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I am also waiting for what next after the interview.. I dont know anyone either.
I am still voting out Goodluck Jonathan cuz we need change. I am looking at the larger picture and willing to make personal sacrifice to make sure Nigeria gets to greater height.
My interest is tiny compared to the larger population.
Jonathan's loss does not mean they will cancel the recruitment. FAAN is not a PDP organization and is independent.

Dont get married and if u evee succumb to Society pressure.. Never ever marry a Nigerian Woman.

hajjady
Lagos interview venue is CUSTOMS TRAINING SCHOOL IKEJA.
Just take a bus goin to ikeja... Once u get to ikeja ask around very easy to find.

qreatrix
Boss na lag i do my own... Go to the centre in Abuja or any centre close to use.
Check their website for address.. All the centres are there.. Just go to any centre close to u or any1 u feel comfortable with.

U dont need MEDICAL FITNESS FORM for DMOII..
I have done my own interview since last week.. My name was on the list.
I also got the sms this mornin but when i called the helpline, i was told it was a mistake and i should not bother since i have done before.

If u havent been interviewed before.. You are in luck. That means they probably considered to accept more people. So here is ur chance.

What do u need for the interview?
Dress coperate.
Get all ur credentials ready (Pry school, secondary school, university cert.)
State of Origin certificate.
CV & Passport fotograph.
ID Card (National, Voters, Drivers, Passport or ant Naija issued)

Them no collect most of these things eventually but they need to see it. So go with both original document and photocopy.

If u wanna confirm anything from the recruiters. Here is their helpline. U can also call the No that came with the sms.
09050277117,
08140098886.

Interview questions
1. Read about Faan cuz they ask.
2. Tell us about urself.
3. Technical questions related to the job role of Data Manager.

I wish you all Goodluck.

In a world where a whole cartoon of Gold Circle & Kiss condom is N300 that (4X24 = 96 condoms).
Postinor 2 (after mornin pill) = N200.
U still impregnated a girl...
I want to insult u but the dead is done. It has happened in the past, that means u didnt learn from ur mistakes.
The only person i pity is the unborn child that will come and suffer for ur stup!dity. U are incapable of being a gud father.
God knows i am too annoyed to advice u.

Birdman sucks to me.. I dont know why but i couldnt wait for the movie to end.. Not just my thing.

Big Hero 6: awesome cartoon, i enjoyed it so much.

Theory of everything: the story of steven hawkings and his ALS. I liked it so much cuz i am a steven hawkings fan.

I have seen most of the movies on the Nominee list and sum of the winners. Some are duh, some are actually pretty good.
But then the real interestin movies neva wins the Oscar.
Like "Gone Girl"

Pierce Brosnan... That dude is awesome, suave.
I like the way he talks, the way he gets out of choas. I still watch all his bond movies long after Craig replaced him.

God i now despice bond cuz of daniel Craig.. They need to change that guy real soon cuz he is an eyesore. Funny i like all other craigs movie that he didnt act as Bond.

I dont believe in Karma...
Karma is 1 of those thing those people who are sissies or helpless tell themself to feel better when they are cheated.

I believe in paying u back for ur crime when i can. With interest sef. An eye for 2 eyes.. That is how i roll.

Where Karma wan catch OBJ, Babagida & lot of horrible people that walked this Earth. Most of them lived a normal, happy life and eventually died like everybody else.

Why is the talk always about females, I could be a Male prostitute too.
From an objective perspective prostitution has more pro's than cons and should be legal.
@Hilaomo
It doesnt matter how i feel.. My sister has her life to live so do I.
Prostitution is a job like any other job. All the prostitute are someones sister and someones daughter, so there is no big deal.

@Trippledots
U are free to quote me, its a public forum to share ideas and opinion.
And what exactly is wrong wit same sex marriage? Lets not deviate though, a topic for another day.
There is no such thing as too much freedom. Just because u dont agree with something doesnt make it bad or a crime.
Eg a Muslim does not drink alcohol or eat pork but does that should that stop anyone else from eating it?

