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maynation:
You want me to read this epistle?

Lazy girl

Gang90:
I'm working on my health, I believe I will get better I didn't want kids, she made me want to, I'm working, I didn't have a committed relationship, I wasn't thinking about marriage earlier, but sometimes things change

Be a man and stick to ur initial decision
What u are about doing now is what couples who knows their blood group and still go ahead to give birth to sickle cell kids do, it is bad.
Of what use are kids if u know u won't be there to cater for them? Of what use is a wife if u won't be there for her when she will need u most? Please concentrate on your health and forget anything about wife & kids. U should give undivided attention to your health. But if u are very weak and unable to control your feelings by ending the relationship, please let her and your family members know the true state of your health before you marry her. Do not hide it from her, do not make her suffer for nothing in d future. If u truly love that lady, u will let her go. That is the best thing u can do for her. I feel sad when ever I see so many helpless kids on our streets, don't add to it.

demexTK:
Maitama side bruh
At nicon junction..

Hmmm
Were there passengers waiting for cab at the junction? Seems it is now safe not to stop at any junction again o

Ginaz:
Save her the future predicament then. Kindly let go of her . But your next girlfriend, won’t she still bear the same fate? Open up to your family about your health so they won’t use it to rope your future wife.

This is awesome
Op is a selfish being
Imagine hiding such health info from ur family and wife to be...

Gang90:
I'm not implicating her my main issue is marrying against your family's wish, what if you won't be there, would they let her take the kids, would they give her full right and recognition to take care of your ventures and the kids if you are not there, these things can ruin her life if she's denied access to her kids or her kids are brainwashed against her like I said I don't believe those things but people still does

Yes u want to implicate her
U really sound very selfish right now
Why do u want to ruin this girl future? & u claim u love her? What kind of future are u planning for her? Why not die alone? U already stated u are the last child, meaning your elder ones have kids, why do u want to bring this girl and your unborn children into suffering when u can avert it? & to think your family is against her and u still want to go ahead to ruin this girl future is not right at all. If only I can get access to this girl. She will never forgive u if u do this to her, please end the relationship and let her go, put yourself in her shoes. What kind of humans are we God!

Olude193:
Please concentrate on your health.


Revert back to being friends


God will provide yours.. It's someone who is alive that will marry

God bless u sir
Instead of concentrating on his health, he is talking about marriage. I don't understand the way we reason, so much suffering in the world already, if u don't trust your health, why bring in more people to the world to suffer? Who will take care of them? Live your life to the fullest, take care of health & forget about marriage!

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

Sorry about your situation, but pleaseeee
If u know u truly have a life threatening health condition, u better end that relationship right now, think of your unborn children, think about the girl. Why do u want to ruin her chances. I am glad u are a man, it will be more easier for u to do this, every man must not get married, just let her go. Do not bother explaining to her, sooner than u think she will forget u ever existed.

demexTK:
Abj drivers, plz how to u guyz avoid dos agberos @ busstops.........
I was apprehended diz morning nd had to bill ma Moto out wit 2k.....
Any insight or experience wit this ppl

At which bus stop did this happened?
As a car owner there are certain places u should not stop or give anyone a lift in Abuja

babaearly1:
forex is a controlled market just like betting, no doubt about it.
have you lost $10,000 over night in forex?

God bless u sir
I am sure he has not invested up to 3k dollars in forex. When lose real money to forex, u know sport betting is play

wiconse:
You know nothing.

You that know everything how much have u made from forex? Respond with facts and don't result to insult please. So many people have lost a lot to forex because of people like u. Tell us how much u have made from forex? U people just come online to talk what u know nothing about, misleading people

Kaycee54321:
Innobets made about 48M if I remember correctly. A lot of people also make money on the low.

Just know that if you can't handle 200 Naira losses in punting, don't venture into forex else you will run mad from depression.


Punting and forex are all forms of gambling. Losses MUST come at one point or the other.

