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There's a little space on my dad's land and I'm planning on saving up between now and next year with the hope of starting a little self contain on the space.

I'm actually just curious on how much it'd cost to start the abode in an humble way.

Comments and breakdowns would be highly appreciated!

Thank you all in advance!

Ishilove:
Nairaland redpillers will not like this thread.

Lol

Seun:
While the north's tendency to support its people whether or not they have sense has helped them politically, it has also resulted in their region being the most impoverished in the country. The SS and SE people crying about marginalisation are more wealthy and better educated than the people marginalising them. So feel free to continue gloating, but the joke is on you.

LMAO

But death will catch you and everyone of us.

Dem mean am oh

Apparently exaggerated.

It's obvious

Peace is yet to return to a huge part of the North though. Maybe because Buhari is not speaking to Boko haram and their bandits counterparts in the language they understand.

These are boko haram, not bandits. But these foolish government wants us to believe that they're winning the fight against boko haram, so they had to rename boko haram to bandits. Smh

Easily WhatsApp!!

His money.

When he starts crying, it'll be his cry too.

Next!

osuofia2:
Infidels should stop quoting me

Hey bro, I didn't quote you.

LMAO

Efewestern:
I think going back to your parents house will do you more good, no matter what, you father won't forsake you.

Exactly. They gave birth to you, no matter how mad they are at you, they can't send you anywhere. Otherwise, gather imam in a local mosque where he lives or church pastors. That's the only solution for now, not all these begging.

pocohantas:
He did not did anything jare.
They know what they are doing. Na Ondo Bonnie & Clyde be this.

I'm not sure there's ample time for anyone to sit down and gather all that together all in an attempt to scam us In the name of begging. The story is too tragic.

Sanchez01:
My joy is that all their rants start and end online, compared their seniors in civilised countries who started the movement. I found the RedPpill philosophy interesting at some point that I got to read about what it truly means and the materials ended up confirming my fears; these guys are staunch misogynists and the "movement" is rooted in male supremacy. A dangerous one! The most extreme Red Pillers even believe rejection by a female is an act of test and that all women love to be raped: https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online

It is a very terrible school of thought and my strong opinion on it is that only those with dysfunctional mindsets will embrace the Red Pill theory.

https://www.newamerica.org/political-reform/reports/misogynist-incels-and-male-supremacism/red-pill-to-black-pill/

The red pill though isn't like a religion or cult, it is a philosophy. Philosophy isn't some set of dogmas that dictate to you how to leave your life, rather an avenue to learn, unlearn and relearn. I see red pill is often confused with game. Game is the art of manipulating others to your own favor

The red pill builds a boy into a man, not a boy to a childish immature brat like the OP. The red pill tells you to grab life by the balls; career-wise, growth, education-wise, business-wise, relationship etc.

The OP isn't a redpiller, otherwise, he'd have stayed in a boys quarters in his parent's house and still go ahead to impregnate someone's daughter even when it's obvious he's yet ready to take the responsibility that comes with it..

It's so funny he admitted he's not fully taking the important responsibilities at home and yet still wanted the wife to be washing his clothes and other stuffs. Come on!! Are these even enough excuse to kick her and the baby out at night? I'm still in shock.

pocohantas:
They might be that way offline. Let’s not rule out the presence of mad people in reality. How someone would think it is okay for a man to lock out his wife and baby is beyond me.

It is the height of it. Dude is one hell of a stone-cold heartless man, and he didn't even deny locking them out?? Which means he did. Very wow!!

Lizzyangel:
Why won't you unfollow thread when you are aware of the havoc that will befall you on my responses on the trash and lies you wrote up here, the same "introverted deceit" you have been using to fool me that made me scared of sharing my story with people around and they won't accuse me of lying against your Gentle self.
I will choose not to reply all that you wrote up there but only one which is my schooling, right from my teenage, I've been a girl that like keeping records, I have a diary I keep things personal to me which made me have little friends and I barely share my personal story if situation doesn't warrant that, when the admission came, you told me not to go for it, that majority of the graduates out there are jobless, that I should rather go for a trade, I wanted to oblige, but my mum told me that as old as she is, she's benefitting from education which is bringing food to her table,she told me to see beyond today and she'd stand by me through and through, you said, since I insisted on going that you have no hands in it and less concerned, mum started sending money for the acceptance fee, the jamb and post utme was also paid by my mum, the acceptance fee made me believe she'd keep to her words, I walked up to you and said, okay, let's have a deal, since I'd be going to campus with your baby whom your mum told me to "carry my cross" there should be somethings you should be responsible for, his feeding and upkeep, he won't be sleeping on the street and I'm not going there to work, so we arrived at the conclusion that you'd be paying for the rent, 15annually and baby food, diapers and upkeep, which you have me 30k in my first year, I started my campus expenses diary, and left for campus, every week he'd be sending us 1k for upkeep which I always appreciated, if I ever ask for any other thing aside from the 1k weekly, he'll would be let loose, mum never gave up on me, after some months he started telling me that his parents and friends are telling him that I'd be having relationships with men on campus that he shouldn't trust me too much as I don't usually come home every weekend as I was told to....me that went to school with a baby, I mustn't come back home as a failure so I dedicated my time to making mum proud by going for tutorials and library during weekends and sometimes come to Ore, he gave my not coming frequently as an excuse for him going from one hotel or the other, which I never mind to avoid distractions.


