Feb 25, 2023
No sight of INEC or its official in any polling units in Imo state.
We have been in here since 7am with mamon crowned waiting to cast their voters yet no sign of the organisers of the election.
We are watching
Romance / Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Richpet85: 5:29pm On Jan 19, 2023
Dear my honest opinion, it is a stage in life. It do happen to everyone both gender inclusive. It is not abnormal, it simply show you are normal human being and all your biological/natural organs are in good function.
Talking about way out it only require absolute maturity and self discipline if not once you cheat it continue. Just pray and ask God for self deliverance and discipline all we be ok.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Richpet85: 3:59pm On Jan 01, 2023
Bro it is very sad to hear but the truth is welcom to our club, yours is just a year and you are complaining mine is going to almost 2years. Most often we the men are architect of our problem, we marry for beauty or to please some external pressure or to satisfy our quest to some certain need without considering several factors that are necessary before going into marriage. In my own case I can swear that my wife is not cheating because i trust her completely on that regard but her love for me has grow cold infact she is looking for a way to end the marriage by been hostal, show no interest in sex and always trying hard to make angry and frausted.
Am sharing my experience so you would not say i do not understand. Marriage is more than just love, sex, material things. Marriage required absolute maturity, patient, endurance, perseverance and complete trust in God. If your wife is the type that permit heart to heart talk, discuss with her express your feelings and concern to her, dont ever tell her you are tired or going out to cheat or getting another wife. Once you do will excalate the situation beyond you and your marriage will hit a brickwall. Secondly go to God in prayers because most factor of such behaviour might be spiritual and also beyond your wife.
Thirdly Don't stop loving her rather increase your love for her no matter her attitude. Behave as if all things are normal with time she will come to her sense and she will change completely and your love life will be amazing again.
Fourthly, if she love advanture take her out for holiday especially outside the city where you guys resident because most time wife can feel very boiling in their marriage because of environment.
Finally engage yourself in things that makes you happy like drinking, hanging out with friends, join club of likemind, u can as well get a female friend ensure you tell her you are married so she will know her boundaries over time your problem will be things of the past. I assure you if you keep faith in your wife you will enjoy your marriage and your wife will come to love you more at the later part of your marriage which is most important period of your marital life. my candid advice

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Family / Re: My Wife Suddenly Stopped Having Sex With Me by Richpet85: 10:11am On Oct 10, 2022
Bro, i feel sorry for you because your experience is a very difficult one and you need to be very careful in handling it because it may make or destroy you completely. Women and marriage is most difficult venture, it require absolute maturity, patient and perseverance.
I am also going through same experience right now but the difference is that she is still fulfulling her domestic choice but it has bn over 12months we had sex last. I have tried every solution including welfare yet nothing has improved then finally i discovered that where my strength could not carry me, faith begins and complete trust in God's power and grace becomes the ultimate way out. My candid advice is, result into prayer, be patient, love her more and i promise u one day she will reliase her mistake and her love for u will know no bound. I will equally be praying for u also. For my case my wife has started changing gradually and i am believing God she will soon change completely thou we have not started having sex togther.

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Politics / Re: Ayu’s Resignation: S-west Forum Backs Wike, Makinde, Others by Richpet85: 5:18am On Sep 22, 2022
What is happening in PDP is indication that North does not have any regard to the South. Also a prove that Atiku Abubakar believes that with Southerner as Chairman of the Party his chances of winning Presidential election is slim.
It is time all Southern Politicians should wake up and understand that North in general, by that i mean the Fulani has a hatch concrete plan to return to sit of power. It is not about Governor Wike or any other southern politicians. It is game plan by the Northern Fulani Politician. They knew their plan would not work if a southerner is made PDP chairman. We should always not forget history especially as it concern our political life and wellbeing. This was same master plan exbited by the Northern Fulani during Jonathan regime which was achieved using PDP chairman then Muazu. The Fulanis in conjunction with Party chairman sold out Jonathan and ensure he lost election completely.
Take or leave it, Ayu will never resign for any southern Party Chairman because Northern Fulani cannot trust any southerner to achieve their ground plan. If the trend continue unbated before December this year there will be total collapse of APC Northern Fulani decamping to PDP in support of Atiku for actualisation of their ground plan.
I am not politician or rather wishes to be one in future until Nigerians get it right. But I hope my Southern brothers will open their eyes with this great conspiracies from the North most especially Northern Fulanis.
They want to retain power at all cost, Fulanis can't trust igbo man with power or rather Tinubu because Jagaban is not willing to do their will once he clinches over the sit of power.
The entire conspiracy is obvious but only Governor Wike understood this from the beginning. So I urge every Southerners to open their eyes and vote wisely and ensure Northern Fulani is not returned to sit of Power.
I submit my opinion.

