₦airaland Forum

Malroux:
Reno should tell us the reason why he abandoned his legally married wife with three children including twin boys.

Inyamurin man face the topic and tell us why no other Nigerians are represented in Iboland

Any animal that attacks and kills a human being should be put down. Those butchers shielding it for financial reasons should be arrested as well

IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?

Both my parents are highly educated and their marriage has lasted for 47 years now and counting. They got married in 1976

Dpharisee:
Stockholm Syndrome still dey worry this resident doctor of Nairaland tribalism hospital!

Money that Buhari shared to northerners for his second term in 2019.
I recall submitting a business plan for the loan and I never got, a fellow trader from Niger Republic got the loan by just submitting a form which was given to them in the Mosque, he got N10m and relocated to Niger Republic, never planted any rice.

Then the others who got the money presented pictures from Jigawa and Kebbi states of flooded rice farms and claimed that they lost all their investment and declared 'Force Majeure' with the help of insiders in NIRSAL and CBN who collected money and entered their names as farmers affected by flood.

Many northerners are used to free govt funds under various failed schemes and that's why this Govt is pinching harder over here across the North, meanwhile tribalistic youths like the OP in the South come to Nairaland to insult their parents and even supported Buhari for 8 years and still defending him with the quoted comment above while over here in the North Buhari was busy sharing money anyhow and siting projects all over even to Niger Republic.

Emefiele can't say NO to Buhari's orders and its disingenuous of you Tinubus supporters to be mentioning him as a crook and totally overlooking Buhari his boss with various idiosyncratic excuses

You didn't get the loan because you didn't deserve it. You were obviously not qualified. Head to your bank

This thing happens almost every year unending. Why cant we just dam the river Benue as well? I understand that there are ecological and technical problems associated with that plan too

ManirBK:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/fg-ends-borrowing-finance-minister/amp/

All these bloody politicians are bloody liars. Bola Tinubu will fail and we will all hate him in the same manner we all hate his friend and oga Buhari

Naijanascam:
Can someone explain to us please

Is he talking Yoruba Ronu?

That's exactly what he's talking- Ronu, Why can't anyone translate it for us?

This Tinubu's palliative plan is bullshit. Doesn't the guy learn from history? Nothing will ever reach the intended target

Moh248:
Sir Louis P. Odumegwu Ojukwu (1909-1966) was Nigeria and West Africa's first billionaire, amassing a fortune of $14 billion in present-day value.

He was a prosperous businessman involved in transportation, trading, palm oil (Akwụ Ojukwu), and the stock exchange. He introduced the Igbo apprenticeship system, a legacy that persisted even after the Civil War. He Is also the father of Biafran leader Emeka Odumegwu Ojukwu.

His death left a legacy of prosperity within the Igbo community.

educate someone.

Bullshit. The richest human being of all time was a West African man called Mensa Musa and he makes Elon Musk look like a pauper. Also this tale of yours has no independent proof

27 years ago it cost just N50 per round

lexy2014:
benuejosh kissed buharis arse for 8years despite suffering the effects of buharis failure.

Once a sycophant, always a sycophant.

If you support Obi then you are nor far apart from him

benuejosh:
President wey sabi.

The love we have for Tinubu be like say Buhari own na play o.

God, we thank you for not giving us the one who Laboured in Vain and said he got an advice from a mad man. Where we for der now?

Ebenezer! Indeed you're our helper.

How can you kiss the arse of a president with so much controversies to his name and sleep well at night? Peter Obi is as controversial as well

I hope they don't discuss military action against Niger republic

FreeStuffsNG:
https://www.thecable.ng/adelabu-to-nigerians-expect-stable-power-supply-between-six-months-and-a-year/amp

Bullshit!

Whiteangel1234:
In a special Broadcast Last Night , the Self Proclaim Prime Minister of Biafra Government in Exile ( BGIE) Mazi Simon Ekpa have threatened to Activate the Biafra Liberation Army Sleeper Cells in Abuja with the sole aim of capturing and Neutralizing political and security figures domicile in Abuja .