When I graduated, I came back to your house house which was the mistake I'll live to regret doing, I started working again and you resigned from your filling station job and resort to online fraud which you were greedy and stingy not to spend the money on us telling me to keep hoping for you to raise more money to start up a business, hence, my salary should be going for the upkeep of the home while you save to make more money, I advised and cautioned you severally against the act you were embarking on and since then you chose to confide in your friends since I'm a pessimist against your fraudulent, you started spending too much on burial of a man who died as far back as 1988, I cautioned you as a wife to cut down on your expenses, as a caterer that I am and event planner, I broke down your budget to 180+ cos of your status, we're living in a boy's quarter and your mum's provision shop was not working well, invest the remaining 200+ on her, he raged and reported me to his parents and extended family that I don't want him to spend on his parents which created enemity among the parents and I,I even got the beating of my life 2days to the party, and called me names,then he came up with the sentence, *you ingrate, I was working at a filling station to sponsor your schooling" I quickly ran in to bring my evidence and receipt of house rent for the 3yrs I spent on campus, this caught him unaware which I already planned and prepared for due to my evaluation on the type of kiss&tell person he is.

His greed made him to invest everything left in his account on MMM after the burial with the hope of making more money, which got frozen in 2016 )17 since that time I've been shouldering responsibilities, though you contribute token once in a blue moon.


You started soiling your hands in the quest of making it quickly which you get arrested before it succeed and I'd be running from pillar to post to bail you, I became a regular customer for your sake which made the direct entry form and acceptance fee for degree I already paid for be on a hold till today.



I leave you ADEMOKUN FOLORUNSO FOLYKAZE to karma.

This is a really painful story

Or11:
You are a bastard for this post. I'm not like you who involves in incest. I'm grateful my life is better than yours, my wife is hotter and richer than yours, my kids go to better schools and have a brighter future than yours. We all don't need a visa travel around the world but you will never leave the shores of naija . Happy misery to you. You can reply to the wall now, I'm out.

Na for online una dey always rich, for real life, e fit be for one slum you dey type like that.

Na empty drum dey make loud noise. Lmao

It is what it is.

Hambivert:
Sparogatively, all around the world you would hear of Natural disasters happening left and right. Anyways, this also happens in Nigeria as we have our own share of the ill fate.

Invariably in Nigeria, our own Natural disaster is the government and Cows, the BMC's and the real Cows.

Leybari:
Ask yourself What is this mumuric actually agitating for??

Sometimes I cant help but feel like they are a divide and rule tool created by the sultan of sokoto to religiously cause disunity amongst the Igbos and Yoruba's..

Exactly my view too.

Omo, nawao!

You can't blame people effecting jungle justice on these evil animals

LMAO

Quite unfortunate that our own government here is sympathetic to terrorist despite the many lives they have been cutting off and still cutting off since 2010 till date. the billions of properties theyve destroyed and the many people they have rendered homeless and turned refugee in their own country.

the problem with our norther brothers is that they are extremely ignorant and worse still are unaware of their ignorance. it is quite pitiful and unfortunate that we still share country with these people despite the obvious difference in our idealogies and way of lives.

Before Buhari came to power, our assumption was that maybe if their northern brethren is there, boko haram will become something of the past instead of Goodluck who happened to be from the north. Alas, Buhari only came to empower them even far more than hes empowered the countrys defense system. he furthered created the deadly Fulani terrorist (who no go about masquerading as BANDITS) to serve as backup plan for the destruction Boko haram is causing.

The whole country is feeling the impact of all the havoc caused by these evil people, and if these bastards should continue to wax stronger unabated, it wont be long before the country is set of fire.

lord have mercy.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won

My father won.

Seeing the video, you'd think he was Shekau or one of those Boko Haram commanders.

I never supported his actions, but how come he's being treated like a murderer?

"my ipad, somebody stole it". Tf! On a live TV
Lmao Th

yusufu16:
Search the error code on google. I am use you will get solution.

Thank you.

Turns out I hadn't updated the window in a while. Currently doing so. Thank you.

yusufu16:
You are using 32bit

Thank you for your prompt reply Sir. But the second picture shows my system features and it's 64bit

yusufu16:
I am a self taught UI/UX designer. I used youtube and google.

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Hi Yusuf,

You're doing a fantastic work here, may God bless you for that. You've inspired me to learn this UI/UX and I'm really impressed.

But kindly I'll like your reply to my concerns below.

I tried downloading and installing adobeXD, but the below is the reply I got when infact my system is compatible with the requirements. Is there anything I'm missing out?