₦airaland Forum

Jossyroyal1:
Funny how time flies


Funny thing is that there will be new invention that will make what we cherish today look obsolete

uthlaw:
I dont think kadwell is paying well for now....forget the structures!

uthlaw:
apply dambo,adeyemo college,uncle baddo!

flejnr2:
This one nobody wants to talk about fec meeting and salary. Fear hold me o

kokomilala:
You were too nice to her. The rule of thumb for this age is: never be too nice,too gracious,too caring,too accommodating to the very strange,unappreciative women of this age.
She played you for a fool. You should have dealt with her spiritually,perhaps ,legally too before now.

Raymeg7:
after all the insult and then, that is the way all Nigerian are, what did u achieve in all this, is ok , I'm given them the best ok, and they are in a better school, God forbid ur wish for them will not come to pass, just look at what is coming out of ur mouth, chacha at all the insult, no advice, I don't want to insult u or lay a course on u, is of no use to be, I wish u well, the worst thing any one can do to me , what u just did, by insulting my kids, I don't take it, insult all u want I don't care, but my family, is well, I don't think ur married,talkless of having kids , because if u do , u won't be talking like this

Gamesmart:
Still not a good excuse.

In this day and age, even in well-off and developed nations, 2 kids is what people go for. Talk less of a shithole like Nigeria.

If people in USA, UK, Germany etc. are having only 2 kids because they think, despite all their high income and stable employment, that that number of children is the amount they can provide the best for with their large incomes plus generous government support, why will someone in a shithole where jobs are unstable, incomes are low and government is determine to frustrate your life be having 4 kids "because my wife needed a girl"?

Needed?

For what?

A 3rd child might be a reasonably acceptable mistake, but a 4th is just irresponsibility and foundation for indirect child abuse except one is making over N3m per month in Nigeria and living modestly on the Mainland.

If one is living on the Island, I would raise it to N5m. It would be N1.5m per month for someone not staying in Lagos, Abuja or PH.

I suspect you were not even making up to N600K per month when you were working, why have 4 and put such burden on yourself?

Now you are sharing peanuts across the mouth of 4 kids that would have been slightly more to share if it was just 2 kids. Education would be low quality and poor for your kids because you cannot afford it. God forbid they are sick and you need quality healthcare. Your children will be hustling when they grow up to fund their needs.

Giving them a poor start in life! You are lucky they are all boys, if your wife had her wish fulfilled, that is how young girls turn to Olosho when parents can not cater for them.

The excuses you gave do not carry weight! Having more than 3 kids, at worst, in Nigeria is an irresponsible and backward mentality. Something that is prevalent in the North of Nigeria. We can see the eventual result with their Almajiris, Okada/Keke Napep drivers, Boko Harams and Bandits.

Demigod22:
I am very impressed to see a very healthy and resourceful thread on this forum without throwing tantrums or making it gender war. It shows we still have intelligent people here.

Over to the bone of contention. Verbal abuse have the same degree of effect with physical abuse. The African society believes that men are suppose to be strong, so most men hide their pains and misery.

Women should be properly cautioned to refrain from verbally abusing their partner as men are being discouraged from physically abusing women.

Personally, I can't tolerate women that doesn't have control over their mouth. If my wife think the best way to register her displeasure is by abusing me verbally, I will have no option than to halt the marriage.

Anything that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive. I will rather choose my peace of mind over everything. Mental health is very important to me.

dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.
So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.

Modified: to all those he goats that are killing themselves on my post.... Feel free to hit your head on the wall
I'm still with my hubby and we are still in peace ... If you DNT like that fact, feel free to go home and beat up your wives that's if you have one.

damosade:
180k.... I no dey even tourch am cos am a sales man.. getting like 5k extra daily

Arisenews2:
Only you're a Hater! This thread is a motivation for me.

Kokaine:
194.

Please how can I withdraw my pension from arm pension. I saw this form online. I need the money.

I tried chatting with them but its an automated response

Ternistacle:
My girlfriend and I can have our time(sex) the whole day and even be naked. But a normal day when she wanna dress up, she will ask me to close my eyes or leave the room. I noticed it .. why is that so??