I have long advocated the legalization of
prostitution!
1. It can be taxed
2. It can be regulated
3. Sex workers can be screened for diseases
4. It would cut the economics right out from under organized crime.
5. For many unskilled/uneducated women...it
would give them a way to support themselves
legally
6. As long as there are men and women...there will
be men willing to pay...and women willing to accept money for sex. To think otherwise is delusional.
The only two groups that are terrified of this are
religious groups that feel a need to tell others how
to live their lives...and women who don't put
out...then wonder why their men cheat or visit
prostitutes. Any rational thinking person can clearly see the
benefits of legalized prostitution.
Why is it illegal to pay for something that is perfectly
legal to give away for free?
It's irrational in the extreme.

naijaboiy:

if you think you Love two people at once,,choose the second.

Because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have a second option

Confused set of species

Abeg give my man, Johnny Depp credit for his quote na

thank u for this beautiful thread... Poor people should neva ever procreate...

Please confront him and get to the bottom of it.
Its so annoying when i hear Retarded comment like Men are polygamous & we all cheat.. That is a big fat lie. A lie cheat repeat all the time to make themself look cool.
There are decent men out there who are properly raised & will have an honest monogamous relationship with u.
Please dont ever settle for less.
Find out what happened, it could be anybody else' condom. If it turns out to be his own, if u can feel u can cope with a cheat, u can stay. If not, walk away & go and do thanks giving cuz most people were not priviledged to know before gettin married to snakes.
Dont let anyone hold u to ransome by sayin "u dont know if the person u will meet next will be worse" there are good people out there & u deserve the best.

Please its time to get ur A game up.. Snoop around very well.. Infact try to find out the truth as much as possible before the confrontation.
Phone, sms, email, facebook & social media account. If he is truely a cheat, there will be something to find. If not, immediatly u confront him, he wil clean up his trail. Cheats are very good at hidin things.
I wish u goodluck.

I dont get what the problem is here.. Masturbation is normal.
Let the girl be, she probably just hit purberty & xploring her sexuality.
U should be more concern about teacher her about puberty, the likely changes she would experience, sex education & how to control her urge.

All lot of Nigerians are myopic and blinded by religion. How old is ur brother? For how long will he let ur parent control his life?
Please tell him to stand his ground. He shouldnt leave a girl he loves so much just becuz sum piple are uncomfortable with it.
The both of them have different religious background, they love each other & have been perfect together. Now some 3rd party are uncomfortable with it.
Please its time ur brother and his Girlfriend stick togeda. Tell their parents it is who He/She wants or nobody else.
People will come here and quote crap based on their selfish reasons but i will tell u this. Your parent have lived their own life, made their own choices as they deem fit. Its now ur brothers turn to live his.
I grew up in a multi-religious home. Dad's a deep muslim, Alhaji for that matter. My Mum is also a christian. They have a wonderful marriage.
Nigeria is such a retrogressive country, parents try to control d lives of grown ups & it is because of things like this that people end up leaving the one they love for somebody they will regret being with for the rest of their lives.

Please do not marry this new guy... I also dont think ur Ex is the right one for u.
Call of this wedding and save yourself the misery. Its time to make rational decisions.

Dont think about what people will say.. Bla bla bla.. Do what u think is best for u.

last year i saw the movie The Great Gatsby, ever since then anytime i remember the movie,it hurts. I love the movie. The storyline is awesome but it sucks that Gatsby died that way.
Each time i hear that Lana del rey song "Young & Beautiful", it stings.

Ghaijini: This is a Bollywood movie. if u havent seen it please do. Chai! i ran mad when Asin died. As much as i love this movie, i couldnt watch it twice.

Buried: This movie will annoy you to no end. it's the work of Genius.

City of Angel: Saw this years ago but cant seem to forget it. An angel became human all for Love but fate has its own plans.
lookin on the bright side i got to know about Goo Goo Doll's - "Iris" & Mclachlan's "Angel".

Is there any movie that hurts like its real. share let me watch

I know Pentatonix... I luv there acapella to pieces. Never knew there was a Nigerian amongst them.
These guys are amazin. U guys should check them out.. They do acapella for many popular song. It was them that made me like Lorde's ROYAL.
Thumbs up to them. They are the awesomest.

