truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

Davash222:
You were dating yourself all these while.

A girl that truly love you will never agree with this "Give me some space" nonsense.


The girl is core alpha. Take your L and move on.

Muna4real:


Why do you lie like this? When did he ever reject his daughter?

festacman:
Expected. Tuface is still her husband but a lot water has passed under 'bridge of anger'.

Cryomancer:
Enemies are everywhere, but if you wanna see them manifest their true nature, just have enough money and you'll be amazed the number of household enemies you have around you.


Secondly if you want to live long as a man, avoid politics (Either family, neighborhood or national)

Machinegun91:
Happy birthday dear, your pussy will never lack cream

ShawttySoFyne:
I was not born with a silver spoon and I don't understand this oh

Otar:
Kai. This is why one of my rules in my house is never to leave any of the external doors open and unattended even for a few seconds. The door is only meant for passing. So open, pass, close. Been living this way and never seen a rat in my house for years

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PlayMaker14:
Young, intelligent, talented, and so beautiful.... And she's not a FEMINIST. Now, that's one of the many reasons she's glowing everyday.

efficiencie:


Gbammmm...100% true! If more families and churches insist on men marrying virgins soon the ladies will sit up and zip up. This will end cheating effectively...

budaatum:
All men do not cheat! Men (and women) who cheat are pigs that have no respect nor regard for themselves so can not have any respect or regard for their partners!

Partners who respect and have regard for themselves should keep such people at arms length and always ensure a prophylactic is between them so one does not get infected with what their partner picks up roaming about.may you never know evil.Good things will forever locate you for this comment

I'll let others come tell her what to do about the sales girl if she doesn't already know she ought to be fired immediately. As for getting over your The Psychological Trauma? I'd consider dumping the lying cheating pig because you never know where else he's been poking and what he might bring home to infect you with!

Duru9:
Enyaaa
See him beautiful mum

Even at that dude is passionate about his hustle

Wizkid fans wey de shout he use money buy game up and down

Why Davido cousin B red no use money buy too ?

Xscape1993:
The main problem of Nigeria and Nigerians at the moment is APC. What a country rule by unfortunate people!

shawnfamous:
This was my Fucking school.. the school can be frustrating.. graduated in 2019 and I can tell u how frustrating it can be in recent times, not to even mention I got my results this year.. Thank God for the past VC, Onimawo who changed the school for better.
If u be Engineering student, Microbiology, Chemistry, Sociology, Computer science for this School.. u just gats sit up.