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Health / Re: What Could Be The Cause Of This On My Chest by Richpet85: 7:50pm On Aug 26, 2022
Bro u need to go see a Dr. and ensure u go for skin culture lab to ascertain the actual infection and the treatment therein then thank me later.
Family / Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Richpet85: 10:17pm On Jul 24, 2022
Not at all, i wish God will change His law about marriage.
Politics / Re: Orji Uzor Kalu: Equity Means South East, Otherwise The North East Can Have It by Richpet85: 9:16pm On May 16, 2022
I never liked Senator Orji before now but sincerely he has worn my heart and sensibility. Let the truth be told, his argument is ideally. Yorubas and South South has been praying this political allignment and realignment for too long. They always join hands with the north to hurt each other from the south. I wish other eastern understood Orji Kalu point of view. He has made a valid and sound point. If Yoruba and South South didnt support Eastern to become President let the worst of the north have and south continue to be second class citizen. I rest my case[color=#000099][/color]

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Politics / Re: Orji Uzor Kalu: Equity Means South East, Otherwise The North East Can Have It by Richpet85: 9:14pm On May 16, 2022
I never liked Senator Orji before now but sincerely he has worn my heart and sensibility. Let the truth be told, his argument is ideally. Yorubas and South South has been praying this political allignment and realignment for too long. They always join hands with the north to hurt each other from the south. I wish other eastern understood Orji Kalu point of view. He has made a valid and sound point. If Yoruba and South South didnt support Eastern to become President let the worst of the north have and south continue to be second class citizen. I rest my case

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Religion / Re: 'chapter Of Grace' Pastor, Rev Ndjom Beats Wife Brutally - (photos) by Richpet85: 5:05pm On Apr 22, 2022
I don't subscribe or support men beating their wives not talk of the extent of the damage on the woman's face. But truthfully speaking I don't know where humanity got it wrong. If you ain't married you wouldn't understand, your judgement will lack practical experience. Most women these days are practically unavoidable to beat. Behaviour level 0%, Respect to their spouse 0%, Nature of dangerous nagging 150%, Often time men suffer serious silent emotional truma most especially men of God so called Pastor. My narrative is not been supportive of a wife beater. But it is high time men start speaking up. Near 100% silence and anger suppression can lead to dangerous beating of a wife. I rest my case.

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Romance / Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Richpet85: 8:49am On Dec 30, 2021
One can easily judge your man based on your narrative but saying you can't sleep, eat or do anything because 5 months relationship is highly unfortunate. There must be part of you that might have scared your man away, if he has moved on I will equally advise you to do same but to be candid. You have to look inward at yourself and discover your weakness ensure you work on it before moving into a new relationship because most often we think people around us were bad or treating us inhumanly. But most time we are the real reason our relationships hit the deadrock.
My thought pls don't crucify me

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Family / Re: My Wife Behaviour Towards My Family Members/Siblings Is Driving Me Crazy by Richpet85: 4:10pm On Dec 19, 2021
I never knew she will change like earlier. She was cool with my family and friends until d wedding night. Secondly, immediately after our marriage she started her Youth Service and my company redeployed me to another state. So we weren't actually together for almost 2years.
If I had saw this redflag initially I wouldnt have end up with such miserable life.

Finally I work with financial institution, I can't follow through such decision that required time aspect during annual leave which sometime is not enough to enable one take care of some challenging family issues.[color=#770077][/color]

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Family / Re: My Wife Behaviour Towards My Family Members/Siblings Is Driving Me Crazy by Richpet85: 4:09pm On Dec 19, 2021
I never knew she will change like earlier. She was cool with my family and friends until d wedding night. Secondly, immediately after our marriage she started her Youth Service and my company redeployed me to another state. So we weren't actually together for almost 2years.
If I had saw this redflag initially I wouldnt have end up with such miserable life.

