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RomanceRe: What Are The Hardest LESSONS You Learntin Life So Far by Rubyjade(op): 5:25am On Oct 23, 2023
shocked
eazzzy1:
Maths, Quantitative, intro tech, Taxation, Management accounting, Advanced Accounting, Equities & Derivatives, Applied economics and many others. Very hard lessons.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent Vacancy by Rubyjade: 9:39pm On Oct 22, 2023
The pay is too small compared to the work load.
RomanceRe: What Are The Hardest LESSONS You Learntin Life So Far by Rubyjade(op): 6:29pm On Oct 22, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:
grin
What's funny?
PoliticsRe: Markets Within Trade Fair Complex Have Been Sealed By Lawma And Lagesc (Photos) by Rubyjade: 5:15pm On Oct 22, 2023
almarthins:
Some drainages for Lagos dem block with pet plastic and all kind of nylon lawma no dey lock house wey litter or turn gutter refuse ground.
They'll soon start. Be prepared.
PoliticsRe: Markets Within Trade Fair Complex Have Been Sealed By Lawma And Lagesc (Photos) by Rubyjade: 5:13pm On Oct 22, 2023
yesloaded:
Honestly those market leaders no try at all

They only chop money dem dey realize from their subject and traders

If you use cart carry goods enter aspamda gate 10times, you will pay 100naira each time yet dem no fit keep the place clean.

The road that leads to main aspamda main gate from the entrance, no good drainage for years and the place ma complete eyesore

Those ones calling themselves market president & executives are something else
Their thieves
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Doesn’t Enjoy Sex by Rubyjade: 4:57pm On Oct 22, 2023
Is she a virgin?
Is she well lubricated before you penetrate?
Some women don't like penetrative sex while some prefer oral
I think 🤔 you need to both meet a sex therapist or better yet join Uzor on Wazobia FM weekdays 12am-4pm
Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help
That is the number one cause of divorce around the world
RomanceRe: What Lesson Have You Learnt From Women? by Rubyjade: 4:52pm On Oct 22, 2023
undecided as if she didn't make sacrifices too
Angel55555:
When she's about to dump your sorry ass, she won't remember the sacrifices you have made to sustain the relationship, and to make her happy.
RomanceWhat Are The Hardest LESSONS You Learntin Life So Far by Rubyjade(op): 4:50pm On Oct 22, 2023
1. No man wants a woman who is accessible to every man.

2. You will reach the age where you can easily tell that the relationship is not going to work just by the conversation.

3. If you have to beg someone to do the bare minimum for you and if you have to keep telling them how you deserved to be treated better then for goodness sake. LEAVE. It's not worth your peace.

4. Don’t ignore the red flags you see at the beginning. The red flags you ignore trying to see the good in people WILL cost you later.

5. Just because a person keeps you around doesn’t mean they love you; remember, people, buy cats just to get rid of rats.

6. If SEX is all you are about in a relationship, then it means you are actually empty. A healthy relationship is about purpose! Sharing visions and values together.

7. In life, you need to learn to stop opening doors for toxic people and giving them room in your mind, and calling it "seeking closure!"

8. You're delaying your healing process.
Avoid the damaged, the unhappy, and the unlucky.

9. Anger opens the mouth and shuts the mind.
As a woman, understand that men will say and do anything to sleep with you.

10. Look at the actions, don’t be blinded by words. Anyone can talk a good game, but it takes a real ball player to play one


Share yours
RomanceRe: What Lesson Have You Learnt From Women? by Rubyjade: 4:40pm On Oct 22, 2023
You are not half of anything. You were created whole.

Find your voice. Don't apologize (Ummm, I'm sorry but...). Don't hesitate (should I say it or not?). Don't minimize (I know this is probably really silly but...). Don't use needless words (I mean, like, well, I think that...). Speak up.

You don't need anything other than you. You don't need a man. You have yourself. I'm not saying men aren't wonderful (because they are!) or that they are not worth your time (yes they are!) What I'm saying is that no one is worth giving up you.

Never underestimate the friendship of another woman. Don't create rivalries; shun jealousy and competition and accept your friends for who they are, free of judgement. Help other women up. Women friends are invaluable. They are your tribe.

You are more powerful than you think. Don't give that power away. It belongs to you.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Hi,can Someone Kindly Show Me A Thread Or Sites To Earn Online Tru Gigs by Rubyjade: 4:39pm On Oct 22, 2023
jaytwnqueen:
Thank you, but the link ain't going through
it's going through. Do as if you want to quote me, you would see the full link. All the best.
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Attacks Customs House In Yobe, Kills Officer by Rubyjade: 3:42pm On Oct 22, 2023
OyeofIkoTuN:
Hamas in disguise
listen to Breathe by Cobhams.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Applications Needed For Temporary Remote Support Assistant by Rubyjade: 3:15pm On Oct 22, 2023
Cocao:
Can you have them contact me?
Yes, but they are not on this forum.
FamilyRe: Nigerians And Hypocrisy by Rubyjade: 2:37pm On Oct 22, 2023
BadMaster:
One thing I have realized overtime is that, Nigerians are the most hypocritical beings you will come across on the face of earth.

