Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 10:01pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: It's not personal. I just don't like people who make so much noise without anything to show for it.  Na wah o. What do u want me to show? Food pictures like you?  Cos this is the only thing you are showing on this website na |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:58pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Don't act like you don't know how things get around here....
Ahhhhhhhhhhhh! I know your plan...you want to throw me under the bus abi?  Perhaps that's the problem. You ladies are not confident enough to create such threads because of fear of attack. Kings like us are not afraid to share these life truths and give our brothers esteem to know they are the prize even though we expect it won't go down well with some ladies.  I'm not throwing you under any bus, maybe under me and covered with scented coconut oil especially on your thighs and chest area, is the safer place to be |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:52pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: Gender war for what? For Roman who needs to make himself feel like a big boy?  I am still waiting for his wedding pics. Romangalactic, how old are you? I don't understand what my wedding or age has to to with anything here  You want me to tell kings to settle for less? |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:50pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Hathor is a happy soul.
About that thread? I'm more of fun topics. I hate anything that stir up gender wars. Why will a thread guiding women like yourself to make the best choice and not settle for less stir up a gender war?  |
Family › Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 9:48pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Ybaby: I am married to a man that provides for me and he does not pull my hair out with plier. It is poor men who beat women most nd take their frustration out on their wives. Poor men like.....
Fast SEO work and become a provider or you can marry Ariza who thinks because i said boys should be provider means they should not be anything else again. Provider is not the same as monster. More sins are committed in ghetto areas than anywhere else. ARIZA WILL gladly provide for you .... just tell her your container is on the sea.... you know smooth talk her. She is too slow to understand that a provider man is not equal to evil man but a man who does not provide is evil because his kids suffer and so does his wife. Fastseo you say I attack men and that is a big lie I attack poor men who have kids and donot pay school fees.
As for you Ariza I am not here for your amusement or to intrigue you in any way. I am here to save kids from suffering because their mum was not aware she should not be sleeping with a man who can not pay school fees. I am here to shame men who cannot pay school fees and yet choose to jagarova and have kids.
Kids are expensive ! Work hard as a man and know your job is to provide for your family. What is the name of your husband's company that he is CEO of? |
Family › Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 9:44pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:32pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: I do. I am not so sure about you though.  Your surety or lack of does not affect my reality na  |
Family › Re: Opinion . igbo women are very lazy Noble igwe by Romangalactic(m): 9:27pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
naptu2: Hahahahahahahahaha.
You are still making the same mistake. Do you know every Nigerian?? Na the same matter we still dey settle bros.  Generalizations. Even Noble Igwe now turning around to say Igbo women are hardworking, people should have asked him if he knows all Igbo women. |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: Welcome back darling. I am proud of you even when you end up in prison. 
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Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:23pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Ahn ahn 
Don't you think this account is still too fresh to stir up arguments? I swear, I can't deal...oh my nerves  It's not to stir up argument, it's to lift Queens up so that ladies like Hathor5 can be happy she also has choices and unlimited possibilities  Unlimited time too |
Family › Re: Opinion . igbo women are very lazy Noble igwe by Romangalactic(m): 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
naptu2: . Yes every Nigerian is hardworking |
Family › Re: Opinion . igbo women are very lazy Noble igwe by Romangalactic(m): 9:17pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
naptu2: Noble Igwe does not believe that Igbo women are lazy. The thread was a sarcastic response to a woman that tweeted stereotypes about Igbo men. He wanted to show her that generalisations like that are bad. Well many Igbo women like to be trophy wives, everyone knows this. Using the word lazy is what caused problem but Noble Igwe sha knows that there is truth to what he said even if it was sarcastic response to something else. |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 9:05pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
mariahAngel: It's quite a long story I wouldn't want to get into...
Are we back to creating shady threads again?  Lol. Someone cannor create thread in peace again. Oya you can create the female version of this thread for Queens. This one is for Kings  |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 8:10pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: Interesting how of all the qualities that a man may desire in a woman you have picked those. Nothing new.  You did not only aim to encourage men to believe that they can have what they want, you also could not resist your urge to limit women. I hope it made you feel better though.  Na wa, limit women how
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Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 6:28pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
mariahAngel: The one, the only.  Who imprison you and why?  |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 6:24pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Vyolet: I thought the woman should be a prize for a man, I mean three different men can ask a woman's hand in marriage with three of them competing with every resource, money, looks, prospects, family background and many others. The woman is the one to choose so how is the man suddenly a PRIZE?  The woman is not choosing from a pool of men she wants, she's choosing from men who made themselves available to her and none of these men hardly qualify most of the time otherwise most women will already be married by the time they are 27. A woman's choice is limited to men who first show interest for marriage in her, nothing more. The man she really desires in soul, body & spirit, is the prize and this is what every man should strive to become, a man desired by women he has chosen. |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 6:16pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Tripitaka:
This is quite an interesting POV; one that is prevalently relatable (even though there's a whiff of misogyny). In romantic relationships, men are mostly characterised as dominant while women are deferential, cases of dominering women and subservient men is hardly the norm but an exception - an exception to the rule. The power in the choice of a partner or spouse lies mostly with the man and as is always said "it is the man who chooses a spouse, the woman only has right of refusal".
I agree that men should not be intimidated into settling for less, but no one should be intimidated into settling for less anyway. If you want a voluptuous woman, then go for it; you want a housewife, go for it; you want a wealthy man, go for it; you desire a six-packed man, go for it.
Only problem is that women have the little issue of biology to contend with while making these choices as they may not have the luxury of time - one that a man has in abundance. If you know this in your last paragraph, why then did you sense misogyny in my post?  Na the same thing we talk like this na |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 6:13pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Tripitaka:
Somehow, I could sense a thinly veiled misogynistic tone; misogyny in the context of contempt and not necessarily hatred. His text painted women as being in a state of helplessness and inherently lacking the gift of choice. mariahAngel: If you knew Romangalactic on this platform, you wouldn't be surprised. It's his forté.