Finally I work with financial institution, I can't follow through such decision that required time aspect during annual leave which sometime is not enough to enable one take care of some challenging family issues.

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Family / My Wife Behaviour Towards My Family Members/Siblings Is Driving Me Crazy by Richpet85: 2:38pm On Dec 19, 2021
Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.

My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.

Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.

She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.

My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.

I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.

I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.

I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.

Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.

I need a mature advice and no insult please.

I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.

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Education / Re: FUTO Student Arrested For Pouring Hot Water On Fellow Student Over Toothpaste by Richpet85: 12:52pm On Nov 07, 2021
It is unfortunate that she will sleep in police cell because of anger and quest to collect her toothpaste.
The guy behaviour of not returning the toothpaste after using it was wrong but two wrong cannot make a right. Why pouring the young lad with hot water.
Future Husbands should be careful and watch out for future heartless wive like this type.
Family / Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Richpet85: 1:02pm On Oct 01, 2021
It is unfortunate brother, sometime it has to do with how a human being is wired. Some with high libidos while some has low profile of sexual life style. You wife case is not different but my candid advise follow her with maturity, love and prayer she will definitely change and adapt someday. Don't make the mistake I made resulting to self help, hence went outside my marriage to satisfy my sexual urge. Today my life is full of regret and had I knew. Be patient with her and also pray constantly for God to change her to what u want her to be sexually

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Romance / Re: Why First Love Is Always Special by Richpet85: 4:06pm On Dec 13, 2016
my first love was special and colourful, though it was childish thing because sex, romance and many more were not involved. But my second love was very special, too colourful and the memory is very hard to forget. Though still a boy then but it was unforgetable memory, the first kiss, huge, romance and sex was like close to making heaven. we were tenagers but we grow old in the relationship we deeper love and emotion. she got pregnant, we were very scared, we thought of marriage but we were still in school, I was in tertiary while she was still in secondary. All the effort we made to conviened our families were aborted because of traditional believe that we can't marry each other. I was the son of soil while she was not (OSUN System in IGBO Tribe) was worst thing that happened to our beautiful relationship.

She got so mad, she was unable to bear it and ran away with the pregnancy. Non of our families knew she was pregnant for me, after some month she came back a different person, when asked her about the pregnacy she told, she had aborted it through the help of a friend. we quarrelled and told ourselves unspeakable things. I hated her with every sense hell but not quite long she got married and the hate continued. I am now married with a lovely wife and family but whenever I remember those memories it hurts that I did not get married to her.

I dont pray to see her again because i knew my feelings for her has not changed despite that we are now all married with kids.

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Autos / Re: Lexus RX 350 Used 2006 Leather 3.3m by Richpet85: 11:15am On Nov 25, 2016
can it go for N2.7m if you are ok with price call me 08062713905

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Autos / Re: Toks Lexus GS330 2006 Model @ayautho 08024008703 08067302797 09050000599 by Richpet85: 11:10am On Nov 25, 2016
contact me if you agree with my price: 08062713905
Autos / Re: Toks Lexus GS330 2006 Model @ayautho 08024008703 08067302797 09050000599 by Richpet85: 11:08am On Nov 25, 2016
i am very serious and I am willing to pay outrightly
Autos / Re: Toks Lexus GS330 2006 Model @ayautho 08024008703 08067302797 09050000599 by Richpet85: 11:08am On Nov 25, 2016
can it go for N2.8million and if you can do delivery too

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Autos / Re: 3weeks Used Clean Direct 2009 Toyota Camry {62kilometer} For Sale #2.4M {abuja} by Richpet85: 11:34pm On Nov 24, 2016
I am interested with cash payment if it will go for N1.9million. my phone no: 08062713905
Education / Re: Girl Explains Her Dabbing Skills In A Mathematical Way (Photos) by Richpet85: 9:29pm On Sep 03, 2016
Good for her and her health.

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