The bold is very correct sir
In addition forex will never give u room to trade with small amount of money like u can for sports betting. Minimum for standard account by most broker is 100$, anything less than that is waste of time. The so called expert will only blow your account & what u will get in return is sorry. I wouldn't advice anyone that is not financially buoyant to risk forex trade, because u will lose money, real money. Better to stick to your betting with small amount, while hoping for luck. Forex trading no follow. People preach forex to deceive gullible people just to collect money from them, ask the so called analytical experts how much they have made from forex so far?

wiconse:
If you don't know anything about Forex, stop saying nonsense.
Punting is basically luck even with all the analysis in the world. But in forex you don't need luck. You just have to be knowledgeable enough and trade like the banks not by doing some retail stuff

Do u trade forex?
Please stop using that bank analogy
Forex trading is also gambling, while betting is for sports, forex is for currency. Same way they drop games here is the same way they drop signals on forex thread. Forget about that analysis stuff, u can only tell that to a novice. Forex, betting, crypto, binary options are all children of gambling. Reason they were grouped together in this thread by NL owner.

https://www.nairaland.com/3094693/promotion-betting-forex-binary-options

Boringdraw1:
Punting do tried me, who can teach me forex?

It is the same thing sir
One u are predicting sports, the other u are predicting currency or commodity

Babadee1900:
Who is around Santa Cruz beach? I took some riders down here, and I'm tempted to close for the day.
The cool breeze here is saying I should stay back and enjoy.

Lol
No be only riders sabi enjoyment

Alkanelly:
Hello experts in the house, good morning to you all.
So I am building a 4 unit of 2 bedroom flats, 2 flats up and 2 flat down. The decking is completed and i am now planning to start the first floor block setting, I a bit to cut cost and not compromise quality, by engineer has requested not to do a complete lintel chaining on this first floor but I did a complete lintel chaining for the ground floor.
My question is, will not chaining all the lintel together on the first floor affect the structure or load bearing capability of the building?
Please your input will be much appreciated.

It won't affect the structure

Takoro13:
good day brothers and sisters, please I need professional talks on this funny thing.

getting to my house ( uncompleted) today for normal visit, I saw cracks at every windows right from top of four coarse to bottom where the foundation start and no crack notice on the foundation blocks at all. all eleven windows has crack alike and non of the cracks reach foundation blocks.
the house has not but been covered (roof) just block work.

what could be the culprit and how do I deal with it.

note: 1-the block was moulded manually. 35 per bag
2- no crack on the all other parts that has no windows. only the 4 by 4ft windows span are affected.

help!!!!!!
still waiting for response

When u say the cracks did not get to the foundation blocks, does it end at the German floor? See if u can post pics for better clarification

Omonjoe:
I need an urgent advice from professionals here. I assigned someone to mold blocks for my intended bungalow project but when I sent someone to the site today, he found out they were molding 5 inches blocks and they have already molded about 3000 blocks.

I want to know, can 5 inches block be use for building? can it even be used for fencing? what is the recommended size of block for building bungalow?

U can use 5 inches block, but preferably is 6 inches block for bungalows. If u are molding more than 3000, u can make d remaining ones 6 inches, which will be used for external walls & d 5 inches for internal. Try to use columns on the edges too if u can but not compulsory

Gratefulll:
Banky and Wife are both looking good.

True

Buhari is just making Sowore popular
The revolution would have died a natural death by now & everyone would have gotten about it.
But with this his forceful approach of his, he is just making Sowore popular

itsme01:
If you know how federal system of goverment works anywhere in the world you wouldnt ask this question

If u know the true meaning of integrity u wouldn't use it in your statement.

ojokolax:
One thing you can be certain about is that VP Osinbajo would not be involved in any form of illegality whatsoever. He is a man of unquestionable integrity and acumen

All the illegality playing out BTW DSS and Sowore nko?

codemaniacs:
there are no guarantees in life...

getting higher than 50% ROI in betting is luck and doesn't happen often. but getting 5% - 15% ROI is feasible.

like Henry22 said "it depends on your line of market"...

people lose in betting because they are trying to get 1000% - 10000% ROI...

the person with N50,000 could have used N10,000 or N30,000 to start at first but you advised him wrongly and even though his bet failed...

