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Why do most people like taking advantage of quiet people, as if they think if someone is quiet they see them as "mumu" because it's really frustrating.

Someone been quiet doesn't mean the people dont know anything or can't handle situation.

Take for example, there is one neighbour I have, she has been looking for a house girl for months now and she was willing to pay 25k for it, she has even paid an agent for it.
So one day she met this house girl that was living in the same street with her friend and asked her if she can find a girl for her, the house girl said she has a Sister that she can bring for her.
So this my neighbour gave her 15k to bring the girl, then the girl came and start working for her, the girl was very quiet and humble, she can tell the girl to run up and down the street and the girl will do it without complain.

My neighbour have a shop so the girl was going to the shop and doing Sales girl and also doing house girl at home, after one month my neighbour didn't pay the girl saying the 15k she use to bring the girl is her first month salary.
The girl didn't say anything because she is a quiet person and my neighbour like telling everyone that this girl doesn't know anything and she is the one teaching her everything.
So after second month of working my neighbour finally paid the girl and guess what she paid her 10k, imagine in this economy she is paying someone that is doing sales girl and house girl together for her 10k and the funny thing was she paid the girl once the girl told her, her period have come and she should buy pad for her, then she gave her her salary and tell her to buy pad from it.

It's just funny how some people thinks they are so smart they can take advantage of people, anyway the housegirl shocked her last week and pack her things and left, she was so surprised saying it people around that have spoiled the girl for her because she can't believe someone quiet like that can have her own mind of making that decision.
Now she is looking for a new girl and anybody she met they are telling her 25k and more, funny thing was that the old housegirl could have accepted 15k only of she didn't try to be smart about the situation.

Kanye always doing too much

The boys were trying hard to defame her, it's obvious in the video all she wanted was a power bank to charge her phone so she can pay for the meal.
The boys were the one insisting that she can't pay while she is saying she can even pay for a 50k meal, she just want to charge her phone.
End of the day na the boys fucck up

Baliqeez:
Good day Sis
Noticed you were lucky today. Could you please help out with anything.
Thanks

I am so sorry, I already withdraw the money to buy food items.
Maybe next time

budaatum:
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/spsspqqdopgthtkyhvl39/h?dl=0&rlkey=whyeosswh0pykgy3nsjwz217l

Your deception is silly and unnecessary, and if I'd seen it before I wouldn't have bothered!

Thank you so much, I have been looking 4 this books for months.
I really appreciate the effort.

budaatum:
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/spsspqqdopgthtkyhvl39/h?dl=0&rlkey=whyeosswh0pykgy3nsjwz217l

Your deception is silly and unnecessary, and if I'd seen it before I wouldn't have bothered!

Thanks

Help

I am looking for 2 novels in Pdf or epub or any soft copy format you have.
The books are
1) Double Shuffle
2) Believe this, you'II believe anything
They are both written by James hardly chase

I have all of his collections except this 2 and this period of been so broke, his novels are the only one keeping my mind at ease, I have been so obsessed looking for this 2 books for sometime.
Anybody with the soft copy should be help me or a site where I can download it.

Thanks guys

You want to know why marriages break nowadays is because, the church or our forefathers only prepare the women for marriage and not the Men.
You will hear things in house how the woman should act and behave to be good wives, "learn to cook very well so your husband wont pursue you"
"Learn to do this and that and that so your husband wont drive u from the house"
We prepare women for marriage, creating seminars for single ladies, our mothers telling us to do this and that to please our husband But the men never learn.

They dont teach men how to be good husbands, how to assist their wives, the husband can do what they like with no consequences because they are the "Head" and provide the money for the house forgetting that money can't always save a marriage.

Nowadays women have careers unlike tens of years ago where fathers mostly train their Male children, Women have start making their own money so they dont just accept how the husband treat them and they leave.
Divorce is so rampant nowadays because nobody want to compromise, the wives dont want to sit idle and watch as their husbands cheat just the way their mother accepted their fathers cheating, so the wives leaves.
The Husbands want their wives to be subservient and accept anything and divorce when they can't get what they want.
Then we have divorces that happen maybe because they are not just compatible and they can't manage the way our grandfathers do in loveless marriage.

EFULEFU1:
I have taken overdose anti malaria drug and I am seeing everything double double

It's three in the pack not knowing I had to take one per day I took all three once

Please help me quick

You wont die, take Red oil and visit a Pharmacy near you so they can monitor you

Ok

Depression is real
RIP
Hope he is in a better place now

Why are most men obsessed about when a lady should get married, they want ladies to feel sad when they clock 30 and not married, they are also saying "no men will want you once you are 30 and single"

What many men dont know is that poverty is the root cause of why many ladies look older than their age, I have an Aunty that is 46 years old and damm she looks so young and beautiful, there is no age spot on her face and her skin is flawless, people looking from outside won't know she is that old and she is even claiming to be 30, examples look at all those female celebrities that are in their 30s and 40s that looks so freaking young, Tiwa Savage is 43 and looks like she could be in her 20s.

My point is the world is changing, let women decides when to marry, stop wanting them to feel insecure about their age, so you can feel superior about yourself and if it's because of child bearing you care so much about ( which I don't think so ) science have come a long way now that women in their late forties to fifties are getting pregnant.
Many people now even freeze their eggs and use surrogate to get children when they are ready, there are many options now.

