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Oga you have money now.
The same money that attracted your wife because she wouldn't have married you if you were not well to do as at the time you married her.
She wants to raise her daughter the same way because she has never had a poor background. Some people desire good things and good things just come to them. No be their fault. Na their luck. They can't change who they are because you had less.

These were the background checks you were supposed to do during dating but its now 5yrs after that you decided to start yours and you are looking for encouragement. The deed is done. It's time to make the mistake work for you by guiding it with love and patience.

The truth is that this life you want to live now is not for you else you would have started living it. Stop looking for validation from nl. Sit your wife down and tell her your story if you haven't told her. Tell her how you want to raise your children irrespective of the fact that you have everything in abundance. Please don't deny them what you can afford all because you didn't have that as a child. Give your children the best version of yourself because that's what your parents gave you. Its not their fault that your parent didn't have as much as you do have now. As much, don't make them rely on you so much. Teach them independence. Rich kids can still turn out good with the best of hearts if trained properly. Train your child Oga

purplerain:
This is actually incorrect. I took my vaccines while pregnant and my baby was born healthy. Here in Canada, pregnant women are advised to take the vaccine because they have a higher risk for Covid complications. Also, antibodies are transferred from placenta to the baby providing some immunity against the virus.

Let her consultant with her Doctor.

Depends on country and the vaccine involved.
Nigeria said pregnant women shouldn't take

mide2love:
Hello House,

I changed my ganechologist recently.

And he suggested i took Hormnal assessment text.

This is one one the result that is out.

Pls what is the meaning on the red pen and what are the implications

They used red because its above the normal range.
Fsh is high
Prolactin is high

He does fart
You just haven't noticed.
Pls try by all means to include fruits to his meal. If you can't afford eggs or other expensive fruit, buy the cheap ones like watermelon,orange,banana, Cucumber, as little as possible everyday.
Thank God you have gotten the tonic. Give him everyday too. Alternate his meals pls remove indomie,
it is not food o. Even golden morn should be once in a while use oats instead.. Buy beans or akara. Cook vegetable soup and let him lick enough till he is full.

God will make the rest easy for you. Amen

This one don make small change and now looking for excuse to cheat
Of all the reasons to cheat, he chose to dig up the lifestyle his wife lived in the past and called it revenge

Uwa mmebi

How did this pharmacist diagnose you with just looking at you?

Where did your wife say she is a virgin?

Age they say is just a number.
There are 25yrs old thinking marriage and here you have a 29yr old who feels bored in marriage.

Take away; People are wired differently. Let people go with their flow. Stop mounting pressure on people just because of age.

This happens to women a lot

Next of kin is nothing. Let the children approach the court with their birth certificate proving they are biological children and the court will share the property equally while they forfeit 10% to govt and another % to the lawyer that will pursue the case.

They should be happy there is no will sef because if there was a will and their names were not mentioned in the will, nothing will grant them ownership of anything the man owns.
But in the absence of a will, biological children can approach the law to share it for them.

Next of Kin na for contact incase you die nothing more. .
Cc iyaebe

Another angle to this is that the man had a will and probably willed it to this old man because on a normal day, ordinary Next of kin no dey do gra gra reach like this. So I will recommend you all do your due diligence before dragging them to court.

Marvellouzkk:
Lcredit hmmmmmm is one of the worst loan app ever in human existence. If you don’t want your image to be tarnished in and outside the borders, never you think of Lcredit.
Lcredit is the worst ever
Lcredit will destroy your reputation
Lcredit will call your family and expose your contract
Lcredit will send messages to your wife
Lcredit will call your husband
Lcredit will call your gal friend
Lcredit will call your boyfriend
Lcredit will call your boss
Lcredit will call your dead relatives
Lcredit will make you less human
Lcredit is like a beautiful apple filled with worms
Lcredit has the worst staffs
Lcredit staffs are mannerless
Lcredit will tarnish your image n their interest will still build up
Lcredit has no regard for your privacy
Lcredit will call your pastor or imam
Lcredit will label you a fraudster for been late just for a day
Lcredit will raise your blood pressure
Lcredit destroyed your political ambition
Lcredit will report you to credit bureau for been a day late
Lcredit is worst than satan himself
Lcredit is evil increasing your loan limit tempting you to apply n get destroyed for been a day late
Lcredit is not it
Lcredit my foot
Lcredit my ass
Lcredit are killers of destiny
Lcredit is a pain in the flesh
Lcredit is not it forget about Lcredit and have peace
Lcredit is fill with set of mad staffs
Lcredit interest rate is too high compared to other
Lcredit will dehumanize you before your church members
Lcredit is bad and not good to patronize at all
Lcredit money is blood money
Lcredit money is bad luck

