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Botking:
How is obi related to this incident, your mumu no too much

Are you having heart attack on obi candidacy, why can you also run for the position, since you're a better candidate

I wonder o, this certainly isnt the time or place. One can develop Obi Fatigue !!!!

[quote author=missyojo post=116179397][/quote]Lol ! Nice one .. LMAO

Rozross:
Nigerian men have no spec when it involves an oyingbo woman. Hypocrites

haha .. specs ko, specs ni ! Its the end game bro.

Jackbaur88:
LOL. My brother, na woman wan carry you go Sahara?

The way the OP described the scenario so moved me , I am tempted to experience it myself.

udofia234:
I don't even need to buy ear pod again! I'll just blast my music in my room, if he then comes to complain that is where I'll really get mad at him!!!! if he's doing it in his own room and making noise isn't wrong , no pro! I'll then blast my music in my own room too cos it my right as well.

You both cancel out !.

udofia234:
Thank you my sis! you are really in the same shoes as I am, may be I'll put my music on a loud volume so I can sleep.

My advice buy speaker and blast music. I am yet to find someone who is in the mood listening to " Holy Ghost Fire, Fire Fall on me "
The girls would stop coming saying, their spirit isn't in the mood. In fact, the brother would be one complaining.

But what's going to happen when you single people start dating to get married ? How do you know you won't be as loud as your neighbour ?

udofia234:
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But that is noise pollution bro!

Dude buy Bose headphones and blast your music. He's doing it in the confides of his house.

udofia234:
Good afternoon! I'm a Christian and also a committed worker, I have a very serious issue that might make me commit sin!
I live in a room and palor self contain and the house is build in a way that the other room and palor is built together with mine, that is if I say anything in my palor or room the will hear! My neighbour is a single like me , but he is giving me big nightmare. Every night he brings different girls home, and when I'm preparing to sleep that is when they start having sex, this girl will moan loudly that even if I cover my ears with my hand I can still hear it, not even that alone the knacking sound is so irritating to me, sometimes to avoid me lusting in my mind I try praying, but it won't work cause my system is not in that prayer, guys to the extent that when I sleep I dream of them having sex, many times at night.
I approached the guy to complain but he said its not my room and my girl now! he even said that when ever I pray he gets more motivation! imagine! When ever this girl come around and the guy is not in cos she has a spare key to the guys house , the girl always dresses immorally (most times without pant and bra, she wears see through cloth)and I notice that once I see that I have erection. I tried not to think on this but every time I'm alone even after prayer my mind will start rehearsing this pictures, I can't help it anymore! i told one of my pastors he said i should fast but still in that process this atrocities is still going on, i couldn't end the fast when my mind is polluted .I wish to pack out of the house but the place is one of the best houses in my area! I don't even have the cash to get another, so I'm thinking of reporting him to the Landlord. pls help me.

Reporting him to Landlord for what.... Learn to live peaceably with neighbors at all cost.
Buy speakers and blast - MFM music when the tempter begins.

He's playing the long con game. Milk her for all she has later.

faithfull18:
It was never this bad where people are proud to come out in the open to say such.

Okay, i give you that ... the boldness and proudness but again its still social media era .

SeaTrade:
Lol ,learner.
Women own sex,they have sex with people they want,when they want and you won't know.
Maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with you or wants something serious with you and you dey propose fwb?It can't work na.
If you want to know how casual women can have sex,try young girls and see for yourself.
The older ones dey look for Husbands and as such can't be widening their womanliness on random dudes or they do it on serious code.

I am not talking about young ladies between 16-25 who have crushes. I was referring to matured career minded ladies.

RedpillAnalyst:
Abi it's a hard to grasp concept for many people.

While I don't recommend patronizing prostitutes, free sex under the pretense of relationship or love is the most expensive.

Birthday gift, valentine, surprises, hanging out costs money, but fools think they are holier than prostitutes or people pay for prostitutes because have never paid directly.