They claim to be very religious. I mean, evidently, we go to Church to pray every Sunday, go to mosque every Friday. We carry religion on our heads more than anything. Yet we are the most wicked, evil and vile people on earth.

As for your point as regards marriage. Over the years I have come to realize that most couples are living miserably. The only consolation they have is that they have children together, and because of that, they can't afford to separate, because they don't want their children to grow up in a broken home. The funny thing is, these miserable people living as couples never miss an opportunity to advice others to go and marry, so as to join them in their misery.
Spot on
Jobs/VacanciesRe: People Leave Great Companies But Leaders Stay In The Heart Of Their Employees. by Rubyjade(op): 2:32pm On Oct 22, 2023
wink
Dimaya:
Great writeup

Tayo Aderinokun was a phenomenal and visionary leader. They saw ahead of their time.
Not like some of the bosses that these 14 Nigerian graduates have worked for.

In this video: the craziest job stories you've never heard, Yemi and 14 other recent Nigerian graduates share their hilarious, thought-provoking experiences applying for jobs, dodging job scams, escaping kidnappers, receiving low-ball offers and managing the insults/frustrations from family members when you're jobless.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdbg7Xqg1cQ

If you're a currently working for a terrible boss, you're not alone.
Please watch the video, laugh a little, and subscribe to the channel.

It will get better.
BusinessRe: Bolt, Uber Drivers Are Now Selling Their Cars Over Poor Economy – Association by Rubyjade: 2:31pm On Oct 22, 2023
AareGaa:
It depends on the type of car you ride.
If you acquire a car with small engine , you have no problem.

Most of the people telling stories here don't even own a car.
Camry pencil
BusinessRe: Bolt, Uber Drivers Are Now Selling Their Cars Over Poor Economy – Association by Rubyjade: 2:30pm On Oct 22, 2023
Aonkuuse:
The only thing now is having your own car for bolt or Uber, hiring out is not profitable now at all... But transport business actually has no much gain now
True and Nigerian are wicked. You give a driver a car and you hear if countless complaint.
RomanceRe: Who Would You Choose?!! by Rubyjade: 2:29pm On Oct 22, 2023
huh
eaddyboy:
Where did you resurrect this grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Applications Needed For Temporary Remote Support Assistant by Rubyjade: 2:29pm On Oct 22, 2023
Cocao:
If you know any of those groups, please let me know! I honestly had no idea. I got my first job ever from Nairaland and just playing it forward.
I have someone suited for this job?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need Someone To Help Me Fix Up My CV by Rubyjade: 2:19pm On Oct 22, 2023
edoncast:
I need someone to help me fix up my CV.

I just want it to be attractive please.

I have one already but i want to add my new experience and make it very attractive to employers.

I dont want to be too comfortable with my current job.I want to move forward and earn more .

Please,i need someone to recommend someone who is good at making good and attractive CV.I will pay for the service but the payment will be 40% down payment and 60% payment after delivery of the job.

Thanks
I know of someone that can be of help
RomanceRe: Opinion: Men Without Handsome Income Should Not Date Not To Talk Of Marrying by Rubyjade: 2:16pm On Oct 22, 2023
Goodlady:
If you are a man with no handsome income, you v no reason to woo a lady nor date her. Infact, don't get married so that you won't Infect the woman with your poverty or unbalanced life. It's not a must to be in a relationship. Afterall purpose of humans on earth isn't for procreation or marriage alone. Broke men can decide to be monks.
I v seen enough from men that fathered many children they can't cater from and I blame those women that opened legs for them.
Some men even have money to still cater but chose to be unfortunate and irresponsible. A man that service his car regularly should be able to take car of a woman.
I hope males on this forum are up and doing and responsible. Ema se oriburuku by not taking care of your women.
The goddess has spoken!
grin
SportsRe: I Don't Like When Women 'toast' Me —Victor Osimhen by Rubyjade: 2:14pm On Oct 22, 2023
edoncast:
Chai but we can still be good friends


Whatsapp 09044403282
is this your number? Let me recommend someone to you for CV review
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 2:12pm On Oct 22, 2023
URGENT VACANCIES!!! (Referrals are welcome)

An indigenous Courier & Logistics Company with head office in Lagos, and branches across the nation is seeking to recruit qualified candidates to fill the following vacant positions:

1. Head, Operations – HO/001
• Direct and coordinate operational activities consistent with the organization’s goals
• Review and implement criteria, application, instructions, procedural manuals, policies and standards in line with operations requirements.
• Direct country wide supervision of the entire operations team, etc.

