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Fidinno:
you are on point

Most women do not like sex. Only porn stars smile after guys cum. Most ladies see it as a means to an end !
You don cum !

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The story doesn't make sense. Unless the dude doesn't have sense. Any person who is asthmatic have an inhaler. She would have pointed to her purse or bag to say she couldn't breathe.

Anyways - One more thing to ask the ladies
1. Are you safe ( Just in case as CDare not 100% proof )
2. Do you have CD ( Are you allergy to any)
3. Are you asthmatic ? Yes - ( where's your inhaler)
4. Are you married ? ( Yes - I beg dey go - I dont want Magun )

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Yes Yes Yes
- when the dude pressurizes her and she gets pregnant the idiot will come on NL and say he only did it once.
- Ideally a bf will have cd at his place so she doesn’t need to carry one around.
The issue here is trust ! He does not trust the girl period . So she’s better of.
I’ll trust the girl that she sexually active and takes care of herself and is not a gold digger with a CD.

Corridon:
We will resist the toll with the last drop of our blood. Where are they tolling in all the roads they construct in the north? When we reach the bridge we will know how to cross it.

How do you expect to maintain the bridge without tolls ? You need the extra money to maintain it or else in 20 years it is going to be a death trap ! It is either you charge tolls or increase the vat in the area.

deavicky:
when they were together on the date the man is busy envisaging love while the blackstard will be thinking of what she can or will get from the man. Thanks God he shocked her. She is evening say the money is less than 60 pounds. How much is some people salary in her country.

60pounds ! 60 Pounds !!!!!!.. what the heck did she order - That is a lot for a first date ? You pay your bloody share !

CaseSensitive:
I'll address the bolded:

1. Did the guy tell you that he asked the girl out? I did not say the guy asked the girl out. There's element of assumption in what I wrote.

2. Splitting the bill is a western custom. Yes that's what I'm accustomed to.

3. If you have lived abroad you would understand Same as above.

4. It's ignorance to say the guy is broke because he paid only his bill. I did not say the guy is broke. I used a word there "MOST LIKELY". Means its probable, not certain.

5. The way you sound makes you appear a simp. Yes every ragtag and bobtail throws that word around this days.

6. Is paying for a girls food an achievement? No sir it's certainly not. I didn't mention or insinuate anything like that.

7. Isn't that what all men in Naija have been doing even before you were born? Erm. I'll have to confirm that with my uncles back home.

This is what usually happens - At the end the waiter would say single bill or separate. I have gone out with my S.O and the waiter would always say one bill or separate. And if she/he brings a single bill instead of separate - they usually would reprint the bill. Something happened for the guy to change his mind.

You must have said something to piss him off. Not only a Oyinbo man. Any man would do the same. You're lucky he didnt' leave you to pay for the whole bill.

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

ITS AS RED AS BLOOD ! STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
Has he bought him gifts, Played with him, Taken him to get Ice Cream on his own ? If the answer is no ... KEEP WALKING, he's only interested in your pants.

PraizHim:
No region at all. No mind them to the extent that North East governors wants to float their own airline

https://www.nairaland.com/7336747/bad-roads-north-east-governors-float

Wahala - No classmates come out yet to defend him ?

Dreynox:
Where is the lie

Not only student's plight, Buhari doesn't understand anything.

Someone that said from Top to Bottom.

Even all the Meetings he has been attending around the world, there's nothing he understood there.

Its true shots fired ! But isn't the Minister of Education handling the negotiations ? Mallam Adamu....

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hamouston91:
I noticed that most Nigerians feel so much achievement upon having a family member outside the country. I have seen Nigerians proudly declare the following (just an example tough) :

1. My uncle in Canada

2. My Aunty in UK

3. My Brother in the US

4. My son in Germany

5. My cousin in South Africa

6. My husband is in the United Arab Emirates

7. My daughter in Italy

8. My brother in Malaysia

9. My nephew in India

10. My brother sister uncle daughter son in Kuwait
Etc.
I observe a pride in each of these people, and I realized that it doesn't even matter which country the family resides in, for the homers, they always feel like they won a noble prize by having a family abroad.
Some of these people have families in Indonesia, Malaysia, Israel, Libya, Kuwait, Honduras, Greece etc. And they puff with pride as if it's a life worth achievement.
Others have families in the US, UK, Germany, Canada, France, South Africa, Australia etc, which is still note worthy.

