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Only in a yoruba film would a dead rich man's undergraduate daughter lose her father's properties to the bank and wouldn't even be allowed to take her clothes She has nowhere to spend the night and ends up with a random bike man who beats her and she still marries him. Fast forward to months after, she has problems and approaches wealthy family memebers.

Only in yoruba films will a 30/40 something year old man wearing a coat, play the character of a student on campus.

In the old yoruba movies, you'll see a 7 year old character washing plates and he'll suddenly become an adult in his 20's still washing the same plates and wearing the same singlet and trousers.

toba: Mind u, its not everyone that has a BB. I dont have a BB and i might be interested

If I dropped my phone no would you be interested too? if it doesn't work out would you return for another person?

Here's my annoyance. After dating, courtship or whatever you call it, why do men have the unreserved power to propose marriage? Asides culture, is it unbiblical for a woman to propose marriage to a man?

Also,i believe that singles shouldn't get carried away by love. We should be realistic and ask ourselves these questions:
What do I have to offer this man/woman?.
What do I require in return?(Whatever your standards maybe)
Can this man/woman meet my economic, financial,emotional,sexual even spiritual need?(of course abstinence is encouraged but there should be some sort of sexual attraction to guage the anticipated sexual satisfaction).
I believe these should be the foundation of every relationship and not love. Upon these, love can be built but upon love, It might be quite diffuclt to build all these.

Correct me if I am wrong.

To him,attending vigils in my church meant that I had spiritual issues .
He wanted pda everywhere and everytime despite that we had, prior to the relationship, agreed not to get physical.
He quarrelled with me everyday and would sms me one million angry texts.
Veeeeery possessive and jealous.1 month into the relationship, I called my mum and aunt with his phone and later realised he saved the numbers and called them when I broke up with him. In short, he reported me to the whole of Africa and Cursed me.I was known as the "wicked girl" and him as "the poor innocent victim of a wicked and undeserving girl"
He was a child.
He was too forward with "us" and too eager to please. He acted like he was running out of time, more like the song "quickly" by john Legend.
We disagreed on almost everything under the sun.
I tire for the guy sef.Wrong match based solely on intense feelings. My greatest regret so far. Never date a ticking bomb.

Only 7 contestants and you call it face of Nigeria omo naija 2012? Everyone wants to organise pageants these days.
The silly name you chose indicates your intelligence level.

Was it held in a living room?

Did they seriously wear those garbs in the competition?

Did I spot a wine eye brow liner on your "winner" and that silly organza dress?
To think that you would have sold forms to this silly girls vying for cheap popularity and made money out of this display of foolishness.

You are a joke and they are worse than you are.

shedraq1: DECEMBER BABY
Prone to getting
colds. loves music

So thàts why the cold won't stop. Despite eating healthy and all .
Music is as important as food is to me.

nwando: No way on your first point
I am too mature a person to start off with a gossipy line like that

I think I will follow baby 123's suggestion
Cut to the chase and zero in on the main point by using the line of " your deodorant may not be very effective,try this one"
I liked that line
I am not then accusing her of not using any at all but just suggesting she tries something else

I can even add that it took me several trials to find out one that works for me

Smart.straight up but not rude

nwando: I have decided that I will do it,what I am planning now is the least offensive way to accomplish that.
Tell them I must
My mind is made up on that

Ok. Tell the wife that you've overheard certain comments about them and that you don't totally agree with the comment but you think, that her and her husband should see if they can put this to an end.
OR
Start up a conv and steer it towards people who sweat a lot and smell. Make yourself an example and innocently make your way to a store and smell "new" deodorants,while sampling her opinion, insist on buying d same one you pick for her.
OR
Bring up deodorant talk. Talk about brands. Ask her of hers, and introduce the topis of how ess it is to use deodorants!
OR
Buy her and her husband,a bath set complete with deodorants and all.
OR
Straight up talk. Tell her she smells.

nwando: I have decided that I will do it,what I am planning now is the least offensive way to accomplish that.
Tell them I must
My mind is made up on that

Ok. Tell the wife that you've overheard certain comments about them and that you don't totally agree with the comment but you think, that her and her husband should see if they can put this to an end.
OR
Start up a conv and steer it towards people who sweat a lot and smell. Make yourself an example and innocently make your way to a store and smell "new" deodorants,while sampling her opinion, insist on buying d same one you pick for her.

[quote author=tpia@]Dont forget to get them mints as well, because i'm sure your nose is wondering why their mouths are smelling when they're talking to you.

You might as well start selling house cleaner, breath mints, deodorant, perfume, body spray, alum( for cleaning snail), kaun for ogbono, and other clean smelling products like air freshener
( for when they want to knock you out in their house with their body odour), etc etc.

Why not make some small money while you're in the business. That way, you accomplish more- your "friends" stop smelling, you start selling, and the whole world will thank you for reducing the hole in the ozone layer.[/quote]

@ op,since both of them can't seem to smell each other, someone needs to tell them and that someone is you. If they are smart enough, they'll sniff themselves and thank you later.

