₦airaland Forum

madridguy:
Many Nigerians don't know how to use the social media. We are too lousy and clot chaser.

Na everything person dey put for social media? The madness must stop.

Small thing, we don put it for social media like person wey dey curse.

Next time just have people deposit their phones. Not everything people need to see or know

I cannot see tomorrow but unless he is diagnosed for bi-polar it is difficult to prognose from afar.

Lets break this down - How many kids do you have and what age are they ?
You work once a week and he works 6 days ?
Do you have any of the properties in your name ?
Can you afford to work and have people still come by and take care of your child ( disabled )

1. You need finances.- It seems that he provides that
2. He doesn't physically harm you - So its relatively safe for now.

From what I have read, the solutions are not easy.. they are the ffg
1. You need to continue to bear it out till you are financially stable. Open an account and start saving money. Only you can determine how much would be enough for you to start up on your own , work and still look after the kids.

2. You go to a lawyer and send him the papers so that he knows you are serious about the divorce except this change and mention the changes you want to see.

3. You better leave fast before he starts to physically attack you.

H100:
A Nigerian woman, Ifeoma Nweke Delivers Baby On Manchester Bound Turkish Airline Flight - Turkey Errand Boy

According to the carriers report on Tuesday, A passenger who is a doctor volunteered himself to assist Ifeoma who delivered a girl baby.

The flight which departed Istanbul Havalimani to Manchester UK, was diverted to Vienna International Airport, where paramedics waited for the new mother and baby upon landing.

Ifeoma was on board with her husband.

Make una no vex oo, which citizenship the pikin go come get now

Source: https://turkeyerrand.com/ifeoma-nweke-delivers-baby-on-flight/

Beautiful story but I am more enamored by the large mammary gland

[quote author=FalseProphet1 post=116442007]The number of votes APC gets next year would determine the number of mentally retarded people we have in Nigeria.

I see hardship biting harder, I see Peter Obi winning Lagos next year because Lagosians are tried of suffering.

This I have seen.[/quote

Bro, You cant even see the tip of your nose.

1stGenAmerican:
I’ve visited Arlington twice and this happened to me both times. Such a powerful experience.

You said it. Powerful and moving experience.

ASUU should take the 35% and see if they can reach a deal with the new government coming in. Enough is enough. The stupid government wont bulge neither would they summit a bill to force you guys back to work while negotiations continue. This is not only affecting students and staff but other miscellaneous staff that depend on students to survive like all the mamaputs .

Mine you the obelisk was built by Slaves. You just wonder how they built it with no machinery ? Reminds you of the Ladder to heaven in Genesis.
https://nmaahc.si.edu/ This is the place, I havent visited , the African American Museum. I heard it's a lovely place.
The Arlington cemetery will bring you to tears - The thousands of lives in defense of freedom around the world.

Hmm this tells me that it’s a single parent who is overwhelmed. Maybe she has 2/3 jobs and is not home. I know single parents who would spank their kids so this kind of behaviour is not tolerated. But I see this a lot with absent fathers and overwhelmed mothers.

paulolee:
Numerous players dt played with both av always praise both as football greats
This wan na normal lamba
Ur goat is still searching for his first goal this season n he is worried dt United play better n win games without him
It simply means he would spend more time on the bench this season bcoz Erick can’t change a winning team n the fans are behind him
It’s left for cr7 to keep sitting on the bench n get his huge pay dis season, move for free to Saudi, mls or China after d season or go back home to sporting
It seems it’s the end of an era for him

Don’t forget MLS

sokeril:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders,I’m bringing this here because I know there are so many reasonable and matured people here and I will like you to advice my brother and his wife whose home is currently breaking apart.
Now these are the issues.
My elder brother is 34 years old,got married about four years ago.He is a lawyer (doing quite really well) and also lectures at one of the SW state universities.