2. Regional Business Managers (Lagos Metropolis, West & North Regions) – RBM/002
• Develop and implement strategic business plans for business growth
• Evolve sales strategies, prospect and develop key accounts
• Establish sales goals and ensure attainment of annual revenue, shipment, and debt collection targets.
• Supervision of sales/marketing activities within the region.

3. Business Managers – BMs/003
(Locations: North East, North Central, North West, South West, South East & South - South Zones & Lagos)
• Develop sales strategies and action plans to achieve short and long term revenue targets in the branch/territory
• Develop and manage clientele base for consistent business growth
• Supervise Customer Service, Finance and Administration of the Branch/Territory

4. Accounts Executives – ACE/004
Locations: Lagos

5. Audit Executives – AUE/005
Locations: Lagos

6. Customer Services Executives – CSE/006
Locations: Lagos

7. Truck Drivers – TD/007 (Referrals are welcome)
Locations: Lagos & Abuja (3 years relevant experience with valid driver’s license and Lagos State Drivers' Institute - LASDRI License for applicants for Lagos location )

General Requirements:
a. B.SC/HND in Business Administration/Marketing or any Social Sciences from a recognised University or Polytechnic with a minimum of second class lower or lower credit.
b. Must be a goal getter, a team player with proven ability to work independently
c. Must be in possession a minimum of 8-10 years for the position of HO/001; 5-8 years cognate experience for the position of RBM/002 respectively in a Courier & Logistics/Insurance Organisation and 3-5years for positions of ACE/004 – TD/006.
d. MBA in Marketing & Professional membership for RBM & BMs positions will be an added advantage.
e. All applicants must be computer literate except for TD/007.
f. Minimum requirements for ACE/004 – TD/007 positions must be 3 years and above post qualification experience.

REMUNERATION
Remuneration/Benefits: Very attractive and competitive.

METHOD OF APPLICATION
• All application letters MUST be accompanied with detailed CV in MS Word format stating contact telephone numbers; position applied for with reference number and preferred location, and send to: trans.hrrecruit@gmail.com
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancies At Chisco Transport Nigeria Limited by Rubyjade: 2:11pm On Oct 22, 2023
angry
prevail23:
Everytime Naija will be looking for 4,5,6,7,8,9 or even 10years working experience... So how can pple dat just graduated get work na?
All dis tin dey pain me...

Was even thinking of sending dis to my sister dat went to abuja to look for work,until i saw dis experience stuff ... huh huh huh

Nawa ooh
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 2:10pm On Oct 22, 2023
There is a vacancy for the post of an Audit trainee in an Audit firm in Ikeja.

Candidates  should have a minimum of 2 years working experience in an Audit firm .

Interested candidates should send their cv to chikeikpenduandco@hotmail.com
CareerI Was Hired When They Needed Help. Now I Need Help by Rubyjade(op): 9:44am On Oct 06, 2023
As the finance manager for a new company, I was hired when they needed help.

The company had a lot of potential, but it was hard for them to make money because it didn't have a strategy.

The company's founder said he had made mistakes when hiring the right finance staff for the past three years. It was easy to understand why they all left.

The company's founder was a good leader but not particularly good with numbers.

When I took over the finances, it was clear that he still wanted to control everything. He didn't listen to what I had to say about how to fix the financial situation.

Even so, I was able to make significant improvements over the year. But the founder didn't seem interested.

He said he didn't want to hear about how much money we were losing anymore because it made him feel bad. So, I decided to leave because there wasn't enough executive support.

The founder kept making financial decisions without accurate and relevant information to back them up. The company is still having trouble and is close to bankruptcy.

This is a cautionary tale about how important it is to hire experts and listen to what they say. Don't hire experts just to tell them what to do if you want your business to do well.

More importantly, don't ignore the expertise and advice of the people you hired to solve problems.

PS: This is not a true story, but this kind of thing always happens with OMBs, so many people can relate.
InvestmentRe: Should I Invest 2m In A Betking Business? by Rubyjade: 9:52am On Oct 04, 2023
shocked
HealthRe: Nigerian Doctors Wait As Indian Doctors Gain Approval To Practice In US, Canada by Rubyjade: 9:52am On Oct 04, 2023
I will update you on it
IJEYdiamond:
Canada inko?.
FamilyRe: What’s Bothering You by Rubyjade: 5:31pm On Sep 23, 2023
it's not being easy bro. A graduate with strong 2.1 still unemployed. I barely eat once daily

As for data subscription, some friends do help me with #200 airtime once in a while just to search online and apply for any opening

I'm always on free mode on nairaland through opera mini. Life has not been fair with me that i know

To cap it all, I'm just stuck in the house. No money to move around (Transportation) in search of job

I wish God could change my story for good. I'm getting depressed seriously

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