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Agnesqueen:
PLEASE STAY ON TOPIC THANK YOU

na2day?:
we are on topic, someone is cheating live and direct   

LOL 

@Mr The Sly, something tells me youre a woman posing as a man, or you havnt outed yet.
So if a church had the misfortune of having you as their pastor, you'l say "Eve cheated on Adam with a snake"

I always say this thing to NLanders: DONT SMOKE WEED AND TYPE. AND DONT DRINK KAI KAI and use the computer. It makes you say stupid things!

LOOOLLL.  I saw it already and deemed it too 'ridiculous' to reply to.
He sounds like the type of guy who loves the anonymity of the internet and so decides to say what he'd 'love' to do. In reality he'd be too scared to cheat. His type usually marry overbearing women who wont allow them breath lol

No doubt some people are hypocrites and Im happy for you you dont cheat on your wife, cos goodness knows its an ideal every man should aim for. Not just for his wife, but out of respect for himself first and foremost.
But let those of us who are not hypocrites, let us talk. Se you grab.

Here we go again. Read the title of the thread. Its called : Nigerian Married Men and Adultry!
We are talking about you people and so dont shift any gear. Open another thread if you want to shift gear.
Besides whether I sleep with a man or not is nobody's business cos I wont be hurting anyone. Adultry is when youre married and sleeping around. And what makes THAT a sin is that youre hurting someone.
If I want to sleep around, its my prerogative. But not when Im married or in a relationship.

shamespury:
because the husband's family never liked her in the first instance and she had her way getting married to him.so what do you expect if things goes wrong with the man. i think people don't really understand what courtship is all about, i guess it has been taken for something else.

How many inlaws ever like their son's wives? 2 out of 10. People like who they can control, period. If you get along with you inlaws as a woman its either
1. They are genuinely good people and you are too , or
2. You are as materialistic as your mother inlaw who probably likes to gossip. She'l definitely love you too
If not, she'l say you think youre something better.

denny4ril:
because the woman is the main support or should at least be but how many of them are. Hidden motives govern many marital relationships theses days and that is d reason for the wahala and d danger!

Yea well women arent the only one's who marry for the wrong reason these days. Many men marry because of pressure : youre 30 and you MUST get married to prove youre a man.Its a 50/50 thing.

And many men play around with girls who love them and then go for a complete stranger when they want to get married. They say they want someone 'responsible'.
And then you people are surprised when it turns out the girl doesnt love you enough to support you. Youve used your wife to do girlfriend.
Thats the mode these days, then you people say women are evil. Meanwhile the one who loved you, you dumped.

I wish the oil will finish tomorrow, cos before they found it, the Nigerian people were 'rich'. Now, only a few are rich, and they completely ignore our other resources.
But that report is wrong. Last year, they said in 30yrs the oil wells will be dry, this year its 10yrs they say. Next year now they'l come with another propaganda, maybe they'l say 12 yrs.
Prehistoric sealife (sea elephants and seals) and aged vegetation died away and their debris formed oil. Imagine what quantity we're talking about. The oil will not finish.
We will have to learn to use it for the reason we were given it in the first place. After all, isnt the Golf and the UAE living on the same oil. They are disciplined enough to use it to enrich themselves and not as a curse.
We have to learn that. Theres no easy way out.

emyah:
The war ended many, many years ego. But some Nigerians continue to remind the Igbos that they lost the war.But has it ever occured to you that the person/persons that brag most about the outcome of the war are mostly Yorubas, such as Obasanjo and others. Here come the latest, Rotomi, the Ambassador to Washington. Read about his fiasco with Ojo and you decide who is actually tribalistic.
And to those who don't know how the war ended, it ended because Biafran Civilians were hopelessly killed by the Nigerian army, compounded with the starvation by the Nigeria government. The Nigerian army could not defeat Biafran soldiers. Ojukwu ended the war because of the suffering on the Civilians.

Where do you get your facts from? The war ended because of many factors. One being foreign pressure because the nigerian army was killing 'biafrans' who had NO WEAPONS. Ojuku RAN AWAY TO THE UK. The man wasnt there. What rubbish are you talking
My father was one of the so called Biafran 'soldiers' wearing slippers with no gun in hand. He was taken off the streets and promised by Ojuku and company that Biafra would be their free world etc. NA LIE. It was all a lie. Ojuku ran away when it got hot and left the Igbos to their faith.

