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sonnie10:
At point as a child, all I wanted to be was a pilot but one condition. Because I wanted a quite place to enjoy my Bongo tea as much I want.
Mom would only pour us cup each. She made the sweetest tea. I always wanted more.
Whatever airline I would work for must allow me bring my flask on board.
The plan was, Mom would make Bongo tea to take to work and I would buy her exotic stuff from foreign lands.
Every time I fly, the flask must be sitting next to me filled with freshly brewed Bongo tea with extra milk and sugar.
Although I wasn’t sure if airplanes had steering wheel but I knew there would be some kind of control somewhere that I must keep my hands on . So how do I drink my Bongo tea? In my fantasy, I figured it out.
I needed a long drinking straw! Yes I was ready to a pilot
Hands on the wheels and straw in mouth. I would keep that job forever.

Beautiful story
So did you later became a pilot?

mariahAngel:
I had this one too.
I'm yet to have it to my fill though.

As in, make person just buy me the carton of this biscuit I will become their slave

Mine is Shortbread biscuit, I love that biscuit die but it was expensive growing up, that most times I will save my Christmas money to buy it
Now as an adult I don chop am tire but recently the prize have gone up

Daniel7543:
With the way things are going in Nigeria, I think selling your property to japa is the best and wise decision.
Like play, like play, person die today for my front just because he wan withdraw his hard earned money. It's not easy here in Nigeria. We the legit hustlers are feeling the heat.

I wish day I get property to sell. I for don sell am japa go even if na South Africa.

I have advice him not to sell but recently the way things are going, no money, prizes of goods going up, we are suffering everyday.

I really dont know what to tell him anymore.
Is Nigeria really worth staying in as a young guy that want to hustle legitimately, it's just seems the only people surviving in this country are those that are into Yahoo, scamming and corruption because they are the ones that can spend money na

Just like the Title, is it a good decision to sell your property and leave Nigeria.

I have a family friend that is an orphan, his father left him a property which when he checked the prize was worth about 12M naira.
Now the issue is he is broke and working in a place where they dont pay him very well, he is thinking of leaving Nigeria but he dont have the funds to process his visa and the other things required, he is an Orphan so he doesn't have parents that he will take care of or something, his mind is telling him to sell this property and leave Nigeria and start afresh abroad but he is very confuse.

I have advice him to stay and continue his job hoping for something better.

Guys if you were in his shoes what will you do.
He is 30 years of age.

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Kirkman:
So she couldn't buy her own land and build its to take her late sisters own. Better leave that house for them if you want to live to see next year. Or better still get a lawyer and a court injunction against her or better still refund her the amount of money that she put into the house.

Thanks I am planning on leaving next month, I am just feeling it's too far but I have no choice

merieam16:
Be careful!!! Thats all I can say to you. Do u av the resources to get ur property back?Are you with the documents?

At the moment No.
I have put everything in God hands

Taba21:
How old are you?

Mid Twenties

Lance008:
Do not trust your Aunt
Witches are the most dangerous and pretended being in the world
Please do as I say
She already used your mom
She completing the house to use the unfinished glory of your mom
Please don't ever trust your Aunt she is a big enemy if she truly your Aunt she won't drag your mom property with the only child
Please your Aunt is practicing witchcraft
You get to know this as times goes on
She was asked to complete the house in order to used the unfinshed glory of your mom after killing your mom
Report her and don't be afraid
If you are useless tomorrow you only face the pain yourself then why afraid to speak out
Your Aunt still keeping you for some reason best known to her
You might be the next she going to kill
Kindly know this dead man tells no tales

I felt chills reading this but if I might ask why do you think so??

ikeno:
some years ago I bought a piece of land that my elder sister told me about cause the owner was going through financial difficulty then I was in school and had saved some money before I gained admission.
a year later she came crying to me that they have been given quit notice where they reside and I should please let her use the money on her to build a room and parlour rather than using it to rent another apartment so that she and her family will be free from landlord wahala and increments.
because she's my sister and married with kids and also very close that I sometimes seek advice or discuss issues with her freely,I gave her the go ahead to use some portion of the land and leave the rest for my own building project.
few years later wen I came back I found out that they also build some apartment and rented them out on my land.i was so furious and threatened to demolish everything.she pleaded and begged me.i just left it for her and moved on.