I think Viking007 is right
When it comes to punting it is more of chance. A 1.01 odd have same chances of failing u like 10 odds, that's the truth, none is guaranteed. The reason there is odd for it. If u have staked huge amount of money on low odd couple of times, u will understand Viking point of view. Risking huge amount for low odd is never a good approach to punting. It is one of the surest way to wreck yourself & slide into depression

Conceptman:
Ahaha, I'm scared this thing might get more dirty soon with international countries getting involved. This government should know they can't win this game they embarked on, it's a loss for them from the onset of this saga

But it doesn't seem like international community will get involve anytime soon. They are not showing concerns at all

RiyaGoddess:
Everybody is saying Yoruba's are quiet bla bla bla. Kill a mad man, na that time you go know say even the mad man get family.

There is no gainsaying Yorubas are fearful
Your analogy doesn't match with the case at hand. Why wait for Sowore to die? When Abiola died what happened??

sinaj:
Ajala the great traveller

Lol

safarigirl:
Didn't you read my own post? Does he need to have oney saved up to be talking of masters? I clearly asked that, what if there is money on the condition of the Masters? In simple English, what if he has a sponsor willing to bring funds for the Masters? Will you then say, he has no business talking about Masters with 90k salary?

It's alright

Now u contradict yourself
What if? Is the bold statement not premised on assumption?? What if he has a sponsor & what if he has money saved up, are they not all based on assumptions?
Often times we just like arguing to make no point.

& on What if there is no money for masters
He shouldn't be talking about it.
I cannot open a thread contemplating on whether to buy a private jet when I have no money for it, it doesn't make sense.

safarigirl:
so, you are working on a belief, not on a stated fact? Wow.

What if the something on ground is only on the condition that he is using it for Masters? Since we want to use hypothetical beliefs....

Abeg, let's just keep it at, he can save part of the 90k for a period of time and hopefully set up business with it. Funny thing is that, there is no guarantee the business will be successful. It is easy to star business, but sustaining business is the issue

Didn't u read my post to the end?
If he has no money saved up to finance his masters then he shouldn't be talking about masters. Or u think 90k salary is enough to finance a masters degree?

babyfaceafrica:
how can one save with 90k in Lagos and do business?..least than 249 dollars..jeez..this country is in a mess

U guys are not getting d point
The savings may necessarily not be from his job, but it is believed op have something on ground he intends to use for his masters, abi na teeth him want take go masters? I know how much my masters degree took from me. The point is whatever he intends using for his masters should be invested in something that will generate more income for now instead of him to quit his job & go for masters. Apart from the uncertainty of landing a job after masters, masters is expensive. There is no way he can finance his masters with a 90k salary, so it is assumed he has sth on ground already, because if he got no money on ground, he shouldn't be talking about MSC at all

cc safarigirl

KingDonPablo:
oboy u said 90k isn't much for a job that you finish around 1:30. I'm a graduate too bro I go to my friend's barbershop everyday from 8-8 and sometimes come back with nothing. Be thankful bro.

Op never see anything

safarigirl:
so you think someone can have 900k in 10 months on a 90k salary?

It may not necessarily be 900k, I think her point was op investing whatever he might have saved to finance his masters into something that will generate more income before going for masters & it is the best advice anyone that mean well for op will give to him.

seanblaise:
Yes. I live and work in lagos.

U better remain in that ur job if u don't want to play with yourself

edoairways:
M.sc is for academic purpose not necessary for promotion

This is what many people don't know
Everyone is rushing to do masters, if u don't intend using it for academic purpose like lecturing, masters is of little or no value