His wife is a nurse, currently in the UK,before she left for the UK shortly after the birth of their only child till date(though she is currently pregnant).Before she left my brother was not in total support but eventually had to bow down to pressure from various parties.
Now the current is issue is that the wife want the husband to come and stay in the UK permanently, that husband and wife has to be together..and she complained of a host lot of other things.
My elder brother is having none of it, he argued that it does not make sense for him having struggled to build his legal career to this stage(Nine years at the bar now) and with the huge potential to even achieved more in his career that he can not close his law firm, lose his client and career and moreover if he is relocating to the UK then which job is available for him or what will he even be doing that will worth risking his career back home in Nigeria....The wife said she has factor this in her plan and that’s why she is willing to write professional exams and move to the USA where there are better job opportunities and he may even still practice his law there.
The wife has been threatening fire and brimstone that she will abort her current pregnancy and fill for divorce..my brother has told her to do her worst.
My brother believes his wife is trying to manipulate him,and he is being wary of sacrificing his career for a woman....he believes if he make this move he may regret it in the future having come this far in his legal profession.
Though majority of my brother’s friends abroad are encouraging him to take the risk that he will not regret it,My brother said when pressed none of these people have also been able to give him any cogent answer whenever he talk about what job will replace his fairly successful career back home in Nigeria.
Your advice and criticism are well welcome,thank you.

Hmm, thanks for spacing and making it readable.
My 2 cents !
Let them separate. Both of them have concrete reasons as to why each should be where they are.
If the wife relocated to Nigeria ( which I would never ever recommend) she would be frustrated and terrible state of mind.
If the husband relocates to UK or US, he would be driving a taxi or doing IT jobs.
Let each go their different ways. The kids could visit each parent during the summer 4 weeks here and there.
No need for them to be mad at each other.

A personal story - My cousins mother ( Aunt) ( cuz was born in London) his parents left London to Canada. They bought a house and had 2 other siblings. In the 80’s the dad said I am going back home. The mother said - nope. She said you go and when you are settled call for us. She no gree go back. The man remarried , she stayed single till this day( I don’t know how women do it , no sexual intercourse for that long !!!!!)
My cousin sends home money for the dads upkeep. Everyone is happy and kids are fine.


In summary - don’t let this turn ugly. Let each other separate and consider what’s best for the kids. The woman doesn’t have to threaten with aborting.

Dude reading this gave me a headache.
You for paragraph your epistle.
Anyways from what I read- thinking that having a baby for a fellow with pointed nose isn’t the same as doing it.
If you love her then take her back and remove her from her current situation.
You are not marrying her just enjoy the relationship and see where it ends

I feel you brother.
But they are not yours to give away. Move on with a vengeance but don't give her stuff away.

Allison012:
See as she ugly.


small misunderstanding u no iron out na to put knife for him belle.women make una pity men na.so men have suddenly turned endangered species.


if na black woman do this now,them go say black women are cursed,black women are this and that.

Mugs shots are never meant to be flattering.

https://www.essexlive.news/news/essex-news/harlow-nurse-found-guilty-murdering-7508311

As we have said many times-
No, it’s not alright. Best be age mates 25-22 or 35-30.
A lady at 22 is just coming into her own. You have sown your wild oats and are looking to settle down and she’s just a spring chicken.
What are her career goals ?
Are you sponsoring her to go to school?
Is she content with being a house wife ?
How you both interact and nurture the relationship ( start with dating her ) goes a long way. Does she feels loved and swoon “ hey honey let’s hit the club or honey you look dazzling “ than marrying her father who says “ do this or do that “ “ cook this or cook that “
Personally - relationship first ! let her hit 25 years and observe the maturity.
Finally, ask yourself were you ready to marry at 22 ?

Bradford111:
So I just want your guys' thoughts on this I'm 20 years old and in a relationship with an 18-year-old lady she will soon be going to the university while for me it will be next year we do love each other but I'm just thinking about our relationship won't lead to marriage as there are many hurdles on the way but she told me she loves me more than the challenges ahead of us so what's your thoughts?!

Puppy love !
Listen you have some people who marry their secondary school classmates later on maintaining the relationship. ( I actually do know a few ) As long as either one of these occur
1. Attend the same school and you both keep to yourself - content with having just a single sexual partner. ( use a condom or … )
2. She doesn’t mind you having other sexual partners- I just find that it hard that the dude would be faithful especially if you both don’t go to the same university.
3. You both are active in your respective fellowships on campus.

