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A couple was having a wedding in the church then reaching the cutting of the cake as it is usually done in every wedding some people were called to come and comment on what they saw while the couple were cutting the cake one of them said they cut the cake

together showing they are united with one heart the second one said she saw peace,understanding and joy the third person said that as they were cutting the cake he noticed that the woman's hand is under and the mans hand is on top which means whatever a man and a woman is doing the woman is under and the man is on top is very good

There was this man whose house was flooded he became stranded and was crying to God for help God please help me!!!!!! God please help me!!!!!! then someone came to rescue him he said no I am waiting for God to come and not you then the man left after being rejected. The man whose house was flooded got drawned and died. When he reached heaven. He asked God why didn't he come and save him when he was calling upon him to day and night to save him when his house was flooded God said to him that that person he rejected was sent by him it is also like him coming to physically save him.

I wish him the best he has made Nigeria proud it is time to move on Good luck!!!!!!

There is nothing wrong in a man helping his wife in house chores no bi him use those plates ate EBA?

Make peace but don't side anyone of them no matter who is right or wrong Good luck!!!

Love letters are good in my opinion I think that was one of the things that held my relationship with my boyfriend then but now my hubby. Most of them are still with me. And being still married we continue with it at least ones in a while we write little love notes not neccessarily a paragragh but one line is enough such little things helps to enhance relationship and makes one feel good about each other.

Kobojunkie:
I don't know about you but it seems we get more kids in here on a daily basis who are more willing to go for personal attacks and insulting others for not standing on the same side with them, than we get rational human beings who are mature and reasonable enough to understand there is a line that should not be crossed when debating issues. It gets under my skin when people do this and they seem to do it a lot in here these days.

WORD!!!!!!!!!

He set the three months and is running now maybe he did it to please you or did you lure him to set the tree months. The bottom line is he is not ready. If you think you are (be-nice) just move on with your life

@Poster the honest truth is he is not ready for marriage and men don't like when a woman ask them when are you going to see my parent give him time/space but I doubt a man at that age is still thinking let him keep thinking and procrastinate until someone else comes and take you it has happen and will continue to happen

Yes I will I it is like building my own house too only if I can afford it and and not borrow to please anybody

mazaje:
ohh i kind of get where you are driving at. . . personally what i do is apply first aid. . . then call an ambulance if the bleeding persist. . . . . but in places like nigeria where all these things are non exsistent prayer seems sensible. . . . . because that is the only thing they can do in such conditions but that doesnt mean that the prayers work because if it does nigerians wont be where they are today. . . . . .

I apply first aid also call the ambulance too just remember doctors cares but God heals

odufasuzz:
Am a shy person i hate it when men keep looking at me lustfully what should i do? i need your advise

What did you use to look at them back no bi eye?

mazaje:
has paryer ever saved some one that is bleeding to death? why then do we have first aid being thaught in schools if prayers can do the magic?. . . . prayers never solve anything. . . . if it does then no one will die on the nigerian highways. . . . because it is one of highways that sends the highest amount of prayers in the world i believe and yet it is still one of the highways with the highest death occurance and accidents. . . . . if prayers works then nigerians and africans will never be where they are simple. . . . they pray day and night for basic necessities of life yet they still remain poor with out the basic necessities. . . . . . .

Believe it or leave it prayer changes things/situation

:-x

orunta:
I sometimes get confused about how to pray? some people say you have to shout when praying, while some people say you have to meditate, please nairalanders I NEED YOUR VIEWS ON THIS?

It depends on your mood and the burden. Even the bible said that Jesus prayed and the sweat that came out from his body was like blood which means the burden is too much for him. Prayers has level when one is praying our lords prayer and when one is interceding for someone that had fatal accident to survive and blood is rushing no one will tell you to change the to be loud or not. In a nut shell it depends on the prayer point.