Case33: When u don't feel like loving ur wife anymore, nothing she does pleases u, u even tell her to her face that she can't arouse u,that u determine when to be aroused,u love chatting on ur bb more than u love talking to her, u prefer reading NL comments n laughing hysterically alone instead of chatting with her, she tries all she can to please u,yet u can't be pleased,her very presence irritates u even when she's done nothing wrong

This isn't normal. Her presence shouldn't irritate you.It might be more of a spiritual matter. I'll advise you to pray,pray! And pray!

No harmattan in Lagos oh, maybe in the outskirts sha. Bhet Lagos is d*mn hot!

Even if the guy was pinging,what kinda impact would have killed him if she wasn't overspeeding?

Why would she be arraigned for manslaughter and not have representation? She wants to conduct her case herself bah?I hope she's got her witnessess lined up and am I the only one who thinks the bail condition is too lenient? Just 200,000 with 2 sureties in like sum?

Caesar1988: I have fresh hairs on my chest down to d extreme,most of d time i cover my chest because gals stare @me and even rub my chest in school...so any gal who says she isnt attracted to guys wit hairs mayb lying......

You'll probably remind me of Jinadu the yoruba actor that has white hair on his chest. His hair terrified me as a kid and still does. If I want to rub some hair, I'll buy a dog!

Btw,the picture I get from your post, is a macho guy walking in slow motion with his shirt unbuttoned and the girls trample themselves in order to rub his chest. High school comedy movie .

@ op, since you can't bear to take it in, sit him down and have the talk with him. Don't go breaking down and all,try to have a frank talk with him! Do not expect him to tell you that he used the cd's, but if he does...you make your decision. And if he doesn't,which I could wager the last slice of bread on my plate on btw,you weigh his words,draw an intelligent conclusion and take whatever step that suits you.

Irun? Lailai.

If he's a sharp guy,he'll spin you tales and deny it leaving you wondering about your mental state.
Don't ask him, pretend all is well,zip up and be at his tail. If you're smart enough, you'll soon have sufficient proof and would be certain he's a cheat.Then, you'lld either leave or stay!

Would your daughter be proud to be "thankful" or your son "praise God" when they begin school? this is one of the reasons children re-name themselves either in secondary school or in the university and become Cindy,Tamika or Adrian
Nowadays,parents consult Websters dictionary when naming their kids.Nouns have been replaced with adjectives .

I once lost my purse in obalende. If not for some loose change in my bag,I for beg because the bus had already moved.

The past belongs in the past. It should be left there.However,if the info is relevant/important to your patner and you must confide in him,anticipating his reaction would guide the mode of delivery and how detailed you should get.

I believe this happens to everyone at some point but do not let it go on for too long.
Go on a trip or a visit somewhere you'lld have fun. Pray. Make up your mind to go out more often. Find a "hang out" buddy preferably an old female friend. Google places worth visiting in your state and check them out with your buddy. The more you go out, the more people you meet,and the more motivated you become.

[quote author=miss-sweety86]What is your problem with abortion? Every couple has the right to decide it is not the right time to bring a child into the world. Plus abortion, if correctely done, doesn't affect fertility or ability to carry a baby. So, I really don't get what's bothering you here. She had a life before she met you, so some things happened in her life![/quote]excuse me advocate, haven't you heard of the words abstinence and protection before? you sound like a pro and i wish you well!

One He goat still did that to me yest afternoon. We had been on the matter for quite a while and I told him not to get me started on it again while we were conversing. The He goat then said "this is the end. Bye" I said "bye,how?" he said "the end of it all" I was typing a reply and he was gone! I searched and searched and couldn't find him. It was very shocking but funny.

When I was in my 4th year in uni, I gave out clothes worth 200,000 to 2 close friends in financial need to sell.one paid 50,000 and relocted to south africa. The other has vanished into thin air. They ran me out of business in no time after 3 years of struggles.

There are dishonest people everywhere but that hasn't stopped me from helping those who I can. My watchword now is "never borrow anyone what you can't afford to dash the person"

As much as I hate the colour orange,it suits her skin but the dress is ugly and the shoes are awful. Guess she wasn't thinking

Serginho: @rotmyt,...neva seen her undies b4 nd dont intend doin dat anytime, anyday.

Ok. I apologise for that. Still,you should call it quit asap without giving in to any form of emotional blackmail

What makes you think the next girl on the block hasn't had an abortion before? You'll be surprised at what you'll find out. I am anti abortion btw and i can imagine your pain. Let her know how you feel,live with it if you can but if you are certain you can't, don't marry her and torment her with this info. And ensure to tell the next girl, not to divulge her secret and history to you.

Serginho: My friend, it was said dat d grandparents stuff happened many years ago even b4 our parents were born...i knw even our parents wont even surport d idea of me datin her but dis girl really can go mad if i dear tell her wat i wnt, she can go as far as sucide honestly.

Op,I don't know what you want to hear. You guys have the same grandparents. Doesn't it make you cousins? Don't worry. She'll become more than mad and suicidal when she sees you with another girl and when your parents finds out. Btw,I get this feeling that you've been intimate with her.

"Have you eaten" has nothing to do with care. Especially the "what did you eat" part when it comes from someone other than my man. Me thinks its a cheap move by guys.

Of course you shouldn't have done this
You guys are related for christsake. How bad can it get? And how hard can it be to break up with your relation? Yuck!