I did not even look at the msg twice.

I must be credit worthy then. Mine was 500k

Business center. They can do photocopy eh

24hours

If she didn't fight to be with you before, what makes you think she will stay with you this time.

I am not against emotional support. Provide that from a distant. Move on....

Go herbal
The earlier the better.

Start with poultice of Castor plant. Put it round all areas that is swelling.
Boil the leafs and that of chance piedra together and start drinking.

See a qualified naturopath for proper guide

When I was single I will shout Career
But look at me now...

Just get to the bridge and then you can know what your answer will be.

With family one has to just sacrifice...again, it depends on your spouse too

Too proud for that.
A woman that know what she brings to the table is never afraid to eat alone.

Na only God I fit beg o.
Or maybe when it's me that effed up. But I cannot even ef up if I still want to be with you. If I start messing around then its obvious I don't see us as an item anymore.

Humans should learn to be independent, they did not tie your umbilical cord with another human. It will hurt but move on. What will be will be

Great relationships starts with friendship.

Deny it till tomorrow, it will not change.

DavidNative:
Thanks, its a whole lot i cannot say in 1 year , but am grateful ma 4 ur advice

You can enrol her in bedroommatters class. She's on IG.
Except she doesn't love you enough I don't see why she will not deliberately make efforts atleast.

If she's not the sex type trust me she is not the sex type.
But you have to let her know that her marital vow is to be there for you sexually. And as much as she keeps avoidinv it she will never do it, but as she engages more her v muscles will be losing us to accommodate you more no mater the size. Stop waiting for her to initiate, go for it provided she will not say No.

Speaking from experience . It is still a marital obligation to some of us not necessarily that its something we want to do everyday. This has no relationship with the satisfaction we get from it. People are just built that way. That's why you are advised to jejely marry your type to avoid conflict of interest

Folliculitis
Caused by harsh shaving

Politician and big men in the east know you can't be carrying Prado jeep, Hilux, sienna or police escort about anymore as they are targets for unknown gunmen.

Study every environment before you go there. Ask questions.

This man could have lived but Nigeria failed him.
It's a pity.

RIP Dr Chike Akunyili

Praying more in the spirit.
Knowing how to host the holyghost and receiving direction

Flakky26:
Pls help anayse this SFA test result

All looks fine
Still place him on vitamins to bring the rapid motile up to 50%.
But generally, he is fine

Never.
Big ups to my father and mother
10k monthly was steady every first week of the month. I got to save for post graduation sef

This is funny shaa.

Who did he tell when he was making the said vow?why do you have to be responsible for a dead man's vow. Better cast that spirit away, it is not your father's ghost. No father will do such to his son that is still in debt.

That's why I tell Christians to read their bible and know God's character and how he operates. Even a wife is not under obligation to keep a vow her husband did not approve of,so is a single person who is still under parental guidance. How can a son be responsible for a vow his father made without consulting him?

Rebuke that ghost and it will flee from you. No be only 50k. Hold your own cane and flog too when it comes again. What nonsense

To Love is a decision

There are Tailors with integrity sha. But they are usually very expensive because their business is well structured with many hands to handle whatever level of work.

Na obioma tailor dey disappoint

Once you have 2 selfless individuals with same goal, easy loving and quick to forgive.

Case closed