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Jarod247:
I am so distraught right now. 3 years ago, my kid sister who is now 24 years went to Lagos to work.
Well, we spoke to the woman who she was supposed to work with and we all have our consent to it.
Let just say this girl has been an issue . She is the last kid . She is very stubborn but fears me Alot. I couldn't bring her over to stay with me cos I was in school trying to lift my head up. So her leaving to go fend for herself was a relief to me so my mum can rest from her wahala. That woman is suffering and it pains me so much.

While in Lagos,I keep tabs on her and she was doing well . Depsite that she works and earn money, I keep sending her monthly allowance.
As of last month, I sent her some money and we also spoke on phone .

My elder sister called me yesterday that my kid sister called and told her that she gave birth.
That sound like a joke to me cos How?

Well, from the information gathered she actually gave birth to a baby girl all alone at Home. The guy responsible has absconded.

I am battered emotionally with this news . Pregnant for nine months , didn't tell anyone till she has given Birth. What if something has happened to her .

This girl has hurt me walahi. I warned her seriously about getting pregnant. This her action is a threat to my effort to rise financially cos how are we even going to take care of that baby.
The money I earned isn't enough to take care of myself and mum. I know Alot of stuff I have given up just to make sure my mum and siblings are a bit okay including getting married . I am 34 years.
I was even planning on sending her to Uni next year.
Her next destination is going back to the village to stay with my mum, this will put more burden on that woman.
I am yet to speak with her cos I am so angry with her. My elder sister said I shouldn't talk to her angrily hence I trigger a toxic hormone that will affect the baby.

I don't know what to do. Seriously I am devastated. This girl want to kill me . Can't even think straight

Modified: Thanks for all your advise. She will be going to the hospital tomorrow for medical attention.
Please I will be needing your financial assistance.
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Toxic Hormone which will affect the baby.....

I [/b]got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and [b]I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I[/b] try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.
We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can[b] I [/b]do?"
What can [b]she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?[b][/b]

I can see some folks have been banned already on this topic.
I feel bad for the woman. You have been married for 40 years, she for just let this slide. Now, the man gets off scot free and she languishes in Jail.
So says Justice is fair

Papichulostunne:
Why are you shutting down new york for an election to be held here in Nigeria. ? Do you see other countries campaigning for their presidential candidate in someone else's country? Did anyone campaign for trump or Joe Biden here or elsewhere except in America'?
That is how one idiot took tinubu poster to Mecca to campaign on their holy ground..

If this one has sense he had better come into the country, shey it's October 1st? He should cook. On a normal youths will Massively turn out to support the Obi movement here..

Fvck putting Tees on a whitey who wouldn't vote or his voice won't count here during the elections

If you like quote me out of context that is your own bizwax

Just saying my 2kobo.. #ObiDatti2023

Comrade relax - Any publicity is good publicity . Plus, how do you know the "whitey" isn't married to a Nigerian and therefore has dual citizenship and can vote ?

Ecos:
Even UK don become obidient and these useless urchins littered here wey hunger wan rearrange their life no wan get sense

If you think developed countries want 9ja to be developed you are joking in techni-colour.

Oh ho!, That's what is meant by Split-Wall AC

You lost me at " As a Virgin "

Boomboost:
Is it only me that is wondering where the next president will get money to run the economy?

Easy print it !
Borrow it ! American debt is bigger but they have good credit . 9ja case it’s a headache.

frog12:
what do you want?
he collect bribe, you go complain?
he no collect bribe, you go still complain?

I would taken the money. Keep in a shell company and reported that I took bribe. Returned 100M and leave jail after 6 months on a plea deal.
Na anyone Papa money ?

Elsueno:
Give me & see jare, I have seen people povcket almost 3 billion naira & nothing happened to them...even to this very day

Savage Comment

Esseite:
It was never going to be in his account.. it could have gone into properties or crypto.. i know its hard finding something good in a Nigerian police, but lets applaud this one.

True dat. I hear you. I concur a good deed is a good deed

Esseite:
Finally.... There are good police officers, a bad system would always find it difficult to recognize the good ones..

Relax Comrade .. Just one good officer among the bunch. Took the NPF 2 years to promote him. Will that include back pay ?
The reason he didn't take it was simply how does he explain 800 Million Naira ( 3Miliion Dollars) back then in his account ?

MrBrownJay1:
what a foolish man.... if he was rich in the US he would A) have a washing machine in his own house and B) have a maid to do his laundry for him (regardless of her salary, since you are rich)

this dude should stop talking about what he doesnt know. being rich is sweet WHEREVER YOU MAY BE IN THE WORLD!

There are classes of being rich
There lower class ( Hollywood Actors and Athletes, Musicians ) , middle class ( company CEO’s and Fortune 500 companies) and upper class rich ( bill gates, Zuckerberg, Elon’s)
He’s po’ rich .