So stop worrying yourself about women age.

Oduok:
Never you share bad feelings you have about your boss again anywhere. With this attitude no one can employ you. I thought you would limit your write up to the low pay and exorbitant transport cost you are facing.

Feeling bitter about your boss and venting it only paint you with negative personality.

Is the Boss a god they can't talk about??
I am sure u are one of those people that says children shouldn't talk bad about their elders no matter the abuse they are facing because it is bad manners.

We live in Nigeria that dont care about references even if OP fight with his Boss, he will still get another hotel job in the area.
We should stop shutting people up because the Boss has money today doesn't mean the OP wont be richer than him tomorrow, we still have a slave mentality that's why our country is still backward.
"Dont talk bad about your parents even if they abuse you mentally and physically" "Respect your elders no matter what even if you are dying inside"
"Tolerate anything your Boss do to you because he pays your salary and you should worship him/her"
Rubbish

ppogba:
One thing people do not know is that most medium scale business owners find it extremely difficult to pay salary. Whether the business makes sufficient profit in the month or not. The moment it is salary time, that is when they realize that the are the devil's " next of kin".

A few days ago, a woman wiith a shop being manned by a sales girl sacked the innocent girl. Wetin happen you might be tempted to ask.
The innocent girl has a monthly esusu that she pays with her monthly salary. Esusu man came on June 7. Girl took her salary from sales she made for the contribution. Madam owner came and said the girl should not have taken out of her sales because June 7 is not too late and that " some of her friends pay their workers on 15th or 16th of the month".
Can you imagine?
People beg madam employer, she said NO.

Things dey happen and most likely, employees in this type of employment will suffer more in the nearest future.

That was what one woman is doing close to where I buy clothes from, she pays her sales girl in the middle of the month and her reason is that a lot of sale girl likes to leave after they collect their salary month ending but if she pays them middle of the next month, they might decides to stay to collect that month salary and so on and on they will keep staying.
She said even if the sales girl decides to leave, it won't affect her because they have worked an extra 2 weeks for her.
Some business owners are wicked

If you go to Buka and want to eat very well just budget 1k but in fast food now you wont spend less than 4k.

Everything is just too expensive, how are we going to survive
I now understand why girls do hookup and boys are into yahoo the past months, been broke with no help can make you start thinking in different kind of way.

Cloudflare:
What kind of investment was it?

A very bad one

I have no home, my mum and Dad are both dead and early this year I made a bad investment and I lost everything.
Right now I am broken and so freaking broke, I am just living with the hope that everything will get better but even that hope I am slowing losing it.
I am just frustrated

Rip

MatrixReloaded:
Most dudes don't study there partner to know what they fantasy are. She may be craving for samsung z flip or iPhone 13 pro max.
Don't buy itel p35 for your gf. She's not cheap unless you are dating an underage.

Can you please borrow me 20k to pay back month ending.
Thanks in advance

Ok

I don tire 4 Nigeria, everything is just going up and salary is constant.
My neighbours hardly On their Gen anymore, even business places dont On their Gen like that again, we are suffering and laughing.
Nigeira will put you in depression, how are going going to survive??
The rich just keep getting richer while the poor keep getting poorer.

Templee333:
The goat also dreamed last night how you enjoy it's meat and it woke up and fired prayers because it doesn't want to embark on the dangerous journey of passing through your hot digestive track after brutal chewing by your merciless teeth. Luckily, God answered its prayer

Sorry the goat have to die

pseudonomer:
Can you share the author’s name of the book “Deep Regret”?

Wow I just checked online to try and get the Writer's name and I couldn't even find anything about the book, I guess maybe the book wasn't "Mainstream" I mean the writer then was 16 and I guess it was just mostly kids then reading the book and the only reason I remember the name was because I named my own silly book "Deep sorrow" in relation to the book.

I will still try tho to find it but Nigeria dont have a good record system and the Author probably stopped writing.

I dreamed I fell in love and I woke up with prayers.
You should see how scared i was, falling in love right now in Nigeria is a suicide mission, nobody want that sh*t.
On the other hand I am craving fried rice with Goat meat sauce and some salad with chilled Apple fanta to wash it all down.

Happy birthday

Chekitaut:
Look for my electric iron plug it, close by my side sit back while we look ourselves in the eyes....

Wtf you are funny

Goalnaldo:
I will go back to sleep because what would a caucasian demon be doing in a black man country?

the demon is a racist

davillian:
I've not taken note of the bad ones
But there was a girl that gave me good luck
After sex with her alot of pending jobs were opened.
Funny thing she told me herself before we started dating

Lucky you I guess

It's started when I was 13, I matured early and I am kinda pretty so older men start coming even my Math teacher then in school, thank God my maturity came with sense and the fact I was a very curious child and i know right from little if i have sex with any guy I will get pregnant and my thought process then was my life could basically be finished.

It really helped that I read a book then called "Deep Regret" written by a 16 years old girl at the time, the book talked about teenage pregnancy, so I basically ignore all those old shameless men and tried to beat the writer's record of the youngest Nigeria Author
Well I didn't but I learned a lot.

You guys are just so pessimistic