Go read Chimammanda Adichie's : Half of a Yellow Sun. Dont come here and talk nonsence, cos even Chinua Achebe had to commend the book.
She put down  the facts of the Biafran war. Ojukwu hoodwinked the Igbos into a war they had no weapons to fight HE is responsible for those peoples lives.

bolanleodu:
The truth is that most of you loud mouth silly girls are only looking for some ready-made guy but it doesn't work like that a responsible cum successful man isn't born but made. There are ups and down, when you are praised and blamed, If you dont want to get married good, spare society the trouble. As for desperation in ladies it comes from inward and the fact that some other girls get to marry and build a happy home, You want to be miss independent fine it nobody's headache but yours.[color=#990000][/color]

And the problem with you loud mouthed, over-mothered men is, you people usually look for 'ms. obedient'. A dumb-headed girl you and your family can control.
A girl supports a man when he's down, for years she stands by him and thinks theyre building their future together, and then the minute he makes it, he exchanges her for some flashy, gold-digger girl who was nowhere when he had nothing. After Ive worked and walked by your side through thick and thin, you now leave me because your family thinks Im too strong for you?
THATS why women now want ready-made men. They say once bitten, twice shy.

I cant lie, Im one of them. Im no longer going to support any man who will later dump me for the girl his parents want him to marry, because they see that with me in his life, they'd have no control over him or , because I have a head of my own.
I work hard for my money and Im not going to stand by a man who wants me to support him. He will meet me where I am, shoulder to shoulder and we'l go from there.
The last idiot I supported is still owing me 2000euros. Rubbish and nonsence!

Princek12:
Good point. I bet you women will avoid responding to your point. You want to take credit for being behind a successful man but not take the blame for being behind a jerk. Typical behavior: cherry picking when it is convenient and beneficial to be a woman. Lol.

Oh YES. Because for you men, when your children do well in life, they are 'your children', but when one son is on drugs and one daughter doesnt marry early, they are 'the womans children'. That time, nobody remembers the man was never home when the children were growing up and the poor woman would have had to struggle to bring up two children without a husband

When I read stuff like this, I wonder.
Have you people looked around Africa? See our neighbouring countries and how they plunge from one war to the next. All these people speak the same language oh. I feel Nigerias greatest strength is her diversity, and those who want to split the country should simply stay where they are and not go to other parts.
And then these Igbos who constantly go on and on about Biafra, remember oh, when you people wanted to go and become your Biafra, nobody was going to hold you, but you wanted to take Bendel with you and THAT was what started that brutal war. If you people had simply left, ase we will all have had peace. So all these tales of woe you people are crying about, you people should go to the Ojuku's who were promising you what they couldnt deliver.

On a lighter note @ Poster, if you think Nigerians have nothign in common, take a stroll round NL and see. There is a pattern of madness that can only be Nigerian.
Theres sooo much more to the country than this constant 'Yoruba', 'Ibo' 'Hausa' secterianism.

LOOOLLLL. I havnt laughed this hard in a long long time. I see a lot of wack threads on here, but this is simply too funny.
Im probably going to get abused for what I say, but it doesnt matter, cos they'l abuse me anyway, so here goes:
I like Ebonyeyes, sexylemon, mrsb (or so), mohawkchik, theblessed and many others even though they may on occassion annoy me.

But theres one semi-crace on the loose : wale.star. That guy makes me very aware of just how many psychopaths there are in the virtual world.
Posakosa Im not really sure of cos he's everywhere at the same time and moves as the wind blows him, so on one thread you'd hear him say something highly intelligent and then on another he runs with his mouth.
A good majority of the people in the Religion and Tribalism section are most certainly raving lunatics. And then a few mad one's stroll around on occassion to drop curses here and there just to show theyre around sha.

Akpo Jude:
Dom Domingos College
Edjeba,Warri.
(for kings and queens)

Warfi in the house

Federal Government College Warri. Great fedgocol

stillwater:
Naa, if a girl is brought up under good parental conditions she wouldn't be desperately seeking for a mate neither will she be counting the eggs in her womb day in day out. She would endeavour to take life easy and will not consider herself useless if after 40 she's without a husband. I blame the Nigerian society, because a single woman is often gossiped about and seen as a prostitute, an old hag where no man wants her. That's why Nigerian women would rather than die in an abusive relationship than be called a divorcee or single. A lot of women would have waited for the right men but for society they've been pushed into settling for less.

My sentiments exactly. Some educated old school fathers (like mine) cheerish their girl children and would rather see them single and happy making their own money than in a useless man's house. Thank The Lord for good upbringing.

Cooking school?
Well you can go to them 'mama-put and learn from them lol. I dont know if there are oficial cooking schools in lagos, I only know of baking schools. Theres one on Allen, opposite Alade market.
As for cooking, depending on what you want to learn, go to mama-amala under the bridge  or at a lagos post office or secretariat for other nigerian dishes lol.