Desiree1:
@ rubi

sigh, humiliation would even be an understatement

Anyman who knew your friends and still went ahead to date her is nothing to write home about his excuses will never end he only comes to you when he can't find his way If I were you I will forget him after I must have packed my thing and it depends on the value of your things that are in his house. If it is something you can let go just let it go going there he might manipulate and win you back still continue to give you emotional trauma

@Poster please leave this guy he has humiliated you enough

The will of a person determines the mnifestation of his result

History remenbers those who made it happen

Ihe okuko ji n'ebe abughi ka ihe n'eme ya hapu ya aka obu ka uwa nuru olu ya
A hen is not crying so that what is holding her will leave her but that the whole world will hear her

How dare you - almost in all Nollywood movie

Most times old fire wood never die whwnever they met the rekindle hahaha!!!!!!!!!!

It is quite unfortunate that most women do that a woman will be asking God for MR RIGHT immediately she gets one I don't know exactly what it is she will give such man so much attention and love that everything about God in her life is suspended and when the man do her BUBUYAYA then she will run back to the same God and start asking for mercy nobody is worthy loving more than God. Women choose a man that will help/encourage you love God more than him because there is no way you will love God without loving him if he helps you make that decision

cmalaysia:
[color=#770077][/color] I am feeling a little down at this time and I know it is a self esteem issue. I am a dark skin woman in my 30's and of course things aren't like they use to be. Since I can remember I was always ridiculed growing up about my features and skin tone which of course caused me to withdrawl from society and rebel. I built a wall around myself so no one could hurt me. As I got older and got out on my own Icame into my own and became attractive. Not because I was a natural beauty though it was because I had a brick house shape. Fast forward to the present I live in a city where your appearance is everything. I am so tired of having to wear makeup and hair to try to keep up. Not that it helps if I am not wearing something hot. You would be amazed at how people treat you when they deam you as not good enough. I can't just put on a t-shirt and sweats and pin my hair up and go I have to work at it and I'm just at the age now where it affects me so much some days I dread going out of the house. My boyfriend even asked me one day do other men ever try to come at you? I asked him why and he replied because when we together I don,t really ever see men try to check you out, like when me amd my x would go out men would come at her if they did not know we were together. ( and let me say this both of the x's that I have met are not attractive by societies standards but they are light skinned.) Anyway I just would like some words of wisdom.

I understand you but don't give. Your man have low self esteem gosh!!!! men like that all they do is first of all intimidate you make you feel you worth nothing then if they notice you've acknowledge their opinion it then they will subtly craw themselves into you and weakens your boldness, integrity etc do not buy that from him you don't need his approval to feel or look sexy your confidence speaks for you according to you post. Who is he to compare you with all his x's? any man that will not accept his girlfriend/wife the way she is is a coward. Comparison is unhealthy in a relationship if he can't accept you the way you are the let him forget the relationship because he will never never stop/change

Ndipe:
IUD comes with adverse risk, stay away from it.

I heard that too!!!! but have friends that have that for over five years and don't know what to believe

You don't have to do anything to keep her just be transparent time will tell whether she is your or not

Ujujoan:
I made all the contributions I needed to make in my first post.

Honestly, you nailed it!!!!!!!!!!

These are one of the major problems with nigeria the little we try to do is not appreciated
@Poster if you/anyone don't like nollywood movies simply don't buy them and stop discouraging others Maybe because you are in Nigeria here in American the rate at which people from other countries eg Jamaicans appreciate and rush nollywood movies is alarming. Personally, I believe this movie industry is bringing back Nigeria past glory and is not doing any harm to the country

@ Poster it is well take heart somebody else will love you just the way you are believe in yourself nothing has spoiled yet.

wish him/her well

Ujujoan:
Will I attend my ex’s wedding?? Yes!! On one condition – I’ll have to go there with my husband and possibly kids. Hell I’m not going there to end up thinking ‘it could have been me’ all through the ceremony. Of course my husband must be ‘handsomer’ and richer than he is, and I must be finer than the bitch woman he’s marrying. Else . . . I aint going.

You can say that again!!!!!!

2005, I keep reminiscing about the old days in the villa