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Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Beheads His Girlfriend In Ghana (video) by Richy4(m): 5:54pm On Nov 30, 2022
Even native doctors that encourage this foolish acts are in Ghana as well?..I thought it was only in Nigeria.. shocked
Sports › Re: Tunisia Vs France: FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022. (1 - 1) On 30th Nov 2022 by Richy4(m):
foleskay:
African football is improving. African teams can now match European and south America teams. Four out of five African teams have one at least a game in this tournament. Not bad
I like how positive you are about our African brothers..
I wish Nigeria was in this tournament ...
Even though my blood pressure would have risen but... A man can only wish.. embarassed
Education › Re: Just Got A Carryover Feel So Depressed And Terrible by Richy4(m): 5:36pm On Nov 30, 2022
If u are 100% certain, u knew what you wrote, please pursue it further...
<< What is stopping you from booking an appointment to meet the lecture?
<< You are scared of him/her in order not to be victimized ?
<<How would you meet a director for a raise salary wise when u graduate especially when you think u deserves it?
<< This is the best time to do it.. Approach him and with boldness but with good manners and explained to him/her that what you saw was not your scores that there was a mixup ..
<<This is your career,... It is an individual race.. don't let anyone tell u otherwise..
<< Come to think of it..why are Nigerian students scared of their lectures?.. are they not supposed to be your guidance towards your career? Why are u afraid of someone showing u the best pathways to your career endeavour?
Crime › Re: Bike Man Locks Wife Up Inside A Room For 8 Months For Rituals by Richy4(m): 2:52pm On Nov 30, 2022
But seriously, after she was discovered, why was she still in bondage? I say her still tied up and was being carried inside keke... was that the best way to show some prove or what?.. embarassed

Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo 'Agrees To A £173 Million-Per-Year Contract With Al Nassr' by Richy4(m): 1:42pm On Nov 30, 2022
So how will the media see and hype him there @ that corner of the globe?... considering the fact that the world media belongs to the Europeans
Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Richy4(m): 12:55pm On Nov 30, 2022
OhiOfIhima:
Honestly, if I am in dis guy's shoe, the way I go treat that my aunty eeh, if she sees me and snake coming from different directions, she may likely take d snake direction. The woman called aunty is just an evil.
Very very
Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Richy4(m): 12:24pm On Nov 30, 2022
blackboy2star:
I'm lost with this epistle... Man cannot comprehend
Let me help you out..
<<OP married a single mum with one kid ( a Daughter)..
<< The marriage produced three kids.. plus the one she came with 4
<< OP's wife died in the process of child birth...on her dying bed, she made OP promise her not to send her daughter to her biological father
<< OP agreed..
<< As time went by Op got married again and had twins with the new wife..
<< He did not reveal the identity of the daughter that she promised...
<<A busybody Aunt came and revealed the secret to the new wife..
<< The wife said that op will not have peace till she send the girl away back to her biological father...
<< does that make sense? smiley
Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Richy4(m): 8:03am On Nov 30, 2022
TheboyGhost:
Lastly do well to marry another wife Asap....(the unifier)


If you fail to marry again then your family is wrecked...
Na so una wan kill this guy with marriage?
He hasn't survived the one he's in and u want him to marry another one.?..
Assuming the woman you were proposing now also wants to procreate, what will become of this dude?Haba!!! smiley
Family › Re: What Reason Could Make Him Behave This Way? by Richy4(m): 7:46am On Nov 30, 2022
Mr B is in a better position to tell you why he was giving you a cold shoulder but every brother in the house knows...

what I have to say is this...They are your colleagues and not your friends.. I will draw a fine line to avoid office scandals if I were you...

Mr. B has given you an opportunity right now to distance yourself from him...But I can't seem to know why u can't read the handwriting boldly written on the wall......

As u are so eager to know why he's shutting u off, if u eventually warm up to him, the next phase will be to seduce you and that will destroy your marriage... Like it or not the heart is stupid sometimes...U can even say God forbid...God can only forbid if u use your head now and stay away... AGAIN, Many matured brothers knows what I am saying.....

