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Let your wife make the decision not you.
If she says she can, then trust her to.
If she says she can't, by all means get the cousin out of your house.

Make sure you constantly communicate with your wife . Once you are there to speak to her often, she won't have the space to nuture feelings for another human. But if you leave a gap, and your nephew or anybody at all becomes her go to person, then feeling will begin to crowd her judgement. But again whether she will act on those feelings or not depends on her belief system

You lacked direction.

Thank God you finally found your feet.
Las las, you are doing well for yourself. That's all that is important

lilyheaven:
Thank you sis.
Where can I purchase them, I want to buy them for my sister.
She has fibroid, but she’s scared for surgery, I think this will be a good option.

Check jumai or health shop around

lilyheaven:
Please ,what’s Acv and bsm?

Apply cider vinegar with Mother
Blackstrap Molasses unsulphured

[quote author=Rachbis post=111889669][/quote]Big fibroid varies in size
The bigger the longer it will take to shrink off.
But it will surely be reducing in size every3 months

shutupareyouGOD:
Pls how do I shrink fibroid…I have 1 3 cm outside the uterus I would like to shrink pls…I didn’t have fibroid before but it came up in scan after I took clomid…copy @ sugah

Change diet_no junks, no processed foods, no Sugars.
Get Dandelion /vitex/ dongquai supplement
Acv and bsm in warm water daily
Give it time, it's small.
It will shrink off

I wish I used the 4yrs of my BSC to train as dibia

Goodluck to those of you that love book

AntiMen:
I'm never ever crossing it, it's very effortless for me..No struggles..
I'm too proud of my body and I won't bring myself to been dicked by anybody...I got married a virgin, it's been 8 years, and I've never commited adultery..never given it a thought neither would it begin with my rev.

That's all .
Emotion will remain emotions.
Just don't act on it
It will fade with time.
It's absolutely normal

Ogunleti01:
well if the land u intend to use is a virgin land no need to plough what matters most is the depth of your planting hole at least 40cm deep. If the fertility of the soil has diminished then you can lightly plough it. the recommended planting space for me is 3mX 3m 9 feet aparts. It is not advisable to gather sucker randomly try and verify d specie from where ever you intend to get the sucker. buying a sucker for #700 is outrageous. Some internet farms has a way of inflating thing sorry to say this! i would recommended the use of organic fertilizer poultry manure that has been properly decomposed! Again this still depends on the fertility of the soil. if the soil is fertile there is no need.

Thank you. This is very helpfull

Can you take me through the process of maintaining a plantain plantation. I have land wasting away and I just want to start even if its for family consumption alone.

My areas of concern;
Do I have to plough the entire land before planting?

How do one apply manure and at what frequency

I read 2/3 cm abi is it mm spacing is OK for the sucker?
Pls confirm how you spaced yours.

How often should the land be weeded?

Is it advisable to gather suckered randomly or buy from a special source?
I ask because I reached out to a supplier who quoted 700 per sucker. Is it worth it or I should just go for random suckers?

How often did you water?

Are there other things to look out for?


Will be looking forward to your reply

Kayyy:
Unfortunately you're right, and like you said a simple rape case closed, the explanation of the law here is she grabbed his dick and was stroking it or whatever , that action was probably lasted some minutes but the guy never stopped her once and that is cos he enjoyed it and wanted it more

On the contrary, he initiated penetration by first trying to forcefully remove her Jean (keyword in his statement he wrote himself is FORCE) which means she didn't want it but he continued anyways, he then moves to penetrate FORCEFULLY again which she wanted to stop but he continued anyways , in this case she is trying to stop all that but was the weak person has the man has more physical power and hold over her and she can only fight but might not be able to get him off his grip on her, this case would be won in less than 20mins on court

A lesson for a lot of men with little or no knowledge about rape cases to learn about and guide them when dealing with women ESPECIALLY if you are abroad

Cc Greylaw IamV

Rachbis:
Ma, I can't just jump for surgery laidat, I know I need to see a gynecologist. Just want people to enlighten me more on it because after avoiding some food, I don't seem to understand why the stuff is now three and big in size.

Consider surgery plz
But pls go for the best hands.
The fibroids are located in the cavity of the womb
( Endometrium ) where baby implants and one is large; 10cm . From what I see, The fundal one may be blocking the fallopian tube.

I would have said shrink it gradually, but as ttc, you won't have patience to shrink fibroid of that size.

Do the surgery now and heal before hubby returns.
All the best

luvlyADESUWA:
This is all the result, it's just the name and the hospital name that is covered.
For the cycle, let me not even start that long story, the last time it came was July last year.

Fsh appears to be too high
Estrogen so low.
The hospitals will say you have attained menopause.

But if age is still favourable and you put your mind to it, you can reverse it

biznx2019:
I am just typing this for you to know that there are people in this ttc journey that their cases are worse...
It is well.

Trust me
Your creator is alive and he did no mistake.
Hold on to him

Flakky26:
What's the difference between these two dostinex bottles? Also can someone share her experience of timed intercourse?

Our doctor suggested timed intercourse because of absence of ovulation and menstruation.

Probably different country made it

GreyLaw:
If this ever gets to court and it is proven that she did all that riding and touching and grabbing to Jim, the matter will be flung out the window. She is culpable.

