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MuchAdo:
It won't be on account of her age but on the account that he really raped her.

Sleeping with a minor is rape cause she hasn't attained the age of consent.

MuchAdo:
Nigeria, of course.

Maybe in the North.

With a good lawyer, the old man will rot in jail.

MuchAdo:
Are you sure he raped her

Age of consent is 13, you know...

In which country?

VTJN:
Abortion in Nigeria is mostly practiced by young girls who are still single

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That's why they use quacks.

Hospitals won't abort pregnancy for you without a husband and a serious medical reason.

munstaqq:
Hmmm... Won't it affect her? Our fear is death.

If you go through a proper hospital, they will give her drugs including antibiotics to prevent infection.

First thing they'll do is a scan to confirm and date the pregnancy, then administer the drug to her and ask her to come after 7 days for another scan to confirm theembryo has been emptied from the uterus.

She will need lots of sanitary pads cause there will be bleeding and then there will be a little pain. Just a little more than period cramps.

Abortions are safer in hospitals, as long as there are genuine reasons like rape, missed miscarriage, etc.

munstaqq:
We were mad at the bad news and I couldn't think straight enough to ask the doctor.

You should take her for a scan immediately so you can safely terminate it.

If it's not more than 12 weeks, drugs can me administered in the hospital to terminate it. I don't know if you'll need a police report about the rape so they can attend to her.

Hospitals don't usually do abortions for underaged or unmarried women as it's unethical but with a Police report, you shouldn't have any issues.

She is 16, she was raped.

No one should be made to have a child from a rape.

I'll recommend an abortion at this point but first things first, file statement at the police station so when ever the man comes back, he'd be arrested.

I think the hospital can grant a doctor's report on the pregnancy, age of the embryo and the abortion so it can also be put in file for the police.

Gbege o

Forgive, yes.

Forget, not likely.

But forgiving helps you let go of the past and current resentment so you can look forward to the future.

In Kanye's Voice

I ain't saying she a golddigger.

Dude can cry sha.

Saga said he's single.

Rotfl.

I fear who no fear Poverty.

Electricity that we can't transmit.

sirblend:
What is "Okafor's law"?

Someone should please, help me explain Okafor's law to him, preferably, a man.

twosquare:
The man doesn't know he's got gold. He don bellefull and now looking for futility about.

Not that she denies him. If she did, it would have been a different case. In these days some married women can't be satisfied and go to meet their ex to help oga...@ op, Gobdddd, be grateful o

Thank God he's getting an eye opener.

When you knock, the woman answers, unhindered and without conditions.

She's generally a good woman and doesn't give you headache.

You married her a virgin and can even vouch she doesn't have any lovers or ex that you have to compete with sexually.

Oga, you don't have any problem.

Take your time and go through marital issue posts on Nairaland, after reading all of them, you'll count your blessings and double your tithe.

Many will still drag the pastor and call the man a simp.

Just wait and see.

ivolt:
People(some) are always happy with coups especially in a multiethnic country.
You have to realise that one group's loss is another group's gain.

You needed to see the celebration on the streets.

There was indeed a country o.

A country where the government knows the sponsors of terrorism but have refused to go after them.

A country where the government knows where the terrorists are but won't go after them.

A country where terrorists are doused with sugar and called "bandits".

A country where amnesty is given to terrorists who kill innocent Nigerians and Soldiers and even sent abroad for courses.

A country where Police men and soldiers will shoot at innocent protesters, holding the government accountable same police are helpless in fighting terrorist.

There was indeed, a country o.

There was indeed a country.

gimakon2:
As useless as the one ruling us.

$1 = 10,000 Guinea franc, thats how he ruined the country, Lets start there.
Guinea Bissau and Guinea Conakry are two useless countries in West africa. Thats why he got angry and decided to bring a change ... So they are happy with it as well.

I wish them well. I just pray they won't end up worse than we did with this present government of ours.

Funny thing about this coup is, the people are happy about it.

How bad must Conde have been?

Supreme145:
Thank you....I will keep begging her, because all my struggle is to put smiles on her face. I just hope she forgives me.

She will.

Supreme145:
My dear if its about working to be self reliant, forget that one, there's no kind of legitimate hustle I don't involve myself in to survive, I take care of over 80% of my school expenses. Things been just choke for me.

I pray things work out for you. I understand what it means to have no one else. This is coming from someone who lost her dad at 19.

Like I said, just keep asking your mum for forgiveness, she's your mum, she will eventually forgive you.

She is your mum and I kind of understand where she's coming from, especially if you have a very spiritual mother.

If you had asked her reasons why she doesn't want you taking money from the man or other relatives, I believe you'd have understood her position.

The deed has been done now, just beg her as much as you can, tell her to forgive you and ask her how you can make it better.

In order to prevent asking relatives for money for school, get busy during the holidays or on your free time.

If it's site work, manual labour, washing and cleaning for people, do it so you can self reliant.

emonis88:
I agree with you on that one o! Cus if as a woman,u r not good enough for him to marry, then e better make u close leg o! Cus me won't be happy if it happens to my sister or daughter.

Thank you for being honest.

MrBrownJay1:
morning after pill...

Those are known to mess with a woman's cycle and can cause infertility.

Is it still worth it?

MrBrownJay1:
premarital sex isnt the issue, taking care of your body while having premarital sex IS THE PROBLEM HERE.... you can easily have premarital sex (to each their own) without having a baby/std... so long as you protect yourself the right way.

Even condom dey break. Well wait sef. So if that happens, what next?

Abortion, keep the baby?

Yet, if you tell both male and female to stop fornicating, they will come for you.

Many are having premarital sex and children are one of the consequences of premarital sex.

You people frown at people doing abortions but won't marry a single mum or won't abstain from sex.

If your partner gets pregnant for you, na una go first say make she abort am, yet, some of you won't marry a woman who has done abortion before.

Una no see say this premarital sex thing no worth am las las?

MODFIED

Women, from the response my comment is getting, it's safe to say you're on the receiving end.

These guys won't marry you with a child, they won't marry you if they know you've had an abortion or abortions, they won't marry you if post pills mess with your fertility.

Is it not best to close your legs till you get married?

The posts about dating or marrying single mothers should be a deterrent, cause them plenty for Romance section. They will quote Okafor's law for you as a reason to not marry a single mother.

Ladies, close leg o.

Davidonkonsults:
Arguing with men makes you cum. Inferior creature that knows your gender is not worth arguing with. Go to your dead children.

Next time you see my monicker, avoid me.

Old papa wey no wise.

Davidonkonsults:
Cover your imaginary dead children. Greet your cucumber for me. Anu. Menopausal old jobless hag that has no life aside nairaland.

Single digit IQ man.

Oya go and sleep.