You can relate with them as a team and for company productivity reasons...But any discussions outside that should be ignored...
Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Richy4(m): 6:53am On Nov 30, 2022
fuckingAyaya:
Spiritual hand never touch ur wife face before, she go soon run when she begin see things lemme stop here
Nothing go happen to her.. that kin human being dey live forever... She will even outlive the good ones...U know the world is not fair embarassed
Education › Re: My First Day In School. by Richy4(m): 6:35am On Nov 30, 2022
<<It is not secondary school where people take first position...
<<It's higher institution...
<<It's an individual race where u are graded based on your performance...
<<So it's up to u to focus on what matters or not..
Politics › Re: Things That Will Happen If APC Wins In 2023 by Richy4(m): 6:26am On Nov 30, 2022
E-begging here in Nairaland will skyrocket.. it will be shamelessly done and seems normal with people flashing their account details angry
This meme reminded me of the good old American campaign

Sports › Re: Wales Vs England: FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022. (0 - 3) On 29th November 2022 by Richy4(m):
OsilaGama:
That Wales Goalkeeper Na Overnight Akamu!
Kaaiii very Annoying performance
Their main Goal keeper was given a Red card while playing with Iran remember... so this one would be a substitute
Foreign Affairs › Re: Walmart Shooter: I Was Led By Satan (Pics) by Richy4(m): 8:52pm On Nov 29, 2022
bly354:
I just pity Satan
Abi? Even the ones he knew nothing about... It's him grin
Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Richy4(m):
You have made the promise already, I won't break it if I was to be in a similar situation... Because the only home she knows is yours...the only father she knows is you... uprooting her from your home to another place might not be the best psychologically.....

I don't want to say what I thought of your wife out of respect.. but it's not pretty..I will even be afraid of what she Will be capable of doing as those kids grows older which is setting them against each other judging by her character... please find a fine ground to solve this problem and make sure that the innocent child was not mistreated...

I will also pay a visit to that my aunt on a fine Saturday with the kids and thank her in the presence of her husband for setting my house on fire.. if I was to be in your shoes sad
Sports › Re: Netherlands Vs Qatar: FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022: (2 - 0) On 29th Nov 2022 by Richy4(m): 5:16pm On Nov 29, 2022
benqo01:
I see them improving in the nearest future,even winning the FWC ah am not exaggerating o,this i have seen.
Amen to that man... I only feel for their fans... It's awful being in their shoes at the moment..
Sports › Re: Netherlands Vs Qatar: FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022: (2 - 0) On 29th Nov 2022 by Richy4(m): 4:36pm On Nov 29, 2022
After hosting this world cup, Qatar should stop nursing the ambition of coming to world cup in near future...
Even if they were asked to play to qualify... They should say No we will pass... Haba!! cheesy
Food › Re: How To Cook Correct Okro Soup In Full Details (Photos, Video) by Richy4(m): 4:04pm On Nov 29, 2022
It makes perfect sense smiley
Family › Re: Is There Something Wrong With Me? by Richy4(m):

<<There's nothing wrong with a single mother or a single father... All you as a spouse required to do is understanding... And loads of communication...

<< Firstly, Did you do a little bit of conversation about your religious beliefs? What faith is your child gonna go for as she grows up? maybe it's not a big deal for now...But u really have to talk about it if u haven't..

<< Speaking of the baby daddy calling at odd times, He resides in US, your woman stays in Nigeria. All u have to tell your spouse was to tell the baby daddy the best time to call (Nigerian time)..... that when he's calling might be the time devoted to u as the husband... that should not be a big deal...

<< Stop seeing that woman as someone milking the baby daddy.. she is doing that for her daughter's best interest.. I believe the baby daddy has kids in US, and he is taking care of them.. the daughter in Nigeria deserves such treatment as well. And that's what the mother is doing..

<< The thing is, U were not fully prepared about marrying a woman with a child... Dating a single parent is not for boys... It requires maturity and understanding... Knowing fully well she has something in common with another man...