So you are saying I should just leave the house for her and move on
Maybe I can do that if I was very financial stable but that area the land is, is very good like there is "Step down" there with 24 hours light, that is the only place where they dont seize light in the whole town.
Also I feel that's the last thing my late Mom left for me so at least I should treasure it.
I think I should gather myself and find a way to pay her back all the money she has spent but for now, let me try and focus on peace

UnusualEmissary:
She said she wanted to raise the building and you declined.

The moment she broke your trust and defied your stance on her completing the building and started building on it was the time you should have done something about it if you had the capacity.

You should have taken strict actions to stop her plans and make your decision very clear from then. But you allowed it and tolerated it until the situation aggravated to this level.

This is part of the consequences of not doing the right things at the right time.

Anyways, see the counsel of a legal practitioner or someone learned about things like this sha on the issue

Thanks for the advice.
I was pretty young then, it was 7 years ago but tho I was smart to know problems always comes when sharing property.
The thing was that she never regarded me both due to my age and the fact I have a quiet personality.
I hope we settle this thing amicably and not go to court but for now I am worried like if something like this can make someone harm another person.

RedMac:
Hmmmm this is a serious issue, man listen to me... Your life is at risk, staying in that house or not, hatred and jealousy will start creeping in, I will advise you to leave that house immediately and then find a peaceful way to settle this issue

That was my intention, I want to leave the house and I already planned for it but I unfortunately kept my money in piggyvest safelock still December and now I am stuck in a place I am not comfortable in.
Even her children in the house have been giving me side eyes for days like I want to take away their property.
I plan to bring the issue when I leave the house but something just made me bring it out this week and as much I will like to believe everything is Okay, I have been seeing how they keep food in their room and lock it like I am going to do something bad.
If they think I have such bad intentions then I am scared what they are thinking about.
My heart honestly is good

Lance008:
Truth be told
Your mom was sacrificed by your Aunt and was told to complete the project
Meaning the unused blessings of your mom is for her and both your destiny is at risk
This is Africa where demons are more than the good people always know that
Let that guide your thinking
Your Aunt doesn't care if you actually live or survive all she want is for her children to be greater
Think of this
If your Aunt have money to complete the building why can't she start her own building afresh must it be your mom land
This is spiritual
It's yours don't leave your house for anyone
Take her to court or report her to your mom brothers
Please don't be afraid to take actions
Witches are never afraid to hurt you

Thanks but she and my Mom were pretty close and she was devastated when my mom passed away.
It's just that since I wasn't bothered about the building for years she assumed that she is the owner of the house and now that I have mentioned it, she started looking at me some kind of way, she is the kind of person that feel she is very smart and since I have this calm personality, she thinks she can control me.
She keep making mention of how without her raising the building up that some area boys would have sold the land because land there is very sort after.

I will make this short as possible, my Mom died about 8 years ago and she left a piece of land in a very good location like 24 hrs light supply in the area, before my mom died she has already built to window length house on the land.
Anyway I was in school and really didn't give attention to the property, one say my Aunty who I was living with said she want to raise the building up, I told her No because I know how family drag properties and I didn't want to have problems in the future since I was the only child of my Mom so I basically inherited the land.
Long story short my Aunty didn't listen to me and started completely the building my mom left behind, at first she was telling me her progress and making it look like we both are partners in this project.

Then for the last 4 years or so she stopped telling me about the progress, instead she was calling the property her own, even her own children was calling the property her own, something happened which made her stop the building 3 years ago but still she keep mentioning she is the owner of the property.

Me on one hand dont want to fight to drag property with anyone but we had a little misunderstanding the other day and she got angry that I reminded her of the land claiming that she has spend so much on the building that the house is supposed to he hers and if I want the house I will have to buy it from her.

