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Kobojunkie:
When exactly is the best time to tell an adult who feels it is in her right to have babies to take responsibility for those babies she keeps popping out of her?

Klass99:
You multiply and be fruitful crew, are proving to be the most irresponsible set of adults this century has seen .

You are the cause of over-population which has outstretched real GDP growth in this country, yet you still have the audacity to blame the govt for high unemployment rates, self induced poverty and other ills.....while dragging child free by choice folks, as well. Wonders shall never end!

Of course I know you are joking G.G

I can bet that you haven't been attacked like that ever for years...

In this day and age, who Braggs with kids?.. I believe Nollywood village scene script writers would have been really proud of OP

Sirqt5:
No , the reality is she is an adult who made adult decisions . The reality is she now has three children to cater for based on those decisions . The reality is she needs to face her reality , woman up n look after her kids
https://www.nairaland.com/5779219/when-should-start-having-sex

Klass99:
Truthfully, I wasn't angry at you or her. She amused me with her outbursts/insults but I meant what I said about foolish women, not out of spite or anger but candour. My sister code refuses to activate when confronted by such women, no matter how hard I try.

You on the other hand had me going like what . Is this Richy? But again my response didn't come from a place of anger, more like, from a place of......I can't believe what Richy just said.

Sirqt5:
she is older than 21 . regardless , anyone who willingly decides to lay down n have sex and repeatedly no protection is mature enough to take on the consequences . she's no longer a child . making excuses for her isn't the way to go

Klass99:
Richy abeg no dey support rubbish. Pregnancy and hormones are not excuses for bad behaviour. She has insulted almost everyone with a contrary view to her's even when she wasn't insulted first but only told a hard truth. She is getting a dose of her own medicine.

Age is not an excuse either, at 21 most of us knew to stay in school and get an education being paid for by parents or guardians, we also knew to keep our damn legs closed while we did that.

Whatever her circumstances were she played a role in this mess. Heaven did not give two heads to some and one head to others, we were all given one head and one brain. She needs to start acting like she has the sense God gave her.

Klass actually I understand your anger.... I saw her post and I am 76% certain that it was hormone that was acting...

Due to the experience I have, I Can't afford to reason with a pregnant woman... Believe me if she was not pregnant, I would have shared my thoughts with her... that pretty much explained why I was using the Emoji because there's nothing anyone including me would say that will make sense to her in her present condition...

I have to let you know that most of us did not mature early, I for one was a late bloomer.. when I was 21, I didn't dream of having a baby...That thought did not occur to me. Let alone 2 kids...

By Nigerian standard Klass, a 21yr old is still not matured... We should not be hard on her.. my nephew is 22 and in the University... He still does not know his left from right according to his father... Imagine if a girl comes up to say he got her pregnant.

I believe the young lady doesn't need a razor sharp tongue in her present condition at the moment..She needs encouragement until she put to bed.. After that she will be made to face reality...for now, please all of you should shield your sword

purplekayc:
England will soon jam. A better team

Assuming Iran got a decent premier League like England, they won't allow England to score 1

RomolaJ:
This OP na comrade
Just abusing everyone left right n centre

Single mum of 2 n pregnant nonchallant comrade

She is pregnant and the hormone is not helping her case... I expected some of us to understand that... Besides, she's just 21

GboyegaD:
Which law states that. I wonder how men date ladies like you though.

Raphaeldhero:
She nailed it out of temptation....

I understand that the harm has been made but I still feel sorry/pity for her.

She won't just like the odour of prison especially at this time of the year.

PRAY FOR GRACE/WISDOM

Honestly I didn't even remember that part
It's a pity... I believe she will be thinking what did I do to myself...

Franciscabless:
Am not depending on him but it is his responsibility to provide for me and the children even if i starts working he must still have to provide 99% for us. I want him to do his duty because it is not my mum duty to be taking care of his children when he is working I am my mum responsibility but his children are not my mum responsibility

Franciscabless:
He is the Head of the family it's his responsibility to provide for me and our children

businesshub101:
She’s older

Okay..got it... please remember all she did in that relationship u hated. Especially the controlling aspects.. .Do not do it to another person when you eventually find a girl of your age that tickles your fancy...

businesshub101:
Bro. I won’t lie I just left a relationship where who I talk to, what I eat, the time I come home is dictated by the lady.. e come be like say I dey remand.

I'm glad u ended it... That's not a relationship buddy it's another kind of prison...

Was she older than you or were you putting on those pretty Rose spectacles that cancel all wrongs... The one that when a man or woman wears it, they can enter high way without looking left or right...

Karleb:
I will marry her.

Necessity1:
God is still doing it. He is not a man that would cease doing good because of our ingratitude. He never stop raining, even when we complained about it, He never stop the sun from shining, even when we complained. Yes, you can find a wife but still need His (God) approval.

Karemarealty288:
Did the girl promise him employment after graduation?

dont8:
Great points you got here, but when it comes to footballing, only Croatia can lock it down amongst those three.

My brother, have you seen Serbia play before?.. they are really a joy to behold... They are even 21st in FIFA ranking..
Macedonia is not that bad as well

elujah1:
Like Qatar like Nigeria

That's not fair to put Nigeria in the same Keke with Qatar Haba!!

lendahand:
that's a fat white lie @the bolded. Heaven chose the angel who has been a source of succour to me for almost 11 years now.

Congratulations man...We thank the Heavens for his mercies buddy..
Which of the Angelic hosts chose her for you? Michael, Gabriel or Angel Richy

Danniedpastor:
Bro, be careful what you teach. God will not choose a wife buy God can guide your choices. He can tell you when you are about taking a wrong decision. This is dependent on how much you submit to his leading.
So, she didn't ask a wrong question.

Arizoner:
then why is God interested in fornication?

how do you mean by God being interested in fornication buddy?

If what I am thinking is what you meant, just the way Government of the day is interested in people breaking the law, that is what I thought.. The difference between God and the Government is that he is a merciful God/father but don't take his mercy for granted.. he is still a consuming fire..

Just get the licence for bedrooms matters, by getting married. With that, it will not be seen as fornication.

Wisfem:
Good advise, a little jab of dopamine can make her seek for sex all day... Killing him self is an illusion ..

writeprof:
GOD IS STILL IN THE BUSINESS OF GIVING WIVES OR HUSBANDS TO HIS CHILDREN & THOSE WHO ASK HIM.

I am a living proof. Many proofs exist to back it up.

The fact that God gives one a spouse does not eliminate challenges at all though.

Dshocker:
Nobody on Nairaland reads the bible, not even righteousness2