<< I will suggest that u stop sniffing around to find evidence if she was cheating.. to avoid HBP.. They will always be together for their daughter's best interest.. and there's nothing anyone can do about it..

<< People demonize single mothers/ fathers because they don't understand their lifestyle..And no, there's nothing wrong with you.. u were just trying to mark your territory with a little dose of jealousy.
Celebrities › Re: Dwayne Johnson Returns To Store Where He Used To Shoplift - To Right The Wrong by Richy4(m): 2:00pm On Nov 29, 2022
Thank God he's rich...
Just wondering what would have happened to him if he was broke, went empty handed to plead for forgiveness @ 7-Eleven
Politics › Re: Bayo Onanuga: We Didn't Apologise To Duke For Using His Childhood Picture by Richy4(m): 9:23am On Nov 29, 2022
Can you imagine... That is how they planned to keep Nigerians in abject poverty and won't feel remorse about seeing people suffer....

Instead of looking for the best damage control statement to soften the situation,.. he thinks being arrogant is the key sad
Family › Re: I made my mum sad by Richy4(m): 7:52am On Nov 29, 2022
MethPedo:
I'm the only son of my mom
That basically explained her behaviour.. No parent would encourage their kids to bring a woman home without a reason such as that...

Your mum is a woman, she will like to be loved by you first before thinking of letting you have anything to do with a woman.. But situations has made her to forget about herself for now and focus on the most pressing need... .All she wanted was a grand child or children...

Whatever you say to her in future, be nice but follow your heart... As I said earlier, it's not all women that are bad... Just the way women sees men as 'heart wrenchers ' it's not all men that are bad and I believe u know this...So be kind with your words next time you are talking about the opposite sex...
Family › Re: I made my mum sad by Richy4(m): 6:55am On Nov 29, 2022
ChybuzzDD:
You guys are just being unnecessarily sentimental.

Why would a responsible mother living in Nigeria be more concerned about his 22yr old son bringing home a woman, rather than on how he will survive the harsh economic environment and realities in that country huh

At 22, i was still in 3rd year @medical school and the last thing in my responsible mother's mind was which woman i would bring home.

The guy don graduate from school?
Has he succeeded in getting a good job or a successful business?
These and others are what i honestly believe the woman should concern herself more with.
I didn't read where OP made mention of their economic situation... He might be an only son which could be the reason behind her mother's action, they could be way off in their home we don't know...

We have limited information, so u can't conclude as well based on what you think should be happening in the young man's life...

All I want him to stop doing is calling women names.. he is way too young to follow such pathway..
Family › Re: I made my mum sad by Richy4(m): 8:07pm On Nov 28, 2022
I'm just chatting with you because u feel you have no one to talk to...I believe it's better this way because it's a faceless forum... No good girl will like to date anyone who thinks of her in that derogatory way..

U are young.. u are 22.. U will come around...But on the event that such episode repeats itself again @ 34, than I will know that you are serious... for now keep holding to that thought.. smiley

But stop the name calling... If you have a sister, she is also a woman... If u have female cousins, they are women as well...

In future, look for those women who won't break your pocket before they break your heart... trust me they are there..
Crime › Re: Racist SA Woman Who Called For Killing Of All Black Men ARRESTED (PICS) by Richy4(m): 4:37pm On Nov 28, 2022
Diabetes indeed... The saying that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks is indeed the truth...She has been thinking, keeping and nursing that to herself for only God knows when...

Someone once said the best time to know one's thought is when he/she is drunk.. embarassed
Family › Re: Missing My Feelings For My Work,has Now Made Me A Fool!!!! by Richy4(m): 4:24pm On Nov 28, 2022
Jozilinn:
Thank you I will do just that you all have been very good I really appreciate.
All the best smiley
Family › Re: Missing My Feelings For My Work,has Now Made Me A Fool!!!! by Richy4(m):
There's dignity in labour dear..It doesn't matter if you got O Level, M.Sc. or PhD... as long as you are doing the job stipulated on your employment letter to the best of your ability, that's what matters....