But the Question is; why do most Nigerians count having a family abroad as a big achievement, and even make mockery of their fellow Nigerians who do not have a family member abroad. Or those who refuse to mention that they have families abroad?

Is it a Nigerian thing to behave like that, or is it a global thing, do other countries nationals behave like that?

Your opinion is the back bone of this thread. Thank you.

It’s a social status thing.
It used to be those in the village would say their son was in the big cities, Lagos , Ibadan or Kano.
When people migrated to cities, saying I have someone in those cities no longer has that same impetus . So those same people say lagbaja is in Us or Canada.
I have however noticed that people in public service and private service see it differently.
Those in public see it as an accomplishment , a sense of pride whilst those in private see it as a byword.

newcommer:
That's why they abandon you at 70 in a nursing home to sleep and wake up in your own piss and $hit.

You get a nurse for that . But if that child grows up to be adult and doesn’t recognize the reasons for boundaries at his age when he has kids then I failed him as a father .

Whoa !!
That should be 30 days jail time and vehicle impounded.
Where are the cops when you need them.
He would then say his village people are after him . SMH

knowingChrist:
With due respect sir, a man cannot divorce his wife except for fornication. A man cannot even divorce his wife for adultery. There's room for separation but man cannot divorce his wife even as Christ cannot divorce the church except for fornication. If you have a different opinion then it's fine sir. God bless you.

I think you have to weigh all things against the spirit of the letter.
What happens when a women or man who is unequally yoked. They married as unbeliever. One got saved and the other didn’t. After a few years one becomes emotionally and physically abusive to the other. Would you recommend that one stay in such a marriage ?

An example that popular Christian singer who has killed by her husband. And there are many women who are undergoing such abuse. Would you look by as your sister or blood relative stay under such cloud ?

Separation does not provide the person with the legal ramifications to move on. God’s Grace

knowingChrist:
With due respect sir, a man cannot divorce his wife except for fornication. A man cannot even divorce his wife for adultery. There's room for separation but man cannot divorce his wife even as Christ cannot divorce the church except for fornication. If you have a different opinion then it's fine sir. God bless you.

I think you have to weigh all things against the spirit of the letter.
What happens when a women or man who is unequally yoked. They married as unbeliever. One got saved and the other didn’t. After a few years one becomes emotionally and physically abusive to the other. Would you recommend that one stay in such a marriage ?

An example that popular Christian singer who has killed by her husband. And there are many women who are undergoing such abuse. Would you look by as your sister or blood relative stay under such cloud ?

Separation does not provide the person with the legal ramifications to move on. God’s Grace

Crap !!!
Thanks for the reminder .

Rikze:
Greetings house, I was listening to a radio program this afternoon here in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State. Two ladies anchored the program.


The program was about how some guys abruptly asked them (the presenters) "silly" or unexpected questions simply to get their attention.

Some even paid their their transport fares without them asking. Then a guy called in and said what I find strange: That while he was in the tricycle (keke) on one occasion, a female passenger alighted and paid for him, he didn't know and he was so shocked at it.


So guys have you experienced such before?

It’s happened to me-

First scenario it was a man who paid for me. The reason , he had stolen my wallet. I had dressed up that day for fashion instead of comfort so my wallet was not deep but half deep in my pocket.

Conductors said “ owo da” I was reading a book and was smiling to myself . He paid, I said thanks. It was not until he asked to stop at the next bus stop when a voice said loudly “ CHECK YOU POCKET” , I said why ? It said again “ CHECK YOUR POCKET “ . I said okay . That was when I looked through the back glass of the bus , the thief was laughing already. I shouted stop !!! Wetin oga , the idiot has stolen my wallet.
The conductor said sorry Oga. I chased the idiot , asked for my wallet and gave him a round house kick. This occurred by second gate UNILAG.

