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LaSenior:
Even if I have 30million I won't build house

Money wey I go use invest in my guest house plans

Taaaah at least I will live in a rented apartments for 7years before planning to build my house

Building house when you are still hustling no make Sense invest in landed properties first

LewisHamilton15:
Last week I proposed to my long time girlfriend and fiancee and she accepted me.

We discussed a whole range of topics and we are convenienced that we can live our lives together. But one thing we disagree on is the issue of house: she said we must build a house together before settling down but I suggested we tie the knot and live in a rented apartment before planning to build our personal house but she insisted we must build.

She said we will contribute money to build together, she won't leave me alone in the project. She even suggested withdrawing her savings of #250, 000 so we can buy land. I have the money and apart from my daily hustle I have other side businesses that springs me money occasionally.

I want to settle down as soon as possible but she cited the problems that comes along with living in a rented apartment. I really wish to settle down but this lady won't agree.

I don't want to cause problem between us so how do I go about convincing her?

tonicyril:
Even me a man, I would never allow myself to walk in the night alone laelae...
And u as a lady, please refrain from threading that path ma, its injurious to the wellbeing of female folks u know

If my daughter mistakenly tell me she walked around in that hour, I swear I don't want to listen to her excuse, she must collect

adubam:
Listen up. I know Sokoto and also live in Abuja. Please do all you can to leave Sokoto if you are from the Southern part and you are a Christian or even a Moslem.

It may not be instant but make a plan to move out maybe if you've got 500k and look for a saner place to stay.

Don't let age catch up with you there because all your investments, life may be burnt down at the slightest provocation.

Seankhalifa:
in sokoto.. the house of 100k in abuja.. u will get it for 20k... u can spend 5k for transport or walk by foot... but abuja it is not possible... food cost in sokoto is very cheap.... u can even marry with 80k job.... but not in abuja ... i work 150k for abuja.. to save money na issue... house rent... tranport.. cutting of hair.. food stuff... etc... 200k in abuja is like 80k in sokoto....

Ceasarceasar:
Calm down madam..

How is 80k job equivalent to 400k job in Abuja ..

That's a big lie...I stay in the north

Chikacha:
What Rob told you plus. buy a good project that people have given up on, this project have not seen a whole bull market... or a project they love to hate. Hold on to it like your life depends on it, start selling from before the MC gets to the former ATH and allow the last third to ride out the waves.

Lannyjoe4u:
Asked few of them, but non has the capacity to render the help

Ifesinachi22:
I lost 2 million dollars today.

It was my fault. After buying my normal pre market stock, I went back to the app to check again and another stock has overtaken the one i bought. Greed made me to still use the free fund i had to buy the new Number one pre market gainer. When the market opened, the two orders were executed as usual and it went into red like it always does the first minute, the loss was so big because i was losing in two stocks and i didn't have enough money left to carry the weight of the two loses which was running into - 400k plus.

So T212, quickly sold some of my stocks on my behalf so i won't run into negative balance, went back and bought those stocks again. Before i knew what was happening, i was already -2 million plus down.

I lost 2million today. So sad

Robnectar:
LoL,.... What's ur old moniker, of I could recall,
btw I'm still learning bro🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂

Robnectar:
LoL,.... What's ur old moniker, of I could recall 🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂

Lannyjoe4u:
Good afternoon bosses. Please I need your help. I'll be resuming a new job this week and it's in another state. Please, I want to solicit fund from you that I can use to hold body till month end. I have no money for the tfare right now. So, I'm begging of you to help me

Mossadd:
someone with crypto knowledge should please answer my question... I joined 1 crypto mining pool and I've been doing it for over 3 months and making profit but my fear now is that, is it likely going crash because the guy that introduced it to me assured me that it will never crash that I won't loose my money pls anybody with pool mining experience should with answer I'm complete novice in the world of crypto

Spider20:
I think it's better not to put hopes on all those founders, they have gotten the money needed from the Crypto space.
So they got nothing to loose if eventually their crypto project crashes.

NL1960:
Not really easy to be patient with stocks especially when you see the returns on MMF. Was patient on FCMB for 5years. It is just when the new government came in that it started to move and got to N6. I sold on Friday and will be moving the funds to MMF.

The same thing happened to First Bank. Was between N7-N9 for many years before it started moving after the new government came in. It is now at N18. Will just watch it for few more weeks before determining to sell and move the funds to MMF.

Robnectar:
Before you will see the bull come,.. there is what they call quantitative easing,.. go and read about

donbachi:
Most Nigerians

sammyonal:
u can always run a business in Nigeria u know. U will everly break even.

sammyonal:
😂😂😂😂😂😂

CaptainFM1:
They were bored and lonely abroad. I'm not here in Nigeria. BIGO is probably for them not me.

Basher8583:
No one is stopping you na. You can go and slave yourself away. Shebi na the exchange rate dey make una dey japa to do rubbish work.

samsegs:
UK,,manchester to be precised...and this person is a blood to me so he won't lie to me...

CaptainFM1:
The opposite is what I'm experiencing here. Virtually all my friends have Japa to various part of the world. I don't feel lonely because of the community system we embraced here in Nigeria. Instead all my friends overseas are feeling lonely and bored. They will engage me on long WhatsApp group video call almost everyday. And somehow, I'm getting tired of these their calls. Nigeria bad, Nigeria bad, there's always that home feeling Nigeria offers that they can't get over there.

yewit37486:
For anyone who wants to fulfil his/her destiny, life is not a competition, neither is it a rat race. We all came into this world at different times, will leave at different times, and will be judged as INDIVIDUALS. Make a decision for YOURSELF and not because others are doing it.

sammyonal:
u can always run a business in Nigeria u know. U will everly break even.

Anfieldboss:
Largely the western culture and the effect it might have on my children. I cringe when I see and read on how they are practically trying to shove the whole LGBTQ nonsense down the throats of innocent children.

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

Chigozie321:
I'm better off financially here but my main reason is apart from my flexible salaried job, I have some side hustle that I can't effectively supervise if I am not in the country. They are physical businesses and I am still growing them.

ecolime:
No be everybody fit Japa na. Some have thriving businesses while some have health issues that can't allow them hustle abroad.

Anfieldboss:
I'm in a similar situation as the OP. I was keen on japa few months ago, but unfortunately my plans didn't pan out as I envisaged. Now I am not really keen on the whole japa thingy anymore.

vickydevoka:
Who go the collect message In Nigeria. He is wise. Las las en fit achieve pass