You have to revisit your employment letter and find out if there are clauses that says if there are no school fees, U won't be paid in full..

If there are no clauses like that, start looking for another place...As soon as you find one.., In your resignation letter accuse her of breach of contract...
Pets › Re: Beautiful Pictures From KCR Dog Walk 2022 In Port Harcourt by Richy4(m): 9:50am On Nov 28, 2022
Even local dogs are marginalized embarassed
Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Richy4(m): 9:02am On Nov 28, 2022
NoToPile:
Interesting submission

Whatever happened to teaching abstinence, where did we get it wrong.

What I see around nowadays make me feel as if some of us were not teenagers or youths at all. What happened?

As much as I wouldnt want to ascribe all cases to parenting this particular one seems to be a parenting case.

That aside is there something wrong with the parenting styles from the 2000s? Something is wrong somewhere.

I am a strong believer that except in exceptional cases parenting is an important factor.
It is well.
I don't think it's parenting honestly... A lot of parents preach abstinence at home..So kids acts like they were possessed by an unknown stuffs people can not place their hands on.

I have heard of a family, in the morning, they conduct morning devotion, pray before going out... In the night before they sleep, they pray as family before going to bed...

The parent were doing everything humanly possible to bring their children up based on the doctrine of train up a child the way he/she should go, so that when he/she grows up, they won't depart from it...

Now tell me why the second child of that family should get pregnant in such a warm family?.. Mind you, the kids doesn't lack any basic necessities...

Some parents are guilty of bad parenting yes but a lot of parents were so unfortunate when it comes to some of their children's behaviour.
Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Richy4(m): 8:43am On Nov 28, 2022
Vijuchoco:
Na wa o. I remember how some of my classmatess in FGGC Benin use to jump fence to meet Uniben boys. After jumping, is yeye me then that will pass their bags and return to the hostel. The authorities knew people were going over the fence but rarely ever caught anybody. The annoying thing is when they start talking about those they're suspecting, my name will always be mentioned. During PTA meeting, my mother even said her daughter is most likely among them, embarassed upon how I behave myself reach
grin cheesy
I know how that is... Just blame it on your lack of innocent face grin
Travel › Re: The Abuja No One Wants You To See (pics, Video) by Richy4(m): 5:00am On Nov 28, 2022
I would have said that pic looks like Karu village, Nyanya or settlement along that axis heading to Akwanga area about 16yrs ago...I don't know how the place looks like now... smiley
Family › Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Richy4(m):
NoToPile:
Ermm let the bolded be virginity of both boy and the girl that are to be married.

Let me mention my green font friend Richy
I just read that and I do understand the mother's fears.....

My ethnic group has a saying that a female chimpanzee says she doesn't trust her babies except the ones in her womb...she can't even trust the one she was carrying at her back because while she was carrying it at her back, she won't know when it may have stretched forth it's arms and grab a fruit from the tree and ate...

Where I fault the mother was for not accompanying a16yr old to the clinic .... That decision was not the same like buying an over the counter medication..

I have seen wonderful and exceptional families whom you can't fault in terms of parenting yet they got black sheep in their homes.. humans sometimes should be slow in terms of criticizing and shouting bad/ poor parenting...

If there's an afterlife, honestly, I won't like to come to the world as human... I will just stay over in heaven as one of the board of directors in heaven, Helping out families...I will propose in one of the meetings that some of these babies should come with a warning label just for the parents... Many parents are really suffering and can't tell where they went wrong...

Some label would say..
<<Nomatter what u do Jane will be Jane..
<<Highly inflammable Peter
<<100% Agreeable Sam..
<<Eze, 89% Egocentric
<<Kenneth, 95% chance of being a brat
<< Worldly/ fashionable Funke 99%
<< Don't lose your mind... This is Agatha grin
With that, many parent will know what they were dealing with...

And when the judgemental folks came knocking, U produce their factory manual and show them so that they can give u a breathing space... cheesy

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