Advantages of Prostitutes:

They are honest and they let you know they are for your money.
Respect your time.
You get premium play for your pay.
They won't cheat on you. Their commitment expires after service delivery.



Disadvantages of Girlfriends:

They are for your money and resources, but will swear that love don't cost a thing.
They Nag.
They Feel entitled to your valuable time.
They still have sides dude and sneaky links.
98% of the time you will not even meet them a virgin.
She will leave you when better opportunity presents itself.

Add the cost of this ... Penis reattachment !

https://www.nairaland.com/7304101/jealous-zambian-wife-cut-husbands

potland:
why cant women pay for sex?

Women pay for sex but its few and in between. They do not see sex as we do. Plus due to society, its more damaging to them.
I know a bunch of single women who desperately want to get married but no suitable person. I tried to cajole them about sex and its a non starter. Its want men want- women want security, affection. We have different needs.

Ketchup908:
Please link me up for this, I'm ready to pay for it.

I have sent you an email.

SmartPolician:
Stop justifying lack of self-control, indiscipline and stupidity.

Do you even know how old I am?

Just what I thought !

lol - It appears the pastor was aware and still decided to marry them.

Jackbaur88:
Never bring religion into this. I had an experience in Bauchi just last week. I lodged in a hotel in one of the popular LGAs in Bauchi, the security man who is a young man walked up to me and ask me if I needed a woman to spend the night with, I travel a lot and lodge in hotels, but I have never done a thing like that. I asked him what religion is the woman, the kind of questions I asked the guy, he was amazed that he had to ask me if I had not done a thing like that, I told him no. I was very curious to know how these ladies manage to have sex with someone they are meeting for the very first time and surprising is that the women in questions are Muslims in their full Hijab in fact double for that matter. He told me they charge between 4k to 7k per night. I told him to go ahead and arrange the girl.
In less than 45 minutes, the young girl came over to my hotel room, we concluded on 5k for that night.

Sincerely I was never going to have sex with that lady and to surprise you, I have not had sex before, so I won't want to do it with some random woman for the first time.
The girl on her Hijab came, remove her Frist Hijab, I discovered she had an inner one, i said in my mind wow, she pull out the second one, behold, see her on her night gown.

I was terrified and was unable to do anything. I asked her what her age is, she told me she I'll be 20 next month and she also told me she schools in one of the colleges of education and in her 300L.

My jeans was on and firmly held with my belt on, my singlet was on. I never had the mind to do anything with her.
My only fear was nothing bad should happen as I really wanted to know if truly some of these Muslims women also prostitute around too.

We could not romance or cuddle, and when this young girl told me her age, I was full with compassion and felt very sorry for her. In my mind, I said this could be my younger sister.
I gave her 5,000 in the morning and she left. I told her not to be angry that I didn't do anything with her, that is not because she is not beautiful. She collected the money and left, but she complained bitterly to the gateman that arranged her for me.

She told the gate man that she never believed men like me still exists. I just laughed over it

So when it comes this issue, let's put religion aside, as my doubt whether Muslims women who cover themselves with Hijab prostitute or not was cleared just last week.

Onward to Bauchi !!!

Fairboy:
Mine is N850K. This is just between the 4th quarter of last year and the 2nd quarter of this year

I suspect you are big earner. IS that local rate or conversion from a foreign currency ?

goggle48:
Gold dey her toto?

Nope but you pay for the discretion. No headache .
I see it this way.
Would you rather drive in a Toyota or cruise in a Bentley with all the bells and whistles .

SKIBiNSKI:
Right, 1k naira is quite little from my understanding. That is like a little less than £1. Why would you need such a little amount of naira? If you work (any work) you should be able to earn more than that.

You cant compare apples to apples. The 1k will go farther than the 1£ (N800 ) black market rate.
( Personally, I wouldn't give )

Karleb:
It's all addiction.

That's why it's wise to choose your addiction carefully. Infact, it's better to deliberately to be addicted to something as a young man before you develop addiction for another thing.