Stealthy:
In all honesty, women don't help matters too. A lot of young girls (say in their uni days) will sleep with a man cos he can buy them all sorts of stuff and they feel on top of d world. They then get married and forget that what goes around comes around.
Fact is naijas love to feel sharp and feel we can game any system including marriage. And I'm talking of both men & women, single & married.

Yep. Very very true

MUZBO:
Why don't you save yourself the stress of seeking corroborators by picking your best nominee on the list and stating why he should've won. Your Tsangarai guy is a local champ. If he had won then Gani Fawehinmi should've won last year. Face it, Zimbabwe is only in the news when there's conflict with world wide implications like whites being deported and stuff. Sit there make trouser dey wear you.

I repeat for those of you who have refused to read before replying : Obama is a wonderful guy, but beautiful warming words done do it . I insist, if you had read my ealier posts, we wont even have this back and forth.
And I wasnt routing for Tsvangarai. I said he was on the 'favourites list'.
READ BEFORE YOU REPLY!

kanye West:
I knew its only a matter of time these brainless chicks will come out to start attacking me because i rightfully stated that women are stupid animals and should be blamed for all the woes of men.
You have just exhibited all the traits of stupidity by pointing out my criticism of women to advance your cause. Thats why you will continue to remain as you are and continue to be the object of sex to men and men shall continue to throw crumbs at feet in exchaange for opening your smelly legs! Pheww!

Here we go. Another one on the loose!

Essen - food (german)
Ordinador - -computer (spanish)

Homonide:
I submit without any fear of contradiction that even though President Barack Obama has made some efforts to enhance global peace, he doesn't deserve the Nobel Peace Prize. The Norwegian Nobel committee seem to have been taken in by President Obama's personality. I believe the committee should have selected someone who has made some genuine efforts to Foster Peace in the world.

Ah toh. Help me explain to Mr Muzbo and co. oh.
Theres no beef involved, just facts. Its a little too premature and its obvious they are taken by his personality, not his achievements.

kanye West:
Why shouldnt women be blamed for Men's Woes? They are Animals and Always diverting the minds of Men from Intelligent Money Making Things and Issues to stupid irrelevant things like Shopping. They are too dense and daft and thats why they will always be second class citizens and objects of sex in comparison to Men! Stupid creatures

Oya, theyve come. In entourage. Nna doe, oh

lol

MUZBO:
Yeah I'm on the loose so ignorant punk nobel haters like you should watch out.I'm tired of people like you saying you voiced your opinion when those same opinions were meant to sway general acceptance on a public forum. Please show 1 instance where I contradicted myself and you'd have just out-smarted yourself.

Not sure what all the rambling means but ok, whatever

LOOLLL. OH Kay. Whatever that means lol

Rooneyboy:
u made use of the word "desperation" and the Nigerian society , what i m trying to poin out is that girls (u inclusive) have every reason to be desperate knowing fully well that there's something at stake. So YOU SHOULDN'T BLAME THE NIGERIAN SOCIETY.

Im not sure I understand you sir? What exactly is at stake? Cos if I understood the lady correctly, this desperation she spoke of was the pressure single ladies recieve.

asunaobi:
For God still love the world that He sent Obama! To 'Rosabelle' , Please don't be jealous of Michelle.

And thats why I advice people to read before they answer. Im an Obama-fan, but somewhere along the line, people have to realise he's just one man.  

MUZBO:
Wicked guy! She's not jealous, she's just over-informed.

MUZBO:
Lemme answer like this: Mandela is an icon whose struggle brought hope and freedom to lots of oppressed people of colour world wide not just in S.A. Then why didn't Tsangarai win it? Please don't say its because he's not the president of the United States o! Tree planting combats climate change world over. Have you been informed of the saying: act local, think global? Please be informed! Now thats the international recognition I'm not looking for. Keep it up and I'll win next year Nobel in intelligence. . . [b]Inaugural that is.[/b]No! Blame it on the impending lunar explosion. Were you informed? Sorry, I was busy reading newspapers. No thanks to you.

And all I can say is: another one on the loose.

TEE ZERO:
Guys and gals,. must we quarrel, all the time?
We don't have to resort to abuses and insults, you know. We don't.
OK: the owners of the award say "this is who we want to give it to!" Shikena ko?!

Ah toh. Ase it is my opinion I gave and Mr Muzbo thinks he has to contend. meanwhile you didnt think it necessary to read previous posts before jumping to the rescue of whom Im not sure.
Seems your head is working on over-time today. Nothing you say makes sense bro!