Hi Roman  Is my opening post misogynistic because it is not true or because I said it without apology? Mariangeles is that you?  How are you baby  |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 6:10pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: Looks, youth and finances is not all there is to dating. Anyway. Romangalactic, I am waiting for your wedding pictures to the most beautiful girl in Nigeria.  I never said those are all there is to dating, I said that if it is what a man values, then he should by all means go for it and settle for no one less. If he values looks, she doesn't have to be the most beautiful girl. She only has to be really beautiful If he values youthfulness, she doesn't have to be the most youthful girl. She only has to be very youthful |
Family › Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 8:24am On Jul 15, 2020 |
bukatyne: Good post.
It is now left for the choice to place a premium on herself and determine you are worthy of her.  Very true. She simply has to choose who is worthy of her under limited time, and should not settle too. |
Family › Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Romangalactic(op): 8:13am On Jul 15, 2020 |
Do not be manipulated or brow beaten into settling for less than you want.
If you need a working woman with a minimum level of income as a wife, don't settle for anyone who earns less. If you can't get married to your current girlfriend due to one reason or the other, please break up and go for who you prefer. If you want to marry a virgin despite being someone who had deflowered someone before, my brother it's your choice, go for it because there are still virgins out there. If you can't get married to a woman above a certain age, make sure you don't or you will hate yourself for it. If you can't marry a woman from a certain region or tribe because you know your family might be biased towards her, oga don't go and fall in love with such lady. If fine face or big nyansh or big breast is something you know turns you on, please and please only marry someone with it otherwise cheating will come very easy to you. If you will like to marry a professional woman (doctor, chartered accountant, lawyer, engineer), then guide your interactions and limit it to women from those professions you desire, they are out there. If marriage is something you absolutely do not want and just want to be a baby daddy, go for it, you did not kill person.
The most grievous crime you can commit against yourself in life as a man is to settle with a woman who does not fit into your spec at least 95%. You will not have a desire to impress her and will slack which will cause issues between both of you, or you will cheat on her easily, or you will be taking your mother's side over her simply because you don't think she is better than your mother.
You are a man and the nature has bestowed on you the power of choice and options, something which is a lot harder for women because they were not the ones meant to do the choosing.
Every women wants a wealthy man for a husband, but wealthy men are simply not plenty so they always settle for less. Every man on the other hand wants a beautiful woman with attractive body, and these are very plenty. YOUR CHOICE. Women don't mind how many sex partners a man has had, they will still marry you even when they know it's better to marry a virgin man but these virgin men are not plenty so they always settle for less. Men on the other hand prefer to marry virgin women and guess what, they are still many despite what you may think, just be on the lookout. YOUR CHOICE
So you can see, the power of choice amid a plethora of options is available to you as a man and you have enough time to make the best selection even at 40 years. Women don't have this benefit of choice and time because they want the best wealthy man (who is already scarce) but have to grab him in the shortest time (which they don't have), so they will always be forced to settle for less than they actually want.
This is not to put down women or start gender war, this is just undiluted life facts. You are the prize as a man, make use of the benefits nature has blessed you with and choose fittingly.
Happy mid-week to you all . |
Politics › Re: Bill Seeking To Recognise Males As Rape Victims Passed By Senate by Romangalactic(m): 6:01pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
TheKingIsHere: It covers both male children and adults Yes I know, I didn't want her to emphasize only children because her type are usually of the opinion that a grown man can't be raped. |
Politics › Re: Bill Seeking To Recognise Males As Rape Victims Passed By Senate by Romangalactic(m): 3:48pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
cococandy: Long overdue .
So raped children who happen to be boys didn’t have coverage under the law all this while? We talking of even adult males here, you're talking of children It means having sex with a drunk man is rape as drunk people can't give consent. Poco knows what I mean |
Politics › Re: Bill Seeking To Recognise Males As Rape Victims Passed By Senate by Romangalactic(m): 3:46pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
Wow this is good news, finally I can report aunty Temi for what she did to me when I was 16.
Cococandy, pocohantas, Mariangeles, I hope u girls will fight for me to get justice like you always do online? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Romangalactic(m): 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
cococandy: Beans and sweet corn. Followed by some fruit. Dedicated to Mariangeles  |
Family › Re: Men Who Visit Narialand Family And Romance Sections by Romangalactic(m): 3:20pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
LordKO: Perhaps you've gone to hire a new man because whosoever you'll present now can never be among the illiterate and quasi-literate men around you before now who couldn't take up the challenge within the stipulated timeframe.
All the same, out of my magnanimity, bring him/them on board and appoint a Nairaland moderator of your choice as a trustor, let me send the prize money through him/her before we start.
In fact, I'll double the money if he can also solve one basic CompTIA Network+ related question I'll ask him.
The grace period is within 3 hours. You & ur big English  so you could not figure out it's Pocahontas that is behind this |
Family › Re: . by Romangalactic(m): 3:11pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
This one just came here to be writing fabu and pipo are giving nonsense advise.
Mention his username na let him defend himself, who are you protecting?
Rubbish |
Family › Re: Wife Catches Widow, 62, Begging Husband For Sex In Their House by Romangalactic(m): 3:06pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
She said, she said, she na said, she didn't said.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew
Mumu talks all round |
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Celebrities › Re: Cassandra Owolabi Blasts Funke Akindele Shares Experience Working With Actress by Romangalactic(m): 7:45pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
pocohantas: I just used it, now you have seen it. Crawl back to where you came out from.  Is English language deconstruction also part of ur many trades?  |