Carry on my guy! Something must kill a man.

Exactly !
So you gamble - You could lose your house , work , family , car, savings
So you into alcohol - You could lose all the above plus you are loud, arrogant and untidy.
If you are into prostitutes - You lose your savings at most or you have none.
If you are into porn - time ?

mrkings84:
Thank You Jesus,at 40 this is something I have never done

I started at 41.... I am rooting for you ....don't start. Infact, what are you doing here ....

SKIBiNSKI:
I don't understand.

He is asking you to give him 1k

faithfull18:
SMH, this generation.

Its not a this generation thing alone. Its because you are reading about it now with social media. Its been in existing long.

EIeyigidgan:
infection bawo?
you no use CD?

Exactly - this one na mugu .

onuman:
Poverty in Nigeria is reason why most Nigerian women place a price tag on sex.
Well, Nigerians weren't choosing leaders that would minimise poverty in their country. Deal with it. Sex in rich countries is a thing man and woman enjoy without any price tag on it.

Dude you must not have travelled out.
Who says most women enjoy sex. Most married women don't - they just see it as a means to an end.
Ever heard of redlight district in Netherlands.
Or been to Vegas where nudity is on display on the boulevard.
Or Ashley Madison website - Have an affair ?
The min amount for a tryst abroad is $50-80 which is about N50k and increasing with inflation cost.
Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world bro. Its not a Nigerian thing. Its a human thing. Supply and Demand.

Ebubu:
heart is more dangerous bro. I rather spend 100k on sex and get over it than spend 0 naira and gift my heart.

The negative memories haunt me for months and up to a year, and is a memory I never forget.

I rather spend hundreds of k, than heart break please. Relationship na scam.

I’ve never regretted all the money I spend on olosho so far, I never carry infection. But I’ve regretted some relationships I’ve entered, despite still not contracting infection.

True Talk !!
You pay for a service, you don't like one - you find another. there is no extra baggage attached.

SmartPolician:
I can never pay for sex. Why would any reasonable guy pay for something the two parties enjoy?

Men who pay for sex encourage prostitution.

If every guy thinks like me, every prostitute and runs gurl would go and get a decent job.

That's what I used to say when I was your age when you grow up, you'll get wiser.

Slayar:
Lol,the government needs to start taxing these oloshos

Exactly, at some point but there are others. DO you know that taxing sex workers could fetch the government almost 1BNaira yearly in taxes ?

RedpillAnalyst:
Abi it's a hard to grasp concept for many people.

While I don't recommend patronizing prostitutes, free sex under the pretense of relationship or love is the most expensive.

Birthday gift, valentine, surprises, hanging out costs money, but fools think they are holier than prostitutes or people pay for prostitutes because have never paid directly.


Advantages of Prostitutes:

They are honest and they let you know they are for your money.
Respect your time.
You get premium play for your pay.
They won't cheat on you. Their commitment expires after service delivery.



Disadvantages of Girlfriends:

They are for your money and resources, but will swear that love don't cost a thing.
They Nag.
They Feel entitled to your valuable time.
They still have sides dude and sneaky links.
98% of the time you will not even meet them a virgin.
She will leave you when better opportunity presents itself.

Exactly all those holier than thou.
Let them calculate the latest mobile phones, gadgets, dinner dates, data plans , gifts etc and those uncountable things like heartbreaks , arguments , pregnancy news .
None of them marry the girls anyways.

Samade7:
The girl must be a primary school gal.

lol .. savage comment

Wallade:
Bro, try to get a regular babe or steady "friend with benefit". You can probably budget to spend half of that amount on her monthly.

Gradually, that will help you to move on from Olosho.

From the friend, you can graduate to a relationship proper or keep the relationships at that level. I figured that you don't want commitment.

FWB or Steady babe will always come with attachments . Plus you want to sample various apples without commitment. There are a few ladies who use the money to pay for college/university and assist family members. As long as their is demand and supply. Live and let Live.