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Seahawk:
Stop spreading your toxicity on this thread. That you’re commenting a million times to try and convince yourself that you’re making sense should tell you something

U are the toxic person here o. If telling someone to keep fulfilling their role in marriage is toxic to you it shows you are obviously a bitter person. Everyone's marriage can't be like yours sorry.

Marriage is not a load for just one party to carry alone but married mates are meant to help each other. When one is weak the other will help out. Which is whats happening in op's case and it's best at this point to fulfill her wifely roles more than before. It's been working and will continue to work when applied.

Besides, cos one marriage partner is not doing what he/she should, does it mean the other partner should ignore their own responsibilities as well? Such marriage can never survive cos two wrongs can never make a right. Many married mates have come back to their senses cos the other mate still does their part in their marriages.

yettymuse:
Interesting how marriage has become only a woman's burden to carry. One partner is cheating, the other partner should manage the ship so it doesn't sink. We really need to a proper terms and understand that it takes 2! Anyway, to each is own!.. I'm out

So u saying since the hubby is about to start something with a strange woman she should stop her wifely roles?

yettymuse:
Her own part should be channeling her time and moments into being productive for herself! Stop soaking your pillow with tears about 'every strange woman' Stop sweating and praying for a cheating spouse, stop enabling a scum.

Being productive should be all about herself alone and not about her family? Wow. I pray the op doesn't follow such advice before she rips her marriage apart. I can't remember anywhere in my post I mentioned soaking her pillows in tears spending her whole life praying for a cheating hubby. I only gave her advice on fulfilling her wifely role in the house and leaving the rest for God to handle. Well it's left for her to do whatever she wants. I'm done and out. Wish you the best in your marriage @,op

yettymuse:
Wether you turn your head upside down, give a tight head game with dripping sauce, stay sexy and trim hot, watch war room and burn mid night candles, stay meek and wear your mumu apparel, A DOUCHEBAG would forever be a DOUCHEBAG!

As for conscience, no they got none! As for God fighting 'your battle', Nah! HE has got better things to handle.

Not in all cases. So many marriages have been saved with these. Talking from experience. Secondly, from the op's post her hubby is not in that category at least yet. The strange woman is only trying hard to appeal to his heart, so now is the right time to fulfill her role even more and please don't discourage her.

Agreed some men are chronic cheats. That's why I said at the end that she should do her own part so no blame goes to her. Then leave him to God and his conscience to handle. Even when a man/woman has no conscience, U can't underestimate the power of God fighting your battle. If you don't believe that God can do that, a lot of us do and it's working for us personally. No matter how hard you fight ur hubby or the woman he's cheating with, twill make no difference. Twill even worsen the situation. God's battle is the best ever.

Yyeske:
You are still a learner here, they even dared and threatened people who wanted to go vote in the past election, insulted the major churches in Igboland, insulted our monarchs, almost assaulted the governor of Anambra state last year, confronted politicians, I don't even know where to start nor end talking about IPOB's madness

U can add yours without calling me a learner? Must I mention all? Anyway we still saying the same thing. This was how boko haram started. I hope something is done before it deteriorates to something else.

gidgiddy:
Really? Is there any time you heard that Shekau and Boko Haram were peacefully protesting on the streets asking for referendum?

Peaceful Protest u say? Burning people's truck and properties all in a bid to force *stay at home* on everyone just to honour your mission is what you call *peaceful*? Promising to *bring hell" to Nigeria by your demi-god is what you call *peaceful*? Maybe "peaceful protest" has an entirely new meaning I don't know about.

Heard she's even pregnant. Anyway this one looks genuine, she will not run with his property like the other unhappy bride did to her hubby. Congrats to them

Firstimer:
Personally I want her to report to the woman's husband if she can get his contact.
She claims her husband maltreats her and so she's getting that sympathy attention from my cousins hubby

Yes she can which seem the wisest thing to do but might spell more trouble. I've seen something of the sort that led to serious trouble in the marriage. Besides, what if another woman shows up, is that how she will keep reporting them to their boyfriends or hubby's.? She should just fulfill her role and leave the rest for God to handle.


Read the modified post above.

She should show him more love, respect and care. She should Take good care of herself, her body and home . Look very attractive and sweet. Be good on bed. Call him while he's at work just to tell him you love him(not stalking him tho) Be romantic. There must be some special things thats attracting him to this woman that the wife is not doing . If he's getting more of these from home the outside woman na jara to him. Note: no amount of threat on the other woman or her husband will change anything. Twill even draw them closer. Don't even be confrontational even when you must ask him about it else you'll push him away from home and give him a free pass to the open arms of the other woman.

If you do all of these, it's his conscience and his God that will be fighting for you not even you.

This was how boko haram started.

We need this in Ph as well.

U lack sense. So cos there's no categorical statement in the Bible that husband should respect their wives it means husband should lack respect for the feelings of their wives as well.

KanwuliaMama:
Life goes on!
Ask Kim Kanye Kardashian!

Has Kim and Kanye broken up?

And this is somebody's mama.

aguiyi2:
Sincerely, has Rivers state had it good under him?.Answers anyone?

It's been worse rather. Security wise0% workers welfare 0% . Etc 0%

He thinks London is same as his lawless country called Nigeria, that they do such shits and walk away freely.

So which shipping agent that's cheap and reliable that you guys are using?

Location

Stu..PID stunted coward. You'll bring hell and run into hiding again while your blind followers die in their numbers yet your family members remain intact. Only the wise will see thru this dwarf. He's completely after his selfish interest under the guise of freedom fighting. Anumpama

May yours last

I agree with you on this.

Though old but very informative

hisexcellency34:
I pity the former queen sha. I heard any man who marries her will die in 7 days

Are you serious? Who laid the curse?

So she's naturally dark skinned. Awon bleachers envying our complexion.

Confused Personae

ManirBK:
KANU who have never tasted war b4,just a little riot he ran to Jerusalem and left mumu followers die in the hands of Nigerian soldiers.
# think and build life for ur kids, KANU kids are all in abroad!

If only they'll hear.

What is he looking at behind?

Bookstore that has reunited friends and family. Given some people husbands and wives.

Ruhamah23:
Can you price products online

Yes on Alibaba.

Leopard can't change its skin.

macbeyland:
I can't buy items for you. I can give you a reliable shipping agent to assist you in shipment.

Which of the agents?