PS: Mr Muzbo, STOP contradicting yourself, its embarrassing

sandas:
this is not a about Nigerian men it is about men generally some men can resist temptation while some cant, but adultery is not good

Kai. Nigerian men. I love the way you people know how to dudge bullets and never stick up and own up. Its always someone else.
We are talking about YOU. Always looking for how to shelve responsibility.
Dont tell me 'men generally' cos I dont know men generally and unless youre gay and you want to come out now, I doubt you know 'men generally' either. The issue today is YOU. NIGERIAN MEN! Hia!

Ehen now we have a full house

MUZBO:
*sigh*. Ofcourse I know you were refering to me but by using something I never mentioned. Guess you don't know how puns work. You just wanted to prove you are smart once again. Well you aint! Don't think because you put Michael Scofield in your profile makes you like him. You may be 'informed' like him but you don't have his low level inhibition; besides he's just a fictional character much like your 'informedness'.

Ofcourse you knew. I mean, youre soo smart you assume youre talking to an illeterate when refering to El-Baradei and youre surprised when I reply knowingly.
This is too petty to continue. WHAT does my pic of Scofield have to do with this thread? What, you expect a real pic of me or something?
Why am I not surprised this has completely derailed   from the original point of the thread?
I repeat: theres no point forcing people to take your opinion. If you believe in it, take it for yourself. I dont have to convince you of anything, I stand by that.

MUZBO:
Hope you can hear yourself! How can you contribute only locally and expect an international award like nobel? Now lemme ask you- did the earthquake in Indonesia shake the foundations of your home?
Is the power outage you are currently experiencing in your house affecting Robert Mugabe? All these are domestic issues which if they don't touch you then you won't care!
You have to be world wide to be seen by a non domesticated Nobel committee.
If you like carry all your rice and feed the homeless in your backyard then sit back and wait for a nobel- you'll wait till kingdom come.
You'll tell me whether Princess Di got international recognition from sitting in the UK and preaching against anti-personnel mines while watching Man U play!

And so how come Mandela won it? And how come that Tsvangaria was one of the favourites this year. And the kenyan lady who won it for PLANTING TREES nko.
Normally Im used to hearing smarter things come from you. Im so disappointed today, I'l blame it on the weather.
You seem to contradict yourself repeatedly.
It seems to me you didnt even read the previous posts before you started to point fingers and challenge peoples opinions.

Rooneyboy:
In as much as i concur with u on this , u ll also agree with me that our God has made it so and not just "the Nigerian society" ,bearing in mind that the male and female body are two different types.

The Lord made what I hope youre not saying God said all women must marry oh, cos you'l break out a war here oh. Maybe Im not understanding you? Kindly expanciate

presidonsi:
PLS I DO ENJOY MOST OF THE POSTINGS ON NAIRALAND BUT PEOPLE RESPONSES TO THIS POSTING IS NOT ENCOURAGING.
PLS LADIES NOTE THE FOLLOWING:
1. YOUR ATTRACTION TO A MAN WHETHER YOUR HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND SHOULD ADD REALISTIC VALUE TO THE MAN
2. YOUR FINANCIAL DEMANDS SHOULDNT BARRED THE MAN FROM HIS CAREER ADVANCEMENT
3. NEVER ALLOW your MAN TO STOP WHERE U MEET HIM.
4.PLS NOTE NO MATTER HOW SUCCESSFUL YOUR PARENTS ARE YOUR HUSBAND SUCCESS MATTERS MOST.
5. PLS LADIES BE MORE FUTURE AND PROSPECTIVE CONSCIOUS THAN ONE OFF BENEFITS

Sir. I dont understand what youre saying and what we're saying. Cos it seems like you mistakenly posted on the wrong thread. I stand to be corrected if wrong

MUZBO:
1st your pun sucks because I never said you're uninformed. Then I've been reading the papers for your sake and a quote I came across said self-projecting smart people like you often outsmart themselves.
Why can't you tell me why your domestic peace-brokering loosers are not in contention for the prize? You just want to runaway from the sucker punch while sending me to read THE PUNCH eh Miss informed!

Well actually by "Mr-Im-Uninformed", I was refering to YOU . Im sorry you didnt get that.
And Im not running from anything. I just find when youve made your point youve made it and shouldnt go defending it or forcing others to take it.

stillwater:
I'm very wary of a man that borrows huge sums from his girlfriend. Yeah it's good to help someone you love, but most of the time they play on the love you have for them. One just has to use her head not heart when your life savings are involved.

Now I will be wary of a guy who asks me for money. But when youre with someone you love, youre like: well if I give my body to him, what is money? And its this attitude that gets us in trouble it seems.