The second scenario -
Gorgeous dressed lady in molue. Sat down next to her started chatting . When it was time to pay, she insisted , I obliged. We talked about something on TV back then different takes.

yongg:
You see, there is still a difference. Who is likely to tame danger no matter how tired?.

I am telling thing will still not degenerate to that level except the male presence is handicapped by something of somekind due to health, physical or psychological disability.

To be honest true I have never heard of a child destroying a house on anger because of a phone. Such behaviour did not just implode that day. Such a child is one that would cause trautrum in the store and cry till they get want they want. There can only be one alpha male. And a man would have slapped the dude around the house a long time before it aggravated to this stage.

Bar1941:
The reason every women need the father when raising their children. He dare not try that if his father lives with them.

I guess you didnt see the video of a child playing video in the morning when the parents were about to pray. The father, mother begged him for like 5mins to turn off the video game. the dude turned a deaf ear.

This I blame the mother. The trade in value was horrible you took a $500 phone and now you owe $$$ in repairs.
Where you not in the house when he started his rampage. Just switch off his data plan ?

Wittyglam:
sex is something you must talk about before marriage.

I know a lady that doesn’t like sex, imagine her marrying someone that does. What will you think will happen?

You can enjoy your wife or husband but there are times the body can’t handle it and people still force their way.

Why are you people just thinking about you and not the other person too.

If Sex has been planned like everything else there should not be an Issue.
But most ladies take a laisse-faire attitude to it- I will give it to him when I am emotionally available.
For a man to consider raping his wife
1. Olosho is not an option
2. Maybe under the influence of something
3. He's been denied too long so he is taking it by force.

Marital rape or spousal rape is the act of sexual intercourse with one's spouse without the spouse's consent.
It's her body, she doesn't want do , she doesn't want do.
That is why I pay Olosho. I don't have time to spend in Jail.

When I say Nairaland is rigged , I get banned .
How on earth is this FP material

BabaAgba79:
You cant pay ur wife for sex but but can pay Oloso for much sex! Were ni e. Don't you knw ur wife is ur Oloso? And are u not tired of her c**t already? To spice it up, pay her regularly! Honestly u will appreciate it wen u invest much money into it! And u will not be tired! This is what I do to mine. I am simply her Simp!

Doesn't work like that bro. Olosho would do what your spouse would not do. There is no emotional connection to her. You are paying for a service. Paying your wife like olosho, doesn't work long time and she will consider it an insult.

The answer is combination of some of your responses.
- How outwardly is the wife or husband. A couple who don't watch porn or exposed to adult content. Ignorance is bliss. They are content with what they get and when they get it.
The Issue is that we have a lot of mix and match.
Virgin men marrying sexually active ladies.
Virgin ladies marrying sexually active men.
There was a period when you got married that you'd have sex everyday 5 times a week. As your body changes , hormones and outside influences ( work, events ) . This will decrease.
When she sees sex as a weapon - Oh he didn't take out the trash so no sex , he shouted at me, so no sex. ( Begs the question can a man legally rape his wife )
Ladies - as they age are controlled with mood swings. Do not go by the porn you watch ( All women love sex - na lie ) The mood has to be right. For men, we get an erection at 4/5am and you turn around and say " Are u awake" . The phallus at times has a mind of its own.

The answer for me would be each couple work your sh!T out. Discuss the frequency of your sex life and commit to it, be content with it.

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Floods have always been an issue in Lagos going back 20+ years. With all the intelligent people and brains in that state - why is this still an issue

blank:
This guy is just not pulling his weight. Leaving all the heavy lifting to PO. Hope he will not be an invisible VP. Abli na just talk for him.

Edited
I'm fully #Obidient. I just wish he was doing some more engagement.

VP’s are meant to be silent . Don’t remove focus from the main candidate. He’s just meant to pull in votes from those die hard areas as the son of the soil.

That’s not a woman but a trans woman.