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Qurungu:
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

Are you sure that guy is telling you the truth? Find out about the girl and the pregnancy first. You may be right, he may just want to wear you out with different tricks.
You sound like you love him. Don’t be rash, assess the situation, talk with him and make a decision from what you find out.
Something in me however thinks yours is a marriage worth fighting for. He may also actually be under a spell because some chick wants his money.

Why is the woman never under a spell when she cheats?

And you slept with her before knowing all these things.

I give up o.

No be you go tell us wetin to call Peter Obi.

Life2020:
I can't kick him out of a house I built with my own money, a land I brought in my own name

And please am a dark beauty, thank u very much
Hope u have a nice day

If you need help packing out his things, holler at me.

I've got a 911 truck on standby.

There is no one worth losing your sanity or dying for.

Not a child, a spouse, a parent or a sibling.

If that relationship/ marriage is taking away your peace, leave to stay alive.

tollyboy5:
Agbaya 0shi, an ignorant young girl is being misled because she's fighting proxy war on behalf of mum.

You're here typing trash. You're no different from those kind of women. I only pity the man for ending up with a woman that cannot separate her children from personal conflict with her husband. Rubbish!
Na person go marry you too like dis now?!
Men don suffer

Like I said, coconut water.

tollyboy5:
Sorry to say. You d0nt have sense!

So na you get sense with wetin you type there.

No apologies, na coconut water dey your brain.

Such a happy soul.

AfonjaConehead:
Yes nah,I do it at times when I wanna get naughty hehe
I stopped when one bronco was trying to get drunk...

Lol. You see. So I wasn't wrong to assume it was a guy.

Until someone tells you they want a relationship with you and both of you define it, thread carefully and don't build castles in the air or find yourself in a situationship like many people have.

AfonjaConehead:
Ok madam, sorry..you know say you popular for here nah,why you come dey act like that

Act like how?

The post no show say she be woman. Anybody wey dey regular for here spos know say that "f" sign for her post no mean anything, even guys dey open account dey use the "f" sign.

nkpommpko:
always in an attack mode.

Always prepared to dish out gbos for every gbas.

AfonjaConehead:
Shut up and always read and check....were you looking for pictures.

As na you dey buy me data.

kingtinnie:
Wetin you mean

Exactly.

Bankerboy:
Don't ever try to push him away his your brother, just sit him down and talk to him. And maybe call ur mum to lay a complain about him. All this people telling u to pursue him from your won't do the same if it was their kid brother. Blood is thicker than water. I hope he is not making trouble outside?

Which blood is thicker than water?

I've sent my sister back home for her terrible hygiene after several talks and she refused to change.

Now my mum is working on her and is giving me updates on her progress.

Blood is thicker than water doesn't mean we should condone nonsense from siblings. Na so many siblings done kill their brother wife because of property.

JASONjnr:
So you're very positive with having the wedding and left of money to treat him...But not too sure how long it will take for the father to recover and that alone could consume money for his treatment....

That man probably used his last servings to sponsor that dude and you want him to not see to his health first?

Marriage can always wait...The woman can divorce him tomorrow and even poison him, but family is where he'd always lay his heads when depressed....

Well, that's how you see it. Not everyone thinks like you.

Why should a wedding that's one month away be postponed for a sickness that's just two weeks?

At that point sef, I'm sure vendors would have been paid.

Like I said, let him discuss with his fiance and set their priorities straight. Only them can decide.

My own father will sha not let me postpone cause he's Ill. But our fathers are different.

Dshocker:
It pains me so much when i see mothers these days overlooking issues that they ought to correct in a child with beating.

I keep saying it, no amount of beating will make a child hate his/her parents when they grow up.

I still believe in the older ways used in training up a child, than what most parents are doing now, and giving excuse that this is a modern world of social media, that it is best you talk to them, that they will change.

When a child already knows that, no matter what he or she does, non of the parents will beat them, rather they will only talk...What do you expect of the child, because he or she is already fearless.

It's not just mothers, fathers too. But mothers bear the brunt more cause the society only holds the mother accountable.

JASONjnr:
How will you even smile and rejoice at the event knowing that your father is ridden with pains at the hospital and his mother would probably not be physical too since she's the one taking care of him....


Una deh try oh....

It's always all about your the female and her happiness and nothing more...

I've seen it happen a lot. It's not about female anything. The guy will spend money on his father's health, is it not better they get the wedding over and done with and still have enough to take care of his dad?

Or should they postpone it however long it takes till the father gets well?

It's not even a terminal illness, it's not as if the dad has been I'll for long. He can still get better so they shouldn't postpone and just set their mind on a low key wedding.

Dshocker:
They are siblings and his actions can make mama die before her time...

Mama no know before she spoil the boy?

RoyalBlu:
"A man's enemies will be the members of his household" ... Matt 10:36


So what has he gained now for his wickedness Sleeplessness and anguish.

May she rest in peace.

Wicked people everywhere.

When people are entitled to what they didn't work for, na so e dey be.

Person work, build life with him wife, e die finish, you say you must reap where you no sow.

See am na.

The wedding can still happen but low key.

In all, let him carry his fiance along. They need to discuss what's more important to them.

19 year old wey done dey smoke Indian hemp. You're not his mother, send him back to his mother let her carry her cross.

Nilon:
is your husband the father of your baby?

Are you the son of the man you call father?

Ask your mama well o.

ThinkSmarter:
I think, Abstinence is not feasible, we should encourage safe sex rather.
Meanwhile, It is absolutely wrong to get a lady pregnant without her consent.
There should be Planned parenthood.
Some men use pregnancy to trap their gf.
The worst is some will not take responsibility and rather choose to be mocking the lady.
That's why as early as 15, i will start teaching my girl sex education.
Before one idiot will turn her to baby mama.

Abstinence is very very very feasible.

Worriedwife:
She is a woman,, read again

I didn't know that.

The post didn't say but at least, she now has an example of the kind of man to stay away from.

At least you have an example of the kind of man you shouldn't be, thanks to your dad.

TheDemola:
Lol, she dey smile before now

If I hear. She dey bone face like say she hate everybody when she be baby but we thank the Lord today.

At least, she done dey smile.

TheLordofHost:
All my life no woman has given me such amount of money.

Mature babes better pass this small girls wey I been Dey follow o.

This my babe is 36 years. She’s beautiful, mature, caring and always straight to the point. We’ve been dating for 3 months now and she has never asked for a penny.

Most Women below 30 are a waste of time Abegg. All they have to offer is billing, headache and STDs.

Evening Newspaper 1- Urgent 2k 0.

The only reason she can be charged is for committing abortion cause it's illegal in Nigeria. It is not cause she aborted his child without his consent.

A simple abstinence from premarital sex would have done both parties a lot of good but this generation and it's craze for sex won't hear.

Raph222:
i don't get wat u mean

“It’s dead as dodo (roasted plantain) wondering why you journalists will continue to do the story.

I'm saying how is the story dead if it's true?

Raph222:
From the evidence presented so far it would/is the truth

So what is dead about it?