NwaMamaIwota:
everybody dey bow for elders
we do that here in Onitsha.
as onitsha person I don't shake my elders with one hand.
so respect for elders is everywhere it has nothing to do about tribe.
no dey famzy Yorubas.
hahahahaha

All na lie - You dey dobale for rain or for road. Just add Sir to the end of every sentence.

Eriokanmi:
I strongly believe obi will fare much better and I have my reasons. Nobody can link him with any acquired national assets. It would be pretty difficult for those vying for the office of the president to govern or rule successfully because they have lots of baggage on their shoulders.

Tell me, can Tinubu or atiku probe any Nigerian leader or send anyone to jail for an offence he knows he's guilty of? They all know themselves. In a transparent and progressive economy, both tinubu and atiku should be on exile today, given the atrocities they've both committed. They said obi bought a property in the UK with Anambra money. He engaged the efcc to do their findings very well and by the time they did, they found out the same property had been bought since 1996 with documents to back it up.

Can Atiku or Tinubu be found clean of similar accusations? If its not certificate, its age falsification, if its either of the aforementioned it's drug related offences. On Atiku's side, he needs no introduction.

We are on the same page. However lets make sure that we understand that it will take more than 100days to fix what ails the country. Now that we have a democracy. The president does not have all the power, he has to dialogue and bargain with the legislature assembly and how many LP senators or representatives will he have. ? He may as well be president with his hands tied around his back.

africantycoon:
The woman in question is not too young and immature to marry.....the issue is the marriage system has changed and girls are no longer married off early....

Marriage now happens from 25 and up...

25 and below is girlfriends....

I agree.

Eriokanmi:
O ma she oo...but the mighty hasn't fallen to hit the ground yet. Nigeria can still be revived. Vote Peter obi, an accomplished banker and entrepreneur, a technocrat per excellence who fares far much better than them all with good programs. .

I remember Atiku saying he would sell the NNPC to his friends . Obviously he's coming to loot. We can see the way BAT is biting all our assets in lagos. He dominates Healthcare BT (Bola Tinubu)Diagnostics, construction (Hitech), Revenues(Alphabeta), he also controls transportation (BRT and Transport) , Commerce (his daughter is Iyaloja-general), Government (he dominates the sector with his cronies), Power( he owns one of the discos), thuggery ( Oluomo and co),
waste disposal...another sector he's been looking at, which was one of the reasons he had issues with ambode which led to backlogs of refuse in the 4th year of ambode's administration. But he stylishly said he doesn't have a hand in it. He even incited his blind followers against ambode that he owns vision scape and they believed the evil man hook line and sinker.

I wonder how tinubu would improve power when he's one of those who had a stake in it. How he'd revisit and repeal the privatisation of the power sector when he's also a beneficiary.

He's on sanwoolu's neck on same refuse disposal again. Anyone who had been to lagos lately would notice that, heaps of refuse during ambode's administration were doing press up, compared to what we now have with litters everywhere. Sanwoolu could not even defend this when Seun brought him to his political platform a few days ago, during when the issue was raised.

This is same man some people are following with their gullible minds. 2023 is around the corner.

Only Obi can fix all their mess.

Dude - You think Obi has a magic wand ?
What ails Nigerian cannot be fixed in 8 years !
You need Military intervention all this South-South, North-South geopolitics is killing the country. Get the right man in there with policies that will be maintained by subsequent governments and maybe by 2050 we can turn things around.
Abandon ship ! Abandon Ship.

Hmm, nicely written I must say.

At present, right now, today .... I would advise you not to marry her.
How many times has she slept with the married man 4 times ( Its likely more but Irrelevant )
How many times has she sent nudes to people especially about her coochie ( I am sure more than what you discovered)

My 2 cents
- She's too young & immature to marry.
- She is struggling with leaving her past behind and moving on with you in a serious relationship. ( hence, I can only do this but not all the way with fans )
- She is going to break your heart not on purpose but she comes across as someone who hasn't lived life or is fully committed to a single partner at this juncture.
- There is a song - Leave before you love me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ogUKZXBMUQ
It talks about a guy leaving before the girl wakes up after sex because he doesn't want her to fall in love with him. He's a heartbreaker. ( In this story, she's the heartbreaker)

Conclusion
You have fallen in love with her but she isn't the one you take home to mummy.
If you want amazing sex , trust Issues & headaches - She's the one.
If you want good sex , a home maker and contributor & peace of mind - Find someone 25+ years, who has a career , less exuberant and matured !!! They are out there..

Good Luck !

Goldmaxx:
you no 4k am?

Not that day , because I had planted a seed . But the next day I did and subsequent days after that.

ednut1:
How can a pastor go and do IVF He doesn’t trust God Nigerians wake up. Even pastors don’t practice what they preach o

How do you know the ways of the Lord ?. There's a reason why we have the advancement in sciences and technology.
When Jesus opened the eyes of a blind man - He spit in the sand and rubbed his eyes, what do you see he asked ; monkeys, so he did it again and the man could see clearly. Why didn't he just say the words like other times !