He also placed immediate ban on all Military , police and para Military checkpoints in the south east with shot at Sight order against any Military or police or vigilante who set up checkpoints in the south east region of Nigeria effectively last night

Link to video


https://fb.watch/mFuLTaB6Ro/?mibextid=Nif5oz

Link to twitter space announcement

https://x.com/i/spaces/1MnGnpwaNvLxO

Bring it on Bitch

It just has to be them

EmekaA125:
Mugu. Barren land wey dey roast you fools. Ezi bida

Emeka your land is barren, the statistics show it. You have over 10 million of you living outside the homeland with another 10 million in the diaspora. People naturally migrate to places with opportunities. How many outsiders reside in iboland? Very few. That should paint the picture

IPOB terrorists doing what they know how to do best. I blame the herdsmen for having anything to do with barren iboland. There's nothing really there to make anyone want to live there

SpartaOfLagos:
Any party that Peter Obi goes if necessary, we will happily follow him

And whatever party Peter Obi goes to he will still lose

frog12:
right about what?

Right about her corruption

Why do some Nigerians have to engage in such activity?

I just love crocodile tears. There's a myth of the way the crocodile sheds tears when devouring it's prey. This is what our oga Putin is doing right now

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Run for your life

Andwhyshould anyone even care about this news eh?

WriterNig:
🇷🇺 ☠ Wagner boss Yevgeny Prigozhin has been killed in a plane crash in Russia, with nine other people on board also dead.

Russia's Federal Air Transport Agency has stated that Wagner head Yevgeny Prigozhin has died in the plane crash outside of Tver, Russia.

We all know what really happened. How could the guy be so stupid as to get on a plane in Russia?

kettykin:
So Tinubu origin is now Lagos, does this apply only to hin or does it apply to people from other parts of Nigeria born and bred in LAGOS

Stop asking me stupid questions. By law anyone who holds a valid indigene certificate from a Nigerian local government is an indigene even if the person's roots are in Estonia and Tinubu holds one. Don't worry me with the pain of your candidate's recent election loss

kettykin:
Why is someone from osun deciding who rules Lagos . This is even wrong considering that Lagos and osun are not sharing borders or boundaries in anyway

If you're talking about president Tinubu, he's not from Osun. His ancestral roots might be from there, but according to Nigerian law he is an indigene of Lagos state. Take for instance ElRufai his parents are originally from Katsina state but he was brought up in Zaria by a foster father and so became a Zaria indigene. You don't hear the natives there complaining

rinzaugustine:
The only Nigerian they respect in Niger is Peter Obi . When he spoke against war they said they would negotiate same day. Most of the menial Labourers in southern Nigeria today are from Niger and not north and most of them were rooting for Obi before the elections. Obi won in almost all the polling units in military installations across the country. Obi is loved openly by most traditional rulers in Nigeria. That’s how you know a leader who the masses’s hearts belong to

Oga you're talking a lot of rubbish. Nobody knows Peter Obi in Niger republic

Goodman2023:
This is our government... tinubu is the definition of "one Nigeria" ...not buhari with his tribalistic appointment...one Nigeria no be for mouth and no tribe has monopoly of controlling Abuja... make I relocate for the next eight years...wike abeg give me small plot make I build...na our time

But one tribe has the monopoly of controlling Lagos right? For your information Abuja has people with indigene certificates who's ancestors lived there for hundreds of years. Anyway power always changes hands it's just a matter of time

So Buhari was right after all

mancoconut:
Towards of the end of the video if you pay attention closely, the said guy (the yoruba hostage) motioned to the unseen persons in the background to "cut the video", something a film director will do after a satisfying act from his cast. If the video is truly what it is made out to be, I hope justice is served and the bastards behind the dastardly act are brutally hunted down and killed, but this is Nigeria., the ethnic media warriors will be having a feast of singular narratives over this one without waiting for facts to emerge FIRST because their past-time enemies Igbos are involved as usual...but if this is an "act" to stoke the embers of ethnic tension and crisis by some elements for reasons best known to them...then I hope this madness we're all cooking will be served to all and sundry.

Oga don't try to gaslight us. It was IPOB terrorists who carried out that dastardly act. You guys have a homegrown terrorist group operating on your soil and everyone knows it