LordIsaac:
No one said it is a death sentence. We are only saying once you opt out of marriage(for any reason), Jesus Himself says whoever you marry has committed adultery and same with you. So, while you advocate self-survival, also tell them the consequences. Either ways, it is till death do you part!

Uprightness100:
Irrespective of how the world changes, Tge WORD of GOD will not Change because of a Changing World.

These are the Facts of Marriage from the Word of GOD.

GOD'S Standard of marriage is One man one wife.

GOD Hates Divorce. If you happen to come to a point where you say your spouse has done this or that and you cannot Forgive or you are going, you must understand that remarrying Under anyguise is fornication and Adultery.

Only Death Permits one to remarry. Any other remarry is Immorality, Fornication and Adultery.

GOD is the Institutor of Marriage. Conciously involve GOD in your Choice of Partner. GOD speaks! GOD leads! GOD directs.
If your don't hear GOD, better not to marry.

shogsman:
I'm in my early 30s, I've got a bsc in sociology, a master's degree in statistics and like a dozen other professional degrees in human resource management, gerentology, demography, financial risk management, oil and gas services, pmp and so on.

Infact I'm basically one of the most educated individuals I've met. The sad part is I've never made a cent off my educational qualifications.
Heck I work in a totally different industry and make a good living which I'm definitely not going to trade for social work or psychology, so this past few days I get myself thinking what a waste of Time and resources that was, I literarily spent millions on my education, even relocating abroad to study but it was all a goddamn waste of time, all I got is a useless paper I'm never going to use.

My advice to young ones out there is to set your goals right and stupid untraditional ideas is better than no ideas. You don't necessarily have to pursue a degree to be okay in life.

2braithe:
Thanks.

It just seems like every young man who owns a car is a fraudster to them.

shegun4sur:
Nonsense post

Why quote the amount

TheOldGods:
you're not bouyant enough. You enter bus, and then you want to buy a car. Before I bought my first car, I paid a personal Keke driver 35k every month for 4 months, do you know the last time I entered bus. That's was when I knew I needed a car, because I can afford to fuel my tanks with 10 k three good times in a month. and save myself the remaining 5k and collect AC and comfort. [b]If you don't have upto 5milluon in your account or you job gives you not less than 500k a month, then you don't need a car.

I will only advice you to get those camrybig yansh or buy corolla. You can't maintain luxury now [/b]

seyz91:
For your sanity and safety, keep.your money, save it

But if you wanna impress our naija Oloshos you can buy car cuz i am 100percent sure na because of girls most guys dey buy car

Hannover:
Exactly me too. Although I have been driving for more than 12 years.... I don't see the need to buy a vehicle even though I can afford it easily... I just have 3 buses on the road.

ednut1:
Buy an average looking car, you are probably a medical student put the stick there. Travelling upandan to school and in town is more risky. One chance, ritualists etc dey town

2braithe:
So I'm currently in 300 level with a plan to leave the country immediately after my NYSC.
Since I'm studying a 4 year course in a private uni,I have about 3 years more in this country.

I wish to get a car with a budget of 3.5 to 3.8 million naira.
Due to the 3 years duration coupled with police harassing young car owners.

Is a car really worth buying now or I should jejely wait till I move??

I need inputs please.

HarunaWest:
Use Uber or Bolt guy. A vehicle comes with great responsibility. I haven't owned a vehicle even though I can afford it. I can not do fuel, mechanic or road rage madness. I am too lazy for that mehn....

Echoban:
But u Igbo guys do drag Tinubu on daily bases here now, Tinubu having know this already said he is ready to get dirty , so if Pete don't want sting of disrespect he should shut his mouth off politics. Not even abt Tinubu whom is respected by whole Yoruba Tribe and some good part of Northern Nigeria.

Definitely Tinubus followers will come for him. U don't expect me to keep calm wen u insult someone I respect now.

Pete should respect his age. U get mind insult Asiwaju. Mtch won't say he shot fire for now