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Omicron999:
You are embarking on a journey, at what point do you ask the conductor, what direction he is headed?

- At the start of the journey
- During the journey
- At the end of the journey

Your answer, answer's your question

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

Cutiekatty:
Please how does one use these home recipes you listed above, to maintain hormonal imbalance?

Sony96:
Amen I really hope so this time
As for the pcos, I wasn’t insulin resistant, although I took metformin and inositol but in August when I went to ubth, the doctor conducted several test and those that has to do with insulin level were normal, cortisol was the culprit and he told me I had adrenal pcos, I was asked to lose weight, eat healthily, stopped metformin and inositol, manage stress, placed on hydrocot 3shots, ate more fruits than food, went from 85kg to 69kg, sept did test and right ovary was healed up, I continued, I was given so many supplements, I even got tired at a point, sept and oct, I did not stimulate ovulation, Doctor told me other types of pcos heals except insulin resistant pcos. I don’t feel any symptoms anymore, I felt happier healing pcos even if I wasn’t pregnant yet, although that was the goal and it is still the goal. Knowing the root cause helped alot

zinnycharm:
Hi Mama, from your hormonal test result, I think your prolactin is high, do you have breast milk discharge? And your Lh should be in proportion to the Fsh, so I can say is a little bit low but not bad, your progesterone is okay �, this might be a case of hormonal imbalance, let’s wait for other sabi mamas with better interpretation

SuperMaryA:
Good afternoon sabi mamas, Please help me to check this hormonal assay results.
I stumbled on this thread yesterday, May God grant our heart desires in Jesus Name.

Flakky26:
I have very high prolactin which caused stoppage of my period for a long time. Dr prescribe dostinex for me to take. One tablet weekly. I am done with the drug for 8wks and in the 9th week, I saw my period . Pls share your experience, I want to believe my very high prolactin us normalize now.

Khadylolli:
Good evening mamas, please am new her. I was just told my Dr that my two tubes are blocked and have to go through Ivf. This is all new to me, can any one help with the whole process. Also need the best hospital/ clinic in abuja with good and high success rate and is less expensive or affordable.

NNtv:
My state is even building its first flyover, and they won't allow someone to hear word.

I pray for God to give me the financial strength to travel out of this country, at least to see the real world.

swtbiddy:
Good evening mamas I had a repeat myomectomy, please when can I start taking serrapeptase to prevent adhesions.

Adeoma:
I complained of dryness and not noticing CM and the normal ovulation pain I used to have for the past 2 cycles.
So, he prescribed the drug for me to start at my CD2. ( to be taken for 5 days)

I'm just confused now.
Should I just go and do HSG first, to know the state of my tubes?
I am praying to miss my period this year���

Pataricatering:
sont is fruit juice- there is barely any difference between fruit juice and pepsi

Adeoma:
Good morning everyone,

I went to see my gynecologist and he prescribed clomid for me. He made the prescription after some complaints I made.

I told him I am scared of the drug because I have read many reviews about the drug. He assured me I will be fine.

Mothers, pls I'm still scared oo. I don't want anything to scatter my system. I had myomectomy 4 months ago.

wonyi:
Good morning mummies, please who knows where I can get original yoni pearl Port Harcourt?

Thanks

creativeHands1:
Happy Sunday my fellow mum's to be, please I need your advice, I did Hsg and I found out that my right fallopian tube is blocked. Has anyone succeeded in opening the tube and how can I open it, I also have pcos. Please I need advise on how to help my journey.
I believe that God will answer our prayers.
#Baby dust to us

Adeoma:
Good evening everyone,

Pls is this result that bad

I was having some kind of discharge, so I did HVS test.

What other kind of test should I run? Or a scan that can actually give me the reason for the discharge.
It has no odour
No itching
No boils.��

Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.