I was a double loser in university- just scored like 2babes and had a 4th class but I never held on to a girl I didn’t see a future with. I broke up with my prior g/f cuz I don’t have time wondering what you were doing in whatever school you went. Or you bothering the same. If the stars align and we meet up afterwards kudos.

Manny21:
Look at what desperation could cause. Did she not know that those substances are banned? Now the final decision will be that Nigeria has been stripped off it's gold medal in the 4 by100 meters relay at the commonwealth games.

She knew ! She just thought she wouldn’t get caught . Selfish .

;The interviewer is hilarious �.
So you don’t use electricity to charge phone,
You charge your vibrators.
So when your landlord complains that the electricity bill is high !

Chizzyjforce:
So, I was having a discussion with a guy, he surprised me when he said a girl told him a man died on her while doing the do, and he didn't break up with her. Ok wait, it's not just straight like that...

He said the girl sleeps around, so one night, he had a bad dream about the babe that kept him restless. So, he woke up the babe and asked her to tell him something she had done or that happened to her that is bad. The girl told her a man died on her while on duty. What surprised me was that this guy went ahead to do the do same night and continued the relationship.

If you were the guy, will you continue with the relationship?

What relationship ?
I paid TDB was should I shirt change myself due to another’s misfortune

Now Mohammed will save you from the hell you’re heading for.

vikstandon:
This is not a hit Bro... This is Carjacking. It is now common in America

With a gun - usually they offenders run away.

That was a HIT !!
Investigate !
Robbers don’t steal vehicles at Gas stations with cameras hidden everywhere.

yorubarere:
Most likely the target. That is whites for you.

That’s complete BS !!! Have they been wrong ?

All the athletes know the vigorous tests that are carried out before and after races.

Where they wrong with Ben Johnson ?
Where they wrong with banning Russian Athletes?
How about Marion Jones ? Tyson Gay ?
Or even Armstrong .
You follow the science nothing about Colour.

Well
1. Now you have clarity on your relationship status. You were not the boyfriend but rather FWB aka fVcK buddies.
2. Personally, I would tell her she dialled the wrong number and hang up !
3. Or I could bail her out and let her know her ass is mine till I get tired of it.

Oduduwa707:
Baba, you're MADDD! Giving ur girlfriend money to cook for you? So she no fit use her own money sacrifice cook for you? Which kain useless gf be dat?

You see, na 9ja guys dey like flex to buy women affection wey don make dis foolish girls feel entitled.

SIMP of the highest order!

It’s a g/f now - not fiancés not spouse. In his own house . They don’t live together. I don’t see nothing wrong in giving money to help him cook something .

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

There’s a song for this ! Blame It ! By Jamie Foxx

Blame it on the Goose (Goose)
Gotcha feelin' loose (loose)
Blame it on the 'Tron ('Tron)
Got you in the zone (zone)
Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol
Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol

Bro ! You can blame this on the alcohol.
The alcohol just enhances what’s in you already.
Why was it her that you attempted to rape why not rape a dog or the landlords daughter. ?
You got sense stop a bike , pay the bike man
Open door , kiss her etc.

Give her space . Just send her a text every morning and evening and when she’s gotten over it . She let you back in.

Skepticus:
The LL Cool J reference. Lol

Exactly bro !

What’s the problem here !
From times past where is it written that only older brother must be financially stable.
Go and prostate and get the money before he decides to inject it in a new project.
If you are too steeped in tradition - consider it a loan and set money aside to pay back.
Although, in hindsight since you both have been living together and have 2 kids !
What’s with the traditional marriage, is someone chasing you ?

007Marvel:
The mother is a terrible actor! Even Amber heard is more professional!

Savage comment by the way !
Yep, she tried to find tears � but almost laughed .

The daughter is not dead, didn’t have a gun pointed at her . She gets to live another day.
No story here.

Do I hear ! Mama say knock you out !!!

I didn’t read your epistle but Join the line of those in love with another woman.

Amotolongbo:
Please what is your conjugal right?

I wonder o
So he gives money entitles him to sex.
Doesn’t that sound like olosho and client Without the emotional baggage that comes with it ?