The ways of the Lord are marvelous & numerous - Just be happy for the Pastor and wifey.

Albertone:
What was the age gap?

+/- 10 years.
I was 18 -25 ; 25-35, 28-35 etc
The truth is you aren't going to ask for their ID, they just look at the fact that you look younger and therefore ask my age. At times they ask that I guess there's. Most time, I don't ask. These ladies look amazing, you couldn't tell they were up in age.

You asked a question . Make I ask mine .
Since when does w about weight belong in the romance section ?

OMOJOHN001:
I opened a thread sometime ago that I want to break up with my Gf due to some reasons best know to me and which I shared here too.

I finally broke up with her last week, since then this babe has refused to eat, she keeps crying since that last week, She's keeps calling me which I have refused to pick her call.

This morning on my way to church I got a picture and message on my phone, and what I saw surprised me, I felt like I have damaged someone beyond reparation.

This babe was rushed to hospital because she used overdose drug with intention of committing suicide. Thank God for hospital,she would have been dead by now according to her sister and the doctor I spoke with. I shall thank God she didn't die ooooo
Now she keeps threatening me that if I refuse to accept her then she will rather die than see herself marrying another man or me marrying another woman.. She's 23 years old we started dating when she was 20.

Please house, I am seriously troubled, I don't want to visit the hospital nor see her, yet I don't want to take her threat as play, because this babe has put all her life in me, I won't lie, she was loyal throughout our relationship and I never caught her in any cheating stuff.

Please Guy's, I don't see myself getting married to this babe, I don't know how to handle this issue now.

Someone beat me to the punch - manipulation
Stand firm and hold your position.
Are breakups new ? She’s immature.

bunnae:
off point. She nor wear am go church. Read it again

True! Iol

Easy ! From experiences.

Know what you want . Is it casual relationship or serious relationship.

- get to know her. -establish a relationship
- ask her out to a place ( nothing fancy) see what you both have in common.

- for me, I was living alone and didn’t have a vehicle , but this is where preparations meets expectation. - so prior to the date , my place was clean with drinks in the fridge, bedsheets changed. I had R Kelly , nice 90’s music on my
playlist ready.

We talked -I engaged her interest so much that we both didn’t want the night to end and so I invited her to my abode.
Told her, nothing would happen. She actually passed me her keys and asked that I drive to me place . Informed her what my intentions were - I really dig her and would like for both of us have a relationship.
She brought up the age and I laughed because I was prepared
- I quoted Aaliyah ( age ain’t nothing but a number .)
- who cares about age ( it’s all about maturity and confidence )
- men are scarce and wouldn’t she want a man with sensitivity, a man like me .. someone who could love you …. ( she laughed, hilariously $

She kept saying - this boy o , this boy …
I looked into her eyes and said I know I promised nothing would happen but I lied just like Michael Bolton said “ said I loved you but I lied” . Can I show you my feelings instead of talking.
Gbam !! I didn’t reach 3rd base but heavy petting that day. She asked that I come over to her place but I said not that day.
She called the next day and asked that I spend the weekend with her. Bro, I spent many weekends.

It didn’t turn into anything serious because
1. I wasn’t ready for commitment
2. She was succumbing to pressure and her clock was ticking.

Till today - when we talk you can hear the smile in her voice.
She was one of many. I prefer older ladies - they are matured , confident , sexy, classy , giving …

Na between her and her pastor.

MuslimIgbo:

This useless old fool keyámo used to be a reasonable man as human rights lawyer until APC gave him appointment. Typical Nigeria.


Is ASUU asking for too much for university staff?

How can they be on the same salary since 2009 and expect them not to complain?

How much was exchange rate in 2009?

Teachers who are meant to impart knowledge to current & future generation leaders are not earning a living wage.

They are not earning salaries comparable to their counterparts in West Africa.

How do you entice people to go into the profession when they are not paid fair share and owed back salaries.

Almost 20,000 students are home and almost 5,000+ teachers wasting away.

This is just sad �

Fira09:
Alika Ogorchukwu: Protest marches held in Italy to demand justice for Nigerian man beaten to death (photos)

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/62efc7a6cafc4.jpg

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/8/alika-ogorchukwu-protest-marches-held-in-italy-to-demand-justice-for-nigerian-man-beaten-to-death-photos.html

Very good indeed by the Italians & Nigerians.
Let the embassy apply pressure as well.
Life for a life.

And this is the Nigeria Peter Obi might inherit !
Yikes, this is scary. Nigeria’s progression na so so backward.

God1000:
https://www.facebook.com/5550296508/posts/pfbid0uFaD7Rty7FpoX3XDhyrxufrpsEjyNt8Xwzw14Nfnwg2m1zVXvkpuZHifG1bX9m2al/?app=fbl

What took so long and what she saw in him �
Just wanted to piss Kanye off.

Skyview01:
I agree with you. I just like the peace and quiet life.

With structure, rule of law, nice roads. Things any sane human would want.