Those with HIV are human. I dont understand why alot of Nigerians discriminate against them. People get HIV through different means, not just sex.
Yes, go ahead and marry her. As long as u both love each other.
U can get more enlightenment at the Heart to Heart centre. There are plenty couple who are together living a happy and fufilled life with 1 partner being infected with HIV.
Talk to a counscellor, read books and people experience on living with a partner that is infected.
There are drugs that help them live a long and fufilled life. If in doubt go to Ikeja general hospital & ask a nurse for the HIV ward. U will see for urself. HIV is no longer a death sentence, Ignorance is.
Love conquers everything..

I have long advocated the legalization of
prostitution!
1. It can be taxed
2. It can be regulated
3. Sex workers can be screened for diseases
4. It would cut the economics right out from under organized crime.
5. For many unskilled/uneducated women...it
would give them a way to support themselves
legally
6. As long as there are men and women...there will
be men willing to pay...and women willing to accept money for sex. To think otherwise is delusional.
The only two groups that are terrified of this are
religious groups that feel a need to tell others how
to live their lives...and women who don't put
out...then wonder why their men cheat or visit
prostitutes. Any rational thinking person can clearly see the
benefits of legalized prostitution.
Why is it illegal to pay for something that is perfectly
legal to give away for free?
It's irrational in the extreme.

when will u get to the part where u will show us ur Blog link to continue the story?

It was only a matter of time until there is @killjoy
So good to see u here, i don day await ur arrival.

back to d topic.
It is so annoying that people will try hard to masqurade cheating as a mistake. A premeditated action is not an accident. U planned it & did it.
Take Responsibility for ur actions. D best way to treat a cheat is to leave them.
Wether they change or not shouldnt be ur concern. Just dont stick around to find out.

That song Before he cheat By Carrie Underwood put it all into perspective.

This is the most touchin letter i have eva read in my whole life.
@ some point every word just day break my heart to pieces. Chai! Good boys don suffer oh.
Sorry men but the ladies prefer wild guys like me way go knack them akpako & not av any future plan for them watsoeva..
Dude its been over a long time before now. U were keepin her, anoda sharp guy helped u open up the slot. She kept on sharin the pumo to other Ex's & even told u. u are not good enough.
Abeg wat more do u want? Just go find a girl that will apreciate u & treat u beta cuz u deserve beta than this girl u wanna kill urself over.
Sorry man but we live in a world where bad things happen to good people.
Send her this letter, make sure u say everytin that is in ur heart. No hold back @ all. It is d process of self healing.
U may not believe it now but i want u to remember this words "U will find somebody better, somebody that will make u thank God that it didnt work out wit this skank u are killin urself over"
Keep us updated on her reply and dont let her manipulate u cuz u are emotional.

Predestination - was mad.. I will need to watch it over and over again to understand it. I got lost in d middle his time travel.

Inception - in d end i didnt know if that was a dream or he was awake? I watched it twice before i understood the 1st level, 2nd level, 3rd Level of dreaming and the timing between them. Inception is a freakin brilliant movie.

Cloud Atlas - I no understand, i have seen it only once. I should watch it again soon sha.

Prometheus - dont understand. Saw it once. Couldnt be bothered cuz i didnt like it sha.

Coherence - Nice one. I understand & tink of d possibilities.

The Matrix - this is the movie i have watched the most in my life. I had to watch it up to a 100 times before i understand it.

There are others.. I cant remember but i wil com back & post when i do.