You can also touch teenage boys and they won't object, but it is still child sex offence and attracts a good number of years behind bars.

Ladies love to play the victim, but are culpable many times.

Wait until she drafts her own side of the story.
Op is only narrating based on "I never raped ideology. He will write anything here to prove she led him on

Op

What got you into this mess is that your last sentence.
As per you handsome, sex na giveaway

I truly wish the one will teach you small lesson.

IamV:
He made it clear he didn't want having sex from the outset.
He was sexually assaulted first.
You don't go around robbing your dirty hands on a guy's d*ck,without his consent.
That's sexual harassment.
Let's not hide under the buzzword "seduction" to justify females sexually harassing guys.

Did he object?
No.
Did she force him?
No.

Did she object when he tried to return the energy?
Yes.
Did he force her?
Yes.

Case closed

IamV:
You're such a disappointment !

The girl in question was caressing his d*ck first,without seeking his permission.
That's sexual assault.
The guy was ,first & foremost, sexually assaulted by the girl ,and the guy excalated the the situation.
You don't go around robbing your boobs on a guy's face & even touching his d*ck without his consent first,else that's sexual assault.
Don't hide under the buzzword "seduction" to justify females sexually assaulting guys.

Did he ask her to stop when she caressed him?
No.
Meaning, he wanted it, he gave a non verbal consent. Obviously the reason he invited her over in the first place was for sex.

She didn't assault him pls. If she did, he would have objected. But he didn't, he liked and wanted it

GreyLaw:
No. The girl sexually harrassed and assaulted him first. He was naive enough not to slap her and send her away from his house instead he fell for it. After all girls get violent when they are about to be assaulted.

If you sexually harrass a gril she turns it on you, but if a girl sexually harrasses a naive guy, he falls for it and even wants to have sex.

The last time a girl tried that nonsense on me about 13 years ago in school I dressed her down and asked her to get out of my room. And she did!

He wanted sex from the on set. That's the difference between his experience and yours.

Smartgunna:
Did u experience Bro Chinwoke Mbadinuju?

No mind the guy. He is probably 16yrs old

Frigga13:
OBIANO is the worst governor of Anambra since creation

Is a lie naw
What did Mbadinuju do for you?

Forcefully fingered her
You think it's until you use you p it will be rape

I blame her though. She knew you wanted x and went to test you. You are here trying to paint the picture that she seduced you. You wont win this case if she takes it up.
You sexually assaulted her( touching her without consent)

Depends on who you are getting married to sha but won't advise anyone to go unto marriage without a skill or atleast plans to acquire one.

madprophet:
But the FISHES should not use shakara to finish us oo..

It can tiring...

If you find FISHES
Chase till you capture it.
If you are genuine, FISHES will know over time. The shakara is mostly to take their time to make sure they are not making mistakes. The question now is; Are you genuine

blessed2share:
Na she dey my house now . Thank God I didn't give up. Actually I did, but God rearranged our paths to cross and we were actually a little more mature by then. Only God knows what would have happened if I didn't marry her. We have a little more than 2 decades of marriage behind us, as we look forward to much more wonderful years ahead.

I be champion SIMP for this one babe.

I love that you admitted your truth.
Leave these ones forming boss on Nl, in real life na them simp pass

tmoneyu:
midway I told her I can't, she got mad and asked why, I told her we had a deal and I don't want to spoil it, the girl begin beg me to continue, I now have full access and asked her why all this pains before, she said that am not upto her levels, I smiled and finish things,

You people can lie

joshmaster487:
There are countless fishes in the river

Una ego no go allow una know early but I hope its still not late. There are fishes and there are FISHES

Have you tried prayers

Talk to the holyspirit.
Genuinely ask him to help you.
The spirit makes the difference...remember Peter, the same one that denied Jesus and stayed indoor with the rest, afraid to be seen outside after Jesus died. But when the holyspirit came upon him, the same Peter carried the gospel all round till he died preaching the same christ he denounced.

There is a special grace to live holy and it's not gotten by self decision or I must do it by my strength, it is given by the holyspirit. He is waiting for you to reach out for consistent filling of this grace, it is very important that your river never runs dry, you must consistently top up your oil via devotion. You will never think of sex again.

Those of us whose spouses live across continents and never come home so often, we are still alive and living right. Yes it's not easy but with the spirit, it's a different ball game. You won't even remember

The Lord is your strength.
Chopping breakfast at 31 can be so hurtful but look towards the brighter side. It's better he leaves you single than marry you but you still feel single and rejected.

Pray. Prayer helps

50k sounds big until you enter market o.

It's not just enough to say manage it, help her manage it as the man of the house.

I say this because, I know what it feels like to be given so much, but you have a partner that is demanding.
Mine for instance will want to run Generator all night like say fuel cost hasn't changed. He wants to eat 3 different meals in a day and you can't give him a meal he ate the previous day, that means you can't cook in bulk and you will have to buy new things everyday. He wants to order sendemendes from time to time claiming its not an everyday thing. If I complain its expensive, he will say I am boring. I should losen up.Las las, money go dey deplete. When you ask for more he will say why didn't you manage what was given.

Trust me, if she give you that 50k to run the house for just 1month , e no go last 1week for your hand.
Either you guys cut your expenses as a family all together or you increase allowee