I am so tired because I am currently staying with her and as much I dont want trouble I know that money can change people and make them do unthinkable things.
My thoughts now is Should I be scared in this house??
I am planning on leaving but it's next month before I can access my funds and to me it's a very long time

Why are you impersonating IBtxo, are you looking for business ideas to steal??
Lol you wont see, many people wont just say their plans online for anybody to take.

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Zonefree:
What's with "him/her" of a thing? You don't know the gender of your relative

Trying to make it gender neutral, it's just my anxiety of giving away too much

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jeromestarks:
Ok. Let's say the wife is so tired and exhausted that she couldn't lift a finger and the husband forced himself on her after she had explained that she doesn't want sex.
What would you call that? Assault?

I am surprised this is coming from you, I thought you will be one of those people that says as long as it's his wife and a woman, she is inferior and the husband can use her anyhow.
I am really surprised you know there can be rape in a marriage, so you are not 100% bad.
Ok

Nigeria is not a country to live in

Machinegun91:
Did you just said you decided to attend his birthday just to make his birthday beauty?


What do women really think they are to men?


I have never for once celebrated my birthday with girls, I only brings them as souvenirs for my pussy loving Bobos

Be like say your brain dey pain you.
Always making everything about women Vs Men, cant you just have human sympathy

internationalman:
Suya big na. At least you spent money before banging her.

Me na my fine long fingernails I take dey bang them.

Anytime I want to go on a fucking spree all I have to do is just keep my nails to be longer than usual.

WTF man, how is that possible, girls just fall for you because you have a long finger nails??
Or you are just cappin

jeromestarks:
I support you with three bags of rice.
Carry on my brother. May your home be filled with joy.

Quick question:
Is she a virgin or disvirgined by you?

Jesus, Old man why are you derailing the thread with your usual trash.
I wish nairaland have a block button so I wont be seeing all your trash , I mean if what you are saying is sensible you dont have to keep repeating it na.
Ejoo abeg get sense small na

rickleye:
As we have said many times-
No, it’s not alright. Best be age mates 25-22 or 35-30.
A lady at 22 is just coming into her own. You have sown your wild oats and are looking to settle down and she’s just a spring chicken.
What are her career goals ?
Are you sponsoring her to go to school?
Is she content with being a house wife ?
How you both interact and nurture the relationship ( start with dating her ) goes a long way. If she feels loved and swoon “ hey honey let’s hit the club or honey you look dazzling “ than marrying her father who says “ do this or do that “ “ cook this or cook that “
Personally - relationship first ! let her hit 25 years and observe the maturity.
Finally, ask yourself were you ready to marry at 22 ?

The lady is an adult and is fine to make her own decisions, as long as she want to get married at 22 let her.
Not everyone want to sow wild oats

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Lol it's okay she is an adult.
I hope sha is matured because some 20 years old behave like kids nowadays.
Anyway good luck in your marriage

I think children from broken homes are sometimes emotionally damaged, not all o but 70% of them.
Please people that are getting married should try getting married to their friends and someone they have understanding with instead of getting married because of big yansh and boobs.
All this superficial things fades away and then you end up with someone you can't stand, this will take a huge emotional toll on your children especially when they see how the father and mother hates each other and their is no love between them

care4you:
Pls don't date or marry an independent introvert....

I don't usually give advice but you this one? Am damn serious about it!

Allow them to marry themselves (introverts)

Talking from experience!


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But but but...... I am an independent introvert

HerculesJ:
Thanks....but where and how do I start looking for her in this big country...?

Next time, make sure she tell you her number sharp sharp before you wake up, nowadays it's hard to see your dream girl

rtdCivilservant:
What name did she tell u? Let me know if it is the same girl I saw in my dream two weeks ago. Immediately she told me her name too I woke just like u. My question now is, does it mean this girl goes about featuring in everybody's dream. Op pls I want to know.

Lol

Yes I will, I will give him my number, my NIN number, my house address WTH I will just follow him home and leave my date there