This Article makes an interestin read
http://www.360nobs.com/2014/03/3600submissions-cheating/

Like they say "Change is the only constant thing in life". A Cheat can change, it is possible but i am yet to come across one who changed both male & female.
Look around u very well, friend, family or anyone u know. Did that person change? They only get better @ d game. It's a bad habit to break.
As for me , i will forgive a cheat but that is the end of that relationship. I will never give someone a 2nd chance to play me for a fool again.
At least when i am gone, the person would have learned a great lesson on how much unfaithfulness can cost & wouldnt try it in their next relationship.
I would love to forgive & forget but unfortunately, u dont forget sumtin like that if u love & trust the person. U will repeatedly feel bad in that relationship. All element of trust is lost & things can neva be the same again. Why bother keepin that kind of a relationship.
I dont know about other people but it is the ultimate deal breaker 4 Me.
Cheating is not a mistake, it is selfishness of the highest order. If u are not feeling loved in a relationship then by all means leave, dont look for any excuse to justify cheating.
There are other girls in the world that will surely share my ideology of being faithful & true no matter what. So why should i stay with a cheat?

Run 4 ur life.
Find someone else and start over. He is already showing the kind of man he will be in marriage.

Did u read about that guy that stabbed his wife (banker) 88times?

Different people have different perspective about cheatin.
I for example will neva forgive a girl who sleeps with another perrson ONCE.
Some will give u a 2nd chance, some will give u more than that.
The truth is we all have our deal breaker.
I dont let emotions take precidence ova rationality. i strongly believe cheat do not change, they just get better at hiding their game from u.
U friend has been copin quite well with this girl after 6 different times.. Trust me any other one does not make much difference.
He has accepted his faith, sum piple are emotional like that. They believe they cant find any other girl in this world that they will love.
In my own case, if a girl cheat on me. Ego will neva allow me take her back cuz i know i can do better.
The relationship will neva be the same so why waste my time and hers.
No matter how much i miss her. I will rather cry, drown in my own sorrow & loneliness than go back. I will let time heal me.
Ur friend is a Sissy, he has self esteem issues & believes he cant do better than that girl.
Please let him take her back.if he can deal wit it 7 times then he is strong enough to deal with it for the rest of his lives.

Just be thankful u guys dont have children yet. Ur case would have been pretty complicated.
U saw all the signs but chose to marry her. Ur few months of misery is punishment enuff.
Now is ur chance to save urself from the mistakes u made in d past. RUN!
Dont listen to any beggin crap. only u knows wat u are goin through. The family wil always interfere in ur business, u are tired of ur wife's unrepentant attitude. So just leave and find sumone who will love an appreciate u.
Girls plenty 4 this world. Open ur eyes next time.

It depends on how u want to handle the case.
1. Take her to d hospital. Explain to the Dr. They will run a pregnancy test & other STD test.
If she is pregnant. D Dr will xplain to u the procedure for a D&C.
After that, she will need help with her psyche cuz her self esteem will be at an all time low.
She is thinkin suicide already.. This is sumtin that will scar her for life so she will need alot of love, care & attention from u.
Then u have to treat this guys Bleep up. Get a friend that knows people.
Let them watch the guys movement. They should abduct him, beat the shi.t out of him and smash stone on his testicles.
Sumthing he will neva forget & let him know it is becuz he raped sum1.
There is a reason she told u. Its becuz she trust u & doesnt know how else to handle it.
This option is becuz u dont want to loud it. She is scared her of d norrmal Nigerian parent parole "What did u go and do in a guys house?" & the resultin embarassment.
I'd say F.uck it! Encourage her to tell her parent or u tell urs. It is better when an adult handle this case.

Option 2
2. Call her over to come tell ur parent. They will help her tell her parent cuz adult knows how to handle this kind of issue.
Trust me from there, things will be better. They will take care of her medically, emotionally & the boys Bleep'up will be treated accorrdingly.
even if na to go barracks, get soldiers to deal with the boy.
Lagos now has a sexual offenders list sef. So many things u can do to fustrate the boys life.
Start a blog, take a picture of the boy. Tell the story to the world. (only downside is people will want to know who d girl in d story is)

God knows i hate rapist: please if u need to deal with the boy. I am willing to help u. Pro-bono.

How old is ur cousin? How did it happen, where? Wasnt any1 around? Couldnt she have smashed his head wit bottle or anythin around.

PS: i have heard a girls 1st time of havin sex is always so trumatic that most of them classify it as rape.
I am not doubtin the story but please shed more light & probe deep into the story so it will be clearer.
How old is the guy & how old is ur cousin?
What is the relationship between them?